The Imperfects Ben Crowe - Play School
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Mar 15, 2026 Ben Crowe, world-renowned mentor and leadership coach and author of Where The Light Gets In, shares a memorable mantra and bites of wisdom. He explores purpose, the link between play and love, reframing limiting beliefs, rewarding effort over outcome, and leading with compassion. Conversations touch on play deprivation, parenting, career curiosity, and balancing contentment with growth.
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Molly Picklum Reframed Beliefs And Won Titles
- Molly Picklum used a Just Admit It list to face denial, identified beliefs tying worth to winning, then reframed them and won three world tour events.
- Ben recounts she admitted fear, reframed being worthy regardless of results, then became world champion.
Praise Effort Not Outcome With Kids
- As a parent, reward effort and intrinsic motivations instead of outcomes to avoid creating expectation pressure.
- Praise perseverance, problem solving and helping teammates rather than A grades or scoreboard results.
Use Unconditional Support And Daily Wins
- Use unconditional language with children like I love you no matter what and encourage success lists focused on present intrinsic wins.
- Ben suggests 'I love to watch you play' and daily three-wins lists to reframe success now.
