This Messy, Gorgeous Love

Devin and Nico Hase offer a grounded approach to using Dharma teachings as tools for navigating intimacy, conflict, vulnerability, appreciation, and repair in close relationships.

Drawing on decades of contemplative training and lived experience, the book translates monastic insights into practical exercises, meditations, and dyadic practices for lay partners.

It emphasizes that relationships are inherently rough (dukkha) and frames partnership as a powerful context for personal and spiritual growth.

The authors present concrete practices such as appreciation, check-ins, and repair strategies, while exploring conflict styles and the pitfalls of 'niceness.

' Accessible and candid, the book blends stories, research-based insights, and guided practices to help readers cultivate resilient, loving partnerships.