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Mentioned in 16 episodes
Eight Dates
Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love
Book • 2019
In 'Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love', John Gottman and Julie Schwartz Gottman provide a step-by-step guide to help couples navigate the challenges of long-term commitment.
Drawing from their extensive research at the Love Lab, the authors outline eight essential conversations that couples should have to build a strong and lasting relationship.
Each date is designed to address a different critical topic, including trust, conflict, intimacy, finances, family, adventure, spirituality, and dreams.
The book includes exercises, open-ended discussion questions, and suggestions for where to have these dates, aiming to foster deeper understanding, empathy, and connection between partners.
Drawing from their extensive research at the Love Lab, the authors outline eight essential conversations that couples should have to build a strong and lasting relationship.
Each date is designed to address a different critical topic, including trust, conflict, intimacy, finances, family, adventure, spirituality, and dreams.
The book includes exercises, open-ended discussion questions, and suggestions for where to have these dates, aiming to foster deeper understanding, empathy, and connection between partners.
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as their latest book, offering structured conversations for couples.


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as previous works by the Gottman's.


Dan Harris

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when discussing what makes up the perfect date.


Julie Gottman

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The Gottmans: “Contempt DESTROYS Your Immune System” - Are You REALLY Listening to Your Partner??
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as a book that provided powerful, yet uncomfortable conversations about various aspects of life and relationships.


Lewis Howes

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as a guide for couples to improve communication and intimacy.


Emily Morse

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How to Build a Relationship That Actually Lasts Forever
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as a helpful resource for understanding relationship dynamics and deal breakers.


Lewis Howes

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