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The title for this video obviously gives away the topic. Yesterday I was talking to a friend of mine and he just started dating someone and told me that he was setting aside five hundred dollars a month so that he could pay for dates with a girl he started dating a few weeks ago. That's just less then half of his rent money and he said that money was set aside for two or three dates a week with him spending a modest forty to fifty dollars for each date. It wouldbe mostly average quality restaurants he was planning on taking her to as well as movies. And he would pay for the tickets and popcorn. He just shrugged his shoulders and said that's just the way it is. I interrupted and said that doesn't have to be the way it is. I never spent that much money dating per month in the past. And my partners didn't leave me for being cheap if I wanted to act that way. I hardly spent any money. For me money was to be saved and used on big trips and to purchase things that gain value over time or pay for themselves. Not things that depreciate in value. I also told him he could get two or three decent call girls a month for that price and have the guarantee of sex. I told him that if he was going to pay that kind of money to take women out on dates that he was failing the shit test women were putting him through. Men think that women expect men to pay for dinner, pick them up and drop them off after the date. I'm wouldn't be shy to leave a woman at the subway station and let her find her own way home, even if it's the middle of the night. In the past women would complain about why I wasn't giving them a ride home or paying for a cab to take them home. But guess what? I would always go out with them after that. If a woman is attracted to you and wants to sleep with you she will often times complain that you're not treating her like a princess. And I've had other friends confirm this behavior. And I think it has to do with being shit tested. And like any other shit test it never ends. And the moment you spend tons of money for a couples dinner the woman loses respect for you. And if you don't she nags at you. It's a catch 22 or Kobayashi Maru Test. There is no way to win the a no win scenario. Just ask Captain Kirk. The only way he won the no-win scenario in his days in Star Trek was to reprogram the computer. So in essence he cheated on the test. With female biology you can't cheat unless like I've said in the past you rewire women's DNA. In the future if by some miracle we can rework our genetic makeup or rewire our minds then it might be possible. But the way things stand today the only way to win a no win scenario with women is not to the play the game and go your own way.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

I was thinking about the idea of the dowry recently. I was talking to a friend about the past and how today society views women as virtuous while in the past they were considered a burden. In most cultures women came with a dowry to ease the financial pain for the men and families they married into. The dowry is essentially a forced transfer of wealth from the brides family to the grooms family. You are paying someone else to take her away so to speak. It was a way for a woman's relations to essentially bribe the new family to take her from them. In recent history European culture they were called the hope chest or glory box. But they go back all the way to Babylonian, Greek and ancient Romantimes. And in most of the ancient world it was the brides parents and the brides husband that had the authority to control the assets found in the dowry. You can see why in that case many people can look back into history and say society must have been patriarchal if men were the ones controlling dowries. But we have to remember that the contents of the the dowry were earned by the brides parents and were there to help the husband cover the costs of starting a household. After-all it was the men that provided the majority of the economic support through agriculture up until the industrial revolution. The dowry, an asset that was created to help men offset the financial burden of marriage is considered by many of today's feminists as an asset that proves that men were trying to oppress women by not letting them control their own financial destiny. That's the equivalent of saying that parents are oppressing their children if they buy them clothing for Christmas instead of letting them buy nothing but toys. What most people feminists fail to recognize that a man had multiple daughters he had to setup multiple dowries for their future marriages. Seems to me like the fathers forced to pay out dowries were the ones that were being oppressed financially. And in Italy during the Renaissance the hope chests or dowry boxes were often worth more then the contents of the hope chests It was all about the illusionthat men had the means to pay outrageous dowries for daughters. Some of them looked so elaborately decorated that they resembled the arc of the covenant. I know in Indian culture that many dowries are quite literally full of real gold coins and jewelry. And that gold is often passed on from generation to generation. Which is one of the main reasons why India's gold consumption has gone up with it's population and economic prosperity.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

First of all I'd like to thank Jacek for your donation. He said that my youtube channel has changed his life so I'm dedicating this video to him. Anyways, a couple of days ago someone told me he was planning on living into his old age single so that he could get action at the old age home. He even went as far as to refer to old age homes as brothels with wrinkles. And if he makes it to the old age home he'll essentially have his pick of all the old women living there. My answer to him is that is if women in their thirties and forties are little interested in sex what makes you think that women in their seventies and eighties will have an interest? What makes you think you'll even keep it up in a nursing home. When I used to visit my grandmother at the nursing home there were about eight to nine old women for every single old men that I saw in there. The few men I saw in there were in wheel chairs and couldn't take care of themselves at home. So they put themselves in the nursing homes instead. It was really sad to see forty to sixty year old men stuck in nursing homes and where were the other men? I'm assuming they are either dead or at home. I think the one thing many of us aren't thinking about is that many women take care of their sick husbands at home so that's why I didn't see them in the nursing homes and hospitals my grandmother was in. Either that or they were all dead. But let's make the assumption that women from the greatest generation, that's the generation that fought in the second world war and gave birth to the baby boomers are doing the honorable thing to do and staying with their husbands as they get Alzheimer and other diseases that make them bed ridden. Do you really think the selfish women from the boomer generation are going to stick it out with their husbands or do you think they will leave their dying wrinkled husbands in bed, divorce them and head the casino? Maybe it's cheaper to keep HIM in this case. Nursing homes are expensive costing two or three thousand dollars a month not including the medication. But neglecting your husband at home while he dies a slow or not so slow death might be the way to go for many women. What do you guys think? Do you think that elderly women are keeping their elderly husbands at home and possibly in squalor and without the proper means to take care of them so they have an extra two to three thousand dollars per month? Do you think this is love? Or do you think it comes down to economics and economic opportunism? That extra couple thousand sure buys a lot of fun at the bingo hall.Barbados: Older persons contracting HIV/AIDShttp://www.jamaicaobserver.com/latest...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

What happens if you take the red pill when you turn forty, fifty, sixty or even seventy years old? What happens when you've already raised a family or are finishing up the process when you realize how gynocentric culture works and that your wife will never change? And that for the rest of your married life you will have to listen to her, deal with her outrageous demands and accept it otherwise you'll have to go through a messy divorce, lost more then half of your assets and most likely spend the remainder of your life explaining away to your children that you left your mother because you took the red pill and saw the light. Do you really think your children are going to forgive you for leaving their mother or for spending their inheritance on lawyers to leave your mother? Especially if there is no real reason for you to leave. So many men in this position figure out that it's just cheaper to keeper. Staying in an unhappy and unfulfilled relationship for the sake of keeping your money, your friends and your children around are fair trade offs for many men that consider leaving their wives later in life. It takes a lot of guts to leave someone after a decade or two or more of marriage. You know that you will lose a lot and what you have to gain might not be worth it. So at this point in your life like I mentioned it's "Cheaper to Keeper." Then there's the issue of grand children as well. This is yet another guilt trip to keep you from leaving. A lot of people assume that it's all about money when leaving a woman you've been married to for twenty or thirty years. A lot also has to do with the emotional toll. Imagine the guilt trips from close family members, friends, relatives and the fact that society makes you feel like you're going to die all alone. But it's not like the nursing homes and the hospitals are going to turn you away just because you're divorced. I think the real reason people say it's cheaper to keep her is because it's an excuse. You don't want to uproot your life this late in the games and start all over again. In many cases it's too late to start all over again. I pull the eject button on my last relationship after ten years because there was no future for that relationship because I wanted a family and wasn't going to get one. So it was time to leave and luckily I managed to stumble into the red pill. In my case it was more expensive to stay. I felt I could still salvage my life, have a family and meet someone new. Now I don't want that anymore. The most I feel I want at this point is a child through surrogacy. Someone to raise and provide all the emotional support I never got when I was younger. Not a child to treat like a possession or a commodity. And I'm acquainted with loss at this point in my life and am willing to let that child go and live for themselves when they don't need me anymore.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

I've been thinking about putting this video together for sometime now. And I'm dedicating this video to William as a thank you for his donation and for making this video possible. Yesterday I got a message on youtube from Mr. Guitar Man one eight seven. And he said if I wanted to get the leg up on other video producers I should produce a video on the cock carousel. He says that no one has covered the topic, so I decided that today would be the day when I would take a shot at it. The reasons why women ride the cock carousel are varied. The more sexual partners they have the more notches they gain on their belt because society is increasingly telling women to measure themselves according to men's standards. Another reason is that thirty to forty years ago it was expected for a woman to be married and having children when she was in her early to mid twenties. After all those are her most fertile days. Yet society is telling women to build their careers, get an education and date in their twenties instead of settling down and having a family. Women's biological drive is to want to have sex in their twenties. This is the most sex filled decade in their lives for most women. At least the ones I've been with and the ones I've talked to about it. Women after thirty five still want sex but are usually seeking it out if they don't have a regular sex partner. Essentially you can't blame women for wanting sex, but you can blame them from jumping around from one sexual partner to the next. I blame the media and popular culture where women are told to jump from guy to guy. And it's socially acceptable for them to do so. Yet many of the women riding the cock carousel are either ignorant or unaware of the dangers that are found in the bedroom. They don't understand that STDs like HPV and herpes can be spread even while wearing condoms and that the more sex they have the higher their risk for getting cancer or never being able to have children.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Yesterday I got a paid video request and this is what Adam is requesting: "Hi Sandman, I'm not entirely sure if this query can constitute an entire video on the subject, or maybe you have already done a video on this particular topic and I've missed it, but what is your opinion on males in a predominantly female job setting? For example, I myself will be attending college in a few weeks and will be majoring in nursing. I will be doing it not for female attention or anything shallow, but I feel like it is a much more available avenue than the pre-med major for those wanting to go into medical school after undergraduate work. I do know that men in nursing are very valuable, mostly due to their scarcity and willingness to work more hours. I have been watching your videos for a few months, and you frequently mention how women often try to subjugate men who are achieving, and that you have become an object of great value to women because you refuse to play their games and have taken the red pill. I feel like I will be put under many similar circumstances, especially since I will essentially be surrounded by women I must compete with academically in a class with few other men. To refine my question a bit more, how do you think men should handle themselves in a career that is heavily female? Do you believe that men entering a female dominated field is even a good choice, despite the relatively high wages earned? Any kind of feedback would be greatly appreciated, even if it's just a short message back explaining your take on the matter. Thank You" That's what Adam has to say and it got me thinking about nursing as well as other jobs and careers where women make up the majority of workers. Most of us already know that most elementary and middle school teachers, human resources managers and nurses are women but there are many other careerswhere women make up sixty to seventy percent of the staff. The problem with men going into jobs and fields that are heavily female is that competing with women in those field because will make many women look incompetent and threaten their pecking order especially if the man is better then a woman at that job. But that isn't the only thing men have to worry about. I have a male friend of mine that's an elementary school teacher. And just for the record 82% of elementary school teachers are women. He doesn't put as much effort into his class or the kids that he teaches and all the other female teachers are attacking him for not working himself to death. He leaves school at 4pm doesn't do any extra curricular activities and spends his time at home grading kids papers. Many of the female teachers in his school are constantly giving him grief for not doing enough. He used to do more then his fair share and the female teachers used to get angry at him and shamed him into doing less. Now they think he's not doing enough. It's like the female teachers are putting him through shit tests while he works. The only saving grace for him is that the principal is one of the rare male principals and he doesn't like dealing with the female teacher either. My advice to men working in female dominated fields is that you will be resented. I would handle myself very cautiously in that field and assume that no one is your friend. And that they are looking to cut you down. The last thing they want is a man to prove he can do a "so called" woman's job better.20 Fields Women Are Taking Overhttp://www.forbes.com/2011/03/07/wome...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

So I recently finished watching a two part movie series called Nymphomaniac about a sex crazed woman that rides the cock carousel her entire life. For her, sex is the ultimate drug and the defining experience for her existence The film is about the Nymphomaniac telling her life story to a sixty year old man who is a virgin and also a man going his own way. Essentially the story is about the interactions between a woman riding the cock carousel her entire life and a man that has absolutely no interest in women whatsoever. She's telling him her story and he says he can be the best judge because he has sexual desires and therefore he can remain the most unbiased. He's more interested in reading books and fly fishing. He did try masturbation when he was younger but it did nothing for him so he stays asexual his entire life. If you don't want any spoilers then please go watch the two part film before continuing on with my review video. Just be warned that I will give away the story here. So let me go forward then. There are tons of holes in the script and the film is kind of a place where many actors careers go to die. The films supporting cast include Uma Thurman, Christian Slater and Shia Labeouf all sporting the worst English accents since Angelina Jolie in Tomb Raider. The only good actor in that group was was Uma Thurman. When the Nymphomaniac, she's called Joe in the film steals her husband she goes over to her apartment and tries to shame her husband as well as Joe. And she says that Joe has ruined at least five or six lives in the process. I thought this was the best scene in the film because it shows the damage riding the cock carousel truly does in our society. More often then not women have power over men's hearts and can ruin families, destroy men emotionally and leave others to pick up the pieces. Not to mention the fact that riding the cock carousel only increases the prevalence of sexually transmitted diseases in our society. The film also doesn't really talk too much about sexually transmitted diseases and pretends like they don't exist. Anyone sleeping with thousands of people throughout her lifetime like Joe the main character in this film would probably have more green slime from the teenage mutant ninja turtles oozing out of their insides. The film tried to skirt around that as much as possible by being set in the nineteen fifties, sixties and seventies before the time of aids and HIV. But I believe there are also parts of the film that are set in the nineteen eighties and nineties. There is a certain level of obscurity in the film that isn't explained.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This video has been a long time coming. I've been thinking about the shit test and why and how women put men through these types of tests. If ever there is a reason to go your own way this is it. And as far as I can tell the shit test is a way for a woman to test a man and see if he is worthy of her. If he is truly a man, whatever that's supposed to mean. But in the process he deal with the psychological torment of doubting his own manhood and having mind games inflicted on him. I say thanks but no thanks! Now that I know how shit tests work there is no reason to ever go through one again. When I used to have to take shit tests I would feel like one of these Eukanuba super dogs having to jump through hoops because my partners wanted me to. If you fail the shit test then a woman loses respect for you. Here's an example I want to share from one of my friends. He's currently married and weighs two hundred and fifty pounds but when he met his wife he only weighed one hundred and fifty pounds. His current wife was only his girlfriend at the time. And she told him she likes chubby guys. So what does he do? He gains 100 pounds because she likes him that way. But the thing is he had just finished losing one hundred pounds to attract a girlfriend and once he got her he gained it all back. I believe that she was putting him through a shit test to see how much of man he really was and he ended up failing the test by doing what she wanted and gaining the weight back. Back in my early twenties I was with a woman that wanted me to do the same, gain weight. I thought it had to do with her own insecurities about her weight. And there was no way in hell I was going to do what she wanted. I didn't feel like turning myself into a walking rectangle because she wanted me to. She put me through many other shit tests as well and I held my own and kept telling her no over and over again. Then she decided that she wanted to move to another city and gave me an ultimatum to leave with her. I told her no way and ended the relationship. I was done. I thought she was being selfish and to a certain extent she was. But in reality she was bluffing and it was all a more elaborate shit test then the last one she put me through. Women put men through shit tests constantly and subconsciously. They want to know that the men they are in a relationship with or dating have other options besides them. They want to know that a man is not needy but there are other women fighting for his attention as well. If he willing to stand up for himself then he's willing to stand up for her if she chooses to be his man. The problem is the shit tests never end. Even when a woman has a firm grip on a man she will constantly keep putting him through them until the day the relationship comes to an end.The Threathttp://therationalmale.com/2012/02/10...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Yesterday I spoke about men going their own way preparing for life as senior citizens and I only briefly touched upon the issue of getting your living situation right from the standpoint of money. Today I want to go into more depth about it. But before I start this video I'm going to put a big disclaimer on my advice. I'm not selling anything and if you lose any money in the short or long term following my advice I can't be held accountable for it. It's just my own opinion after all. And I have been known to be wrong from time to time. But I've also been known to be right as well. So take everything with a grain of salt. So the first financial hurdle men need to get over is getting out of as much debt as possible or trying to get rid of it completely. Debt is good for the economy but it's bad for individuals. If you're the lender you collect interest on your money and profit from it. But if you're the debtor others profit off the repayment of your debts. If you can't afford a new car then buy a used one with cash money and avoid the debt. The only time it makes sense to lease a vehicle is if you are writing it off as a business expense. Using credit cards makes sense only if you pay off the complete balance each and every month in full. And getting a credit card with points is an awesome idea. I have a card up here in Canada that knocks off roughly twenty cents off the cost of a gallon of gas when I use it with it's points. I also tend to find the cheapest filling stations with the best quality gas in the city and stick to those. Don't buy Costco gas just because it's cheaper, you'll have more mechanical and performance issues with your car. Another tip is always purchase your own car parts and find a mechanic that will only charge you for installation. Most mechanics put cheap parts in your car and charge you the price for the best parts. Better yet if you can do the work yourself then that's a good idea as well. But before I give you anymore juicy tidbits like this one let me go over the types of wealth. There are three types of wealth, primary, secondary and promissory wealth. Primary wealth is ownership of productive land. If you own farmland, an oil well, a gold mine etc then you have primary wealth. You can always use that land to produce oil, food and precious metals to produce and convert the value of those goods into money and income. Most of us can't afford to own farmland or a gold mine. But if you're ever in the position where you can then I would advise taking it. Owning a large multi acre estate will mean producing your own food and possibly having your own serfs working the land in the future. You could be the ruler of a little MGTOW Fiefdom. With regards to secondary wealth I'm talking about the final end result product from productive land. This means stored food, such as grains, preserves, burnable wood if you have a woodlot and of course gold, silver, copper and any other materials that were pulled out of a mine in the ground. The major difference between primary wealth and secondary wealth is that secondary wealth is a derivative of primary wealth. And if you manage it poorly and spend it then you will lose it.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Today's video is brought to you by a donation from Joe. And this is what Joe has to say: Hi Sandman, Here's a topic which you might want to cover some day. "What are single (or divorced) men going to face when we become senior citizens, and reach a time when we become more and more needy and dependent? We won't have family to take care of us that's for sure! Feel free to touch on any aspect of this question you like. Aspects that come to my mind are: women-bias in government provided services (will it continue into seniors or will men actually start to be cared about more, since society actually claims to care about senior's rights. Feel free to project out into the future when the baby-boom demographic's impact is in full force. Or alternatively perhaps you've got some ideas about what men should do to prepare for this. Thanks for the videos and cheers." Well that's what Joe has to say. After watching this video try watching another video I put together many months ago called "The Oldest MGTOW I Know." That video is about a ninety year old MGTOW man and his lifestyle. I'm adding a link to that video in the description below. Now I want to answer some of Joe's questions. I think the first thing we need to consider is that many of the baby boomers will not make it to the same age as their parents. There is an epidemic of obesity hitting the population. And the whole idea of men getting more care into old age I don't see it happening. Joe visit any nursing home and you'll notice that eighty to ninety percent of the people in nursing homes are women. And that includes both the nursing staff and the patients. Most men in the baby boomer generation will not see nursing homes. They will be long dead before being putting into one. The film Cocoon from the nineteen eighties is funny because it shows an even mix of males and females in nursing homes waiting for Steve Gutenberg to save them. That's how I pictured nursing homes too. And in that film none of the seniors seemed to suffer mental illness. After the way I've been treated by many women in my life is it wrong for me to wish that they finish their final years in a nursing home? Women it seems are entitled to living longer then ever and extending their lifespan at the cost of men's happiness and lives. As far as I'm concerned women can enjoy those final five years of life in a nursing home covered in their own feces waiting for uncaring nurses to take care of them. With regards to the aging baby-boomers they are nostalgic group. They enjoy products and services that remind them of their youth. And most people don't know this but the boomers are set to inherit a huge amount of wealth from their parents, the greatest generation. That's the generation that fought in the second world war. And they are passing away as we speak and it's almost certain that the baby boomers will not live as long as them. I predict that most baby boomers won't see the age where dementia kills them. Instead I predict that cancer and heart disease will kill off most of them. You can't eat shit your entire life, not exercise and expect to live to eighty five or ninety.The Oldest MGTOW I Knowhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IfQwm...MR E at Slutwalk 2014https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GoZQW...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy