MGTOW Sandman Quotes

We've all heard that in many jurisdictions lifelong alimony exists regardless of how much money a man makes and financial hardship he may face. But what about lifetime child support? Bernard Chapin covered an article that I'm linking to in the description below called "Spanish man must continue child support to 29-year-old daughter." The youth unemployment rate in countries like Spain, Portugal, Greece and many other European nations is twenty or thirty percent or more in some cases for those people under the age of thirty. And in this case the judge ruled that the father of a twenty nine year old woman must pay her five hundred Euros per month in child support. According to the article, "The judge pointed out that due to the economic situation, and also the fact that the father himself has a good financial standing, he would have to wait until she completes her studies in two years." You can surely bet that such a decision by this judge could set the precedent for this to happen to other men and possibly women in Spain. The judge also said that the plaintiff "appears to have an economical position of relative strength, owning several real estate properties along with several vehicles, including a BMW." So all the men out there listening to this who have finished paying paying child support in Spain, you have to start worrying about it again for your fully grown adult children. In this case The judge further pointed out that the young woman, never having worked, was not entitled to unemployment benefits and that once she has completed her studies, she has more of a chance of finding gainful employment. The man's lawyer said "These rulings are surprising, crazy and not normal. It's absurd.Spanish man must continue child support to 29-year-old daughterhttp://www.digitaljournal.com/news/wo...Being extradited for $2500 child support and my kids are almost 30...https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Vx3q...Toronto and Vancouver home prices pass Rome and close in on Parishttp://business.financialpost.com/201...MGTOW: Not All Women Are Like That!https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fYdbx...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

As I mentioned at the close of yesterday's video another you-tuber named Razor Blade Kandy mentioned that women's minds don't seem to process when a a male is behaving nicely the same way as men do. When he said this is struck a nerve and triggered something in my head to explore the idea of nice guys and why women don't seem to want nice guys even though they say they do. It seems like a contradiction. I believe that many women say they want a nice guy as the ultimate form of shit test. All of those talk shows and behavioral trends that were promoted in the nineteen eighties, nineties and early two thousands where women went on national television and spoke about how their men were bad dead beats and what they really wanted was a nice guy was an attempt to socially condition many men in generation x, myself included into white knights. Many of us were too young to know what a shit test was so when we heard women speak we took them at face value instead of understanding their true motivations. I was too young to even comprehend what a shit test was yet I still passed it subconsciously because I decided not to become a nice guy but instead focused on my outward appearance at that young age. My body and clothing would be the way I conveyed my values and beliefs. Perhaps what I subconsciously understood was that Women will make an acception for nice guys if they have other physical or possibly financial qualities. If they dress well, have nice bodies or have money. When they say I want a nice guy, what they really mean is a nice looking guy. Not a guy that behaves nicely. For many men there is a disconnect or communications issue between behaving nice and looking nice. Most men it seems process the word nice to relate to their behavior instead of their looks. While I was in High School I put most of my effort into my appearance instead of my personality. Both males and females would criticize my behavior me but at the end of the day I would still get girlfriends. whereas the guys with nice attitudes but with an average looking appearance would remain perpetually single. The average looking man with a great personality is on the same level as a fat or overweight woman with a great personality. It doesn't take much if any work for a man to look average.Internet Has Destroyed Gender Dynamics Beyond Repair & It Will Get Worse !!https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ELYk...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

"Hey Sandman, I have a YouTube video request. I'm not a MGTOW myself, though since discovering the manosphere I certainly feel like I am one. At first, out of necessity, then out of spite, and now for my own sake. I'm sure you're aware of something in the seduction community known as "oneitis." In order to be a true MGTOW, one must conquer a primal directive, oneitis being the main manifestation of such a thing. What are your personal experiences with oneitis and what advice or insight can you give to guys struggling with oneitis or as I call it "pussysuffering"? Well thanks for your question Volodymyr. Withregards to my own experience with "oneitis" this happened to me for the first time in my life when I was in the tenth grade in high school. I was obsessed with a girl for about six months and I would say that this was my first young love. And after this I never got hung up on a woman until my first real adult love in my mid-twenties but even then I got through the emotional pain relatively quickly after that relationship. But when I was in high school I had both male and female friends that were obsessed with one person for one, two or even three years between the ages of fourteen and eighteen. And the friends that I still know from that time period are still dealing with the consequences of their obsession with one person. The time I spent dating many different girls in high school was usually when my male friends spent obsessing over one woman that wouldn't give them the time of day. And she was probably getting off on it knowing that she had their attention for many months or years. I found that many women like knowing someone cares for them and wants them and it boosts their ego. So oftentimes they don't have the heart to tell the poor schmuck that they aren't interested and let him go on his merry or non merry way.Nine Steps to Avoid neediness and oneitishttp://www.blackdragonblog.com/2012/0...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Earlier today I had someone contact me about asking me to define the difference between the MRA Movement and MGTOW. His name is Anthony and he has been an MRA since before the turn of the century and I know him personally. So he's been following the movement for over fifteen years. When he started getting involved and following the MRM there were a couple of dozen men involved. I take his thoughts an opinions seriously because he was involved in this long before anyone else. And he asked me how I see MGTOW and MRA differently. So I told him what I've said before. That men going their own way are about decentralized power and influence. We aren't into organizing, holding meetings or creating a social movement. We are purely into philosophy and make our videos to increase awareness about gynocentrism and fight feminism ideas just like the Men's Right's movement. Most of us are not about activism in the traditional sense. It's more about online activism making videos. And keep in mind that what I say here is not a manifesto but just a bunch of generalizations that I'm making. I also told him that a MGTOW can be an MRA and and MRA can be a MGTOW. There might have been a time when the two were inseparable but I believe that time has passed. And people can now choose to either be an MRA, MGTOW, both or neither. And I'm not the one saying this but hundreds if not thousands of men are saying this now. People believe that the MRA movement and MGTOW philosophy are increasingly separate things and getting that idea out of people's heads now that it's been formed is like trying to skate uphill. Unlike many of the other vocal critics of the men's rights movement I support what they are doing even if it only brings awareness to the issues. And the men's rights movement is comprised of more then just AVFM. There's Cafe up here in Canada, Men's Rights Edmonton as well as other groups. And Cafe is extremely inclusive of everyone and that's what I like about it. AVFM is a company with a hierarchy. New people come in and old people leave, willing or otherwise. My entire life I've been anti-corporation. I've never liked working for companies that have defined hierarchies and leadership structures.Does Feminism Discriminate Against Men? A Debatehttp://www.menstuff.org/columns/farre...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Just a quick update before I begin today's topic. Some of you may have noticed I sounded a bit sick yesterday and I'm getting a bit of a sore throat so I can't really talk with my normal intensity. Hopefully it will clear up shortly. But it's difficult to speak at high volume and energy when it causes pain. Anyways, I want to talk about the Demographic Winter. This is a situation where there are far more older people in a population then young people because younger generations are choosing to have no kids or less kids. And it's a topic that relates to MGTOW because 99% of us are choosing not to have children and contribute to population growth. This will effect most of us because as we get older there is a risk that the social safety net is going to fall apart due to the inability of governments to pay off the interest on their national debts. This is why every man going his own way needs a financial backup plan in case that does end up happening and the state can't afford to pay pensions. Right now there is no danger of that happening because interest rates are incredibly low and will seemingly never go up again. In Canada where I live the population continues to increase even though I remember reading a few years ago that the birth rate was one point five to one point six children for every couple. Immigration continues to increase the population base even though native born Canadians as well as first and second generation Canadians aren't having children. The demographic winter will probably be a form of poetic justice for many men because it's women that tend to outlive men by four or five years. So it will be women in their extremely old age that will be the most impacted by the demographic winter. But this is fair because women are the ones that have taken us into this situation. Before women entered the workforce men forced families to save money. And because of that the savings rate always seemed to hoover between ten and twenty percent.Japan's The Margarines pop idols aim to sing away debthttp://www.bbc.com/news/blogs-news-fr...Demographic Winter Documentaryhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jxUD8...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

"Hi Sandman, In a nutshell, I work in Washington, DC. I take a shuttle bus to the Metro, for starters. There are two women who get on the bus and take the front seat and put their bags on the second seat so no one can sit beside them. One of them is "disabled" simply because of her weight and claims entitlement for the front seat, refusing to offer it up even for blind people. What got me thinking was the bag issue. Most working women carry at least three huge bags to work with them every day. Men usually have a briefcase or a backpack and that's it. However, the women have a purse, a tote-bag and usually two other "mystery bags" on public transportation this causes a mess for commuters, who often have little room to move. Also, I work in downtown DC and need to walk through a metal detector every day for work. Many of us need to pass through security for our agencies. These women always make the entrance more difficult because of all their bags that need to be x-rayed and then they need to collect all that crap on the other side of the detector. During fire drills, which could be serious, they have to collect all their stuff to leave the building, only to have to lug it all in again. Also at the end of the day all those bags need to be checked by out police. So I am asking: Why all the damn stuff? What do they lug in every day that they don't just keep in the office? I know its a little silly, but it is also annoying. I actually had a female coworker who carries so many that she left one abandoned in the parking garage and they had to call the bomb squad for an unattended bag...i kid you not. Anyway Thanks again." Well, thanks for your questions and comments mercury rising. I think that there are many rational and irrational reasons women carry so many bags with them. The lady on the bus is using the bags she carries with her to increase her personal space. The bags represent and extension of her already larger then life size and her own bags surrounding her are like a mobile nesting instinct. It's like she's a big bird and the bags represent a nest surrounding her. This increases her personal space which can be at a premium in a city like like Washington DC. Washington is more European in design because of the mid rise building style and many walk-able streets. When I visited I found it extremely pedestrian friendly.More Street Harassment!?!? MGTOWhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fQl9e...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

"Hello Sandman, I was wondering if you could give advice to college level MGTOW's on how prevent their parents, especially mothers, shaming them for being single." Well, thanks for your question Dave I'll do my best trying to answer it. First of all college or University is a major right of passage into adulthood in North American society. There's the prom and high school graduation and then comes college. And your parents are seeing these rights of passage go by and they think to themselves, my child is going to meet someone and get married and have grandchildren. So you are messing with the rights of passage that they expect you to go through. And remember Dave, your parents probably had you around the time they were twenty five or thirty years of age. To them it's expected that you're going to do the same thing, marry and have kids in the next five to ten years. Many mothers also see their sons as an insurance policy. Someone to help out if things get tough in the future. Someone to help keep them from being lonely. Someone to pass on their DNA. Someone to visit them when they are in the nursing home. And remember up until you went to college your parents might have seen you as their property. Not a human being but something to be coddled and looked after. And they made decisions for you most of your life and now they expect you to make the decision of finding a life partner and you're not doing that. You've chosen to go off the scripted life plan. You are rebelling against their plans for you. They don't understand that you are a man going his own way. And they probably wouldn't understand what that means even if you explained it to them. You need to accept that they will never accept you and they need to agree to disagree with you. I know that's easier said then done but that's what needs to happen. And you have to either let the shame roll off your back and play nice or you can strike back every-time your mother shames you by pointing out other bad relationships and divorces that everyone in your family sees. And just tell your mother you don't want to end up like that. And you can even say that you don't think you could go on living if that ever happened to you. Remember your mother fears only one thing more then you not getting married and having children. And that's your untimely death or if you abandon her and never speak to her again. And in the worst case scenario if your mother refuses to get off your back and continues to pester youall the time, you can threaten to go your own way from her. I'm not suggesting this and am just saying it as the last or worst case scenario. What I want to see you do is stand up for yourself. Build your self confidence and when she shames you I want you to call her on what she's doing. My mother is predictable.Artificial Wombs Aren't the Answer to Work-Life Balance Issueshttp://www.elle.com/news/lifestyle/ar...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

I'd like you to do a video on a recent Lisa Ling CNN episode regarding sugar-daddy dating culture. In Lisa Ling's sugar daddy essay she details and her own history of being seduced by the lifestyle and how that was a bad thing, and how she is happier now to have escaped from it. The entire episode takes a critical view of this relationship dynamic, calling it sexism and misogyny, and comparing it to prostitution. My question to you Sandman is that: "Would Lisa Ling qualify as a NAWALT in your view? And what to make of these feminist women that reject and condemn the whole arrangement of "companionship" for material support? After watching a lot of MGTOW videos, I was kind of surprised to see these CNN women actually attacking hypergamy. Are they actually rejecting hypergamy, or only such direct overt manifestations of it? What is the angle here?" Well, thanks for your questions DannyD. To start with CNN is not rejecting hypergamy but they are promoting it. Simply creating a video and article called "Dating website founder says love doesn't exist" is telling viewers that love is a fantasy and that relationships are about what you can physically get from them and not necessarily emotional gratification. The idea that relationships are emotionally fulfilling is an idea that's predominantly sold to men. This idea that women can love us back the way we love them needs to be rooted deeply into the culture. If it wasn't and men knew that women didn't reciprocate then men in general would be far less likely to get involved in relationships and marriage. If you know someone loves you back the same way then you are more willing to give them everything of yourself. I'm also including the links to the two stories you sent me in the description below so that everyone can watch the video or read the articles and make up their own minds. So the founder of Seeking arrangement is telling everyone the truth that love doesn't exist. And based on his descriptions of his mom she sounds like a traditional conservative woman. His mother told him to focus on being successful and use success and money to get the women that he desires. He even says that being smart and nice is apparently not enough to find women in this day and age. Dating website founder says love doesn't existhttp://www.cnn.com/2014/09/25/opinion...The Dangerous Seduction of Rich Boyfriendhttp://www.cnn.com/2014/09/25/living/...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

As many of you probably already know there was a shooting here in Canada in Ottawa, the capital city. A gunman killed a soldier at the Canadian war memorial and then made his way into the parliament buildings where he was eventually killed by the authorities in that building. The motives behind the shooting were considered driven by extremist Islamic influence by someone that can be described as being a lone wolf gunmen. But what many of you didn't know is on that same day with all of the commotion Stephen Harper, the Prime Minister of Canada pushed through legislation that allow for more snooping into the personal lives of Canadians with new powers proposed for CSIS. Which is Canada's spy agency. I'm also putting a link to that piece of news in the description so you can have a look at it for yourselves. According to the article there are many people on social media that suspect that the shooting was a false flag operation designed to take away the civil liberties of Canadians when it comes to freedom of speech. So why is that important to MGTOW and the idea of leaderless resistance? Well the strength that our philosophy has is that we don't meet in public and we have no hierarchy. This is great because we can grow and grow and government agencies are not fully aware of what we are up to. And because we are all effectively going our own way we are hard to profile as individuals because we all come from diverse backgrounds. If MGTOWs are sometimes confused about what it means to be mgtow then that's even more confusing to the people in power and others trying to figure out exactly what we stand for. I guess that to the people in power we represent lone wolves to some extent because many of us refuse to marry or enter long-term relationships. And in Canada the men's rights movement and MGTOW could technically be considered a hate groups if we simply inspire someone into taking their own behavior to a hateful place. So if I say that women have the tendency to be hypergamous and the government deems that I inspired someone to commit a hateful act based on my statement then I could go to jail for a year thanks to the wonderful people in the Canadian justice system. At least in theory that's what could happen to me. But in the United States the laws are different and considering the fact that YouTube is in the United States then my videos can sit on their servers and be viewed around the world. But that still doesn't prevent the Canadian government from coming after me in the future if they see me as some kind of threat. In MGTOW there are no leaders in our philosophy. And for government spies infiltrate and influence leaderless movement like ours is impossible.Government Passes Anti-Constitutional Surveillance Law During Ottawa Shootinghttp://freethepresscanada.org/2014/10...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Today I want to talk about the generosity of men and how it often gets us into trouble and turns us into manginas. And many generous men don't seem to have the word "no" in their vocabularies. It's often said that for a young man to have his father in his life it's generally a good thing because masculine traits are passed down from one generation to the next. But in some cases the qualities that get passed down can be detrimental for the next generation of men. It all depends on many factors including large generational and cultural gaps. My own father is forty years older then me and grew up in Eastern Europe during and after the second world war. He was brought up in a communist country where people tried to live up to the fantasy of collectivist ideals. And women generally are more collective then men and men are more individualistic. So in some ways the battle between collectivist communism and individualistic capitalism in the twentieth could be seen as a fight between a male and female psychology. Women want the safety of numbers by being part of collect and to treat each other fairly in the outside world but in their private lives that's usually where they show their true nature. From what I've seen, men in general tend to be themselves more in public spaces with other people around. And then tend to go home and are fake around their wives trying not to rock the boat and find themselves spending the night in the dog house. But getting back to this idea that generous men are flawed. I think that generous men that are always wanting to help out other people just for the sake of being do gooders are rewarding women for their narcissistic behavior more then they are helping them. I think that men shouldn't bend over backwards to help strangers. I don't care how many times you've watched uncle Ben die in the first Spiderman film with Tobey McGuire. With great power a man shouldn't be forced to take on great responsibility. With great power a man should be free to do whatever the fuck he wants. Why should a successful male be forced to look out for others when others aren't looking out for his best interests? This seems like a simple argument, yet my father taught me to help strangers and to have good moral character.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy