Sex Chat for Christian Wives

This week's quickie is from Bonny Logsdon Burns about how to have a conversation about mismatched sex drives. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

This week's quickie is from Bonny Logsdon Burns about things to consider when you and your spouse have mismatched sex drives. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Chris and J answer listener questions about sex after a vasectomy, competing with his phone for attention, plus-sized lovemaking, and how to use lube without losing the mood. Sponsor Thanks to Share the Soap, our favorite skin-care shop, for sponsoring this episode. Check them out: Share the Soap online store From the Bible Let the wise hear and increase in learning, and the one who understands obtain guidance. Proverbs 1:5 (ESV) Resources What's So Great about "Shooting Blanks"? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Get Off Your Screen & Have Sex with Your Wife - Hot, Holy & Humorous The Higher Desire Wife: Understanding and Help for Christian Women Navigating Mismatched Sex Drives (Available for preorder now!) Enjoy a Plus-Size Sex Life, Part 1 - Honeycomb & Spice Enjoy a Plus-Size Sex Life, Part 2 - Honeycomb & Spice Episode 111: Accepting Your Body Liberator Wedge Sex Pillow Positioning Aid – Married Dance Full Chart of Over 300 Different Sex Positions (christianfriendlysexpositions.com) Q&A with J: A Guide to Using Personal Lubricant - Hot, Holy & Humorous Ask Us a Question KHS (Knowing Her Sexually) Ministry Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we'd appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

This week's quickie is from J Parker about the importance of prioritizing sexual intimacy in your marriage. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

We welcome Christian sex therapist Karissa Curtis to discuss talking to kids—our own and others in our church—about sex. Sponsor Thanks to Married Dance for sponsoring this episode. From the Bible I have given them your word and the world has hated them, for they are not of the world any more than I am of the world. My prayer is not that you take them out of the world but that you protect them from the evil one. They are not of the world, even as I am not of it. Sanctify them by the truth; your word is truth. As you sent me into the world, I have sent them into the world. John 17:14–18 So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them. Genesis 1:27 Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates. Deuteronomy 6:5–9 Resources Karissa Curtis's website, Freedom Counseling Talking to Your Kids about Sex: No More One & Done - Hot, Holy & Humorous Healing the Wounded Heart: The Heartache of Sexual Abuse and the Hope of Transformation by Dan B. Allender Authentic Intimacy - Juli Slattery's site Teach Your Kids the Correct Words for Body Parts - Hot, Holy & Humorous How to Talk to a Teen about Sex - Hot, Holy & Humorous Top 10 Things To Teach Teens About Sex - Hot, Holy & Humorous Episode 181: Your Sexual Story, with Dr. Carol Tanksley Creating an Intimacy Timeline - Hot, Holy & Humorous Before The Sex Talk: A Theology of the Body Approach for Parents and Mentors by Linda Noble and Linda Stewart 5 Times You Teach Holy and Healthy Sex to Your Kids - Hot, Holy & Humorous Parent Resources Recommended by Karissa Curtis (downloadable PDF) Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we'd appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor about adding fun to your marriage using items commonly found in autumn. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

We discuss how a wife's sexual response differs from her husband's, and how she can explain her female sexuality to him. Sponsor Happy Fall from Share the Soap! Buy 2 Get 1 FREE any item! Put 3 items in the cart. Use coupon code FCWFALL. Lowest item will be FREE. Mix and match products. *Applies to all products except Just a Girl Merch.* From the Bible You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body and knit me together in my mother's womb. Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex! Your workmanship is marvelous—how well I know it. Psalm 139:13–14 (NLT) Resources Understanding Your Sex Drive - Webinar Replay - Sex Chat for Christian Wives Understanding Her Sex Drive - Webinar Replay - Sex Chat for Christian Wives 2019 Webinar Series - Sex Chat for Christian Wives (includes two above + foreplay) 2019-2020 Webinar Bundle - Sex Chat for Christian Wives (all of our current webinars) Episode 133: How to Talk to Your Husband About Sex Man vs. Woman: The Differences - Hot, Holy & Humorous "The Female Sexual Response: A Different Model," Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy, Rosemary Basson Rosemary Basson's circular response cycle diagram Knowing Her Sexually (khsministry.com) Webinars - Knowing Her Sexually (khsministry.com) High-Drive Wives Are Not Crockpots - Hot, Holy & Humorous Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we'd appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

This week's quickie is from J Parker about using creative timing to maintain or increase your sexual frequency. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Let's talk about the five senses—touch, sight, hearing, smell, and taste—and how to make the most of them to increase your sexual interest and enhance your lovemaking experience. Sponsor Thanks to Married Dance, a Christian sex toy & marital aid store. From the Bible For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. Psalm 139:13–14 My dove in the clefts of the rock, in the hiding places on the mountainside, show me your face, let me hear your voice; for your voice is sweet, and your face is lovely. Song of Songs 2:14 Resources Episode 179: Light Hearts & Lingerie Introduction to Sensate Focus Dona Massage Lotion - Married Dance Intimate Organics Energizing Massage Oil - Married Dance Fuzu Massage Candle - Married Dance Red Lightbulbs - Amazon Episode 74: Getting Comfortable with Your Body Episode 111: Accepting Your Body Experience Deeper Intimacy During Sex | The Forgiven Wife (eye contact) Sensual Music Archives • Bonny's Oysterbed7 Copulatory Vocalization (aka, Sex Sounds) | The Forgiven Wife Scented Aromatherapy Candles - Amazon Episode 184: The Power of a Shower (Quickie) Bergamot Linen Spray - Amazon Let Me Touch You Scented Massage Oil Gift Set - Married Dance Scented Lotion - Amazon Use Scent to Enhance Your Sex Life | The Forgiven Wife Essential Oils for Sex and Intimacy - 5 Things to Know (calmhealthysexy.com) Lip Smacker flavored lip gloss - Amazon Food and Sex | The Forgiven Wife Episode 34: Food and Sex JO H2O Flavored Lubricant - Married Dance Donate to the Ministry by clicking HERE. Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we'd appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor about what to remember when making sexual changes. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!