

Bare Marriage
Sheila Gregoire
Tired of Christian pat answers about marriage? The podcast that goes in-depth into marriage, parenting, and even sex--to see how we can live the passionate life we were meant for. Paired with Bare Marriage--the blog!
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Nov 25, 2020 • 44min
Start Your Engines Ep. 14 Guys and Emotions: They're Not Polar Opposites ft. Andrew J. Bauman
Send us Fan MailAlright, gentlemen, we're here again for another Start Your Engines episode! Thank you to Andrew Bauman for joining us today for this important conversation and being a great voice advocating for emotional health.We apologize for the slightly muffled audio, we did our best to clean it up, and we appreciate your grace with us as we begin to invite guests onto the show and work out new technical challenges.Links to things mentioned:Andrew J Bauman's SurveysAndrew J Bauman's WebsiteBooks by Andrew J BaumanTo Support Us: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our workFor tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko FoundationAnd check out our Merch, or any of our courses!Support the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books:The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves BetterThe Marriage You Want and the Study Guide The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great SexAnd she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Nov 19, 2020 • 47min
Episode 78. What Does Emotional Maturity Look Like? ft. Marc Alan Schelske
Send us Fan MailWe want to give a special welcome this week to our first non-family-member guest, Marc Alan Schelske! We hope you enjoy our discussions today all about emotional intelligence and emotional maturity.Links to things mentioned:Marc Alan Schelske's bookMarc Alan Schelske's websiteMarc Alana Schelske's PodcastWorkbook mentionedTo Support Us: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our workFor tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko FoundationAnd check out our Merch, or any of our courses!And don't forget to sign up for Sheila's newsletter! Support the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books:The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves BetterThe Marriage You Want and the Study Guide The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great SexAnd she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Nov 12, 2020 • 39min
Episode 77. Why It's Hard For Victims to Share Their Stories of Abuse
Send us Fan MailSheila and Rebecca decided to take the time this week to further flesh out a podcast topic addressed a few weeks ago, that was perhaps not portrayed in the best way. Thank you for making the 'To Love, Honor, and Vacuum' podcast part of your week! Links to things mentioned:The Blog: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/"Rushing Forgiveness Ruins Intimacy": https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2019/08/10-reasons-why-rushing-forgiveness-ruins-intimacy/Pre-Order 'The Great Sex Rescue': https://www.amazon.ca/Great-Rescue-Sheila-Wray-Gregoire/dp/1540900827Be a part of 'The Great Sex Rescue' Launch Team!: https://forms.gle/A9ZLMdgMR37uK8rQANatalie Hoffman Post: https://www.flyingfreenow.com/message-baptist-church-preached-death-women/https://leslievernick.comPlease check the blog post that accompanies this podcast for further links to things mentioned. Support the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books:The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves BetterThe Marriage You Want and the Study Guide The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great SexAnd she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Oct 29, 2020 • 35min
Start Your Engines Ep. 13: On Arousal Non-Concordance and the Sexy Sex
Send us Fan MailIt's time for our monthly 'Start Your Engines' podcast, with special guest Keith! We hope you enjoyed this conversation all about the sexy sex! Links to things mentioned: 10 Things Husbands Who Are Great Lovers Do: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/10/10-things-husbands-who-are-great-lovers-do/ The Orgasm Course: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/the-orgasm-course/ Some articles from the blog talking about dealing with Pornography addiction: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/04/motivation-for-men-to-fight-pornography/ https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/04/how-to-break-the-stronghold-of-porn/ https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/04/4-stages-of-porn-recovery-what-porn-recovery-in-marriage-looks-like/Support the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books:The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves BetterThe Marriage You Want and the Study Guide The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great SexAnd she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Oct 15, 2020 • 39min
The One MAJOR Roadblock to Orgasm
Send us Fan MailJoin us for another week of the To Love, Honor, and Vacuum Podcast, where Sheila explores some of your comments on how the beliefs we internalize affect a couple's sex life. Link to the blog: http://www.tolovehonorandvacuum.comLink to Pre-Order The Great Sex Rescue: https://www.amazon.com/Great-Sex-Rescue-Recover-Intended/dp/1540900827Support the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books:The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves BetterThe Marriage You Want and the Study Guide The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great SexAnd she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Oct 8, 2020 • 39min
Episode 74. Having Troubles with Orgasm? You are NOT Broken!
Send us Fan MailThis month on the blog we're going to be talking lots about orgasms! Do you struggle with having orgasms? Do you see your body as something working against you, not for you? We're here to help talk about these things!And today we have Sheila, Rebecca AND Connor all hopping on the podcast to give some great thoughts about how we talk about women's sexuality, how we view our sexual needs, and how we can increase the likelihood of orgasming!Blog post mentioned from Monday: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/10/you-are-not-broken-if-you-cant-reach-orgasm/Blog post for this podcast: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/Support the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books:The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves BetterThe Marriage You Want and the Study Guide The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great SexAnd she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Oct 1, 2020 • 40min
Episode 73. Questions on Sexual Abuse and the Road to Recovery
Send us Fan MailJoin us this week as Sheila Wray Gregoire and Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach discuss some important topics -- sexual abuse and when to seek professional help.Links to things mentioned in the podcast: The need for licensed counselling : https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2019/03/question-your-biblical-counsellor/Dan Allender's book: https://www.amazon.com/The-Wounded-Heart-Dan-B-Allender-audiobook/dp/B01ATOK6H8"98 Ways You Could Be Sinning Against Your Husband": https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2019/06/sinning-against-husband/Support the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books:The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves BetterThe Marriage You Want and the Study Guide The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great SexAnd she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Sep 24, 2020 • 35min
Start Your Engines Ep. 12: On Frequency and Feeling Sex-Starved
Send us Fan MailThank you for tuning in to the September edition of the 'Start Your Engines Podcast'! Links mentioned in the episode:Blog Post on Frequency: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/09/how-much-sex-should-you-have-every-week/Email List Sign-up: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.us7.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=7dab5e96bfaeb6aaa1503b481&id=5b44e4e8aaLink for the Blog: http://tolovehonorandvacuum.comSupport the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books:The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves BetterThe Marriage You Want and the Study Guide The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great SexAnd she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Sep 17, 2020 • 45min
Episode 72. What if Frequency and Libido Differences AREN'T the Real Issue?
Send us Fan MailThis month on the blog we’re discussing all things ‘Libido’! Listen in to hear Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach and Sheila Wray Gregoire talk about what could possibly be the key to unlocking your spouses’ low libido, and perhaps make you rethink how you see 'frequency' in relation to healthy sex! Blog Posts Mentioned in this Podcast: How frequently should a healthy couple have sex?:https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/09/how-much-sex-should-you-have-every-week/How to see Every Man’s Battle Differently: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2017/06/every-mans-battle-is-wrong/How to see Sex from a Different Perspective: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/07/understanding-sex-from-a-womans-perspective/Why We Need to See Sex as Mutual: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2019/03/godly-sex-is-mutual-sex/Support the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books:The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves BetterThe Marriage You Want and the Study Guide The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great SexAnd she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

Sep 10, 2020 • 36min
Episode 71. Are Sex and Talking Really the Same Thing?
Send us Fan MailThis week Sheila is flying solo on the podcast, and getting a bit more controversial! Listen in to hear her discuss the concept of how being content with your sex life can perhaps cause it to flourish even more, how sex and talking are NOT equivalent, and how Christians should better handle speaking about divorce. Links for Things Mentioned:Free Sex Pep-Talk Course! https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/sex-pep-talk-course/This week's mentioned post: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/09/libido-can-high-drive-spouses-be-content-with-sex-frequency/My Post on "Are you to blame if your husband has an affair?" https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2019/07/are-you-to-blame-if-your-spouse-cheats-on-you/Book Recommendation: Marc Alan Schelske's "The Wisdom of your Heart" https://www.amazon.com/Wisdom-Your-Heart-Discovering-God-Given/dp/0781414512/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=marc+alan+wisdom&qid=1599678760&sr=8-1Support the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books:The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves BetterThe Marriage You Want and the Study Guide The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great SexAnd she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.


