MGTOW Sandman Quotes

I have a viewer question from Mason and he wants me to read his comment and answer a question. So here goes: "Hi Sandman. I have been watching your videos for several months now and I think you make some very good points. It has definitely made me realize that monogamy - currently at least - serves women more than men. I am 24 years old and I have been in several long term relationships with several women. Looking back, I notice there was an imbalance with the effort put in to those relationships, it was as though I was expected to be a chef, taxi driver, a therapist and secretary - it was always left to me to arrange when to meet and the only times the girls would arrange anything was for a family event or something highly structured, like I was a child. Yet these girls couldn't even cook an egg or drive a vehicle and chose not to work. I never minded doing nice things, I actually enjoyed it, until I began feeling unappreciated, which is where being a nice guy in a monogamous relationship inevitably leads, currently at least. The more I did, the more was expected, the misandry treadmill. In one of the cases the girl was acting as though sex was a 'favor' she was doing for me. As a result of this I ended up cheating, which I somewhat regret. Another girl I dated considered herself to be very intelligent, except from my perspective she was incapable of creative or divergent thinking. She couldn't see the pitfalls of modern society and pointing them out would end with hostile arguments because she had a blind respect for authority and took too much pride in being right, like you point out in your video, female narcissism on the rise. She chose to end the relationship shortly after I sold my car and would scab drinks off of other men at bars while we were dating. I consider myself a good looking guy, yet I was barely ever told so by these women, because I believe once women have a man, they want to reduce his self-esteem instead of increasing it."Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hi Everyone Sandman Here, Today I had the privilege of shooting a video of Erin Pizzey at the first Toronto Domestic Violence Symposium. There were many speakers and I got lots of great talks that I will be sharing over the course of the following week. I also had the pleasure of meeting Erin Pizzey in person and speaking with her. She told me that women in Los Angeles are terrified of men going their own way and she completely supports our movement. She even mentions MGTOW at then end of this talk. So enjoy the video. Cheers!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Late last year the supreme court of Canada called Canada's prostitution laws unconstitutional so the country was left in legal limbo when it came to buying and selling sex. And if nothing happened by then end of twenty fourteen then prostitution would have become legal in Canada. We would have seen red light districts, brothels and bunny ranches all over this country. Instead, the government has taken advantage of the fact that the existing laws are being thrown out by and now want to criminalize prostitution. Many sex workers believed that after the law was deemed unconstitutional they would be able to have body guards, drivers and would be allowed to do business from their homes. I don't think they were expecting anything like this. But the conservative government in Canada has decided to go in the opposite direction. Peter MacKay is currently the minister of Justice in Canada and yesterday he held a press conference to unveil Canada's new prostitution laws. So Canada won't be getting a series of new red light districts like many people were hoping for. Instead prostitution and the people involved in it in Canada are about to be punished under the full extent of the law. Peter MacKay says that the new model is being called a uniquely Canadian Model. But in reality Canada is getting the Nordic Model where the Johns are about to start paying fines and doing jail and prison time while the prostitutes are about to receive twenty million dollars in annual aid to help them get off the streets. So I'm sure that there will be many support organization vying for that money. Money that will essentially be transferred from male Johns and given to prostitutes to get them off the streets. The conservative government sees prostitutes as victims and johns as the victimizers. That's the bottom line here.Prostitution bill would make it illegal to buy, sell sex in publichttp://www.cbc.ca/news/politics/prost...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

So I finally got a chance to review Aaron Clarey´s book Bachelor Pad Economics. The book sells itself as the book that contains everything a man needs to manage his life. And that includes finances, education, career advice, entrepreneurship, women and retirement. I´m going to try and focus on all of the subjects he brings up but I´m hope to cover his advice on women as a main focus. The book Bachelor Pad Economics is not meant to be read from cover to cover but instead be used as a reference book for men at different stages of their lives. When it comes to I agree with Aaron that you have to select the right major because it´s going to change the entire course of your life. Aaron Clarey would have chewed me up for my major. I took Media in college. My parents thought it would have been a better idea for me to take psychology as my undergrad. Thank god I didn´t listen to them and did my own thing. Before starting my third year in college I realized that I wasn't going to get a job after finishing school. So I took the skills that I picked up to that point in college which were photography, video, film and web design and put them to use. So I started building an online advertising business while I was in school. And I was making as much money as my professors in my third year of college while the dot com boom was happening. Aaron says pick the right major but what about if you´re caught up in the middle of a bad major? Do you cut your losses or do you try to make the best of it? Luckily I made the best of it and upon graduation I had my own business to fall back on. I remember being so happy on graduation day because I had built my own job and was ready to go full blast the day after graduation. Most people on graduation day had a terrified look on their face and were pretending to smile. It was the most surreal thing I had seen up to that point in my life. It was my own ingenuity that got me out of that mess. And the money I made while in school paid for my education and I graduated debt free and with money in my pocket. How about that. My motto has always been D is for Degree. So if you are in a major with no future use those four years to build a business while barely passing your classes. That´s what I did. And that´s my unique advice to everyone. And I love Aarons advice: Want to be an actor start a youtube channel. Want to be on radio: Start a podcast. This is exactly what I did instinctively and now the same advice is in his book. The old men and women need the young to leech off of. That´s why it´s good to sidestep the whole thing. Aaron was also kind enough to send me a copy of his other book Worthless: The Young Person's Indispensable Guide to Choosing the Right Major. And it has a breakdown of both the benefits and disadvantages of taking certain college majors. But I don't want to spend too much time on helping men with their education and want to move onto other parts of the book. Just make sure you don't take a stupid college major like art therapy.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This video is mainly to do with my thoughts about CAFE, better known as The Canadian Association For Equality and how they fit into the equal rights movement as well as the men's rights movement. I was out volunteering and shot a video for them this past weekend and had some time to get to know the volunteers instead of just filming a talk by the lecturers they usually have at their events. And I want to share my experience about what I saw and more importantly how I felt about the experience. I'm going to show the video here but if you haven't already I urge everyone to go over to the video on CAFE's youtube page and subscribe to their channel. I'm including a link to the video on their page in the description below. A few days ago I heard Paul Elam at a voice for men says that CAFE needs to recognize the dirty tricks that feminism uses and stand up them instead of being as relaxed about it as they seem to be. I think CAFE is taking the opposite point of view. Correct me if I'm wrong but I think CAFE is doing a great job specifically because their volunteers are more relaxed and easy going and positive. People in general respond better to a positive message then a negative one. If you're in someones face looking angry and mean people will subconsciously think and feel that you're message must also be negative. But if you put on a smile and positive message then more people will listen to you and take your message seriously. It's also hard for people to take you seriously when you're using foul language to get your message across. Or if you're using a negative tone of voice you're not going to have people listen to either MGTOW, MRA or in the case of CAFE (ERA or Equal Rights Associations) because that's the way that I see CAFE. It's not about aiming to push rights for one sex or gender over the other and I think if more groups show up like that then we can reduce the number of radical feminists in society and also reduce the number of misogynists in society. And I believe that we are moving into a future where men and women are going to have to work as partners once more for the simple act of survival. I've said it before and I'll say it again. Just because I choose to go my own way and avoid relationships doesn't mean that most guys in society will embrace the MGTOW movement or consume and digest red pill knowledge. Most men and women will continue to wear their blinders when it comes to relationships and marriage and there is simply no way of changing that. And I don't want to re-iterate that male female relations should go back to some form of traditionalism. We are in uncharted waters. In the history of humanity men and women have never experienced the relative peace stability and freedom that we are enjoying today. And just because we have it today doesn't necessarily mean we will have it tomorrow. CAFE Volunteers Tell You Why They Support Equality Day!https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vHJIR...Sandman (MGTOW) Appreciation Videohttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5rKDC...Canadian Association for Equalityhttp://equalitycanada.com/Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

The question of dating and Men Going Their Own Way has made me ponder whether or not MGTOW men should be dating and what it means for them. Some of you guys out there like the Mayor or MGTOW continue to date and have girlfriends even though they are MGTOWs. Anyways, now I want to get on with the topic of MGTOW dating. Before it was rebuilt there was a section on MGTOW Dot com that explains the different levels of Men Going Their Own Way. The first level of MGTOW is called situational awareness. This level includes men who are aware of the realities that face them in society, and yet deem the risks acceptable to have a go at playing the game. I would consider level one MGTOWs as purple pill kind of guys. They know the risks and dangers of paternity fraud, hyper-gamy, high divorce rates, unfair alimony and these level one guys still say ok the risk is acceptable for them to go forth and multiply. They are comfortable enough going out and dating and looking for a relationship. They have the knowledge about female and male biology and interpersonal relations but their biological drive and imperative is still driving them towards relationships and the red pill alarm bells are going off in their heads but they are still pushing towards long term relationships and marriage. Level one men going their own way are purple pill kind of guys. They haven't given up on dating and women and are possibly out there looking for a woman that's that special one in a million that will make them happy. I would classify Paul Elam over at a voice for men as a level one MGTOW or purple pill kind of guy because he has been in a relationship for about a decade now but I believe he doesn't want to move in with her and get married. Please correct me if I'm wrong but that's the way I see it.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Next time you go up into an airplane and leave the safety of the ground behind remember that it was two lifelong bachelors that developed the earliest technology to allow you to do that. Orville and Wilbur Wright remained permanent bachelors for their entire lives. If they were married the odds would be stacked against them with regards to the amount of time they had to devote to the development of early aviation. How many of us believe that if the Wright Brothers had wives and kids they would risk their lives every time they went up into the air in first flimsy airplanes. They were flying around wearing a suit and tie and didn't even have seat belts in many cases. And in 1908 they went through the first fatal airplane crash where Orville Wright was severely injured and his passenger Thomas Selfridge was killed. This was in front of a crowd of two thousand people. How many of you think that if Orville had a wife and kids and she saw this happen he would never again be allowed to fly again? Thinking about the Wright Brothers kind of reminds me of old videos I watched from the 1950s and 1960s. Those videos were of astronaut wives viewing and visiting the launch pads during their husbands launch into space. And I believe that Nasa and the United States government didn't invite the women to view their husbands blast off into outer space for the wife's sake. I believe they did it to keep the astronauts from chickening out because his wife would apply too much pressure on their husbands. It was a way to pass on some of the husbands honor and attention onto her so that she would leave him alone and not stress him out as much as she would have. You will notice that in early space travel the astronauts wife and other family members always seemed to be front and center in the news footage and government broadcasts. The family element was seemingly just as important as the first step on the moon or the first spacewalk. Many of the Apollo astronaut wives had missionradios from Nasa directly installed in their homes and in many cases in their bedrooms so they could monitor every detail of their husband's missions. Astronauts were under intense pressure to accomplish their missions correctly and the last thing they needed was stress from their wife to distract them. But let me get back to the Wright Brothers.Dollar crisis and oil shortage aren't the end of the worldhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x7Ty3...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

So anyways, here's the question: "Hello Sandman, I am glad that I found your channel and absorbing the MGTOW perspective. Thank you for what you are doing and keep up the good work. In my dating past, I realized that I get attached to a women too quickly which would set the tone of being a SIMP and doing male tricks. A male trick in this case, is a man who spends money in order to gain acceptance by a female. A SIMP is a man that puts himself in a subservient/submissive position under women in hopes of winning them over, while the female brings little to nothing to the table. I have found myself "tricking" and "simping" a bit in the past and luckily it's never put me in the bad and worse case scenario. I have matured and do this type of behavior anymore thank goodness... but I still have the nagging problem that when I get attached to a girl, I begin to envision that "nothing will go wrong" and "happily ever after" relationship. You know, the Disney bullshit. I have realized that when you allow your emotions to control you early in a relationship, it begins to cloud your judgment later on... where there would be a fight between logic and feelings when something suspicious comes up. Also, you are setting up yourself to be taken advantaged off. Recently, I was dealing with a woman that was secretive and "too busy" for me after some time dealing with each other. Although I had no evidence at the time, from intuition I suspected that there was another guy, and eventually I dropped her. It turned out that there was another guy, and luckily I did the right thing. The problem is that I took too long in doing so because feelings were in the way. Because I took too long, i spent too much time, effort and energy on the negative where I could have saved that and use it for something more positive and productive. My question is, how can a man control his emotions?The Purple Pill Of Purgatoryhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p71B1...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

I really have to thank everyone for their support after doing my video yesterday. This video is dedicated to Joseph. I'll use his donation to go to the Toronto Domestic Violence Symposium on June the 6th and 7th. And I'm adding a link to that event in the description below. I'm excited because I get a chance to meet Stephan Molyneux as well as get to hear Miles Groth and Erin Pizzey as well as many other speakers over those two days. Just follow the link and tickets for the full two days is $40 dollars. Hopefully I'll see you there. Anyways, now on to my topic Nawalts or Not All Women Are Like That. I know many of you won't agree with this video and that's fine by me. I just want to open the dialogue and figure out what many of the women that have nawalt qualities might have in common. I received the following email from Jill about a week ago and I want to read it everyone. Anyways here goes: "Hi Sandman, I wanted to first thank you very much for your videos. I enjoy listening to them everyday as I sip my morning coffee. I got hooked by one of your videos and I became a red pill fiend after that. A little background about me is I am 25 year old girl living in the Northwest United States. I currently live at home again with my father who was divorced, robbed, and thrown out in the garbage by my feminist mother about 11 years ago. I went to live with my dad after my mom in turn grew tired of me, robbed me, and threw me out at the age of 17 (of course just a few months shy of my 18th birthday signaling the discontinuation of her child support checks). So after that experience my father and I thankfully became close and I got the father I had always needed but was never allowed. I can firmly attest to how much children truly need their fathers more than their mothers. I say this hoping to become a mother someday. Anyway, that is a little bit of where I am coming from in case you were wondering why a young female listens to your videos. I had a question I thought you could answer. I was wondering if you see a scenario or know of one where men turn to MGTOW or become more interested in MRA at the very least without having their backs broken by the system/women first? It seems like every man who comes to this conclusion must first pay a very heavy price for it. And I'm sorry I know it probably seems odd that I would feel compelled to contact you as I am a woman. I understand that, but your videos have helped me tremendously so thank you for your work and the time you took to read this. Well, thanks for your question Jill. I don't know you personally Jill and I don't know the types of romantic relationships in your life but I do know other women in my life that have gone through similar experiences where they didn't received a negative upbringing from their fathers and a positive upbringing from their mothers. But from everything you say you understand MGTOW and I can assume that you understand the dark side of female nature and the good side of male nature so you are probably in the not all women are like that category.Toronto Domestic Violence Symposium. June 6/7http://torontodv.com/Sandman 2https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCumK...costume:http://www.ebay.com/itm/Uncle-Sam-Eli...http://www.ebay.com/itm/UNCLE-SAM-PAT...mask:http://www.aliexpress.com/item/SF-12-...http://www.aliexpress.com/item/SH-9-T...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this video I want to let everyone know that there is good chance that my identity is about to be exposed and people in the public might become aware that I'm part of the MGTOW movement. I understood that it could happen at some point but it was still a surprise to me because I had many different taken precautions to keep my identity private. I won't get into any details about what's happening at this time. But I can explain the reasons why I believe this is happening. And of all the reasons I think it has to do with a story I did about Elliot Rodger a few days ago. Apparently the fact that I say that Elliot Rodger is a Feminist in the title of that video which I'm including in the description below might have pissed someone off. The reason I used that title as I outlined in the video was to draw attention to the power of false headlines. Feminists called Elliot Rodger an MRA without any connection to Men's rights and claimed that he went on rampage because of it. Myself as well as many other people called them out on this and apparently they didn't like this. So now they are contacting people about it. One person that I personally. So let me re-iterate what I have already said in my last video. Elliot Rodger is not a Feminist or an MRA and I wanted to bring attention to the fact that headlines are sometimes more powerful then the stories that are beneath them. And a couple of days ago I was saying that you're not over the target unless you take flak. Well it looks like the flak just hit the side of my plane and took a big chunk out of it. So I guess I'm kind of shaken up at this point and having a hard time keeping it together. I'm pretty sure that some feminist out there saw the headline and thought to herself how do we make trouble for Sandman. And at this point if my identity comes out fully into the open then I will have no choice but to accept that and continue making videos. I believe in Men Going Our Own Way enough to put myself on the line. When I was in University one of my professors said that if you're going to getting into trouble then do it for something you believe something that you can stand behind and something worth dying for. In some way MGTOWs are not only fighting for our own individual rights and freedoms but also for the future fate of civilization. The consumer culture we live in is destroying the world and burning up our fossil fuel inheritance which will be mostly gone or too expensive to dig up in thirty to forty years. And for what make-up, McMansions and Caribbean vacations. What's also also kind of ironic that the first person I contacted to help me in this situation was a woman and I called her to ask for her advice. This is one of the few women I would consider a Nawalt because she has been one of the few women I've met that was able to give without expecting something back in return. And I feel that I've done the same with her. And of course my male friends are also listening to me at this time. I won't say anything else about about what happened.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy