Dilemma Podcast

S03E03: Competing Against Everything - Alfie Kohn

Jan 3, 2022
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INSIGHT

Long-term Goals for Children

  • Parents and teachers often want their children or students to be happy, ethical, creative, and lifelong learners.
  • These goals rarely focus on material success or specific academic tasks, highlighting a common long-term vision for children.
INSIGHT

Competition Undermines Learning and Ethics

  • Grades and homework reduce children's intrinsic interest in learning and deep understanding.
  • Using punitive measures and rewards can decrease ethical behavior and increase self-centeredness in children.
ADVICE

Avoid Rewards and Punishments

  • Avoid using rewards and punishments as primary tools to control children's behavior.
  • They produce short-term compliance but harm interest, quality of work, relationships, and long-term values.
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