MGTOW Sandman Quotes

Everyone knows that women prefer Alpha males. The men that are financially successful, good looking, muscular, tall, have a full head of hair and have a charming personality and say the right thing at the right time. An alpha male can be any man that has put effort into improving his outward appearance for the rest of the world and most specifically to women. Women look for strong outside qualities in males because those are the same types of things that most women are taught to value in themselves. A woman is supposed to project success and so should her man. That's how they see things. And being a successful man it seems has very little to do with having a rich and meaningful inner life, finding inner peace and happiness. Being an alpha is about being the opposite of that. It's about conformity and changing yourself to accommodate to what women want. You come second and everything you do is for her first and foremost even though society has convinced you that you're doing it for yourself and to get laid. That's why whenever I see an alpha male with his wife and three or four kids attached to him I feel like it's poetic justice. Men like him were apparently luck to get the hot women in their twenties and marry them. And now they often resemble a shell of an alpha man. While most women are after alpha males, many beta and omega men are also guilty of being attracted to beautiful Alpha females that radiate youth, sexuality, health and fitness. But most beta and omega men have no idea about the dangers inherent in such women. Inside of them they too wish they were alphas. To be a true alpha male it's almost like you've had to be an alpha male from a very young age. If you're a big, dominant kid growing up with lots of confidence and you rule over the other kids you feel confident in your social skills and physical prowess early on because you are using them to put other males down then it's easy for you to move forward in life and have your pick of the women. You essentially have almost everything going for you at a young age. But if you start your young life as an Omega male and your social skills, physical appearance and other outward qualities are poor you are effectively handicapped for the rest of your life and will most likely never become an Alpha male. You will probably never become the quarterback and run off with the home coming queen. Instead most men that are omegas early on will continue to feel down about themselves for the rest of their lives.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

"Hi Sandman, If you need inspiration then talking about Countess Bathory might open a Pandora box on female nature. Please take my suggestion seriously. Thank You." Well, MR. Anonymous I am going to take your suggestion seriously and do a video about her. This is a topic I've been wanting to cover for a while now and hopefully this will be the first part in a series of videos called female serial killers. Countess Bathory was known as Countess Dracula or the Blood Countess because she had apparently killed up to six hundred and fifty girls in her castle and according to legends she bathed in their blood. She would hire local servant girls from the towns around her, bring them to her castle for work and then punish them in treacherous and murderous ways. Her subjects were scared of her were scared of standing up to her. There's more to this story then we know. And bathing in blood was nothing compared to what she was doing to these women. She kept the girls would be in cages and she would pierce them with a lance and blood would rain down onto her from the cages above. And she almost got away with treating her subjects in this way because they were Slovaks and not Hungarians. The Hungarians looked down on the Slovaks as being sub-human so other Hungarians didn't care how she treated her servant girls. Also back then torch-er and cruelty were accepted as part of the normal way the wealthy aristocrats against the peasants. She controlled the peasants and dished out cruelty. But being cruel wasn't considered anything special. When Countess Barthory was eventually put on trial she was charged with excessive and extra-ordinary cruelty. Many of the stories about her don't really talk about the fact that these ethnic tensions existed in the country at that time. And the more I research about her the more I notice that her lashing out at these servant girls has a lot to do with the death of her husband and the loss of her land and power. She took out the fear and anxiety of aging and losing her prestige on these poor Slovak girls. And her husband, before he died taught her the star kicking. This is a procedure where you take a servant girl and little pieces of paper soaked in oil, put them between the servant girls toes and then and you set the paper of fire and the servant kicks and sees stars from the pain. Countess Bathory came from a culture that was more Klingon then human. And I'm not defending her cruelty. I'm just saying it's not as cut and dry as we'd like to think. But what's shocking is that even with the rumors of her killing servant girls people still wanted to work for her. That's how desperate times were in Hungary because most of the young men were dying in on the front lines with the Turks so parents often sold their own daughters into slavery to her as a way to survive.Elizabeth Bathory -The Blood Countess-Part 1/3https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jU98g...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hi Sandman, I have been a subscriber for a while now and enjoy your intelligent, thoughtful and frank persuasive speeches. I am pushing 50 and work in a government lab testing sewage. I hate the job and have been passed over affirmative action style so I am retiring soon to try my hand at ghosting. I am very angry over the way things turned out at work and am tired of being used as a very productive utility minus all rewards for my output, creativity, knowledge, intelligence, dedication, etc. Add to that I am raped by the IRS every five years or so leaving me with nothing to show for my work but a sore body, I've had it, I'm done. Now that I've gotten that out of the way here's the topic I want to talk about. I recall that you are not hostile to Christians, which is refreshing these days. Sadly, and I include myself in this category as a Christian, many of us are God's worst enemies at times. All I can say in defense of us Christians is as bad as we are, we would be much worse without our hefty moral code. I was wondering if you wouldn't mind commenting about some ancient Biblical insight into the nature of women and see how it squares with what MGTOW sees the modern woman as being. Anyways, there is some interesting secular stuff re: women in the Psalms and Proverbs that perhaps you will like. If you don't have a Bible, there are dozens of free ones on the web. I'll cite some passages you might be interested in." Well Ray thanks for your questions and comments and for offering the passages. I'll go through them and give you my analysis. But before I do I just need to say that hopefully you're not catholic and won't mind that I took the liberty of using images of nuns for this video? While I have no personal beef with Christianity I still believe that turns many men into manginas. Christianity is bad for men when it comes to women because if a government or a woman uses you are you supposed to just turn the other cheek and let her do it again? Christianity is about avoid the pain that others inflict on you or taking it and then asking for more. If you ask me that's a wee bit sadomasochistic. And that could explain to some extent why you've decided to stay in a government lab for as long as you have testing sewage. And why you simply didn't walk away and find another job when you were passed up for promotions for many years. Do yourself a favor and look into your motivations and try and figure out if guilt from Christianity is driving your own motivations and drives.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

First of all let me discuss the idea that making weed is some feminist conspiracy. I don't think it is but it certainly has elements of gynocentrism to it. I believe that cannabis was made illegal to protect corporate profits through the sale of cigarettes, cotton clothing and industrial chemicals. Cannabis can also grow in soils that aren't the best quality so it can be grown almost anywhere. So even the most traditionally unproductive land can grow it. Mexicans also tended to smoke the plant in the southwest United States in the early twentieth century so I think to some extent the farmers in that region thought if they got rid of the plant then they would get rid of the Mexicans moving to the southwest. And we've seen how well that's worked over the last one hundred years. Criminilization was racially motivated as well to a certain extent. The newspaper magnate Hearst also published articles claiming that black men were more likely to raping white women when they were smoking weed. Harry J. Anslinger also testified in front of congress saying that “Marijuana is the most violence causing drug in the history of mankind.” The goal was to scare people in power into criminalizing it. But in 1948 he contradicted himself by saying that Marijuana users become peaceful and pacifists and that Communists would use marijuana to weaken America's will to fight the red menace. So clearly this drug changes depending on the politician trying to make it illegal. Using the argument that weed made men violent most certainly got female approval for the prohibition of this plant. But I think the real reason it was made illegal is due to the fact that it made people more dependent on the oil industry for fuel. The cotton industry for clothing and Dupont chemicals for plastics and paints and other things that could be made from the plant. If anyone else has any other stories leave them in the comments section. I strongly believe it was a big business conspiracy and not a feminist one that made cannabis illegal. With regards to women that I know that are pot smokers. Come to think of it that supposed nawalt that I know is a regular pot smoker. That could have something to do with her views and her ability to do long term thinking. But she doesn't have any kids so I'm not sure she would smoke if she had them.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

"Sandman, this is Anton McDowell, I am a guest writer at Return of Kings who focuses on MGTOW issues. There has been a lot of talk in both the MGTOW and PUA/game circles about feminist's diehard opposition to prostitution. After thinking about the economics of prostitution I came up with a theory. For most goods and services as demand increases so does the price which curbs further increase in demand, this is called negative feedback. However, in countries like Germany where prostitution was legalized the price slowly dropped over time. In a country where prostitution is illegal beta males who haven't achieved their full career potential often go without their sexual desires being filled which makes them easy marks for marriage-minded women when they become rich enough. In a country with legal prostitution men will see a hooker early on and eventually become accustomed to the ease of it rather than developing any kind of game (alpha or beta provider). Over time the women who were counting on husbands to save them from things like student loans for worthless degrees find that they have few options and become hookers themselves. Since the ratio of johns to hookers is probably about 40:1 or higher a small increase in hookers will affect the supply much more than an increase in johns will affect the demand so prices will fall. As prices fall hookers must see more clients which drives up the supply even more and pulls more men out of the marriage market. This is known as positive feedback. A shift in the market leads to a bigger shift in the same direction. I suspect this is why many feminists fight decriminalization so much. Without natural barriers like STDs to curb prostitution it could grow almost without limit in a free market economy if artificial constraints weren't put in place. Your thoughts? Thank You." Well Anton your analysis is right as a small increase in the number of women willing to sell themselves on the market will dramatically reduce the price. I remember reading stories about one woman in Germany that was willing to sell herself for a big mac at McDonalds. Apparently that's how saturated the brothel marketplace is in Germany. The thing to remember about Germany is that there aren't simply German women working there but women from all over Europe. Many beautiful Eastern European women come to Germany to participate in the sex trade. So that drives the prices down further then in say places like North America where selling sexual services is about a more fairly balanced market. Think of it this way. If you're the German citizen and you're pro German then do you really want German women selling their bodies on the street. Or would it make more sense to bring in foreign labor into your country and have them fulfill that duty?Hitler ordered sex dolls to stop Nazis sleeping with prostituteshttp://metro.co.uk/2011/07/12/hitler-...Meet Italy's Most Famous Gigolohttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bzRsM...DICK BY THE FOOT - Redonkulas.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NLQ7D...Return Of Kingshttp://www.returnofkings.com/Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

"Hi Sandman, I was thinking about a possible topic, but this topic you may not like. Looking deep into the future, in a hypothetical circumstance where women are finally willing to negotiate new terms on relationship dynamics. What would you see as a workable set of expectations for both sexes? Well, thanks for your question Shoveler. First of all this is a question is more of an MRA then a MGTOW question. But I will try to answer it, because I do support to some extent what the MRA is doing. Many MRA's are hopeful about the future whereas men going their own way are more realistic about our prospects with women in the future. Our view is unique in that most of us don't have the complete lack of empathy that many PUAs have towards women but we don't have the same amount of hope and empathy that MRAs have towards women and society in general. Our philosophy is balanced and healthy because we are realists. And being realists we see female nature for what it is and we try to remove the mangina goggles from our eyes. The only way I see women re-negotiating with men is if women once again become dependent on men for their livelihoods and there's no birth control and the end of no fault divorce. Women are now entitled to these things and they will fight for them tooth and nail. And they will not negotiate as long as they have the upper hand. Women have more rights then men in our society today. Women have more political power and access to financial resources through their own jobs and through men as by proxy wage earners. Women have it good in relationships where they earn less then their husbands and partners. If you had it that good you wouldn't want to negotiate, you'd try to get more. And that's exactly what feminism is about, ever increasing privilege for women inside and outside relationships. And with gynocentric culture it's all or nothing. You can't have half of females falling into subservient roles while the other half continue to use men and the state. It has to be all or nothing. As soon as you give one group of women a choice, immediately other groups of women will want that choice as well if it offers some kind of benefit. That's why there are so many women against feminism popping up. Because they see women like Karen Straughan and Alison Tieman and they see the comments section where hundreds of men say this is their dream girl and they think to themselves, I want men saying that about me. The three videosI have up with Girl Writes What are littered with such comments. The few female friends I've shown Karen's videos instantly start trashing her, calling her a man but they won't admit to themselves that they are jealous of all the attention that she gets.MOTHER COW PROVES ANIMALS LOVE, THINK & ACThttp://www.globalanimal.org/2012/04/1...Why more women choose not to marryhttp://www.cnn.com/2014/10/15/opinion...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

"Hi Sandman I have a question for you. Why not use the enemy's weapon, hypergamy, against them? My plan is to find a woman with many times more net worth than myself and marry her. If all goes well, I stay.. or else I get divorced and well compensated for my trouble. Is there anything wrong with my logic? Thanks for your work!" Well, thanks for your question Howard. First of all hypergamy isn't really a weapon. It's more like a subconscious drive to find a man with resources or status. Remember hypergamy isn't always about money either. What you have to question is the motives of this unicorn of a woman with high net worth. Have you met a woman like this? Has she shown interest in you? Until you find her and start talking to her this is all a bunch of hypothetical mumbo jumbo. As if by some crazy chance lately I'm been thinking the same thing to a certain extent. And I've been talking to someone over the last few weeks that probably fits the bill of the person you're looking for. She most likely makes double the income that I do but I'm pretty sure her net worth isn't near mine. But she's the same age as me, thirty six and probably wants to focus on having a family, perhaps even tomorrow. She might have baby rabies and is doing a good job hiding that fact. Also she's from Asia and she's not white. So I'm the big white devil that potentially brings status to her as she's embracing the western way of life. And the fact that she's worked her way up the corporate ranks and navigated her way through the land of the cocky alpha male means that if she has any character flaws she probably knows how to cover them really well. Howard, if you meet a woman that makes a lot of money at a high paying career chances are she knows how to hide her character flaws very well. Also you have to think rationally. Why would a woman like that go after you? If you're an ordinary average male it probably won't happen. The only men I've seen successfully get women way above their financial status are men the can woe a woman. One guy is an Elvis Impersonator and the other is a Tom Jones Impersonator. They are both successful with women because they have their swagger down.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

You're probably thinking to yourself right now how in the hell can Ebola trigger the Fempocalyse? But if last year's winter storm up here in the Heartland of Canada was any indication then imagine how Ebola would effect the relations between men and women. Last year the power went out for a few days in the dead of winter, about a week before Christmas. And I was out with a camera shooting the ordeal. And I'm putting a link to that video in the description below. What I observed was the men going out and restoring power, cleaning the road and cleaning up the mess. While women either went Christmas shopping at one of the few malls where power was still running. Or women were predominently watching from indoors as their husbands, sons and workmen solved the problems. What do you think would happen if there was an Ebola pandemic? Do you really think women and children would leave their homes in such a case. Or do you see think women would send men out to get food, supplies and risk getting sick? I wouldn't be surprised if some men had to live in a sort of quarantine in the garage to protect the health of their families if such a thing happened. And most men wouldn't complain because after all they were just protecting their families. Yesterday I heard about a Texas nurse, Nina Phan, that got Ebola from Eric Duncan, the man that brought Ebola to Dallas from Africa to America. Nina Phan took all the necessary precautions to protect herself from Ebola but they weren't enough to protect her. One question remains: Is Ebola an airborne disease now? And if the answer is yes we could be facing a major global pandemic where seventy to eighty percent of the people that get Ebola will die from it. Imagine if thirty, forty or fifty percent of the global population was dead or dying in six months to a year? I know I'm painting the worst case scenario but this is why I believe that every man going his own way needs to have his own grab bag full of cash and precious metals, his own vehicle, even a shit box and a gun. Or at the very least three to four weeks worth of bottled water and food supplies. Every single man listening to me that's going his own way can quarantine himself much more safely without a wife and kids. If Ebola becomes airborne in your city it will be men that you will see on the streets fighting each other for scarce supplies while the women stay indoors.Christmas Without Women - MGTOWhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KWgnm...Gendering the Black Death: Women in Later Medieval Englandhttp://www.academia.edu/3740787/Gende...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Today I'm going to talk about a British woman that decided she had enough of the single life so she decided to marry herself. I'm also adding a link to the story from the The UK Telegraph in the description below. Anyhow, here's a bit of background on the story. "Grace Gelder proposed to herself on a park bench in Parliament Hill last November, and married herself earlier this year in Devon. She told The Guardian she decided to do it after hearing Björk’s song Isobel, which has the lyric: “My name’s Isobel, married to myself.” “I totally get that,” she said. “It’s about making this pact or promise to yourself and then somehow enacting that in how you live your life from that day on. “I’d been essentially single for almost six years and built up this brilliant relationship with myself. Nevertheless, I was aware of getting into a rut, where a relationship with someone else seemed like too much hard work. The article then goes on to say that, "Around 50 of her friends and family attended the wedding, where she made vows about promising to take more risks “in the matters of the heart”, gave herself a ring and wore a vintage wedding dress. But even though Gelder, a professional photographer, is now married to herself, she is still “open to the idea” of marrying someone else in the future. She explained that she didn’t see her marriage as a feminist statement, but was something she did to give herself clarity, and to feel empowered. And she also says that "The day was obviously centered on me, the final event being a mirror for me to kiss, but it also felt like I was sharing something very special with my friends, giving everyone an opportunity to reflect on their own ideas of love and commitment." Well, that's what the telegraph has to say so where do I begin with this story. First of all I would wager that narcissism is the reason she married herself. It's not that a relationship is too much hard work but that is it possible that Grace is just a wee bit narcissistic thinking that relationships aren't supposed to be work? And the idea that she wouldn't be against marrying someone else in the future makes it appear that her self marriage stunt may be designed to attract attention to herself and possibly a guy out there that actually wants to marry her? After all she's still open to the idea of marrying someone else in the future.Woman marries herself after hearing Björk songhttp://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/wome...Self-marriagehttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-mar...Single mother-of-two reveals why she married HERSELFhttp://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/art...Is self-marriage for you?http://www.hlntv.com/article/2012/05/...I Me Wedhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i6Ulj...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

If men going their own way ever needed a reason to ghost and stay away from women and even avoid having sex with even prostitutes then this would be it. Someone sent me a story from Australia and it happened a number of years ago in Melbourne. Apparently a married man got a prostitute pregnant and she decided to keep the child and asked him to pay four hundred dollars per month in informal child support. He had a job that paid him one hundred and forty thousand per year and when he lost that job he was no longer able to pay her so she decided to take the matter in front of the courts. I'm putting a link to the story in the description below. The story is quite simple: A man pays for sex with a prostitute, she gives birth to his baby and then he refuses to pay her the hush hush child support because his wife becomes ill and he loses his job. So he's no longer capable of paying her. This happened in Melbourne Australia where prostitution is illegal in certain places. So the man told the federal magistrate in court that having children with the prostitute known as MS Logan was unintentional and that he shouldn't have to pay her because he had fallen on hard times. Mr. Lilley the man in question said he had another child with his wife who was physically ill and he took a lower paying job so he couldn't support his existing family and continue to pay child support to the prostitute. The financial burdens have become to hard for him. Stories like this are an issue for men going their own way because I know some of you frequent escorts and I know some of you have unprotected sex. But in this case the Australian magistrate sided with Mr. Lilley to a certain extent because he said that the state might allow the man to launch a lawsuit against the owners of the brothel or the escort service where Ms Logan was working or even against Ms Logan herself for damages. What really pisses me off about this case is that MS Logan probably knew that the man that impregnated her had a family so she knew she could ask him for some money and he would pay her to raise the kid. And this man was a wealthy executive at the time when he got her pregnant and had a child with her. So he was the alpha male and she wanted to have his child because it probably felt right to her to have a child with a man with superior male qualities and genes the ability to rise up in the ranks of society.MARRIED MAN REFUSES TO PAY PROSTITUTE CHILD SUPPORThttp://www.godlikeproductions.com/for...Chemical Warrzxianhttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCivs...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy