

Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby is a top-ranked relationships and self improvement show that teaches growth-focused humans like you how to feel happier. Dr. Lisa will explain how to improve your relationships, fix communication problems, manage emotions, deepen emotional intimacy, and even heal heartbreak. You'll uncover obstacles holding you back, gain skills to help you learn & grow, and finally find direction toward your purpose-driven life. As a marriage counselor, psychologist, board-certified coach, and the CEO behind GrowingSelf.com, Dr. Lisa is here to show you how to get answers and make changes. Tune in to create the love, happiness, and success you want and deserve. It's time for you to grow and thrive!
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Jan 26, 2026 • 1h 1min
How to Talk About Sex With Your Partner: Skills to Strengthen Sexual Intimacy, Connect & Communicate | Love and Relationships | E499
Struggling with a dead bedroom? Talking about sex can feel more vulnerable and more terrifying than almost any other conversation in relationships, but it's the key to bringing back the spark. In this episode, you'll learn how to talk about sex with your partner in ways that strengthen emotional intimacy, reignite sexual intimacy, deepen connection, and help couples communicate without shame, fear, or defensiveness.
If you’ve ever wanted more closeness or desire in your relationship but felt frozen when it came time to talk about sex, you’re not alone. For many couples, learning how to talk about sex with your partner feels risky—even when love is strong and the longing for connection is real. Fear of rejection, conflict, or hurting each other can keep these conversations stuck beneath the surface, quietly eroding intimacy over time.
In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Tara, a Kinsey-certified sexologist and tenured professor of sexual and relational communication, to talk about how to communicate better about sex in ways that actually build safety, trust, and closeness. We explore why sexual conversations feel so charged, how cultural conditioning shapes desire and avoidance, and what helps couples rebuild trust sexually after long periods of distance, rejection, or disconnection.
You’ll hear practical guidance for starting these conversations gently, expanding what sexual intimacy can look like in long-term relationships, and taking responsibility for your own sexual self—without blame or shame. As you listen, I invite you to reflect on this question: What might become possible in your relationship if talking about sex felt safer, clearer, and more connecting than it does right now?
Episode Breakdown
00:00 Why Talking About Sex Feels So Hard in Relationships
06:30 The Cost of Avoiding Conversations About Sex
15:00 How Sexual Communication Affects Intimacy and Connection
22:00 How to Talk About Sex Without Fear or Defensiveness
27:30 Understanding Your Sexual Self Before Communicating Needs
30:00 Redefining Sexual Intimacy Beyond Penetration
33:00 How to Ask for What You Want Sexually (Without Hurting Your Partner)
39:00 Navigating Sexual Differences in Long-Term Relationships
47:00 Rebuilding Sexual Trust and Attraction After Distance
52:40 The Core Skill: Knowing What You Want and Communicating It
If this conversation stirred something for you—maybe a desire to feel closer, more confident, or more understood—you’re invited to schedule a free consultation with me or a member of my team. It’s a private, secure space where you can share what’s been happening in your relationship and what you’re hoping will feel different.
You’ll answer three quick questions so we can thoughtfully match you with the right counselor or coach for your needs. It only takes a couple of minutes, and it’s designed to help you find support that fits, whether you’re working on communication, rebuilding sexual trust, or finding your way back to connection.
Consider this a gentle next step and an open door, if and when you’re ready.
xoxo,
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
Growing Self
Special thanks to this month’s sponsors of the Love, Happiness and Success Podcast:
Shopify — The all-in-one platform for building and growing your online business. Visit shopify.com/lhs to explore their tools and access exclusive listener discounts.
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Jan 22, 2026 • 58min
How to Negotiate With A Narcissist: Learn Skills to Communicate & Set Boundaries in High-Conflict Relationships | Rebecca Zung | Happiness | E498
When love and relationships turn into constant conflict, the problem isn’t that you’re bad at communicating; it’s that you’re negotiating without a strategy. In this episode, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby sits down with negotiation expert Rebecca Zung to unpack how communication breaks down in narcissistic relationships and what it really takes to negotiate effectively in a marriage or partnership marked by high conflict.
If you’ve ever found yourself explaining, accommodating, or giving more and more in the hope that things will finally calm down, only to feel resentful or powerless later, this conversation is for you. Rebecca shares why negotiation is not just a legal skill, but a relationship skill and a self-worth skill, especially when you’re dealing with someone who is unpredictable, manipulative, or unwilling to meet you halfway.
We talk about how to negotiate with a narcissist without losing yourself, including why mindset and preparation matter more than saying the “right” thing in the moment. Rebecca explains how common negotiation tactics like over-giving, people-pleasing, and JADE-ing (justify, argue, defend, explain) quietly undermine your position, and how clarity around your values, boundaries, and walk-away points can change the entire dynamic.
You’ll also hear practical strategies for staying grounded and strategic in high-conflict relationships, setting boundaries without escalating conflict, and using leverage in ways that protect your energy, your self-respect, and what matters most to you.
As you listen, I invite you to reflect on this: Where have you been negotiating against yourself just to keep the peace? And what might shift if you approached these conversations with more clarity, intention, and respect for your own needs?
Episode Breakdown:
00:00 Why Negotiation Is a Relationship Skill
01:38 Rebecca Zung’s Personal Path to Negotiation Expertise
09:31 The First Negotiation Is With Yourself
13:26 Why Mindset Determines Negotiation Outcomes
18:24 Over-Giving, People-Pleasing, and Resentment
28:18 The Five I’s of Negotiation Leverage
43:30 Never JADE: How to Stop Giving Away Your Power
46:43 Setting Boundaries in High-Conflict Relationships
If this episode resonated, and you’re realizing that navigating a high-conflict relationship requires more than just trying harder or explaining yourself better, I want you to know that support is available.
I’d love to invite you to schedule a free consultation with my team at Growing Self. This is a private, secure space where you can share what’s been happening in your relationship and where you’re feeling stuck or drained. You’ll answer a few quick questions so we can thoughtfully connect you with the right counselor or coach, someone who understands high-conflict dynamics and can help you move forward with greater clarity, confidence, and self-trust.
You don’t have to keep negotiating without a strategy, and you don’t have to do this alone.
xoxo,
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
Growing Self
Special thanks to this month’s sponsors of the Love, Happiness and Success Podcast:
Shopify — The all-in-one platform for building and growing your online business. Visit shopify.com/lhs to explore their tools and access exclusive listener discounts.
Working Genius — A powerful assessment that helps entrepreneurs and leaders focus on what they naturally do best. Get 20% off with code LHS at workinggenius.com

Jan 19, 2026 • 1h 2min
Before You're Gaslit, Betrayed, and Deceived: How to Spot Con Artist | Love, Happiness, & Success | E497
Imagine realizing the person you trusted was intentionally deceiving you the entire time. This episode pulls back the curtain on how con artists operate and the psychological devastation left in their wake. You'll learn how deception works, why even smart, capable people fall victim, and the lasting emotions from stress and anger to deep regret. Most importantly, you’ll learn how to increase your awareness, find the right professional support, and begin to move on safely. It’s a heavy but important conversation that may help you recognize danger before it’s too late.
In this episode of Love, Happiness and Success, I’m joined by Johnathan Walton, an Emmy-winning former TV reporter and current reality TV producer, who became a leading voice on the psychology of the con artist after surviving a deeply destabilizing betrayal himself. He’s also the host, writer, and executive producer of the hit podcast Queen of the Con, and the author of Anatomy of a Con Artist.
Together, we talk about how con artists manipulate emotions (not intelligence), why “I’m just trying to help” can be an early warning sign, and what happens to your brain and body when the relationship you thought was real turns out to be built on lies. We also get practical: the red flags that show up across scams, romance cons, and long-game manipulation, plus steps you can take to protect yourself—and what to do if you realize you’ve already been pulled in.
A gentle note: This conversation includes explicit language and frank discussion of trauma responses, including intrusive revenge fantasies. Please take care of yourself while listening, and skip this one if you’re not in the right headspace today.
Episode Breakdown:
00:00 The Moment You Realize Someone Isn’t Who They Say They Are
01:05 Con Artists, Betrayal Trauma, and Why This Conversation Matters
02:05 Trigger Warning and How To Listen Safely
07:04 Johnathan’s Story: The “Irish Heiress” Con Artist Case
11:20 How a Con Artist Hooks You Through Emotional Manipulation
30:33 The Red Flags of a Con Artist and How Patterns Form
41:27 The Trauma Aftermath: Shame, Rage, and Losing Trust in Yourself
46:38 Protecting Yourself After a Con Artist Betrayal
52:35 Dr. Lisa’s Guidance on Betrayal Trauma Support
If you’re listening and realizing this episode connects to your own life, whether through a relationship, a financial loss, or the unsettling sense that something once trusted wasn’t real, I want you to have support, not just information. As a gift, I’d like to invite you to schedule a free consultation with my team at Growing Self. You’ll answer three quick questions, and we’ll help you book a private, secure consultation with the right counselor or coach for what you’re navigating right now. This is a thoughtful, low-pressure way to get clarity, feel supported, and take a steady next step forward.
You don’t have to navigate this alone.
xoxo,
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
Growing Self
Special thanks to this month’s sponsors of the Love, Happiness and Success Podcast:
Shopify — The all-in-one platform for building and growing your online business. Visit shopify.com/lhs to explore their tools and access exclusive listener discounts.
Working Genius — A powerful assessment that helps entrepreneurs and leaders focus on what they naturally do best. Get 20% off with code LHS at workinggenius.com

Jan 15, 2026 • 51min
When Life Falls Apart: How to Grow and Heal After Total Life Changes | Happiness | E496
What do you do when you're blindsided by unexpected and total life changes? I’m talking about the kind that shatter your sense of identity, happiness, and success all at once. How do you manage those overwhelming emotions and find a direction again? In this episode, you’ll learn just that: how to grow and heal when everything falls apart, find direction when you’re feeling trapped, and rebuild your sense of well-being for a new version of love, happiness, and success.
I’m joined by Maya Shankar, a cognitive scientist, creator of the podcast A Slight Change of Plans, and the first Behavioral Science Advisor to the United Nations. Maya brings both personal experience and research-backed insight to the question so many people ask during major life transitions: Why does this feel so exhausting, disorienting, and scary — and how do I move forward without losing myself?
Together, we talk about why life changes often feel like a threat to your identity, why uncertainty can drain your energy, and why there’s no single “right” way to grieve after major life events. Maya shares gentle, practical ways to begin healing that don’t require pushing yourself to be positive, rushing the process, or overhauling your life when you’re already tired.
As you listen, I’d invite you to reflect on this: When so much has changed at once, what parts of you are still here? And what might become possible if this chapter isn’t the end of your story, but the beginning of something different?
Episode Breakdown
00:00 When Life Falls Apart
01:23 Why Total Life Changes Feel So Destabilizing
01:55 Maya’s Story: Losing Big Dreams During Major Life Changes
07:10 How Life Transitions Threaten Identity
07:44 Finding Your “Why” After Everything Changes
11:17 There’s No One Right Way To Grieve Life Events
15:51 Why Uncertainty Is So Exhausting During Life Changes
22:33 A Self-Affirmation Tool For Identity After Total Life Changes
28:20 Moral Elevation: Finding Hope During Difficult Life Transitions
37:14 Why Community Helps You Heal After Major Life Events
42:35 Shared Psychology: Different Life Changes, Same Emotional Truths
45:40 Share This Episode With Someone Navigating Change
If you’re living through total life changes right now and could use steady, thoughtful support as you find your footing again, I want to offer you something. I’ve created a simple way for you to schedule a free consultation that’s designed to truly meet you where you are.
By answering three quick questions, you’ll be personally matched with the counselor or coach who’s best suited for what you’re navigating right now. This is a private, secure process, it only takes a couple of minutes, and it’s my way of making sure you don’t have to figure all of this out on your own.
If this episode helped you put language to what you’ve been carrying, consider this an open door.
xoxo,
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
Growing Self
Special thanks to this month’s sponsors of the Love, Happiness and Success Podcast:
Shopify — The all-in-one platform for building and growing your online business. Visit shopify.com/lhs to explore their tools and access exclusive listener discounts.
Working Genius — A powerful assessment that helps entrepreneurs and leaders focus on what they naturally do best. Get 20% off with code LHS at workinggenius.com

Jan 12, 2026 • 1h 5min
Enneagram Types and Relationships: Is Your Personality Compatible with Your Partner's? | Love and Relationships | E495
If you want to feel happier in your relationships, understanding Enneagram types changes everything. This growth-focused conversation dives into love, happiness, and emotional intimacy through the lens of personality. You'll learn why different Enneagram personality types experience emotions and relationships differently and how couples can grow and heal by improving communication, mindset, and self-awareness through understanding each other's Enneagram type.
In this episode, I’m sharing a meaningful and wide-ranging conversation with Ian Morgan Cron, a bestselling author, psychotherapist, Enneagram teacher, and host of the Typology podcast. Together, we explore how Enneagram types shape relationship dynamics, why misunderstandings happen even in loving partnerships, and how learning each other’s emotional wiring can lead to deeper connection instead of ongoing frustration.
We talk about why love and attachment can feel so powerful, why it’s often harder than expected to let go of unhealthy relationships, and how personality patterns influence conflict, empathy, and emotional pacing. We also dig into Enneagram and relationships, including how different Enneagram types process feelings, respond to stress, and experience intimacy in very different ways. I share personal insights about discovering my own Enneagram 7 tendencies and how that awareness changed the way I understand closeness, independence, and emotional connection in my own relationships.
As you listen, I invite you to notice where you may be assuming your partner experiences the world the same way you do. Understanding Enneagram personality types isn’t about labeling or fixing yourself or your partner. It’s about building compassion, improving communication, and creating relationships where both people feel understood and emotionally safe.
Episode Breakdown:
00:00 The Relationship Mistake That Affects All Enneagram Types
03:55 Dr. Lisa’s Enneagram Shift: From Type 3 to Enneagram 7
10:15 Enneagram Testing and Why Many People Mistype
15:54 Enneagram 7 in Relationships: Emotional Pacing and Empathy
23:43 Is Love Addictive? Attachment and Codependency in Relationships
34:50 Enneagram Types and Relationships: Using Differences to Grow
39:13 Compatibility vs. Companionability in Enneagram Relationships
52:05 A Relationship Exercise to Understand Your Enneagram Dynamic
If this episode helped you see your relationship patterns more clearly, or helped you understand why certain dynamics keep repeating, I’d love to offer you a thoughtful next step. You’re invited to schedule a free consultation designed to help you find the right kind of support for where you are right now. By answering three quick questions, we’ll thoughtfully match you with a counselor or coach who understands relationships, personality, and the kind of growth you’re working toward. This is a private, secure experience and a genuine gift of support, and it only takes a couple of minutes to get started.
xoxo,
Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self
Special thanks to this month’s sponsors of the Love, Happiness and Success Podcast:
Shopify — The all-in-one platform for building and growing your online business. Visit shopify.com/lhs to explore their tools and access exclusive listener discounts.
Working Genius — A powerful assessment that helps entrepreneurs and leaders focus on what they naturally do best. Get 20% off with code LHS at workinggenius.com

Jan 8, 2026 • 57min
How To Be More Confident | Happiness | LHS Classic
“How to be more confident” is one of the most common things people tell me they want, and also one of the most misunderstood. If you’ve ever thought, “I’ll finally feel confident once I calm my anxiety, stop second-guessing myself, or stop worrying about what other people think,” this conversation offers a very different starting point.
In this episode of Love, Happiness and Success, I’m joined by Dr. Aziz Gazipura to talk about confidence as something deeper than appearances or bravado. I’m revisiting this episode on why confidence is really about your relationship with yourself, how social anxiety and people-pleasing quietly erode self-trust, and why trying to look confident often leaves people feeling more anxious and disconnected.
We also talk about the inner critic as a misguided safety system, how avoidance keeps anxiety alive, and why confidence grows through practice, self-compassion, and supported risk-taking rather than positive thinking alone. If you struggle with social anxiety, harsh self-talk, or the habit of saying yes when you mean no, this conversation offers a steadier, more realistic way forward.
As you listen, I’d invite you to reflect on this: Where in your life have you been trying to feel confident without being on your own side? And what might shift if confidence started with how you treat yourself when things feel uncomfortable or imperfect?
Episode Breakdown:
00:00 What confidence really means (and why it’s misunderstood)
01:48 Confidence as your relationship with yourself
07:32 From social anxiety and people-pleasing to real confidence
12:45 The inner critic and the “safety police”
16:51 Social anxiety vs. low confidence (and why avoidance makes it worse)
22:56 How confidence is built through practice and exposure
31:11 People-pleasing and “niceness” as anxiety patterns
38:21 Boundaries, authenticity, and healthy relationships
45:03 Projected dislike and changing self-talk
50:28 Final takeaways + where to find Dr. Aziz
If this episode resonates and you’d like support building real confidence (the kind rooted in self-trust, authenticity, and emotional safety), I’d love to invite you to schedule a free consultation. This is a private, secure space where you can share what’s been weighing on you and what you want to feel differently. You’ll answer three quick questions so we can help match you with the right counselor or coach on my team. Many people experience this as a meaningful first step toward feeling more grounded, more supported, and more confident in their lives.
xoxo,
Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self
Special thanks to this month’s sponsors of the Love, Happiness and Success Podcast:
Shopify — The all-in-one platform for building and growing your online business. Visit shopify.com/lhs to explore their tools and access exclusive listener discounts.
Working Genius — A powerful assessment that helps entrepreneurs and leaders focus on what they naturally do best. Get 20% off with code LHS at workinggenius.com

Jan 5, 2026 • 59min
How to Start a New Chapter In Life | Happiness | LHS Classic
Have you been feeling ready to start a new chapter in life, but also unsure how to begin? Not because everything is falling apart, but because something inside you knows it’s time for more. In this classic episode of the Love, Happiness and Success Podcast, I’m joined by my colleague Dr. Lisa Severy to talk about how rewriting your story can open the door to real, lasting change—in your career, your relationships, and the way you see yourself.
Dr. Lisa specializes in narrative career counseling, a powerful approach that helps people understand the deeper life themes shaping their choices. We talk about why traditional career advice often misses the mark, how work and identity are deeply connected, and what it really takes to move forward when you feel stuck, restless, or quietly dissatisfied—even if your life looks “fine” from the outside.
This conversation is for you if you’re sensing that a new beginning is calling, but you don’t want to jump into another situation that looks different yet feels the same. Together, we explore how insight comes before action, why patterns tend to repeat when the internal story doesn’t change, and how giving yourself permission to rewrite old narratives can be one of the most meaningful decisions you ever make.
Episode Breakdown:
00:00 How to start a new chapter in life by rewriting your story
02:27 Meet Dr. Lisa Severy and the narrative approach to career change
06:18 Why traditional career counseling doesn’t work for real life change
11:14 Life themes, meaning, and choosing work that fits who you are
19:30 The emotional cost of staying comfortable but unfulfilled at work
23:30 What to do when you feel stuck and overwhelmed by options
29:24 Giving yourself permission to change and release old “shoulds”
35:27 The Great Resignation and reclaiming agency in your career
41:57 Why career patterns repeat when the internal story doesn’t change
47:54 A powerful exercise to clarify what’s missing in your next chapter
52:58 Final reflections and how to get support for your next chapter
I want you to know that you don’t have to figure your next chapter out on your own. One of the ways I support people at this point is by inviting them to schedule a free consultation with me or a member of my Growing Self team. It’s a private, secure space where you can talk honestly about what’s been feeling stuck, what’s been weighing on you, and what you hope might feel different going forward. You’ll answer just three quick questions, and we’ll help match you with the right counselor or coach for where you are right now. I hope you’ll see this as a small but meaningful gift to yourself as you begin shaping what comes next.
xoxo,
Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self
Special thanks to this month’s sponsors of the Love, Happiness and Success Podcast:
Shopify — The all-in-one platform for building and growing your online business. Visit shopify.com/lhs to explore their tools and access exclusive listener discounts.
Working Genius — A powerful assessment that helps entrepreneurs and leaders focus on what they naturally do best. Get 20% off with code LHS at workinggenius.com

Jan 1, 2026 • 38min
Finding Forgiveness: Let Go of Unhealthy Feelings, Create Closure, and Move On | Happiness | LHS Classic
Is anger, regret or sadness still tying you to your past? In this episode, you’ll learn how finding forgiveness helps you heal unhealthy emotions, create closure, and move on. You’ll learn about the two types of forgiveness and how to shift your mindset so you can finally feel happier, freer, and more like yourself again. If happiness and well-being feel out of reach right now, I hope you dive into this one.
Forgiveness often sounds simple, but it can feel deeply challenging when anger, regret, or unresolved pain linger. I’m revisiting this episode because these unhealthy feelings tend to hold on quietly, shaping how we feel long after the moment has passed. In this conversation, I talk about what forgiveness really is and what it is not, and how finding forgiveness can support healing and closure without excusing harm or abandoning your boundaries.
We explore the difference between forgiving yourself and forgiving someone else, especially when there has been no apology, no repair, or no justice. You’ll hear how to work with difficult emotions like sadness and resentment, how to move on when the other person may never change, and how forgiveness can support your growth, well-being, and peace of mind.
If part of you feels like you should be over it by now, but something still feels unfinished, this episode offers a more compassionate way forward. Forgiveness is not about forgetting or minimizing what happened. It’s about releasing what no longer serves you so you can heal and feel happier in your life today.
Episode Breakdown:
00:00 Finding Forgiveness and Emotional Healing
03:25 The Two Types of Forgiveness: Yourself and Others
05:52 How Anger, Regret, and Guilt Impact Happiness
07:56 Self-Forgiveness Through Compassion and Growth
15:00 Making Amends and Repairing Harm
21:59 How to Forgive Someone Who Isn’t Sorry
24:19 Letting Go Without Excusing Harm
28:56 Forgiveness, Boundaries, and Emotional Safety
31:19 Choosing Forgiveness to Move On and Feel at Peace
If this conversation about finding forgiveness stirred something tender for you, I want you to know you don’t have to work through it alone. I’d love for you to schedule a free consultation with me or someone on my team at Growing Self. It’s a private, secure space to share what you’ve been carrying and get matched with the right counselor or coach for where you are right now. You’ll answer three quick questions, and we’ll help you take a thoughtful next step toward healing and clarity.
xoxo,
Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self
Special thanks to this month’s sponsors of the Love, Happiness and Success Podcast:
Shopify — The all-in-one platform for building and growing your online business. Visit shopify.com/lhs to explore their tools and access exclusive listener discounts.
Working Genius — A powerful assessment that helps entrepreneurs and leaders focus on what they naturally do best. Get 20% off with code LHS at workinggenius.com

Dec 29, 2025 • 59min
Living For Meaning: How to Use the ‘Memento Mori’ Mindset to Find Direction and Create a Purpose-Driven Life | Happiness | LHS Classic
Most people don’t realize they’re running on autopilot until life forces them to stop. Through the lens of ‘Memento Mori’, this episode shows you how living for meaning can help you find direction, improve your overall well-being, and create a purpose-driven life. You’ll learn how to use this mindset shift to support your self improvement, reduce your stress, and cultivate happiness right now.
I’m joined by Karen Salmansohn, author and mindset coach, for a conversation about living for meaning and finding direction through the lens of Memento Mori. I’m revisiting this episode because its message feels especially relevant right now - how to reduce stress, stay grounded in your mindset, and create a purpose-driven life without giving up your ambition or drive. Rather than being morbid, the Memento Mori mindset offers clarity. It brings you back into the present moment and helps you make more intentional choices about who you are becoming and what truly matters.
Together, we explore why traditional to-do lists often leave people feeling busy but unfulfilled, and how shifting toward values-based, identity-driven habits can support greater happiness and emotional well-being. This episode is an invitation to step out of autopilot, reconnect with what matters most, and begin living with more intention starting exactly where you are.
As you listen, I invite you to reflect on this question: If your time is limited, what deserves more of your attention right now?
Episode Breakdown:
00:00 Welcome to Love, Happiness & Success
00:48 The “funeral question” and how it helps you live with meaning
01:19 Memento Mori and using mortality awareness to find direction
05:29 Karen’s wake-up call and the origin of Your To Die For Life
09:13 “Everything that is not given is lost” and the meaning of legacy
14:22 Aristotle on happiness vs pleasure and building a purpose-driven life
21:08 The to-die list, core values, and identity-based habits
30:22 Karen’s seven core values and intentional daily choices
38:28 Mortality marbles and a mindset shift that reduces stress
46:31 Dr. Lisa’s 9/11 story and choosing a more intentional life
If this gives you a desire for more meaning, more clarity, or a different relationship with stress, I want to offer you something supportive. You’re invited to schedule a free consultation with me or a trusted member of my team. This is a private, secure space to talk about what’s been weighing on you, what you want to feel differently, and what kind of support would truly help you move forward. You’ll answer just a few quick questions so we can thoughtfully match you with the right counselor or coach and help you take the next step toward a more intentional, purpose-driven life.
xoxo,
Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self

Dec 25, 2025 • 51min
The Psychedelic Therapy Revolution | Dr. Scott Shannon | Happiness | E494
If you’ve been hearing more about psychedelic therapy and wondering whether it’s a genuine breakthrough for healing—or just the latest mental health trend—you’re not alone. Many people feel curious, hopeful, and skeptical all at once. This conversation is meant to help you slow down, understand what the research actually shows, and think clearly about whether this path is right for you.
In this episode of Love, Happiness and Success, I’m joined by psychiatrist and MDMA-assisted psychotherapist Dr. Scott Shannon, founder of Wholeness Center, the largest integrative mental health center in the U.S. Together, we talk about how psychedelic therapy works differently from conventional psychiatric treatment, why it can help disrupt rigid trauma patterns in the brain, and what researchers are learning about long-term healing—not just short-term symptom relief.
We also spend time on the parts of this conversation that matter just as much: the risks, the ethical boundaries, and the importance of preparation, professional support, and integration. Psychedelic therapy isn’t appropriate for everyone, and it isn’t something to pursue casually or without careful guidance. This episode offers a grounded, responsible look at how people can think critically about safety, readiness, and what to look for in a qualified provider.
As you listen, I invite you to reflect on a few questions: What kind of healing are you actually looking for? What does feeling “better” really mean to you? And how do you decide which growth paths deserve your trust, time, and care?
Episode Breakdown:
00:00 Psychedelic therapy explained: promise, research, and real risks
02:31 Why psychedelic therapy differs from traditional psychiatric medication
04:55 Trauma, brain patterns, and how psychedelic therapy disrupts stuck loops
07:00 MDMA-assisted therapy for PTSD and why healing can continue long after treatment
12:21 A paradigm shift in mental health: supporting the brain’s capacity to heal
19:30 What MDMA actually does in therapy: safety, self-compassion, and trauma processing
25:47 Mystical experience, meaning, and the spiritual dimension of psychedelic therapy
30:09 Ethical concerns, safety risks, and how to evaluate psychedelic therapy providers
38:00 Preparation and integration: why psychedelic therapy is more than the experience itself
If this conversation leaves you thinking about your own healing or growth, I want to be clear that Growing Self does not offer psychedelic therapy. What we do offer is thoughtful, evidence-based therapy and coaching for people who want to grow with intention and care.
If you’d like, I’d love to help you think through what kind of support would actually be most helpful for you. I’ve created a simple, private way to do that. By answering just a few quick questions, we can help match you with the right therapist or coach for a complimentary consultation—someone who understands what you’re navigating and where you’d like to go next. Schedule a free consultation today. Consider it a small gift from me, and a gentle next step if you’re ready for one.
xoxo,
Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self


