How to have Extraordinary Relationships

Send us Fan MailRosie Wilby is an award-winning comedian, writer and podcaster who has appeared on BBC Radio 4 programmes including Woman's Hour, Saturday Live, Unsafe Space and Four Thought and TV programmes including Good Morning Britain and Sunday Morning Live. Her latest book The Breakup Monologues is based on her acclaimed podcast (a British Podcast Award nominee and recommended by Chortle, The Observer, Psychologies and more) and is published globally by Bloomsbury. She regularly contributes to The Guardian, The Independent, Stylist, Cosmo and Perspective and has hosted programmes for Virgin Radio, BBC and Resonance FM. See her LIVE on the 24th April https://wegottickets.com/event/651454Check out her book at:https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/aw/d/1472982282/Key points of the episode:  The many exciting things she does, and how she juggles them!How she got into comedy in her mid 40sHow she got a comedy show out of being dumped in the most outrageous way!Her love for breakups (in a way) - really!Her personal quest to conquer the psychology behind it and her participation in a sex lab!The high divorce rate of lesbian women.The unacknowledged aspects of female sexuality.The blessing and the curse of comedy.Her novel- "The Break Up Monologues"And her earlier book "Is Monogamy Dead?"Find out more here:  Insta:@breakupmonologues X:@rosiewilby Tik Tok:@rosiewelbyauthor Support the showHas this podcast inspired you and would you like to learn more?You can reach out to Lucy, love coach, relationship counsellor, couples counsellor extraordinaire and author of "How to have extraordinary relationships with absolutely everybody".....On:http://www.lucycavendishlovecoach.com/

Send us Fan MailFrom her biog: "I didn’t come across anyone who practised yoga until my first job in London in 1994. She was called Catherine, and there was obviously something suspect about her. Her erect posture seemed a deliberate challenge to my already slouchy one. Even now, 20 years on, I can remember how her eyes twinkled and her skin shone. And, gosh, she was serene. Always smiling. Which I somehow also took as a personal affront. And all this in an office ruled over by a tyrant, a boss who once sent me a poison-pen letter because she didn’t like my hair. Catherine somehow rose effortlessly above all the swirling bile."Fascinated in what Yoga can do for you? Listen on!Key points of the episode:Yoga, and the relationship we have to our body.How her 20-30 year old self would have dismissed Yoga as "Hippie Nonsense!"The odd situation we have educationally in the West.The "crazy Yoga" that she practises and where it came from!How "relishing the discomfort" can be a good thing.How "life mapmaking" can be optimised.How fashion can be not superficial but a part of true self expression.How do YOU want to be seen in the world?Why clothes have to serve us rather than just be aesthetic - and why things go in and out of fashion.How Queen Victoria inspired a new fashion trend!How fashion and anti aging combine.Clothes, empowerment and visualisationGrey is the new cool? Support the showHas this podcast inspired you and would you like to learn more?You can reach out to Lucy, love coach, relationship counsellor, couples counsellor extraordinaire and author of "How to have extraordinary relationships with absolutely everybody".....On:http://www.lucycavendishlovecoach.com/

Send us Fan MailShe began her career as a fashion journalist, but her work has broadened into confessional writing. Jones divides opinion. While she has gained positive responses, a "beautifully natural writer, as well as a funny one" according to Deborah Ross in The Independent, some of her articles have been fiercely criticisedA former editor of Marie Claire, she has been on the staff of The Sunday Times and the Evening Standard. As of 2019 Jones writes columns for the Daily Mail and The Mail on Sunday.Now, she talks to Lucy all about relationships and just about everything else...Key points of the episode:Why people are so fascinated with her!Bridget Jones or Liz Jones?Her relationship with a much younger man.Her disastrous holiday.How the "bad" things become "good" and kind of self perpetuate!Her growing up years and her disability.And how it has continued into this day.Kissing necks and whistling ears!!How she was finally ready to let someone new in.How she really should not have written about knitting!How she was responsible for an injunction being placed on the Sunday times magazine.How she learned her stripes - without internet!Her launch of "Style Magazine" at the Sunday TimesHer move to the Evening Standard - and the hours she worked!Her thoughts on her ex-husband.....and his on her.The story of David.And her new man... Support the showHas this podcast inspired you and would you like to learn more?You can reach out to Lucy, love coach, relationship counsellor, couples counsellor extraordinaire and author of "How to have extraordinary relationships with absolutely everybody".....On:http://www.lucycavendishlovecoach.com/

Send us Fan MailEleanor Mills (born 1970) is a British journalist formerly associated with The Sunday Times and The Times. She was the editorial director of The Sunday Times and editor of its magazine until March 2020.[1] Mills was employed by Times Newspapers for 22 years.Now the creator of an online community called "Noon" and a self confessed Queenager. From the website:"At Noon, we call ourselves Queenagers. We’re pioneering midlife women who are in our prime, starting new chapters, a bit hormonal but most importantly becoming the women we are supposed to be. More than ever, our lives are in our own hands and we want to make sure you’re getting all the joy, fun and good stuff you deserve. I’m proud to say that my newsletter is a Substack Bestseller and my interview with Sheryl Sandberg was featured in the top 10 most-read posts on the site."Key points of the episode:The sudden change in her career - the Editor, the head of HR, and the box of tissues on the desk.The experience of that and how she knew everything was going to be different.Why she did not want another job in journalism. But wasn't quite sure of the new phase."Who am I without this defining huge job I have had since since my 20s"The one person she did NOT want to tell and her insights on that.Her thoughts on "achievement"- overrated.....?....and who sets the standards anyway?The age of becoming- "Queenager Years" -"mid Life Pivot"The lens that women view themselves through- a male one? "Brexit/Legsit!"Eleanors view- a rainbow - not black or white.Why the male lens is limiting (and the rainbow isn't)How the women lead change in this stage of their life.A helpful philosophy to deal with sudden change.Her (legal) Magic Mushroom retreat!(and Health and Safety's opinion on it!)And her vision for new possibilities and midlife shifts.The importance of a sense of curiousity.The greater possibilities that are open to all of us, but our conscious mind has not cottoned onto yet.Saying YES to joy!The Book - "Much More to Come", published by Harper Collins, and if you buy from Waterstones before the end of August using the code "muchmore50" - get it for half price!Her platform- http://www.noon.org.uk Support the showHas this podcast inspired you and would you like to learn more?You can reach out to Lucy, love coach, relationship counsellor, couples counsellor extraordinaire and author of "How to have extraordinary relationships with absolutely everybody".....On:http://www.lucycavendishlovecoach.com/

Send us Fan MailMade in Chelsea star - Livvy Bentley talks to Lucy today..To give you a reminder...Debuting at the start of the eleventh series, fine art photographer Olivia Bentley has featured prominently across two main series, and summer spin-off Made in Chelsea: South of France.Introduced as a former love interest of Sam Thompson, she initially clashed with Tiff Watson, though the two have since become friends. Olivia has since enjoyed a "holiday romance" with Francis Boulle, creating a love triangle and feud with Georgia "Toff" Toffolo resulting in a divide between the girl groups. Olivia later began dating Francis' close friend Fredrik Ferrier, and the two have since entered a relationship.And there's a lot more to her - listen on!Key points of the show:How she got started on Made in ChelseaThe problem with social media (mainly Insta)Why it's good to be yourself on a reality show (even if that means being a dick!)How her world changed after Made in ChelseaWhich newspaper has the most ferocious comments!And how much she cares!What an open conversation about sex led to!Her sex positive open attitide.JOMO - what does it mean!!!!What 6 months of not drinking did for her.What the generations need to know about each other!How some people judge her for her life choices.Some positive sex tips.And a sneak peak of the soon to be launched vibrator!And a somewhat USA woman with the same name!!!!Reach out www.jomolondon.comInsta @jomolondon Support the showHas this podcast inspired you and would you like to learn more?You can reach out to Lucy, love coach, relationship counsellor, couples counsellor extraordinaire and author of "How to have extraordinary relationships with absolutely everybody".....On:http://www.lucycavendishlovecoach.com/

Send us Fan MailBryony Naomi Gordon is an English journalist, author, broadcaster and podcaster. She is the author of the novels, Mad Girl, You Got This, and The Wrong Knickers which were all nominated for British Book Awards. She founded Mental Health Mates in 2016 and hosts the Mad World podcast.Key points of the episode:How she thought she was having a great time but was not really- and drinking too much.How writing about the dark stuff helped her heal from it.Her now thoughts on mental illness.Her life as a journalist.. and author and Mum!How being a Mum has changed her.Her thoughts on sobriety.Her books and her advocacy for mental health.Insta @bryonygordon Support the showHas this podcast inspired you and would you like to learn more?You can reach out to Lucy, love coach, relationship counsellor, couples counsellor extraordinaire and author of "How to have extraordinary relationships with absolutely everybody".....On:http://www.lucycavendishlovecoach.com/

Send us Fan MailSome incredible and interesting guests coming up in Season 2.Here, we look ahead. Support the showHas this podcast inspired you and would you like to learn more?You can reach out to Lucy, love coach, relationship counsellor, couples counsellor extraordinaire and author of "How to have extraordinary relationships with absolutely everybody".....On:http://www.lucycavendishlovecoach.com/

Send us Fan MailThe tens of books she has written.How she loves a full on Christmas!!Sacks and satsumas? Movies Movies Movies!Advent calendars?How hard it is to buy for people!(Can you wrap a digital download code?!!)How kids can be frightened of food!How living in France teaches kids how to eat!What people look for in a book, and a little on structure.How some writers like to surprise themselves! Support the showHas this podcast inspired you and would you like to learn more?You can reach out to Lucy, love coach, relationship counsellor, couples counsellor extraordinaire and author of "How to have extraordinary relationships with absolutely everybody".....On:http://www.lucycavendishlovecoach.com/

Send us Fan MailSome wonderful and interesting guests are coming in Season 2 - here we look ahead. Support the showHas this podcast inspired you and would you like to learn more?You can reach out to Lucy, love coach, relationship counsellor, couples counsellor extraordinaire and author of "How to have extraordinary relationships with absolutely everybody".....On:http://www.lucycavendishlovecoach.com/

Send us Fan MailIn conversation with Jessica Yip - from her website:  I always thought if I did things “right,” love would just happen like it seemed to for everyone else.But underneath my material success, I was reliving all the toxic patterns that I was raised with: — Hot/cold relationships, — The inability to navigate conflict, — Martyring my needs/desires/goals for those of others.Even so, I was no stranger to self-development. A lifelong learner, do-er, and achiever — just like you — I read, listened to, and practiced it all. For years.But the many tools I had weren’t the ones I needed to put a stop to this cycle of heartbreak.  Calling in “The One” finally broke the spell.LOVE IS NO LONGER A MYSTERY, A STRUGGLE, OR A FANTASY.When I tell you that I’m healthy, I mean that I feel confident and connected to myself in a way that I didn’t know was possible. All of my dreams — of being in love, of being an entrepreneur, of making a music album, of belonging to a community, of writing a book — have become a miraculous reality.I coach because, despite all the ways we may have been actively and/or passively taught otherwise, everyone deserves to love and be loved. I coach because the joyful future you want is more than possible. It’s waiting for you, and I’m here to help you get there. Key Points of the Episode:   ·        How she had a great life on paper but felt an aching incompleteness.·        How an on/off situationship she realised was not serving her.·        How she reclaimed her voice in every sense- the journey.·        The two incredible brothers she met that worked magic in he life.·        Her musical heroes journey.·        The unhealthy patterns and beliefs we carry and how to break them.·        How we find our voice in relationships.·        How we do not need anyone to be anything for us to be happy.·        How to cultivate generosity of spirit in relationships. Reach out www.jessicayip.com  Support the showHas this podcast inspired you and would you like to learn more?You can reach out to Lucy, love coach, relationship counsellor, couples counsellor extraordinaire and author of "How to have extraordinary relationships with absolutely everybody".....On:http://www.lucycavendishlovecoach.com/