Sex Chat for Christian Wives

This week's quickie is from J Parker about celebrating Valentine's Day. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

We've been talking about sexual experience for many years now, and we figured it was time to discuss why sex even matters in marriage? What's the point? Sponsor It's Choose Your Promo month at Share the Soap! Pick either: Celebration box, a quarterly subscription box filled with uniquely curated items only available for that box as well as proven customer favorites. Get $10 off your first box with code FCWCELBOX1! The subscription is open now through February 21 and ships on February 28. It's the perfect way to prepare for date night while treating yourself. Sensual Set, which sets the mood for date night or any night. Perfect for Valentine's Day! Take $10 off with our code, FCWCOUPLE, through February 28. From the Bible God blessed them and said to them, "Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish in the sea and the birds in the sky and over every living creature that moves on the ground." Genesis 1:28 Adam made love to [yada] his wife Eve, and she became pregnant and gave birth to Cain. She said, "With the help of the Lord I have brought forth a man." Genesis 4:1 May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth. A loving doe, a graceful deer— may her breasts satisfy you always, may you ever be intoxicated with her love. Proverbs 5:18-19 [He] I have come into my garden, my sister, my bride; I have gathered my myrrh with my spice. I have eaten my honeycomb and my honey; I have drunk my wine and my milk. [Friends] Eat, friends, and drink; drink your fill of love. Song of Songs 5:1 That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh. Genesis 2:24 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.' So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate." Mark 10:7-9 Adam and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame. Genesis 2:25 For your Maker is your husband— the Lord Almighty is his name— the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer; he is called the God of all the earth. Isaiah 54:5 As a young man marries a young woman, so will your Builder marry you; as a bridegroom rejoices over his bride, so will your God rejoice over you. Isaiah 62:5 "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh." This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. Ephesians 5:31-32 Let us rejoice and be glad and give him glory! For the wedding of the Lamb has come, and his bride has made herself ready. Revelation 19:7 Resources Episode 171: What's So Great About Sex? What Are the Real Purposes of Sex? | Hot, Holy & Humorous Touchstone: Sex Is Fun, Part 1 | The Forgiven Wife Boom-Boom Playtime: Sex Is Fun, Part 2 | The Forgiven Wife Supernatural Sex: Spiritual Dimension of Libido for Low-Drive Wives | OysterBed7 Episode 147: God, Sex, and Your Marriage, with Dr. Juli Slattery Episode 114: Pursuing Playfulness in Sexual Intimacy Sex Is Like Rose-Colored Glasses | Hot, Holy & Humorous Episode 50: Happily, with Kevin A. Thompson Friends, Partners, and Lovers: What It Takes to Make Your Marriage Work by Kevin A. Thompson 8 Ways to Stay Intimate Even When Life Gets in the Way of Sex | The Forgiven Wife Episode 125: Is Sex a Need? "Sexual Morality," Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis Hope for Wives Podcast (with Bonny Burns) Our Webinars (6 available, each $10 or less!) Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we'd appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

As we embark on a new year, we talk about the goal of sexual growth, how to pursue it, and what you can expect along the way. Sponsors Get the insights and help you need with therapy from Better Help. Also sponsored by Married Dance, your go-to site for marital aids, lubricant, and more—all in a nudity-free, marriage-focused environment. From the Bible In the same way, you wives, be subject to your own husbands so that even if any of them are disobedient to the word, they may be won over without a word by the behavior of their wives, as they observe your pure and respectful behavior. 1 Peter 3:1–2 Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. Galatians 6:9 Resources Intimacy in Marriage – Julie Sibert's website Knowing Her Sexually podcast Submission Doesn't Mean Putting Up with Sexual Misbehavior Episode 163: What About Sex Toys? How to Turn Your Marriage Around | Hot, Holy & Humorous How Growth Looks | The Forgiven Wife Strong Wives – coaching with Bonny What If Your Husband Responds Negatively to Your Sexual Changes? | The Forgiven Wife Sexual Disintegrity – My Journey Toward Sexual Wholeness #1 | The Forgiven Wife Sexual Stewardship – My Journey Toward Sexual Wholeness #2 | The Forgiven Wife Sexual Invocation – My Journey Toward Sexual Wholeness #3 | The Forgiven Wife Intimacy Mentoring with Chris Taylor How the Sexually Rejected Spouse Feels | Hot, Holy & Humorous How to Sexually Disinterested Spouse Feels | Hot, Holy & Humorous Behind Our Smiles Podcast Tara Buchanan's story is in J's upcoming book, The Higher Desire Wife (you can preorder now) Tip Me Over | The Generous Wife (Lori Byerly) Unexpected Benefits: 10 Years of Growth | The Forgiven Wife Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we'd appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

This week's quickie is from J Parker about the many ways you can give your husband oral sex. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Subscribe to Our Upcoming Newsletter HERE. What is "celebration sex"? You might think of it as sex on a special occasion like a birthday, anniversary, Valentine's Day, or some other holiday. But we believe it can and should be a true celebration of marital intimacy, so today we tackle the what, why, and how of planning for celebration sex. Sponsor We love Share the Soap and know you will too. Check them out! From the Bible I belong to my beloved, and his desire is for me. Come, my beloved, let us go to the countryside, let us spend the night in the villages. Let us go early to the vineyards to see if the vines have budded, if their blossoms have opened, and if the pomegranates are in bloom— there I will give you my love. Song of Songs 7:10–12 Resources Doc Johnson GoodHead Spray Song of Songs Coupons for Him - Hot, Holy & Humorous Song of Songs Coupons for Her - Hot, Holy & Humorous With 1 Simple Thing to Turn on Sexual Arousal and Intensify Orgasm • Bonny's Oysterbed7 (kegels!) 5 Ways "Hotel Sex" Can Improve Your Marriage Episode 60: Vacation Sex Episode 182: Pray About Your Sex Life (Quickie) Episode 117: Prayer and Sex Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we'd appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

This week's quickie is from J Parker about focusing on intimacy during the holidays. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage! If you're looking for Christmas ideas for you and your sweetie, check out our 2025 Christmas gift episode!

It's our annual holiday gift guide for wives! We've got great gift ideas to enhance intimacy in every room of your house: kitchen, living room, bathroom, and bedroom. Sponsor Married Dance – a Christian sex toy store with discreet shipping, great customer service, and marriage-focused product information From the Bible Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows. James 1:17 Resources To Romance, With Love: A Cookbook for Lovers and Those Who Want to Be Date Night Cookbook and Activities for Couples: Recipes and Games for a Romantic Night In The Date Night Cookbook Cooking Aprons for Couple Mr./Mrs. Aprons, Dish Towels, Oven Mitts, and Pot Holders Set Set of 3 Gold Candle Holders Chirstmas Green Taper Candles Dinnerware Dishes Set - Green, Service for 4 Wine Glass Set of 2, Modern Stemless Golden Edge Sony Wireless Portable Bluetooth Speaker Throw Blanket Liberator Fascinator Waterproof Throw Twister (classic midcentury game!) Retro Jacks Game (perfect for two) To Catch a Thief Movie (smart midcentury romance) Crayola Take Note Dry Erase Markers or Chalkola Dry Erase Marker Chalk Pens (vintage colors) Post-it Heart Shape Notes OR Cute Animal Appreciation Sticky Notes Aqua Love Notes Shower Note Pad "Disco" Shower Head Gorilla Grip Extra Thick Kneeling Pad Face & Body Crayons Mr. Bubble Bubble Bath Share the Soap Assorted Half-dozen Goat Milk Bath Soaks or Bath Soak Powders Sex Furniture - Married Dance Liberator Sex Bean Bag Sex Loungers Liberator Wedge Pillow Song of Solomon 3:4 Wall Decal Sex Position Cards Lingerie from Honoring Intimates or Mentionables 60-Day Risk-Free Air Pulse Clitoral Stimulator Pilot Program - Married Dance 60-Day Risk-Free Bullet Vibrator Pilot Program - Married Dance 60-Day Risk-Free Vibrating Ring Pilot Program - Married Dance Brut Splash-On Original Fragrance for Men Prince Matchabelli Wind Song Fragrance for Women La Jolie Muse Sandalwood Rose Natural Soy Candle Vintage Peignoir Set (one size) Peignoir Set (plus-size) Feathered Slipper Heels Feathered Slippers Without Heels Donate to Our Ministry! Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we'd appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor with four ways to be fully present during sex. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

When it comes to making time for sexual intimacy during the holiday rush, it can be wonderfully stressful or wonderfully playful or anything in between. We discuss how to navigate the busy-ness and stress of the holidays so that you can create a time of playfulness with your spouse and give you some ideas to build playfulness in your relationship and sex life. Sponsor Share the Soap provides skin care products with natural and carefully curated ingredients. With the Sensual Senses Set, Share the Soap is offering an additional bonus for our listeners: FREE lip balm for kissable lips when using code FCWDATENIGHT. Add the set and the lip balm to the cart, then apply the code, and the lip balm will show FREE. From the Bible Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6–7 Resources Season of Joy or Season of Stress? | The Forgiven Wife Pare Christmas Down to Four Priorities • Bonny's Oysterbed7 Weathering the Holiday Storm | The Forgiven Wife The Pop-Up Christmas Tree J. Parker Owns Video of Pop-Up Christmas Tree Set-Up Purchase Your Own Easy-Peasy, Pop-Up Tree Pine-Scented Candle (Amazon) 7 Tips for Having Sex at the Parents' House - Hot, Holy & Humorous Make Your Home Sex-Friendly for Holiday Guests - Hot, Holy & Humorous 10 Intimate Things to Enjoy for Christmas - Hot, Holy & Humorous Elaine Dancing (Seinfeld) Mentionables Lingerie (use code 4CHRISTIANWIVES for 10% off!) Honoring Intimates Lingerie Bow-Dazzle! and 10 Other Ways to Keep Your Sex Life Alive During the Holidays | The Forgiven Wife String Lights (Amazon) Hallmark Christmas Bows (Amazon) Donate to Our Ministry HERE Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we'd appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

What do women want to know about sex when we're face to faced with them? While we have regular listener question episodes, we wanted to address FAQs we get when speaking to a group or working with individuals or small groups. So get ready for six common questions and our answers. Sponsor Better Help can match you with a licensed, trained, experienced, and accredited therapist who shares your faith foundation. Access care through messaging, live chats, phone, and/or video conferencing. Check them out HERE. Our episode is also sponsored in part by Married Dance, a marriage-focused Christian sex toy store. From the Bible Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.1 Corinthians 6:9–11 Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here! 2 Corinthians 5:17 For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is his love for those who fear him; as far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us.Psalm 103:11–12 But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us. Romans 5:8 (not Acts 2:38 or John 3:16...though those are great too!) But that is not the way you learned Christ!— assuming that you have heard about him and were taught in him, as the truth is in Jesus, to put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires, and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds, and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness. Ephesians 4:20–24 You turned my wailing into dancing; you removed my sackcloth and clothed me with joy, that my heart may sing your praises and not be silent. Lord my God, I will praise you forever.Psalm 30:11–12 Resources Episode 194: Creative Timing (Quickie) - Sex Chat for Christian Wives 5 Times of Day to Make Love - Hot, Holy & Humorous Why She's Too Busy to Have Sex - Knowing Her Sexually (for husbands) Episode 122: Self-Care for Wives - Sex Chat for Christian Wives Episode 191: What Is Sexual Betrayal and How Can You Address It? - Sex Chat for Christian Wives Episode 18: How Will I Ever Trust My Partner, Again? - Hope For Wives Rebuilding Intimacy in Marriage (When Trust Has Been Damaged) - Hot, Holy & Humorous Episode 185: Women's Freedom from Porn, with Juli Slattery & Joy Skarka - Sex Chat for Christian Wives The Intimacy Pyramid Approach Your Sex Life Like It's a Jigsaw Puzzle - Honeycomb & Spice Episode 141: How to Do Oral Sex - Sex Chat for Christian Wives Is It Okay to Say No? - Hot, Holy & Humorous The Back Door (my take on anal sex) • Bonny's Oysterbed7 Is Anal Sex Okay? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Why Don't Men Fess Up About Having the Lower Drive? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Episode 133: How to Talk to Your Husband About Sex - Sex Chat for Christian Wives Our Speaking, Coaching & Communities Learn more about J Speaking to Your Group J's Higher Desire Wife Community Contact Bonny about Speaking Learn more about Coaching with Bonny Chris's Intimacy Mentoring Preorder THE HIGHER DESIRE WIFE (J. Parker's upcoming release) at 40% off or purchase from Amazon. Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we'd appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker