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Apr 15, 2022 • 10min
214 - Child Support for Prostitutes
If men going their own way ever needed a reason to ghost and stay away from women and even avoid having sex with even prostitutes then this would be it. Someone sent me a story from Australia and it happened a number of years ago in Melbourne. Apparently a married man got a prostitute pregnant and she decided to keep the child and asked him to pay four hundred dollars per month in informal child support. He had a job that paid him one hundred and forty thousand per year and when he lost that job he was no longer able to pay her so she decided to take the matter in front of the courts. I'm putting a link to the story in the description below. The story is quite simple: A man pays for sex with a prostitute, she gives birth to his baby and then he refuses to pay her the hush hush child support because his wife becomes ill and he loses his job. So he's no longer capable of paying her. This happened in Melbourne Australia where prostitution is illegal in certain places. So the man told the federal magistrate in court that having children with the prostitute known as MS Logan was unintentional and that he shouldn't have to pay her because he had fallen on hard times. Mr. Lilley the man in question said he had another child with his wife who was physically ill and he took a lower paying job so he couldn't support his existing family and continue to pay child support to the prostitute. The financial burdens have become to hard for him. Stories like this are an issue for men going their own way because I know some of you frequent escorts and I know some of you have unprotected sex. But in this case the Australian magistrate sided with Mr. Lilley to a certain extent because he said that the state might allow the man to launch a lawsuit against the owners of the brothel or the escort service where Ms Logan was working or even against Ms Logan herself for damages. What really pisses me off about this case is that MS Logan probably knew that the man that impregnated her had a family so she knew she could ask him for some money and he would pay her to raise the kid. And this man was a wealthy executive at the time when he got her pregnant and had a child with her. So he was the alpha male and she wanted to have his child because it probably felt right to her to have a child with a man with superior male qualities and genes the ability to rise up in the ranks of society.MARRIED MAN REFUSES TO PAY PROSTITUTE CHILD SUPPORThttp://www.godlikeproductions.com/for...Chemical Warrzxianhttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCivs...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Apr 13, 2022 • 10min
213 - College Girl "Debt" Bubble
Here's what Steve has to say: "There's a story in the US media about $1.2T in student loan debt. Give us your take on the ~65% of college students & grads being female and young men not taking the bait anymore after stories like Texas politician Wendy Davis (aka "abortion Barbie") divorcing her husband literally *the day after* he paid off her student loans." Well thanks for your question Steve. And thanks for the links to the two stories you sent me. The first of these stories I want to cover is the NBC story called Burdened with Record Amount of Debt, Graduates Delay Marriage. The story says that there's 1.2 trillion worth of college debt in the United States and that people can't participate in the American Dream because they are working as baristas and paying over a thousand dollars a month in many cases. To understand the college debt bubble and how women fit into it we have to understand why more women are choosing higher education. Women are always late to the party when it comes to social trends. Men are the early adopters of most technologies and end up making the majority of the money in new fields because we can use our critical thinking skills to see trends before women. College was a good investment in the eighties and the nineties when it was something that was rare. There was a low supply of college educated people and a high demand for them. I remember everyone telling me that I needed a college degree in the eighties and nineties and so I went to University. My choice was photography/film and video in a fine arts degree. And I knew that my profession was a fun one so that meant I would have to compete and outdo most of the other students and obliterate my competition by providing superior products and services. And work harder then everyone else so that I would actually have work in my field. Many of the young ladies going to college these days see how women only ten to fifteen years ago were able to succeed with a degree and they are seeing time in slow motion. Most people understand that men can perceive space and time differently then women. We can more accurately extrapolate future trends based on the current environment around us because of our ancient hunting skills. We had to predict the probability of the mastodon or mammoth and which direction it was going to run into so we could accurately hit it with a spear. While women gathering berries and vegetables didn't not to predict where the berry was going to go. It was on the bush and wasn't going to move unless another woman got to it first. So women had to learn to co-operate instead of compete with each other. Burdened with Record Amount of Debt, Graduates Delay Marriagehttp://www.nbcnews.com/business/perso... Wendy Davis Divorced Husband Day After He Finished Paying Off Her Student Loans…http://weaselzippers.us/168394-wendy-...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Apr 10, 2022 • 10min
212 - Dating a Criminal
Hello Sandman, I'm just coming to you because my brother has just made the worst decision of his life 4 days ago. I think that if you make a video about it, it will help prevent other guys from making the same mistakes as my brother. My brother is currently 33 years old. About ten years ago, he had gotten engaged to a girl who was 5 to 6 years younger than him. They had known each other for a few years. While they were engaged, she had disappeared for a while. She reappeared 4 months after her disappearance and claimed that she was pregnant by another man, but she still wanted to be with my brother. My brother then broke up with her and she ended up marrying the guy who got her pregnant. The guy she married was very abusive, so she ran back to my brother. She kept going back and forth between my brother and her husband. She also had 4 more kids (including a set of twin boys) in the process. None of her kids belong to my brother. Also during this process, she had repeatedly been in and out of prison and temporarily addicted to heroin. Her husband also spent some time in jail. The state removed 3 out of 5 of her kids from her custody because of her detrimental lifestyle. It even got to the point to where my brother said he'd never get with her again. He said that about 3 years ago. A few months ago, my brother bought his own apartment. Without telling anyone, he allowed that ex-fiance of his and two of her children to move in with him for free. My sister had found out by accident. Four days ago, my brother made it official that he and the girl are now in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, even though the girl is STILL married! The only reason she's still married is because neither she nor her husband can afford the divorce fees. She also doesn't have a job mainly because no one wants to hire her because of her criminal record. My brother knows that no one in our family approves of this girl, but he's ignoring us. He lives 4 hours away from us, so we're unable to intervene in his life. In the past 2 years, I've shown him videos about MGTOW and I've shown him videos from Tom Leykis. He seemed to understand and agree with all of it, so this recent decision of his has totally caught me off guard. The only good thing I can now say about my brother is that he is no longer interested in getting married because he understands that marriage has no benefit for a man in the United States and a few other countries. All I hope is that he won't allow that girl to talk him into marrying her. My family is now speculating that the girl intentionally moved in with him so she could try to get pregnant by him and have his baby because she knows that a child would bond them together for life. I honestly don't know what to do :( What do you think about all of this?" Well, Luke thanks for the question. I will do my best to answer your question but I've never known anyone that has been in anything as remotely insane asthis. This woman has no responsibility for her own children, her husband, that she can't even afford to divorce nor herself.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Apr 8, 2022 • 11min
211 - Vagina Futures
Today's video is brought to you by a donation from Edward. And this is what Edward has to say: "Hi Sandman, My favorite video of yours is not entirely about MGTOW rather it is your video "Female Financial Advisers", can you please comment on your insights on the state of the economy, a possible coming collapse (be it due to a stimulus, student loan or consumer debt bubble) and the best way to manage your money looking to the future. You mentioned making such a video titled "MGTOW Money" well here is some money to make that video." well, thanks for your comments, questions and donation Edward. And just for your information I did put together a MGTOW Money Manager video but took it out of circulation a while ago and made it private. But I'm not going to get into my reasons for taking it down. I'll explain that at a later date. I'm putting a link in the description to the video called MGTOW Money Manager so you can have a look at it for yourselves. This video however will still deal with money but will relate more to how women and men interact financially during an economic crisis. And I have seen this first hand in Eastern Europe after the fall of communism and will share my observations and experiences. Many MGTOWs have this fantasy that as the economy crumbles men will increasingly become self-reliant and keep their resources to their selves. But how many of us have actually lived in a country where there was a prolonged economic depression for five to ten years. I would have have to say that I had that privilege or misfortune of visiting former Yugoslavia in the nineteen nineties during a period that was known as the greatest hyperinflation in the history of the world. And the Wiemar Republic in Germany in the early nineteen thirties and the situation in Zimbabwe were just side show compared to the main attractions in former Yugoslavia. Most people would assume that during a period of hyperinflation that men's value rises and women's value goes down. But what I saw in the mid nineties in eastern Europe was shocking. Instead of selling Vagina Futures on the open market women were literally and metaphorically sharpening their claws. The teenage girls I met back then still had the latest fashions, music, posters and were just as posh as girls in Canada. The only different was the infrastructure was falling apart and what little money was in circulation was going towards female interests. A society full of men going their own way would hoard our resources for ourselves but most of society is made up of blue pill men. And in tough times their wives, daughters and girlfriends nag them more then usual so blue pill men are more then willing to spend what little money they have to keep the complaining down.MGTOW Money Managerhttps://www.youtube.com/my_videos?o=U...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Apr 6, 2022 • 14min
210 - I Married a Slut, now what?
This is what Dogie Style has to say: "I would consider myself a low level Mgtow male 30 yrs old from Florida. My wife is the classic Material girl, but shes had a much more sexual past, Maybe you could cover something about Mgtows who are dealing with the opposite sex everyday, its a daily Battle as we all know. We fight about money and power mostly but i have to say I'm satisfied with our marriage for the most part. (been married for 1 year, known each other for 5) Recently I was shooting the shit with her and interjecting some mgtow concepts to her, just to see what she would say. Well she happened to be in a sexual mood this night, and started to act more and more "slutty" A lot more than usual, NOW; she has been known to mess with my head from time to time but she actually started to tell me one time she lost count of all the guys she slept with ... This was a little too much to handle for me and you could say i was in an "off" mood after i heard this information. She seemed proud like these guys were "badges" to collect or something. I would consider myself more freaky at the moment but i wonder if the tables will turn once my dick goes flaccid. She will be having fun and probably laughing at me? I'm really glad to see your videos online, I've witnessed what Females can do at the Corporate level and this has cost me a very well paying Job which I am still upset over, (5 years later). This woman moved up the ladder, stemming from a sexual harassment lawsuit within the company. She quickly became my manager and fired me. Prior to this I had a perfect record with average performance. My previous manager was a guy who I went clubbing with a few times and life was good. Along comes this "Climber" and she uses her power to get rid of assertive, alpha males with her Man-hating tactics. She obviously did not respect an ounce of my work ethic, just that i was always standing tall and proud, she hated it.. I wrote a Reverse discrimination letter to HR but of course was ignored. I wonder if Mgtow could team up with lawyers or something because I felt as though I had an extremely good case against the Corporation. Also please post a video regarding ways in which we can get more involved. Cant checkout the forums yet my wife keeps tabs on my phone. LOL Keep up the good work dude. SEE YA." Well, thanks for your questions and comments Doggie Style.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Apr 3, 2022 • 12min
209 - The "Ideal" Woman
Yesterday I got a message from a woman named Jenna. And her message proves to me that no matter how much I explain MGTOW to women most of them won't get it. Men are biologically coded to figure out their environment and access resources from that environment. Where as women are genetically designed to figure out men and access resources through us. I want any and all women out there to understand just like guys get sucked into their hobbies, video games and jobs women can just as easily get sucked into the hobby of men. Except for women for most of the time we have existed on this planet manipulating men was not a hobby or pastime but a vital means of survival. I will entertain Jenna to a certain extent and give her some answers but they won't be the answers she wants to hear. Anyways, this is that Jenna has to say: " Hi Sandman, I am genuinely curious about the MGTOW perspective and would like to start a friendly discussion on what you all view as the 'ideal' woman. Just from what I've learned so far, which is only what I've seen from these videos since they popped up on my suggestions while I was watching videos about the Gamergate debacle, I'm not so sure this ideal woman exists. Allow me to explain. I only have my own perspective to go off of, but I am a scientifically minded, logical and independent woman. I love the pursuit of knowledge and am curious about anything and everything. I can hold an intelligent conversation on a wide range of subjects but fail epic-ally at idle conversation I find trivial. I'm a gamer and I tend to have more male friends than female, but these tend to remain platonic because I am 'just another one of the guys'. Introspection is a habit of mine and I can tell you, certain traits come at the expense of others. I am no geneticist, but I am mildly educated on the subject. I have to wonder if I had a lack of female hormone in early development which is responsible for my characteristics that are more traditionally 'male'. It has been shown that higher levels of female hormone contribute to a more feminine appearance (attractiveness) but also likely string along less desirable traits such as a qualitative mind and emotionally driven personality. I am not very feminine at all. Some people think I'm cute but I've always been a little boyish looking.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Apr 1, 2022 • 10min
208 - Female Pilots
Last week I read a story called Air Canada grapples with 'explicit' material in cockpit. I'm going to read you a paragraph from that story and then analyse things from a broader cultural perspective. So this is what the article has to say: "CBC News has obtained an internal Air Canada bulletin warning flight crews they could be fired or face criminal charges for placing “inappropriate material” in the flight deck, also called the cockpit. It was sent last year, four months after a similar reminder to stop hiding “suggestive images in Company aircraft” appears to have been ignored. “I am disappointed to have to raise this issue once again but unfortunately we have some people that have yet to understand the message,” writes Rod Graham, Air Canada’s chief pilot and director of fleet operations and training. The warnings come six years after a female pilot says she started finding pornography displayed, glued and tucked in a variety of areas in the cockpit on Air Canada’s Embraer fleet of planes. Air Canada investigated her complaint and found “evidence of racial or ethnic prejudice as well as sexual materials in the work place,” according to documents obtained by CBC News through an Access to Information request." Well that's just a portion of the article. I've added the link to it in the description box below so you can have a look at it for yourselves. Out of the fifty to one hundred commercial airline flights I've been on in my life only two that I can remember had female pilots. We can all agree that most pilots are men. But with the airline business cutting back on salaries and retirement benefits over the last twenty years. Even Captain Chesley Sullenberger the pilot that landed the plane on the Hudson River says that it's a terrible time to work in the aviation industry and that cuts to salaries are getting really bad. And that most of the pilots are doing it because they love it and not because it makes them a lot of money. It's the older pilots that get the large salaries. Some of the new pilots working for discount airlines can make more money managing fast food restaurants then flying planes. That scares me and whenever I get on a plane I'm keenly aware of that. So now Air Canada is going after male pilots and trying to remove any sexual images from the cockpit.Air Canada grapples with 'explicit' material in cockpithttp://www.cbc.ca/news/business/air-c...Brazzers - Attention Air Canadahttp://i0.wp.com/www.brobible.com/wp-...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Mar 30, 2022 • 10min
207 - Red Pill Rehab
"Hi Sandman, maybe you can discuss men who got married and then later discovered MGTOW and the realization it brings with recognizing the thought processes of our wives (their arguing techniques, how they react when you don't care if they hold out on sex, how to delay having kids with them to prevent child support if divorce is inevitable). Discuss different techniques for these people to safeguard their resources and how to be prepared for a divorce if it happens. How to help instill good values to your kids if you happen to have them and keep the wife's values, school's, society's from corrupting their view of the world." Thanks for your question Chris. A married man realizing female nature after the fact is obviously stuck between a rock and a hard place. He now fully realizes that his wife rules over him and yet he's expected tocontinue being a good blue pill mangina. Society already has a name for men that have swallowed the red pill in the middle of a marriage. These are men considered to be in the midst of a mid life crisis. These are men considered too selfish and self absorbed to be making rational choices. Yet all they want to do is have a little bit of fun before they die. To the outside world a typical blue pill man mid-life crisis and a man swallowing the red pill look very similar to wives and mothers. They see a man going through emotional and behavioural changes and they think that he's going through a mid life crisis. But going your own way has far deeper implications then buying a new car and donning a macho attitude. It means a fundamental change in core values and most women will not understand this change in behaviour. And they have the one size fits all approach of the mid life crisis. I know at least a half a dozen people that watch my videos and they share them with their wives. And in many cases their wives hate them for it. And subsequently hate me I suppose. But I don't care about what some married woman has to say to me. If my content can clue in a married man about the unperceived abuse and covert manipulation he gets from his wife then I feel like I'm helping him. I think the first thing we need to define are the levels of a red pill men in a marriage. Like you said there are men without children, men that have their assets tied up into the relationship so if they left they would have to shell out a lot of money for a divorce. And then you have the married men with children. The first level is the relatively newly married man. He becomes aware of the red pill but he's already gone through the expensive wedding and honeymoon. His wife is probably structuring his life. Put all of his stuff in the garage or the basement. He sees that when children arrive it's game over. We would have continued down that path if he was still a blue pill man. But now he is self-aware. He sees love and marriage as a sham and reaches a critical point in his life.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Mar 27, 2022 • 11min
206 - Women React to MGTOW
I was originally going to cover a donation based video today. I have a few of those to catch up on but decided to cover the topic of women responding to MGTOW and what the women I've told about mgtowAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Mar 25, 2022 • 10min
205 - MGTOW Movies
The two biggest movies that most men going their own way respect are Fight Club and The Matrix. Both films came out in nineteen ninety nine which was before nine eleven. And after nine eleven most film studios didn't want to touch films that had anything to do with terrorism. As you may have noticed both Tyler Durden and Morpheus were considered terrorists in those films. Another similarity about these films is that they were created by men. The Wachowski brothers and Chuck Palahniuk were the creators. And all three of these men were part of an organization called Landmark. Now I don't know if Landmark is a cult but the people I've met that were part of landmark, for some of themit worked and for some it didn't. But what I do know is that out of these three men one is a blue pill mangina, one is gay man and the last one is a post op-transexual. I don't have anything against their sexual orientations and choices but I find it ironic that MGTOW looks up to men that are nothing like the red pill protagonists they showcase in their work. But if we dig below the surface you'll begin to see that Tyler Durden and Neo are not really red pill men. They are when they first start in the films but then they change over into something else. And I don't think it's the intention of the Wachowski's or Palahniuk to turn them into male protectors of women. The sad thing is that Hollywood and the corporate entertainment business is something that caters to women. Sixty to seventy percent of box office tickets are sold to women so women want to see themselves portrayed as powerful, beautiful and sexual on the big screen. And if a film doesn't portray women like that then usually it doesn't do well in the box office. The studios after-all have to pander to their market. Thinking about the Matrix the only character that I could really see as a red pill man was Morpheus because he wasn't involved in relationships with women in the first film. His soul purpose was to free minds of people trapped in the matrix. Only in the second film do we learn that he had a prior love interest and that instead of staying with her he decided to follow yet another woman, the oracle. It's almost like he went from the lie he was living with one woman and traded it for a bigger lie with the prophecy of the one. It's quite telling when thecharacters in the films we look up to get their guidance from women. In fight club The Narrator is a blue pill nice guy pussyfooting around the female love interest Marla. And Tyler Durden is like a bad boy Pickup Artist. The film is more about ghosting and creating a social revolution then giving up on traditional relationships with women.Darth Vader in Lovehttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0X9NF...MGTOW in Filmhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ezFEe...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy


