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Rich and Deanna Millentree share their journey of overcoming porn addiction in marriage, emphasizing the importance of faith and communication. They discuss navigating differences, supporting each other through challenges, and finding strength in God's love. The podcast explores the impact of porn addiction on relationships and the role of support, empathy, and understanding in fostering deeper connections.

In this episode, I transform one of my triggers using The F.L.O.S.S. Method with help from three Certified Husband Material Coaches: Andrew Loyd, Juan Mejia, and Rocky Pisor. This episode was recorded live at the recent HMA In A Day workshop as a live demonstration of Trigger Tuesday, one of the weekly coaching calls in Husband Material Academy.The F.L.O.S.S. Method:F = FearL = LieO = Origin StoryS = SadnessS = SurrenderDrew Boa is a Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional and Coach in Colorado Springs, Colorado. Connect with Drew at drewboa.comAndrew Loyd is an Ordained Pastor and Coach in Cottage Grove, Oregon. Connect with Andrew at restoredstorycoaching.comJuan Mejia is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Coach in Atlanta, Georgia. Email Juan at juanmejiacounseling@gmail.com.Rocky Pisor is a Pastoral Counselor and Coach in Fresno, California. Connect with Rocky at reconnecthope.comFree resource mentioned in this episode:What If I Don't Remember Much Of My Childhood? by Adam YoungSupport the showTake the Husband Material Journey...Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTubeStep 2: Join the private Husband Material CommunityStep 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow PornStep 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material AcademyThanks for listening!

Learn about the F.L.O.S.S. method to address triggers, explore childhood experiences, lies individuals believe, origin story, grieving for healing, and tools for transformation. Emphasizes personal growth by understanding root causes, confronting temptations, and overcoming pornography addiction through emotional and physical truth.

Tera Brown went from trying to fix her husband's sex addiction to finding herself, her emotions, her boundaries, and her sacred ground. In this episode, you'll learn what it looks like to heal from relational trauma and feel alive in your body. Tera Brown is a trauma-informed life coach trained by APSATS (Association of Partners of Sex Addiction Treatment Specialists). She woke up from a lifelong pattern of avoiding her emotions when her husband disclosed his sex addiction after 16 years of marriage. Tera and her husband have now been married for 29 years.Tera specializes in helping women and couples create personal safety, emotional sobriety, and peace. Learn more about her coaching practice, support groups, and online classes at coachtera.com.Interested in Tera's experiential retreat?Check out La Loba: The Woman Who KnowsNext retreat: October 18-20, 2024 in Smithfield, UtahMentioned in this episode:The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz (paid link)Support the showTake the Husband Material Journey...Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTubeStep 2: Join the private Husband Material CommunityStep 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow PornStep 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material AcademyThanks for listening!

How do I sit in the dirt with someone who is experiencing sexual brokenness? What if I don't know what to say? What if I find myself dysregulated or sexually aroused by the other person? Jeremy Williamson offers invaluable wisdom and counterintuitive clarity about how "be with" others in such a way that they experience the presence of God.Jeremy Williamson is a storywork coach and counselor with ReStory. He is also the Director of Restorative Experiences at Restoration Project. As a former pastor and missionary with 20+ years of experience, Jeremy serves as a kind and passionate guide for men and women who long to know God and live in wholeness. Email Jeremy at jeremy@restory.life.If you loved this interview...Take the Sitting In The Dirt Course by Chris Bruno and Jeremy Williamson (highly recommended!)Join Sitting In The Dirt Cohort (for 5 weeks with Jeremy)Use the discount code HUSBANDMATERIAL for $10 off!Support the showTake the Husband Material Journey...Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTubeStep 2: Join the private Husband Material CommunityStep 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow PornStep 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material AcademyThanks for listening!

Discover the power of experiential healing work for outgrowing porn, including inner child work and brain spotting. Explore personal connections and overcoming childhood fears through this innovative approach. Join the waitlist for HMA and apply for coaching or healing weekends for a transformative journey.

How do you pursue restoration after a relapse, especially in marriage or ministry leadership? Rocky Pisor tells his own story of processing a porn relapse after 17 years of sobriety. You'll learn how to notice the warning signs of impending relapse, and how to respond to relapse with curiosity and compassion rather than punishing yourself or pretending like everything is fine. There is wisdom in this episode!Rocky Pisor is a Certified Husband Material Coach, Sex Addiction Mentor, Trauma-Informed Facilitator, and Pastoral Counselor who has worked through his own story of freedom from sex addiction. Learn more at regener8mentoring.comRead Rocky's free resource: How to Process a Lapse/RelapseSchedule a free, no-obligation personal chat with Rocky: https://calendly.com/rocky-pisor/quick-chatEmail Rocky at rockyp@regnener8mentoring.comSupport the showTake the Husband Material Journey...Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTubeStep 2: Join the private Husband Material CommunityStep 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow PornStep 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material AcademyThanks for listening!

Guest Sam Jolman, a trauma therapist, discusses the importance of arousal in masculinity, distinguishing sensuality from sexuality. He explores the impact of purity culture, the script of arousal, and the connection between arousal and shame. Embracing sensuality and playfulness, the podcast challenges societal norms and encourages men to reclaim their sexuality for awe and joy.

Explore the journey to freedom from gay porn for Christian men, including overcoming shame and normalizing same-sex attraction. Discover the value of authentic male connections for healing, vulnerability, and breaking free from addiction. Embrace commitment and support systems for conquering porn addiction and reclaiming self-worth.

Certified Unwanted Guide Drew and Clinical Psychologist Doug discuss how childhood experiences shape sexual development, addressing porn addiction, attachment wounds, and healing inner child trauma. Insights on confronting parents for closure, understanding internal family systems, and transforming parenting through healing childhood traumas.