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Jun 29, 2022 • 11min
243 - Red Pill Renaissance
Hi Sandman, I was wondering if you could do a video on the effects of taking the Red Pill. I was hoping you could explain a little bit on the change a man goes through once taking the red pill. For me two big changes have come, one is compassion for my fellow man, and the second is letting go and holding NO attachments. recently I lost a gay friend I had because I spoke out about the gynocentric crap men deal with inn today's culture and I also lost my dads brother who had a sex change a few years ago and is not trying to go back to being a man because he was trying to convince me I was an angry little man whom hates women. I was unable to get through to him why I have NO reason to trust any women. He then shut down completely when I brought up how my mother DESTROYED him (my dad and his brother) when she divorced him back in 1994 through false accusations, child custody battles, destroying his credit before divorcing him, putting him thousands in debt, ect. was wondering if you would talk about this and explain further as well." Well thanks for your questions David. Well for most men the first effect of taking the red pill is going through red pill rage. And I don't want to rehash that topic so I'm adding a link to that particular video in the description below. As for the changes you've gone through David these are very typical social changes. You are standing up to your aunt a former blue pill men turned into a woman as well as a gay guy you were once friends with and they don't accept you. I'm going to step out on a limb here and say that neither of them accept you because they probably both have a gender identity that is more female then male. I don't know how feminine your former gay friend is but I'm guessing he's more feminine then typical male. Anyways, reaching the two of them is pointless. You're better to take that compassion for your fellow men and help those you can reach and not focus your effort on those you can't save. I hope that answers your question? But your other question about how taking the red pill effects men really got me thinking about something I would consider the Red Pill Renaissance.Red Pill Rage - MGTOWhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mwXRi...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jun 26, 2022 • 10min
242 - Why She Hates MGTOW
Why does the existence of men going their own way create an emotional crisis for many women? If we as men take the energy, resources and time that we normally spend on women in relationships and instead choose to divert that energy for our own desires and dreams, don't we have the right to self-determination? If we use our lives to accomplish things on our own or just chill out, why shouldn't we have that right, without some women throwing hissy fits directed at us attempting to shame us back into a relationship or marriage? I've spoken to less then a handful of women in real life and exposed my choice to become a MGTOW with them. I explained to them that I was against feminism and they were happy I was taking a stance against feminism. But when I explained to them that I was a MGTOW the majority of them got angry with me. I could feel the rage and frustration coming from them. And the ones that don't like it have been trying to talk me out of going my own way. Most women in our society have a personal identity that is tied directly to their value as sexual creatures. They value themselves based on men objectifying them. So if men reject the sexual identity of a woman then they are essentially telling them they have no value. And when you tell a woman about the existence of MGTOW you are indirectly attacking their self worth and ego. If you've ever rejected a woman in your own personal life or dumped her then you'll notice how other women also take it as a personal assault on their self worth when one of their friends is dumped or discarded. It's not so much that they hate us for escaping the plantation so much as the fact that we have rejected their female value system and the worship of the golden uterus. Worshiping the vagina is a value system that almost all the women in our society follow. I also believe women hate us MGTOWs because every dollar we keep to ourselves, save or spend on ourselves is directly removing resources from the hands of all women.The Exponential Youhttps://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/e...So, MGTOW's get a lot of hate. Why?http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/co...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jun 24, 2022 • 11min
241 - Cougar Culture
A few days ago someone sent me a link to an article at the Guardian called "A radical fix to the world's wage gap: why not just pay women more – and pay men less?" by the writer Jessica Valenti. And here's a paragraph from her article: "what if the boldest solution for the wage gap isn’t about raising women’s salaries at all? What if we paid men less? Over the weekend, former New York Times executive editor Jill Abramson – fired in part, she says, over conversations about pay disparity – told a reporter that the best way for newsroom leaders with a limited budget to fix salary inequalities is to “bring the guys down to give a little more to the girls”. “I did that at The Times. No one’s happy to get a cut, but too bad.” Too bad indeed! The Washington Post’s masthead is about to become all-male. The US wage gap has barely moved in a decade. Politicians here are deriding new equal pay laws in midterm campaign ads, and the UK and elsewhere aren’t faring much better even when they do have such laws. Given the sad status of women and work lately, it may be that a little “I don’t fucking care if you like it” is exactly what gender equality needs right now. Some men’s antipathy toward feminism comes from a fear that leveling the playing field will mean taking away from men’s existing power. And for a long time, feminists have been sensitive to that concern, insisting that equality is not a zero-sum game – that there’s enough money, jobs and justice to go around for everyone." That chunk of Jessica Valenti's article should strike terror and fear into the hearts and minds of men working in corporations and government jobs across all western nations. And with Hilary Clinton most likely to be elected as the President of the United States I fear the country may start implementing such insane measures to buy votes and fight a wage gap that was dis-proven a long time ago. How is the government supposed to enforce this law outside of corporate environments and government jobs? If I do a job as a contractor does my client have the right to lower the rate he or she pays me based on the original price I quoted them because I'm a man. And if so then I'll just quote a higher price and to get paid my usual rate.A radical fix to the world's wage gap: why not just pay women more – and pay men less?http://www.theguardian.com/commentisf...Google CEO: Computers Are Going To Take Our Jobs, And 'There's No Way Around That'http://www.businessinsider.com/google...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jun 22, 2022 • 10min
240 - Paying Men Less
A few days ago someone sent me a link to an article at the Guardian called "A radical fix to the world's wage gap: why not just pay women more – and pay men less?" by the writer Jessica Valenti. And here's a paragraph from her article: "what if the boldest solution for the wage gap isn’t about raising women’s salaries at all? What if we paid men less? Over the weekend, former New York Times executive editor Jill Abramson – fired in part, she says, over conversations about pay disparity – told a reporter that the best way for newsroom leaders with a limited budget to fix salary inequalities is to “bring the guys down to give a little more to the girls”. “I did that at The Times. No one’s happy to get a cut, but too bad.” Too bad indeed! The Washington Post’s masthead is about to become all-male. The US wage gap has barely moved in a decade. Politicians here are deriding new equal pay laws in midterm campaign ads, and the UK and elsewhere aren’t faring much better even when they do have such laws. Given the sad status of women and work lately, it may be that a little “I don’t fucking care if you like it” is exactly what gender equality needs right now. Some men’s antipathy toward feminism comes from a fear that leveling the playing field will mean taking away from men’s existing power. And for a long time, feminists have been sensitive to that concern, insisting that equality is not a zero-sum game – that there’s enough money, jobs and justice to go around for everyone." That chunk of Jessica Valenti's article should strike terror and fear into the hearts and minds of men working in corporations and government jobs across all western nations. And with Hilary Clinton most likely to be elected as the President of the United States I fear the country may start implementing such insane measures to buy votes and fight a wage gap that was dis-proven a long time ago. How is the government supposed to enforce this law outside of corporate environments and government jobs? If I do a job as a contractor does my client have the right to lower the rate he or she pays me based on the original price I quoted them because I'm a man. And if so then I'll just quote a higher price and to get paid my usual rate.A radical fix to the world's wage gap: why not just pay women more – and pay men less?http://www.theguardian.com/commentisf...Google CEO: Computers Are Going To Take Our Jobs, And 'There's No Way Around That'http://www.businessinsider.com/google...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jun 19, 2022 • 11min
239 - Online Dating
"Hi Sandman, How about a video about online dating? Every woman lists the same things: she loves her kid(s) and dogs, and comes off as very negative/leary of men. Why do they put their worst foot forward? Thanks again." Well thanks for your question Zeb. As I've mentioned in videos before women imitate each other and if they hear that a certain style of online personal ad works for one of their friends then they will try the same thing on their account. But right now there's a shift in the way that online dating works. Up until a couple of years ago, online dating was predominantly done the same way it had always been done. Women would post their online ads on websites like Plenty of Fish, Ok Cupid, Lavalife, Eharmony or other similar sites and women would get hundreds of messages from guys and guys would be lucky to get one single response back from one of the dozens or hundreds of women he contacted. In such a scenario the guys would have to spend all the effort to get a connection and a chance to speak to a woman. And women would just sit back and enjoy all of the attention. What I like to call dating two point zero which came out a few years ago includes primarily Tinder and to some small extent Hot Or Not and this new way of dating means that a guy doesn't have to writes a profile and neither does a woman. They both just swipe left for the people they don't like and right for the people they do. And once again guys are effectively bombarding women with attention because most guys will close their eyes and swipe to the right so that they can increase their available pool of women. And the ugly and unattractive women will also swipe to the right for most guys, especially if they are a three or a four, or below. As an experiment, after Lui Marco said that most guys flick to the right for every single girl they see I decided I would do that on Tinder to see what type of results I could get. And sure enough I got some of the most overweight and unattractive women matching me back.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jun 17, 2022 • 11min
238 - Female Sports Fans
Before I begin today's video I need to let everyone know that it looks like someone "view bombed" my second last video called "Casual Sex Regrets." A lot of the traffic was coming from Saudi Arabia, Indonesia, India, Vietnam, The Philippines, Malaysia and many other non English countries. I kept rotating the video between private, public and unlisted and eventually the views stopped. I have notified YouTube and am waiting for their response. I'm pretty sure that nothing will happen but if it does be aware that there is a link in this video in the description below to my Sandman 2 channel. If for whatever reason I lose this channel my next video will come from there. And if anything happens to my Google adsense account I'll probably just join a network. I guess if you play by the copyright and freedom of speech rules and people still want to stop you they have to get creative. Lets see what happens with this. Right now the video is set to private so I'm not going to be making it public. And the really strange thing is this video is still getting views even though it's private. I've never seen anything like this before. Anyways today's video is brought to you by a donation from Tony and here's what he has to say: "Hi Sandman, when I was a kid there were very few women into sports. Mind you they would play sports but they weren't fanatical about watching the games and the players. Now they are at the hockey games here in Pittsburgh with other female friends as well as baseball and football games. For the life of me I can't figure out why twenty years ago they weren't at the games and now sometimes I see thirty to forty percent of the hardcore fans being female. I'd like your input on this story. Thank You." Well, thanks for your question Tony. I think that there are many reasons why women are more into sports today then they were twenty or thirty years ago. The first reason being that sports culture is similar to gaming and geek culture in that all of these spaces have been inundated by women.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jun 15, 2022 • 11min
237 - Feminism & Gynocentrism
Most men in the manosphere can agree that feminism is negative for men because it promotes female superiority in politics, education, economics and every single aspect of human society. Some would go as far as to say that feminism is gynocentrism revealed in its most naked form and exposed for the entire world to see. Gynocentrism IS covert female nature and feminism is overt hyper female nature. The men's rights movement fights feminism but it embraces gynocentrism by welcoming in women into the movement as well as traditionalism. The MRM only exposes half truths and many men's rights organizations, but not all use women as human shield to protect themselves from unpopular opinions. And at the same time some of the women in such organizations use those organizations to gain status or attention for themselves. It's like two parasites feeding off each other. Or it's like the Polish blanket trick, where you increase the length of a blanket by a foot by cutting a foot off the bottom and sewing it to the top. No offense to Polish men. However, MGTOW on the other hand fights both feminism and gynocentrism or feminism light as I'd like to call it. Gynocentrism is after-all a very large component of traditionalism. Before the industrial revolution, women needed to make themselves out to be fragile or delicate pretty flowers or beautiful jewels in order to avoid many of the backbreaking chores humans had to do before fossil fuels and electricity. They had to cover their bodies in long flowing dresses to protect themselves from the elements. Now that those manual labor chores are much easier to do, thanks due to men and the technology we invented, they no longer need to play up to their fragility. They no longer need to pass themselves off as passive. Instead feminism has made women aggressive with regards to what they want. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jun 12, 2022 • 10min
236 - Casual Sex Regrets
Women it seems often regret having casual sex with men and that regret usually happens the day after. And then women regret being sexually active and then take that regret out on men in the form of false rape allegations and/or sexual assault charges. But what I want to know is why do women regret casual sex in the first place and more importantly why do they take it out on a man? I'm including a link to an article called "The Real Reason Women Might Regret Casual Sex in the description below and here is a paragraph from that article: "The research team found that college-age women are more likely to regret a one-time sexual encounter, whereas men are more likely to regret not taking a sexual opportunity. Women's biggest sexual regrets are losing their virginity to the wrong partner, cheating on a partner or moving too fast sexually. Men, on the other hand, regretted not making a move on a potential partner, and a lack of sexual adventurousness in their younger or single days. Similar patterns held among gay men and lesbians – women were more likely to regret sexual activity, while men were more likely to regret chances not taken." The article also says that there is scientific evidence that negative feelings also create stronger memories. So if a woman feels negative about a one night stand and she regrets it then she's more likely to remember it more intensely. When women regrets a one night stand and takes it out on the man by saying that he took advantage of her, what she's really saying is that she feels bad for letting her hormones in the moment take advantage of her and therefore she getting back at her casual sex partner is one way to take back some of the power she lost by giving away her sexuality cheaply. She probably acted out on subconscious impulses, had a one night stand to someone she probably barely knows and now feels bad about it. Someone has to pay for her feelings of regret and women are often taught that men are disposable. So it's easy to put the blame on a male scapegoat. I also believe that this is natures way of creating buyers remorse in a woman. If she has casual sex and her subconscious mind doesn't think the guy is worthy of having children with the following day then she will regret it.The Real Reason Women Might Regret Casual Sexhttp://www.alternet.org/real-reason-w...The Anatomy of False Accusations: A Skeptical Case Studyhttp://www.centerforinquiry.net/blogs...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jun 10, 2022 • 10min
235 - Transgender Women
Today's video is brought to you by a donation from Kill Joy one nine seven and this is what he has to say: "Hi Sandman, From my personal experience over the past few years with a transgender M2F friend, I have noticed the most dramatic changes in 'her' personality coming about due to her hormone treatment. She had slowly lost her ability to think logically as she did before and 'the change' has now become very emotion drive (becoming hostile at any criticism, breaking into treats over minor issues or events, ect.) as well as changing her mentality to one where she looks at people for their utility value more so than their friendship with her. Seeing this change happen first hand has allowed me to see the development of the female mentality in a compressed time. Two additional questions are how is bisexuality and homosexuality effecting women and MGTOW? Since its offering men alternatives to spending time and money on women and thus giving women less opportunities and more competition. And how has the trans community effected feminism as it opens the "men are evil, women are good by nature" debate up further and puts into question just who will benefit from feminism; those born female or any one identifying as such?" well, thanks for your questions Kill Joy one nine seven. I've already spoken about the gay and bisexual influence of men in the MGTOW movement. In fact I have two videos that I'm linking to in the description called Women Hate Bi Guys question mark and Gay MGTOW. Hopefully you can find answers in those videos with regards to men and their sexuality. But your description of the male to female friend has got to make everyone see that being male versus female has more to do with hormones then anything else. Estrogen, the female hormone allows women to exploit men's strength and Testosterone, the male hormone allows men to be exploited by women. More and more I realize that female nature is nature in the hormonal sense.Women Hate Bi Guys? - MGTOWhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rL0U7...Gay MGTOWhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B3LI5...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jun 8, 2022 • 11min
234 - Virtual >Rape Culture
If there's any doubt that Toronto, Canada is the undisputed capital of feminism and gynocentrism outside of Sweden then the link I'm including in the description below will prove it once and for all. Apparently women in this city are so bored with their lives that they have turned to policing games like Grand Theft auto five and making sure that people don't create rape hacks for video games. And the story in the video is covered by CityNews one of the main local news stations in the city. They cover this story by interviewing a woman that says that simulated sexual assault happens when your character is locked into place in the game and then the evil gamers do awful sexual things to your character. And now even the Toronto police department is paying attention as more women in this city complain about virtual rape. But what are the police supposed to do? Shut down users in Russia and Asia that are outside their jurisdiction. The whole situation sounds like a gross mismanagement of public resources. Fortunately I have a solution for female gamers. I think that women should fight the problem of male hacking by hacking into the games themselvesand modifying the gamer experience. Anything a man can do a woman can do just as well. So I'm sure there are tons of female hackers out there with computer science degrees ready to fight this online scourge of virtual rape. Right? Well as far as I know most game developers are male and so are most programmers. So even if women wanted to modify these games and fight back there probably wouldn't be enough competent female hackers to fight this. I think to some extent as more women enter gaming world we'll probably see more of this type of behavior.Virtual rape hard to track in online gaming, police sayhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=neTTQ...The Horrendous Odds in Online Datinghttp://mgtow1.blogspot.ca/2014/10/the...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy


