The Self-Confidence Project

If you're single, there is a good chance you're dating online. And if you are, you're probably feeling frustrated, annoyed or maybe even cynical about the whole process. Chances are you could be burnt out. That's why in today's episode, I want to share with you a few ways you can overcome this burnout, get back on track and start dating with more enjoyment.  If you're interested in learning more about Kimberly and working with her, please head over to her website here. Want to join my mailing list? Download The Dating Handbook For Men and receive monthly updates, freebies and new offers? Join here. Ready to start working with Kimberly? Book a free consultation here. © 2021 The Self-Confidence Project Inc. All rights reserved.

Many of us have experienced relationships of abuse. But when we start dating someone, we don't usually know whether that relationship will end up becoming abusive or not. So what is abuse? And what are some signs to look out for as you get to know someone new? Shawn has worked in the field of domestic and sexual violence prevention for over 5 years. He has presented on topics ranging from consent, healthy relationships, human trafficking, warning signs of violence, and policy implications. Through the use of his expertise and social justice, he is driven to create equitable, inclusive, and safe communities. Amanda has been in the world of Domestic and sexual violence prevention for 3 years. She has given educational presentations to groups that range from Pre-K to those in Residential M.D. programs. She is also a nationally recognized advocate for victims of crime and spends time on a crisis intervention hotline. Her passion for equity, inclusion, diversity, and justice is what drives her to be the best advocate and educator she can be. Learn more about Touchy Subjects here. Need support? https://www.thehotline.org/ If you're interested in learning more about Kimberly and working with her, please head over to her website here. Want to join my mailing list? Download The Dating Handbook For Men and receive monthly updates, freebies and new offers? Join here. © 2021 The Self-Confidence Project Inc. All rights reserved.

Men, do you suffer from Erectile Dysfunction? Ladies, from painful sex? Maybe you have a low libido? How does one date when they knowingly have a sexual limitation? Today, I have the pleasure of chatting with Anna Leonarda to share her story of surviving cancer and dating with sexual limitations. She has also developed a new dating app (based in the USA called Entwine Dating) to help those overcome shameful sexual stigma and help people find love, even if sex isn't the highest priority for them. Anna Leonarda is a 9-year breast cancer survivor from Chicago, Illinois, who because of treatment developed a condition where she found intercourse too painful and eventually impossible. Recently divorced, she wondered how she would enter the dating scene when she has sexual limitations. She wondered how men with Erectile Dysfunction date. Anna is here to tell you her story of how she turned a life-changing cancer diagnosis into a positive one to help others who struggle to find companionship due to their sexual limitations. Connect and try Anna's free dating app here. If you're interested in learning more about Kimberly and working with her, please head over to her website here. Want to join my mailing list? Download The Dating Handbook For Men and receive monthly updates, freebies and new offers? Join here. © 2021 The Self-Confidence Project Inc. All rights reserved.

Want to know how to assess the health of your relationship? Join Sammi and me talk about 8 categories to assess when it comes to your relationships. Making sure these areas are balanced will help you to form healthy, stable relationships. You might be surprised what the categories are! Sammi Jaeger is the Founder of Fuel Collective and Co-Host of The Date Forever Podcast. She is obsessed with the way the quality of our relationships impacts the quality of our lives. She is a huge advocate of the UN Global Goals and knows that making true global progress, starts with the quality of our relationships. Fuel Collective is more than a business, it is a movement towards better relationships and a better world. By using a blend of business and relationship tools they empower couples to create and keep thriving relationships. They've flipped the model of relationship coaching from reactive to proactive through their 8-tank Fuelled Up Life methodology, which allows couples to quickly identify what area of their life or relationship needs fuel before it hits empty. You can contact Sammi here and here. If you're interested in learning more about Kimberly and working with her, please head over to her website here. Want to join my mailing list? Download The Dating Handbook For Men and receive monthly updates, freebies and new offers? Join here. © 2021 The Self-Confidence Project Inc. All rights reserved.

Should you give your partner an ultimatum? I have a guilty pleasure of watching dating and relationship shows on Netflix. It's an occupational hazard. And there is a new show on Netflix called The Ultimatum - Marry or Move On. It's designed to "help" couples determine whether they want to marry their partners or move on by making them date someone else for 3 weeks. Wait, what!? Yeah.  Have a listen to see my thoughts and observations on this type of relationship intervention. If you're interested in learning more about Kimberly and working with her, please head over to her website here. Want to join my mailing list? Download The Dating Handbook For Men and receive monthly updates, freebies and new offers? Join here. © 2021 The Self-Confidence Project Inc. All rights reserved.

Many of us are experiencing more stress, overwhelm and anxiety. Whether this has been brought on by the pandemic, a tragedy or something else, we are seeing staggering rates of depression in individuals. It's not unlikely you or your partner has dealt with it at some point. So how do you manage a relationship if your partner is depressed? In today's solo episode, I wanted to share some suggestions and thoughts on how to manage a relationship if your partner is depressed. If you're interested in learning more about Kimberly and working with her, please head over to her website here. Want to join my mailing list? Download The Dating Handbook For Men and receive monthly updates, freebies and new offers? Join here. © 2021 The Self-Confidence Project Inc. All rights reserved.

Not every man is made up of 3% body fat, and trust me, not everyone wants to date someone like this. With over 42% of Americans being obese, you're not alone when it comes to dating with some extra weight on you. So what gives if you're an overweight man and you're dating? Today I want to share 5 tips about dating if you carry extra pounds and help you bust through some self-limited beliefs that come along with it. If you're interested in learning more about Kimberly and working with her, please head over to her website here. Want to join my mailing list? Download The Dating Handbook For Men and receive monthly updates, freebies and new offers? Join here. © 2021 The Self-Confidence Project Inc. All rights reserved.

Why are men attracted to younger women? It's no surprise this happens when we have plenty of role models for it. Leonardo DiCaprio, Sylvester Stallone, Alec Baldwin, Larry King, among others. All dating younger women. But why is this? What are your motivations for wanting a younger woman by your side? In today's solo episode, I share a few theories about why men are attracted to younger women and some things to be mindful of if you're dating between generations.  If you're interested in learning more about Kimberly and working with her, please head over to her website here. Want to join my mailing list, download a Dating Handbook and receive monthly updates, freebies and new offers? Join here. © 2021 The Self-Confidence Project Inc. All rights reserved.

What do men need to know about becoming fathers? How does this impact their identity, balance and purpose in life? What are the moments that a child will remember sharing with their parent? For me, it was throwing a softball around with my Dad and joking around with my sister. It was the little moments of mindfulness where my father was present with my sister and me. What will it be for you and your children as you venture through this journey? Curt Storring is a husband of 10 years and a father of 3 boys. He is the founder of Dad.Work, a community helping dads to become better men, partners, and fathers. You can learn more about Curt and his work here. 14 Day Better Man, Better Dad Email Series: https://dad.work/email/ If you're interested in learning more about Kimberly and working with her, please book a complimentary conversation here. You can also find out more information on her website here. Need help setting up your online dating profile? Join my FREE class "Master Your Online Dating Profile" here. © 2021 The Self-Confidence Project Inc. All rights reserved.

We all have parts of ourselves, personalities and behaviour that we hide from the world. Especially "nice men." We can work hard to suppress these sides, often ignoring the negative impact of doing so. It's important to face our shadow self and own all of our being in order to be truly seen. If you want to succeed in your relationships, you have to open up and connect with who you really are. Join Connor and I talk about shadow self, including his upcoming book, Men's Work, out next year. Connor Beaton is the founder of ManTalks, an international organization focused on men's health, wellness, success and fulfillment. Connor is also an international speaker, host of a top-ranked podcast and works 1-1 with men who are looking to deepen their purpose, radically improve their intimate relationships, and regain confidence. Since founding ManTalks, Connor has spoken on stage at TEDx, with Lewis Howes, Gary Vaynerchuk, Danielle LaPorte, taken ManTalks to over a dozen cities internationally and has been featured on platforms like the United Nations, Forbes, Huffington Post, HeForShe, The Good Men Project, CBC and the National Post. You can learn more about Connor and his work here. If you're interested in learning more about Kimberly and working with her, please book a complimentary conversation here. You can also find out more information on her website here. Need help setting up your online dating profile? Join my FREE class "Master Your Online Dating Profile" here. © 2021 The Self-Confidence Project Inc. All rights reserved.