MissJudged Podcast

This week on the Missjudged Podcast, Alyssa and @MadisonMalloy deliver a much-needed reality check for anyone who’s ever said, “All the good ones are taken.” Spoiler: they’re not. You just might be dating with a terrible mindset, babe.If you’re tired of ghosting, red flags, and your friends telling you to “just manifest him,” this episode breaks down what’s actually getting in your way — and it’s not the apps, your ex, or the algorithm. It’s your own damn thoughts.Get ready to laugh, cringe, and maybe question your entire approach to dating as we unpack:Dating app burnout — Why swiping feels like a full-time job and how to detox without deleting Hinge (again). Lack of chemistry — The myth of “instant spark” and why sometimes the slow burn wins. Hanging with the wrong people — Why your situationships say more about your self-worth than you’d like to admit. Social media Infiltration— How comparing your love life to a highlight reel is making you miserable. Mindset mistakes — How bitterness, overthinking, and fear of rejection quietly sabotage your dating life.Madison and Alyssa keep it real, funny, and a little uncomfortable — because sometimes the truth hurts more than your last situationship.So pour a glass of wine, put your phone on “Do Not Disturb,” and get ready to trade your dating drama for some serious mindset clarity.Support the showLike what you hear? Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tell a friend to help spread the word! The more, the merrier, right? Listen/ Watch to MissJudged Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify |YouTube Stay in the loop and follow us on Instagram: @missjudgedpodcast TikTok: @missjudgedpodcast Hit play and join the conversation— can't wait to have you along for the ride!

Welcome to the digital jungle — where romance begins with a “hey” and ends with a screenshot. In this episode of Missjudged, Alyssa and comedian Luis J. Gomez (@GomezComedy) take a brutally honest (and hysterical) deep dive into the modern dating minefield known as the DMs.From unsolicited “good morning” pics to messages that read like Craigslist ads for emotional damage, nothing is off-limits. They dissect the delicate art of the slide — the flirty emoji, the “accidental” story view, and the 2 a.m. double-tap that everyone pretends was innocent.Alyssa and Luis swap real stories from the DM trenches: the guy who lived in Alyssa’s DMs for 9 years, and the girl who went full send with a nude.They unpack why social media has turned dating into a public-relations nightmare — where every like, comment, and tagged location can start an argument. Is it cheating if he’s just “networking”? And why does everyone suddenly become a part-time FBI agent when their situationship goes quiet online?Expect plenty of chaotic laughter, hot takes, and unsolicited advice as Alyssa and Luis expose how sliding into the DMs can go from cute to catastrophic in three messages or less.Highlights include: The unsolicited pic epidemic and the “anatomy photo rating system” no one asked for The most unhinged opening messages ever received How digital validation fuels relationship insecurity The psychology of blocking And the honest truth about who really slides first The most unhinged opening messages ever receivedIt’s funny, unfiltered, and a little too relatable — a full breakdown of what happens when love lives online and everyone’s ego has Wi-Fi.Support the showLike what you hear? Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tell a friend to help spread the word! The more, the merrier, right? Listen/ Watch to MissJudged Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify |YouTube Stay in the loop and follow us on Instagram: @missjudgedpodcast TikTok: @missjudgedpodcast Hit play and join the conversation— can't wait to have you along for the ride!

Love is blind… but your lawyer shouldn’t be. In this no-fluff, all-facts episode, Alyssa sits down with celebrity divorce attorney @RobertWallack to talk all things prenups, postnups, and what it actually means to protect your heart, your money, and your assets.Whether you’re wildly in love, newly engaged, or just future-planning with someone who still hasn’t deleted their Bumble—you need this episode. We break down the biggest prenup myths (spoiler: no, it doesn’t mean you’re planning to fail), what a solid marriage contract should include, and the major dos and don’ts that could save you a legal headache—and a financial disaster.We also play a hilarious game of “Prenup Myth or Marriage Fact”, busting TikTok rumors, infidelity clause drama, and pop culture nonsense wide open. Oh, and yes—we get into the awkward stuff too: what happens when one person wants a prenup and the other thinks it’s “unromantic”?This episode is funny, wildly informative, and a must-listen for anyone who’s ever said “I do”—or is even thinking about it. Because the best marriages start with clarity… and a damn good contract.What You’ll Hear in This Episode:The truth about what a prenup really is, and why it’s not planning to failWhy couples sign postnups after marriage (sometimes even after infidelity)The biggest myths about debt, business ownership, and real estate in marriageHow infidelity clauses actually work and the surprising ways they’re enforcedWhy lifestyle clauses (like weight or sex requirements) don’t hold up in courtThe top reasons prenups get thrown out and how to avoid costly mistakesSupport the showLike what you hear? Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tell a friend to help spread the word! The more, the merrier, right? Listen/ Watch to MissJudged Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify |YouTube Stay in the loop and follow us on Instagram: @missjudgedpodcast TikTok: @missjudgedpodcast Hit play and join the conversation— can't wait to have you along for the ride!

Ah, the situationship—that magical gray area where you’re basically dating… but not really. On this episode of Missjudged, Alyssa and guest Dating Expert Ben Hart (@bennyinc) get real about why we keep falling into these undefined “almost-relationships” and how to tell if you’re thriving… or just wasting your prime years waiting for someone who “doesn’t like labels.”We break down the many flavors of situationships—everything from the post-breakup rebound you swear isn’t serious to the permanent plus-one who mysteriously disappears every holiday. We’ll talk about how to spot when it’s time to call it quits, how to end things without looking like a complete psychopath, and why sometimes leaning into the chaos might actually help you figure out what you really want.Basically, if you’ve ever been someone’s “it’s complicated” on Facebook—or worse, their emergency contact without a title—this episode is for you.What You’ll Hear in This Episode:The different types of situationships (ho-phase, commitment-avoidant, and even “relationship-ships”)Why some situationships are really just relationships on clearanceRed flags: last-minute plans, mixed signals, and “relationship behavior” without commitmentThe art of breaking up with someone you were never technically dating.How to actually thrive if you decide to stick it out (spoiler: it requires humor, boundaries, and maybe therapy).Tune in, laugh at your own bad decisions, and remember: just because it’s a situationship doesn’t mean you have to be situational.Support the showLike what you hear? Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tell a friend to help spread the word! The more, the merrier, right? Listen/ Watch to MissJudged Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify |YouTube Stay in the loop and follow us on Instagram: @missjudgedpodcast TikTok: @missjudgedpodcast Hit play and join the conversation— can't wait to have you along for the ride!

Buckle up, lovebugs—this one’s a ride. Dating coach and professional matchmaker Anna Morgenstern (@Annamorgenstern) joins Alyssa on the MissJudged Podcast to spill the messy, hilarious, and sometimes heartbreaking truth about modern dating. From ghosting to catfishing, we’re exposing why swiping culture has us all exhausted—and whether matchmaking is the real cure to dating app burnout.Anna also shares her wild personal love story—reconnecting with her now-husband years after buying a Coachella ticket off Craigslist (yes, really). Together, we dig into the differences between algorithmic app matches vs. curated human matchmaking, how too much “choice” leads to dating paralysis, and why real chemistry can’t be coded.✨ In this episode, you’ll hear:Anna’s journey from dating coach to full-time matchmakerThe untold story of meeting her husband through Craigslist + HingeAlyssa’s WORST matchmaker experiences (they’re cringe)Why dating apps are full of filters, catfish, and false hopeThe shocking mistakes most singles make when searching for loveGame time: Algorithm vs. Matchmaker—who wins?How AI is reshaping the future of love and relationshipsIf you’re single, swiping, or just dating-curious, this episode will have you laughing, nodding, and maybe rethinking your entire Hinge profile.Support the showLike what you hear? Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tell a friend to help spread the word! The more, the merrier, right? Listen/ Watch to MissJudged Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify |YouTube Stay in the loop and follow us on Instagram: @missjudgedpodcast TikTok: @missjudgedpodcast Hit play and join the conversation— can't wait to have you along for the ride!

YEP, this one is for the men AND the women. Alyssa is joined by the always insightful (and hilarious) @chrstinamavrones for a no-holds-barred conversation about the fine line between spotting real red flags… and sabotaging something that might actually have potential.We’re talking about the dating tightrope: when to run, when to stay, and when to admit that maybe TikTok isn’t your therapist. Together, we break down the most common red flags millennial men and women are calling out in 2025—from love bombing and communication issues to vague Instagram behavior and bad vibes (aka: the vibe check fail).But we also make an important distinction: which red flags are serious signs to GTFO—and which ones are just "DAMN, GET OFF TIKTOK" nonsense that might be keeping you single.If you’ve ever found yourself deep-diving a stranger’s astrology chart before the second date, or wondering if you’re being too picky (or not picky enough), this episode is for you. Equal parts funny, self-aware, and brutally real—tune in before you send that next “what are we?” text.Support the showLike what you hear? Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tell a friend to help spread the word! The more, the merrier, right? Listen/ Watch to MissJudged Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify |YouTube Stay in the loop and follow us on Instagram: @missjudgedpodcast TikTok: @missjudgedpodcast Hit play and join the conversation— can't wait to have you along for the ride!

What happens when your romantic partner becomes your business partner? Spoiler: it’s not always #PowerCoupleGoals.This week on MissJudged, Alyssa is joined by Dryden and Emily—founders of the lifestyle brand @wildandroam.co—for a raw, hilarious, and deeply real convo about what it actually takes to run a business (especially in the highly emotional wedding industry!) with your spouse without losing your mind or your relationship.We go deep on:- What makes working together work—and where couples usually go wrong- The biggest challenges they’ve faced as co-founders and life partners- Their personal systems, boundaries, and breakdowns (yep, they go there)- How to stay romantic when you’re knee-deep in invoices and content calendarsAnd of course, we play our favorite new game: “Conference Room or Couples Therapy?”—where they reveal which fights are business-related and which ones need a licensed professional (you’ll be surprised which is which).Whether you're building a brand with your boo or just wondering how anyone survives both Slack and sex with the same person, this episode is your crash course in collaboration, communication, and compromise.Support the showLike what you hear? Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tell a friend to help spread the word! The more, the merrier, right? Listen/ Watch to MissJudged Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify |YouTube Stay in the loop and follow us on Instagram: @missjudgedpodcast TikTok: @missjudgedpodcast Hit play and join the conversation— can't wait to have you along for the ride!

Why are so many men and women out here treating commitment like it’s life or death? In this episode, I sit down with the king of dating advice- Ben Hart (@Bennyinc), for a brutally honest and wildly entertaining conversation about why men and women are terrified to define the relationship—especially in their 30s and 40s.We talk ghosting, “not ready” red flags, emotional unavailability dressed up as casual vibes, and the chaos of dating in a major city when everyone’s been through at least one character-building breakup. He opens up about the fear of choosing wrong, the pressure to “have it all together,” and why emotional intimacy can feel scarier than sex.Whether you’ve been in a year-long “situationship” or just want to scream into the void about dating apps, this one’s for you. It’s funny, painfully relatable, and might just make you rethink that “he’s just confused” text.Listen if you’ve ever heard:“I’m just not ready for something serious right now.”“Let’s just go with the flow.”“I really like you… I’m just working on myself.”Get ready for some hard truths, eye opening thoughts and let’s not forget the laughs.Support the showLike what you hear? Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tell a friend to help spread the word! The more, the merrier, right? Listen/ Watch to MissJudged Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify |YouTube Stay in the loop and follow us on Instagram: @missjudgedpodcast TikTok: @missjudgedpodcast Hit play and join the conversation— can't wait to have you along for the ride!

Welcome back to MissJudged—Season 2 is here, and we’re coming in hot.In this special kickoff episode, Alyssa returns as your brand-new solo host and wastes no time diving into the chaotic world of gym culture with none other than celebrity trainer Daniel McKenna, a.k.a. @theirish_yank. You might know him from Equinox or his viral Irish wit—but today, he's joining us to call out the absolute nobs you’ll find at your local gym.From the girl popping in late to Pilates having no f**s about personal space, to the guy giving unsolicited spotting advice, to the mirror-starers who think they’re subtle (spoiler: they’re not)—we’re breaking it all down. Is there a line between confidence and cringe? Should you ever approach someone mid-set? And why do some gym bros act like it’s Coachella with dumbbells?This episode is equal parts roast, therapy, and hilarious commentary. You'll find yourself laughing, maybe cringing, and definitely thinking of that one friend who fits every stereotype we mention.If you’ve ever stepped foot in a gym or a gym class—or avoided one because of the energy—you don’t want to miss this.Support the showLike what you hear? Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tell a friend to help spread the word! The more, the merrier, right? Listen/ Watch to MissJudged Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify |YouTube Stay in the loop and follow us on Instagram: @missjudgedpodcast TikTok: @missjudgedpodcast Hit play and join the conversation— can't wait to have you along for the ride!

Being a boss as a woman isn’t just about power suits and fancy titles—it’s about owning your space, making bold moves, and shutting down the doubters.  This week, Alyssa and Teresa sit down with @drjenandjuice to talk about what it really means to be a female boss, the challenges of running a company in this society, and why being in charge isn’t just a flex—it’s a whole lifestyle. Bonus points- we learn some eye health facts!What does it really mean to be a boss as a woman in today’s world? Is it empowering? Exhausting? A little bit of both? This week, Alyssa and Teresa are joined by @drjenandjuice to talk about what it’s like to run the show, handle the pressure, and still have a life outside of the hustle. We’re getting into:The reality of being a female CEO—beyond the Instagram highlight reelDo women have to work harder than men to be taken seriously?The moments that made us want to quit—but didn’tAnd guys, this isn’t just for the ladies—you’ll want to hear this too. Because understanding women in leadership isn’t just about empowerment—it’s about how we all win when women take charge.Support the showLike what you hear? Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tell a friend to help spread the word! The more, the merrier, right? Listen/ Watch to MissJudged Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify |YouTube Stay in the loop and follow us on Instagram: @missjudgedpodcast TikTok: @missjudgedpodcast Hit play and join the conversation— can't wait to have you along for the ride!