How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett

Have you ever been talking to or texting a cool, attractive woman, but you didn’t know how to ask for her number… so you lost out on the date? Or maybe you saw a group of women at a bar, and you wanted to approach, but you felt too intimidated… so you did nothing. Inaction can crush your confidence and keep you feeling lonely.Let’s fix this! In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett shares 9 of his favorite “advanced dating tips” to help you take action, including how to ask for a number, and how to confidently approach large groups. Use these 9 moves to stop feeling lonely and START attracting women as your most confident, authentic self.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRATICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

As a single man, you likely battle fear from time to time—and not just on the dating scene.Maybe you’re afraid to be emotionally vulnerable with people because you’ve been told it’s a sign of weakness.Perhaps you get angry—at women, the world, yourself—and you can feel the shackles of toxic masculinity tighten around your wrists.And you might be confused about how to date and flirt in the #MeToo Era (“Can I still make moves, or is that harassment?”)Today’s special guest can help you navigate what it means to be a single man in 2023, both on and off the dating landscape.In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes award-winning writer Alex Manley, author of the groundbreaking new book, “The New Masculinity: A Roadmap for a 21st-Century Definition of Manhood.”A longtime dating editor for AskMen, Manley wrote “The New Masculinity” to give today’s men a blueprint to become more evolved, forward-thinking and progressive.And take it from Connell: Women LOVE evolved, progressive men.In this lively conversation, Alex shares a host of tips and insights on the art of being a better man, including… ✔ How to escape toxicity and anger, so you can be masculine as well as kind and open- hearted✔ Why you WANT to be “friend-zoned” by women (That’s correct! It can be a good thing.)✔ Three game-changing dating tips you can apply now, for stronger, more genuine connections✔ Why pretending to be an “alpha male” can hurt your dating prospects✔ Why you should NOT cold-approach random women (the rules have changed!), and what to do instead.Listen now, so that Alex Manley can help you go from fearful and confused about your sense ofnself, to awakening a true, fulfilling new masculinity.Quotes"Being mysterious and being withholding and not communicating with your partner is not a winning strategy. It might work on people who have certain self-esteem issues, but for a healthy relationship, you need to be open, honest, and communicative.".." -Alex Manley"It's important to remember that everyone has something to offer and something that makes them unique. You just have to be willing to look for it and appreciate it." - Connell Barrett"Friendships between men and women can be incredibly valuable and rewarding, and can teach us a lot about ourselves and each other." - Alex ManleyFeatured in the episodeConnelll BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationAlex ManleyDating Editor, AskMenhttp://www.alexmanley.com/https://www.instagram.com/alex_icon/TO LEARN MORE ABOUT “THE NEW MASCULINITY”:http://www.ecwpress.com/products/the-new-masculinityGO TO ASKMEN TO READ DATING ADVICE FROM ALEX MANLEY:http://www.askmen.comTO LEARN MORE ABOUT ALEX MANLY:http://www.AlexManley.comFOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactChapters00:14 Introduction00:24 Unlock Your Authenticity with Man to Woman Communication15:19 New Book Guides Men in Changing World19:42 Unlearning Toxic Masculinity: A Wake-Up Call31:20 Female Friendship: The Key to Understanding Women24:50 Redefining Attraction: Confidence and Courtesy26:33 Unlocking Romantic Happiness in Relationships27:42 Recognizing the Multidimensional Nature of Relationships28:56 Embracing the Complexity of Self in Dating40:47 Career Success: The Secret to Dating Confidence51:05 The Myth of the Mysterious Man in Dating01:00:00 Unrealistic beauty standards harm your dating life01:05:00 The Power of Being Yourself, with a Touch of George Costanza01:17:00 Outro

You know what sucks more than rainy Mondays and popup ads? Running out of things to say on dates.You’ve been there, right? After “Hey, nice to meet you,” you get stuck in your head. What should you talk about? Her job? Your dog? The weather.And the only thing worse than boring conversation is when your date is filled with….um [pause]… awkward [errrrr]… silences.And you know what that means: No second date.If you struggle coming up with good first date topics, you’re in the right place! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett—who’s had over 1,000 first dates!—shares his best tips for what to talk about, so you can choose topics that help you make romantic sparks fly.You’re about to learn…✔ The 5 best topics to talk about on first dates, to help create a strong emotional connection, as your best, authentic self✔ The topics to NEVER talk about on (make sure you don’t fall into these conversational traps!)✔ The one question you should ask ALL of your first dates, to help you create an emotional connection with ANYONE, even if you and your date don’t have much in common!Quotes"When you focus the conversation on her, on yourself, and on shared passions and interests, you create a powerful connection." - Connell Barrett"Authentic connections are formed through meaningful conversations that resonate with both of you."."- Connell BarrettListen now, so you can stop struggling with what to say on dates, and start discussing stimulating first date topics that heighten emotional connection… and help you land the dream girlfriend you want.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRATICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Connell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 Introduction00:20 Mastering First Dates: Expert Tips from a Dating Coach06:49 Creating Meaningful Connections: Making the Conversation about Passions10:01 Spark to Flame: Connecting Through Shared Passions12:30 Creating Deep Connections Through Emotional Experiences15:46 Emotionally Connecting: Unleashing the Power of Family and Travel Conversations17:51 Building Emotional Bridges on First Dates22:21 Embracing the Power of Genuine Conversations23:39 Outro

WARNING! Listening to this episode may lead to you getting hit with a big stick! (In a good way.)Just a wild guess: You want more confidence and passion in your life, not just in dating but in many areas, right? But deep down, you sometimes question your worth, both to women and to the world. And desirable women tend to see you as a “nice guy” or friend, not as a lover.It can make you wonder if you’ll ever reach your potential as a man, and perhaps never attract the kind of woman you want. And no one wants to settle, or be lonely. Let’s smash those fears and doubts with a great big stick! In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, host Connell Barrett welcomes two very special guests: Tony Endelman and Dr. Robert Glover. Endelman is the author of the bestselling new book, “The Big Stick: A Roadmap for a 21st-Century Definition of Manhood.” The book is a blueprint on how to be an attractive man, based on Glover’s 40 years helping men overcome the debilitating problem of “Nice Guy Syndrome.”In this fun, raw conversation, Endelman and Glover share some of the best, most practical tips from “The Big Stick,” including…✔ How to break free from Nice Guy Syndrome and become an Integrated Man—happier, more confident, more attractive to women✔ How to stop getting stuck in your head on dates, and always know what to say and how to say✔ How to smash out of the friend zone on dates using The Three Ts✔ How to be an attractive man starting today, using a simple, 3-step strategy✔ Several exercises you can do today to destroy limiting beliefs and build true, authentic confidenceGet ready! Tony and the good doctor are about to hand you a big stick. Swing it, so you can stop doubting yourself and start living with passion and fulfillment, on and off the dating landscape.Quotes"I realized that engaging in things that make me miserable is counterproductive. It's time to leave them behind and start pursuing activities that truly ignite my inner passion." -Tony Endelman"Through personal growth fueled by valuable lessons and failures, I've witnessed the transformative power of this knowledge in changing lives, including my own," reveals Barrett.." - Dr. Robert Glover"Experiences reveal the transformative power of honest and compassionate communication, sparking a captivating mix of surprise, enthusiasm, and curiosity.." - Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformationhttps://datingtransformation.comhttps://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationDr Robert GloverCo Author of “The Big Stick"https://www.drglover.com/https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-robert-glover-2421428/Tony EndelmanCo Author of “The Big Stick""https://tonyendelman.com/https://www.instagram.com/tonyendelman/LEARN ABOUT “THE BIG STICK”:http://www.bigstickbook.comBUY “THE BIG STICK” ON AMAZON:https://www.amazon.com/Big-Stick-Collected-Applied-Teachings-ebook/dp/B0C5N6VZ6C/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0_encoding=UTF8&qid=1684431647&sr=8-1LEARN MORE ABOUT TONY, AND HIS INTEGRATED MAN COURSE:http://www.TonyEndelman.comLEARN MORE ABOUT DR. GLOVER, AND HIS COURSE AND BOOKS:www.drgolver.comFOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH YOUR HOST, DATING COACH CONNELL BARRETT, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactChapters00:17 Introduction00:06:24 Breaking Free: Lessons from “No More Mr. Nice Guy”00:10:45 Unmasking Covert Contracts: Revealing Toxic Manipulation00:17:21 A Life-Altering Journey: Transformed by a Transformative Book00:22:42 Transformation Begins: The Profound Words That Started It All00:23:41 Unlocking Happiness: The Hidden Wisdom of Sitting Up Straight00:25:14 Shifting Mindsets: Embracing Gratitude and Positive Change00:30:28 The Liberation of Honesty: Harnessing Transformative Power00:42:11 Conquering Anxiety, Mastering Social Skills for Dating00:55:15 Embrace Your Authenticity: Action Speaks Louder01:03:41 Challenging the Perfection Myth: Women's Insecurities Revealed01:08:06 Revolutionizing the Dating Game: Unveiling Women's Perspectives01:20:47 Male Relationships and Success: The Vital Connection01:26:37 Integrated Man University or Integration Nation: Join the Transformation01:28 Outro

So you’re trying to write your online-dating profile, but you’re just staring at an empty screen. What do you write? How do you talk about yourself?If you do this wrong, you can kiss matches and dates goodbye.If you do it RIGHT, well, you’ll be kissing your next date very soon.If you don’t know how to describe yourself on the dating apps, you’re in the right place. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett shares 15 of his best tips for what to write on your dating app profile. Connell is about to teach you…✔ The biggest things NOT to write on your profile, and what to write instead✔ The one-line “hook” to use at the start of your bio that guarantees she’ll keep reading✔ How to write fun, flirty prompts on Bumble and Hinge that leads to matches and dates✔ The right way to end your bio that TRIPLES your chances of matching with her, and even make her send YOU the first messagePlus 11 more practical, tested tips that you can use today.Listen now, so you can stop struggling with online dating, and learn how to describe yourself on the dating apps—and start dating wonderful women!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKSBUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRATICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"Your dating profile is like a marketing campaign. Focus on what's in it for her, make it fun, and show her your personality”- Connell BarrettRemember, dating is a numbers game. Embrace the journey of going on multiple dates before finding the right person,"- Connell BarrettChapters00:06 Introduction00:16 Unlock the Secrets to Crafting an Authentic Dating Profile6:25 Writing an Irresistible Dating Bio: Hooks, Not Clichés10:11 Master the Skill of Writing to Capture Her Attention19:08 Unleashing Playful Humor: Going Beyond Clichés in Your Profile24:26 Crafting a Compelling Dating App Bio: The Power of a Call to Action27:21 Infusing Edge and Playfulness into Your Bio29:58 Crafting First Date Prompts that Leave a Lasting Impression34:53 Flirtatious Prompts: Captivating Genuine Connections37:06 Outro

OK, a quick joke.How much does an introvert weigh? Not enough to break the ice. (Rim shot!)Humor aside, dating can be hard if you’re an introverted guy. It’s difficult (and feels impossible!) to cold-approach an intriguing woman at a bar, party, or social occasion. And you may think that women want outgoing, charismatic men—not quiet, thoughtful guys like you. And that can hurt your confidence.Well, if you feel you’re at a dating disadvantage as an introvert, here’s some good news. A LOT of wonderful women are very attracted to introverted men.Take it from your host, dating coach Connell Barrett, who happens to be a card-carrying introvert: What you THINK is a dating weakness is actually a dating strength. Women LOVE introverted men, as long as you channel your most authentic, attractive self—and learn the art of emotional connection.In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, Connell welcomes dating expert Anthony Recenello, who helps introverted men upgrade their social skills so that they can make emotional connections with women. He and Connell share tons of tips on dating as an introverted man.Also, fun fact: Anthony used to coach Connell! Years ago, Anthony helped your host go from insecure and introverted to confident and downright magnetic to women. So, it’s like Jedi Luke Skywalker interviews Master Yoda.In this far-reaching conversation, Connell and Anthony help you get more confidence and more dates, and discuss…✔ How to be charismatic with women, even if you’re an introvert—without acting like someone you’re not✔ A simple, effective strategy to meet women off of the apps, without having to do approaches✔ The No. 1 biggest secret to dating as an introverted man, that Anthony gave Connell when they worked together✔ Why dating success is not about “picking women up” but rather about making genuine emotional connections✔ How to never “run out of things to say” on dates, so you have fun, flirty conversations with womenOh, and catch Anthony showing off his coaching skills on a brand-new dating reality show, “Love Always,” on Paramount Plus.Listen now, so that you can stop feeling insecure and start dating with confidence, while making genuine emotional connections—and doing it with total authenticity and respect for women.QUOTES"In like-minded communities, I found confidence, joy, and authenticity. It's not about bars and going out for me; it's about connecting with people who share my passions.”- Anthony RecenelloActive listening creates a powerful impression when you ask a question and allow someone to share without interruption. It shows your genuine interest in them and encourages them to open up further."- Anthony RecenelloFEATURED IN THIS EPISODEAnthony RecenelloFounder and Dating Coach of Wolf & GardenWebsite:https://recenello.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/anthonyrecenello/TO LEARN MORE ABOUT ANTHONY, OR TAKE HIS FREE CLASS:http://www.recenello.com/freeclassCHECK OUT ANTHONY’S NEW REALITY SHOW:https://deadline.com/2023/05/paramount-pansexual-reality-dating-series-love-allways-lexi-paloma-premiere-date-1235367102/FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactCHAPTERS00:00 Introduction00:19 Unveiling the Charisma Formula05:03 The Charisma Formula: Authentic Expression and Presence16:55 Enhancing Social Skills through Daily Socializing23:57 From Improv to Acting: How It Impacted Relationships28:25 The Three Keys to Confidence: Presence, Purpose, and Health37:15 Transforming Lives: A Dating Method for Introverts43:36 Boosting Introvert Confidence through Community Validation47:06 Delving into the Art of Flirting and Sexuality52:13 The Power of Intentions: Candid Conversations about Sex57:36 Expressing Good Intentions and Genuine Emotions01:03:16 Extroverted Friends: Do They Just Talk About Nothing?01:08:27 Mastering Presence and Purpose in Conversations01:15:32 Uncovering Biography Topics and Preferences in Discussions01:20:49 Making Better Connections: The Importance of Early Introductions01:27:00 OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com/

You finally get a good match on a dating app with a cool, attractive woman you’d LOVE to meet. You craft the “perfect” opener, send it, and wait for her reply.And wait… and wait… and wait. Crickets, tumbleweeds, radio silence.Bottom line? You’re just not sure how to start a conversation on a dating app. You doing something wrong but you’re not sure what. It can make you feel like the apps will never work for you. Another dateless weekend approaches.Let’s change all of that!In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett shares 23 of his best tips for starting conversations on the apps, so you can get women writing you back… and go on dates!Connell is about to teach you…✔ The No. 1 biggest secret to writing dating-app openers that start fun, flirty conversations✔ How to quickly write a personalized opener that makes her EXCITED to write you back✔ The 5 kinds of openers you never, ever want to send to women… and the 5 “power openers” that are sure to get her writing you back.✔ His 7 funniest copy-paste openers you can use to get girls giggling, just in case you get stuck with what to writeAnd you’ll learn how to start a conversation on a dating app while showcasing your best, most authentic personality… because women like you for YOU.Listen now, to STOP getting ghosted on the apps, and START having flirty conversations that lead to dates.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRATICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

You’d love to have fun, flirty first dates with women you’re attracted to… and have the dates go great, right? But maybe you lack confidence on first dates, you run out of things to say, and women either ghost you or say, “You seem nice, but I wasn’t feeling the connection.” So, you now have two choices: Get a nice inflatable woman, or (better yet!), listen to this podcast and have fun, flirty dates that help you attract your dream girlfriend! Tough choice, right?In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—offers 27 first date tips for guys, to help you make sparks fly.Get ready to learn…✔ The exact words to use to when asking her out, to get a “yes!” ✔ The 7 first-date questions you can ask to create a romantic connection✔ Connell’s top 3 ways to go for (and get!) the first kiss, in a way women love✔ A simple, 3-step system to create mutual sparks while authentic, so that your date becomes attracted to the REAL you.PLUS: Connell shares his top tip for instant first-date confidence.Bad first dates are no fun, and they can make you want to give up on dating. Listen now to all 27 first date tips for guys, to go from frustration… to making sparks fly, and doing it as your true, most authentic self.For a Free Strategy Call with Connell, to Learn How to Attract Your Dream Relationship:www.datingtransformation.com/contactGet Connell’s No. 1 Bestselling Dating Book for Men, “Dating Sucks but You Don’t,” Your Practical Guide on How to Get a Girlfriend by Being Radically Authentic:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

You want to confidently date wonderful women, flirt with charm, and find your dream girlfriend. Right?But self-doubt holds you back, you’re not sure how to talk to girls… and desirable women just don’t seem into you.Rejection. Loneliness. Low confidence. Dating can suck. But it doesn’t have to!In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—shares the most important secret for learning how to get a girlfriend: become Radically Authentic. Connell gives it to you straight. Creepy “pickup” tricks don’t work. Scripted lines don’t work. Pretending to be someone you’re not doesn’t work. What does work? Unleashing the power of Radical Authenticity to awaken your most attractive self. Because women like you for YOU. You’re about to learn the secrets of being Radically Authentic, such as…✔ How to be confident with women, so you can approach cute girls and get dates… even if you’re not tall or great-looking✔ The 5 steps you can take TODAY to put you on the path to finding your dream girlfriend.✔ How to “spark attraction” just by speaking your honest, authentic self, and never “run out of things to say”✔ PLUS: At the end of the podcast, Connell gives you a practical, one-sentence marching order that will transform your confidence and your dating success IF you put it into practice.Dating can make you feel frustrated and rejected. It doesn’t have to be this way! YOU ARE ENOUGH as your authentic self to gain confidence, flirt with charm… and find a wonderful woman who loves you for YOU.Listen now, to go from self-doubt and loneliness to confidently dating wonderful women who like you for your TRUE, authentic self.For a Free Strategy Call with Connell, to Learn How to Attract Your Dream Relationship:www.datingtransformation.com/contactGet Connell’s No. 1 Bestselling Dating Book for Men, “Dating Sucks but You Don’t,” Your Practical Guide on How to Get a Girlfriend by Being Radically Authentic:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

If you’re stuck in the Friend Zone with women, dating coach Connell Barrett has been there. He didn’t just live in the Friend Zone—he owned real estate there.But he learned how to escape. And in this special LIVE COACHING episode with his client, Chris, Connell will give you a practical plan to stop getting “friend zoned” and start igniting sparks with women you’re interested in.That’s right! This episode is the second-best thing to working with a great dating coach, because you get to listen in and use ALL of the tips.If you’re like Chris, you’ve had his struggles: He could get dates, but women kept saying the same thing after a date or two: “You’re a nice guy, but I’m not feeling a connection. But we can be friends.”In this episode, Connell gives Chris—and you—a simple plan that helped Chris go from hearing “Let’s be friends” to “Let’s make out!”These tips transformed his dating life, and they can do the same for you.You’re about to learn…✔ Why you’re getting stuck in friend zone, and how to escape✔ How to harness the power of “man-to-woman communication” to ignite romantic sparks on dates✔ The one-sentence “power compliment” to give your date to keep you out of the friend zone✔ How to never “run out of things to say,” so that you can be flirty, funny and authentic—because women like you for YOU!Connell helped Chris go from the friend zone to fun, flirty dates. And you can fix the friend zone, too! Listen now.For a Free Strategy Call with Connell, to Learn How to Attract Your Dream Relationship:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGet Connell’s Bestselling Dating Guide for men, “Dating Sucks but You Don’t,” your step-by-step guide on how to get a girlfriend:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Chapters00:00:00 Introduction00:03:05 The three social contexts00:05:46 The man-to-woman communication00:10:01 Book your free call today with Connell Barrett00:11:42 Coaching Chris00:17:05 Chris’ typical dates00:21:02 The seven essentials of great dates00:33:47 Get the amazing book of Connell, “Dating Sucks, But You Don’t”00:35:12 Continuation in coaching Chris00:37:09 Chris on his man-to-woman communication00:45:49 How to be yourself in dating00:47:58 The four escalators00:46:58 Connell’s tips to Chris01:03:47 Outro