Dopey: On the Dark Comedy of Drug Addiction

This week on Patreon Teaser! We first hear from Micro! Who tells us how he accidentally got addicted to fentanyl - then we take a walk down memory lane with Cormac and Scott Wic - and hear when Chris read Wic's first email all about Flakka!  DopeyCon 2024 Tickets only available on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dopeypodcast   Here is what AI says: summaryIn this episode of Cormac's Chemical Corner, Cormac and Scott Wick discuss their experiences with drugs, including Flakka and cocaine. They share stories of addiction, paranoia, and the challenges they faced. The conversation also touches on the upcoming DopeyCon event and the celebration of Dopey Day in honor of Chris's birthday. The episode concludes with a musical performance by Scott Wick. keywordsCormac's Chemical Corner, drugs, addiction, Flakka, cocaine, DopeyCon, Dopey Day, celebration, music takeaways Flakka is a synthetic street drug that can induce intense paranoia and hallucinations. Addiction can lead to desperate and dangerous behavior, such as flushing drugs down the toilet in a panic. DopeyCon is an upcoming event that offers savings for Patreon subscribers. Dopey Day is a celebration of Chris's birthday and a show of solidarity with addicts in recovery. Scott Wick showcases his musical talent with a performance at the end of the episode. titles Remembering Chris: Dopey Day Celebration DopeyCon: A Gathering of the Dopey Nation Sound Bites "My thing is stored in Coke, but I did have a short run with a synthetic street drug called Flakka. It's a stimulant similar to Coke, but one tiny bump is probably equal to two huge rails of good Coke." "As I am taking the second bump, there is a loud pounding at the door. I run to the people to see who it was, and I see what appears to be an entire SWAT team. Red lights flashing, dogs, detectives with megaphones, Raider trucks the whole night." "Dopey Day, AKA Christmas in August, where we all put the Dopey logo over our eyes in solidarity with addicts who are still suffering, also celebrating addicts who are in recovery, and paying homage to those we lost, including Chris." Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This week on Dopey! We had the absolutely sweetest guest ever - filmmaker and Breathe Life Healing Center Regional LGBTQIA+ Outreach Representative - Brian Whisenant! Straight out of Mississippi and the Dopey Nation, Brian came to my dad's house to tell his insane tell of Meth Addiction, crazy chem sex, and heart breaking trauma! Brian's journey is one of the dopiest ever told! PLUS lots of nitrous, recovery and dumb shit! Plus loads of dumb shit including a 'sex sling! Loads of debauchery, heart break and recovery in the latesrt new episode of the good old Dopey show!     Summary: Brian Wisnand shares his personal story of growing up gay in Mississippi, experiencing molestation and rape, and the impact it had on his sexuality and addiction. He discusses the importance of addressing trauma and the stigma surrounding it. Brian also talks about his movie, which explores his experiences and the journey of healing and recovery. David Manheim shares his experience with meth addiction and the connection between meth use and sex parties in the gay community. In this final part of the conversation, Brian discusses his experience with sex parties and the fusion of drugs and sex. He talks about his struggles with meth addiction and his transition to using Adderall. Brian also reflects on his relationship with his mother and the challenges of coming out as gay. He shares his thoughts on Narcotics Anonymous (NA) and the importance of honesty in recovery. The conversation concludes with Brian discussing his short film, Wrath Mercy, and his hopes for its release. KeywordsBrian Wisnand, Mississippi, gay, molestation, rape, trauma, addiction, healing, recovery, movie, meth addiction, sex parties, gay community, recovery, psychosis, sex parties, meth addiction, Adderall, coming out, Narcotics Anonymous, honesty in recovery, short film Takeaways Growing up gay in Mississippi in the 90s was challenging due to the lack of understanding and acceptance. Brian experienced molestation and rape by an older man, which had a profound impact on his understanding of his own sexuality. The trauma and confusion surrounding the abuse contributed to Brian's addiction and disassociation. Addressing and sharing his story has been a crucial part of Brian's healing and recovery journey. The stigma surrounding trauma and the need for open conversations and support are highlighted in Brian's experiences. Meth addiction can lead to engaging in risky sexual behavior, such as participating in sex parties. The use of meth in the gay community is more common compared to other communities. Meth use can lead to psychosis and paranoia, causing individuals to have distorted perceptions and beliefs. Recovery from meth addiction often involves addressing underlying trauma and patterns of behavior. The intertwined nature of meth use and sex parties can create a cycle of seeking pleasure and escape. Brian shares his experiences with sex parties and the fusion of drugs and sex He discusses his struggles with meth addiction and his transition to using Adderall Brian reflects on his relationship with his mother and the challenges of coming out as gay He emphasizes the importance of honesty in recovery and shares his thoughts on Narcotics Anonymous (NA) The conversation concludes with Brian discussing his short film, Wrath Mercy, and his hopes for its release Titles The Impact of Trauma on Sexuality and Addiction Navigating the Challenges of Growing Up Gay in Mississippi The Impact of Meth Use on Mental Health and Perception The Cycle of Seeking Pleasure and Escape in Meth Addiction The Power of Honesty in Recovery Coming Out and Navigating Relationships Sound Bites "I was molested like a lot of people like when I was 15 years old" "I didn't even know what rape was. I didn't know what any of these things were." "I got triggered. Not triggered to use, but triggered to be traumatized." "Why do some drug addicts live and some don't?" "There may be a video of me out there wearing a wrestling outfit" "I remember saying, 'Are you a homosexual?'" "Sniffy's like, why did I even bring that up?" "Sniffy's has sex parties" "You unfuse meth, sex, and technology" Chapters 00:00Introduction: Brian Wisnand's Story 30:17Growing Up Gay in Mississippi 38:09Trauma and its Impact 43:38Addressing Trauma and Healing 46:00The Connection Between Meth Addiction and Sex Parties 54:25Addressing Sexual Identity and Coming Out 01:05:34The Gay Pillowcase Story 01:19:16The Impact of Meth Use on Behavior 01:22:39The Role of Technology in Meth Use and Sex Parties 01:27:27The Intertwined Nature of Meth Use and Sexual Behavior 01:28:54Exploring the World of Sex Parties and Drug Use 01:33:13From Meth Addiction to Adderall: Brian's Journey 01:38:27Coming Out and Navigating Relationships 01:45:13The Power of Honesty in Recovery 01:49:59Wrath Mercy: Brian's Short Film and Future Plans AI show notes are experimental. Did you find them useful? Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This week on the Dopey Patreon Tuesday Teaser mini show we first take a moment of gratitude for Rich Roll and the Rich Roll Show for having me on! It was an unbelievably cool experience and welcome to any Rich Roll people!!!! Then we get into the usual Patreon Tuesday stuff! Join Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/dopeypodcast Buy DopeyCon Tickets only on PATREON!!!!! Dopeycon is October 5th in New York City!  Then we hear a crazy Dopey story from Kimber King and read a nice note from the Dopey Nation before listening to a snippet from the super funny and informative talk with Doug Bopst! Send in emails and voicemails to dopeypodcast@gmail.com Here is the AI Stuff! SummaryIn this teaser episode of the Dopey podcast, David Manheim expresses his gratitude for being a guest on the Rich Roll show and welcomes listeners from the Rich Roll community. He promotes the Patreon episode with Dopey Fitness guru Doug Bopes and discusses the upcoming DopeyCon event. David also shares a voicemail from Kimber King, who tells a story about a drug-related incident involving her ex-boyfriend. The episode concludes with a conversation between David and Doug about the impact of quitting weed. KeywordsDopey podcast, Rich Roll, Patreon, DopeyCon, addiction, recovery, drug-related incident, weed Takeaways David expresses gratitude for being a guest on the Rich Roll show and welcomes listeners from the Rich Roll community. The Patreon episode features a conversation with Dopey Fitness guru Doug Bopes about the impact of quitting weed. DopeyCon is an upcoming event that includes guests such as Hank Azaria, Jason Biggs, and John Joseph. Kimber King shares a story about a drug-related incident involving her ex-boyfriend. David and Doug discuss their experiences with weed and the challenges of quitting. Titles David and Doug's Conversation: Weed and Quitting DopeyCon: An Exciting Event with Celebrity Guests Sound Bites "Welcome to any refugees who heard the Rich Roll show" "Patreon is still the only place to buy tickets for DopeyCon 5" "They're gonna stay on the phone with you while you use, and if you die, they're gonna send help" Chapters 00:00Gratitude for Rich Roll and Welcome to Rich Roll Listeners 01:45Patreon Episode with Doug Bopes: The Impact of Quitting Weed 02:14DopeyCon: An Exciting Event with Celebrity Guests 04:09Voicemail Story: Kimber King's Drug-Related Incident 11:24David and Doug's Conversation: Weed and Quitting Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This week on Dopey!  We are joined by 'Against All Odds' author, and 'Roll Call with Chappy' podcaster - Peter 'Chappy' Meyerhoff! We leave no stone unturned in this junky prison opus. Chappy gives us the good bad and the ugly from early incarceration to 12 long years in prison where he was the shot caller on multiple prison yards. His story goes nuts when he gets involved with a female corrections officer who smuggles him heroin which he deals then becomes hopelessly addicted to. I'm not gonna give it all away in this write up! But it's seriously beautiful and Chappy cries! PLUS We commemorate the loss of Brian 'Hotwheelz' Connelly and play his first voicemail - plus poetic emails extra voicemails and much much more on this new prison flavored episode of that good old Dopey Show! Summary: Peter 'Chappy' Meyerhoff, a former prisoner and recovering addict, shares his story and mission to help others in this episode of Dopey. He discusses his experiences in prison, his near-death fentanyl overdose, and his journey to sobriety. Chappie opens up about the challenges of aligning his past prison persona with his current role as a mentor and advocate for prisoners. He also reflects on the impact of becoming a father and the struggles he faces in navigating his new life. Despite the difficulties, Chappie remains committed to inspiring and supporting others in their recovery journeys. David Manheim discusses his strained relationship with his father and the decision to cut ties with him. He shares his experience of growing up in a dysfunctional family and the resentment he feels towards his father. David also opens up about his journey into drug addiction, starting from alcohol and weed at a young age and eventually progressing to harder drugs like crystal meth and heroin. He talks about his time in prison and the power dynamics and politics that exist within the prison system. David reflects on his past actions and the impact they have had on his life. Chappie shares his story of addiction, prison, and recovery. He talks about his early experiences with drugs and how he quickly became addicted. He describes his time in prison, including the challenges of withdrawal and the prison politics he had to navigate. Chappie also discusses his relapse after his first release from prison and the near-death experience that led him to finally get sober. He emphasizes the importance of staying sober and helping others, and how his perspective on God and spirituality has evolved throughout his journey. Keywordsprison, addiction, recovery, sobriety, near-death overdose, fatherhood, vulnerability, father-son relationship, drug addiction, prison, power dynamics, politics, addiction, prison, recovery, drugs, withdrawal, prison politics, relapse, sobriety, God, spirituality Takeaways Peter Chappie Meyerhoff shares his experiences as a former prisoner and recovering addict He discusses the challenges of aligning his past prison persona with his current role as a mentor and advocate for prisoners Chappie reflects on the impact of becoming a father and the struggles he faces in navigating his new life Despite the difficulties, Chappie remains committed to inspiring and supporting others in their recovery journeys David's strained relationship with his father led him to cut ties with him He reflects on his journey into drug addiction, starting from alcohol and weed and eventually progressing to harder drugs David shares his experiences in prison and the power dynamics and politics that exist within the system He reflects on his past actions and the impact they have had on his life Addiction can quickly take hold and lead to a life of crime and incarceration. Prison can be a challenging environment, but it can also provide an opportunity for self-reflection and growth. Relapse is a common part of the recovery process, but it's important to learn from it and make a commitment to sobriety. Spirituality and a belief in a higher power can play a role in recovery, even for those who were initially skeptical. Helping others and staying connected to a supportive community are crucial for maintaining long-term sobriety. Titles Aligning Past and Present: Chappie's Transformation Navigating the Challenges of Recovery and Fatherhood Journey into Drug Addiction Power Dynamics and Politics in Prison From Addiction to Incarceration: Chappie's Story Navigating Prison Politics: Chappie's Experience Sound Bites "I've been struggling in life lately, man, like... I have really, really bad imposter syndrome now." "In recovery, vulnerability is strength." "It's like real life stuff. And that's what me and my dad's relationship is still... tough, man." "I don't need his shitty advice and to be honest I think he's fucking grumpy as shit" "I'm just done with this relationship, you know?" "He's whipped to her and she does whatever, he does whatever the hell she says and she runs shit" "I felt like stuff is like just finally going to go my way when I got out" "I had this argument with my mom the other day, because was like, know, depressed, been going through this shit. And mom was like, you're making more money than you've ever made in your life. like, the literal reverberating. Money doesn't make you fucking happy, mom." "I was like, holy shit, maybe this is God's sign of showing, like, I'm gonna start catching some breaks now or something" Chapters 00:00Introduction and Background 25:27Challenges of Aligning Past and Present 35:22Struggles of Recovery and Fatherhood 38:07Dealing with Depression and Imposter Syndrome 40:24Complicated Relationship with Father 41:24Strained Father-Son Relationship 48:31Journey into Drug Addiction 57:18Power Dynamics and Politics in Prison 01:06:57Reflecting on Past Actions 02:51From Addiction to Incarceration: Chappie's Story 23:01Navigating Prison Politics: Chappie's Experience 42:52The Near-Death Experience that Led to Sobriety: Chappie's Turning Point 01:02:46Evolution of Belief: Chappie's Journey with God and Spirituality 01:23:09Staying Sober and Helping Others: Chappie's Commitment to Recovery 01:56:04Conclusion Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Alright Tuesday Lovers! Dopey Tuesday is back with a vengence! Go to https://www.patreon.com/dopeypodcast for the full episode! BUT - there is stuff here that is not available anywhere else!!! Like Wylie's insane voicemail and me bickering with my sweet father!   SummaryIn this conversation, David Manheim talks with his father about various topics, including toilet paper, tonic water, Patreon, DopeyCon, and a voicemail from a listener. They also discuss the difference between seltzer and tonic water, and David plays a song he wrote. Keywordsdrugs, addiction, dumb shit, toilet paper, tonic water, Patreon, DopeyCon, voicemail, seltzer, song Takeaways The conversation covers a range of lighthearted topics, including toilet paper and tonic water. They discuss the importance of supporting Dopey on Patreon and the upcoming DopeyCon event. David's father shares his thoughts on the show and his experiences as a listener. David plays a song he wrote, showcasing his musical talent. Titles A Voicemail from a Dopey Listener David's Musical Talent: A Song Showcase Sound Bites "I don't think you know the difference between tonic water and seltzer." "Somebody made a comment that you should be kinder to your father." "I need some money, money in my pocket like this" Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This Week on Dopey! We are paying homage to Chris on the 6th anniversary of his tragic death. We are joined by Jed Payne from Church and Other Drugs Podcast and talk about his harrowing Kratom recovery and how he got to celebrate his first father's day! PLUS Stephen Murray from the Safe Spot Hotline calls in to help us celebrate Dopey Day AKA ChrisMiss in August with the new CALL-A-DOPE piece of Dopey Day! If anyone is using please call 1-800-972-0590 to help prevent overdose! PLUS emails, voicemails, tattoos, Dopeycon, Dopey Day! PLUS we sneak The This American Life Dopey Segment just to fuck everybody up!    All that and more on a brand spanking new but. eerily familiar episode of that good ol Dopey Podcast!!!!         In this part of the conversation, David Manheim discusses various topics including Bob Marley, Dopey Day, DopeyCon, and his personal experiences with addiction and recovery. He also shares an email from a listener and announces anniversaries of Dopey Nation members. Jed from Church and Other Drugs Podcast joins the conversation and talks about his journey of addiction, relapse, and recovery. In this part of the conversation, David and Jed discuss Jed's harrowing experiences with addiction, including his relapses and the impact on his personal life. They also touch on the dangers of using substances like kratom and the importance of seeking help and treatment. The conversation concludes with a discussion about the upcoming Dopey con and the partnership with Safe Spot to provide support for addicts. The conversation in this part of the recording focuses on the Save Spot hotline, a helpline for people who use drugs and want to ensure their safety. The hotline provides support and guidance to individuals before and during drug use, with the goal of preventing fatal overdoses. The hosts discuss the importance of the hotline and how it can save lives. They also emphasize the non-judgmental and supportive nature of the hotline, as well as the sense of community it fosters. The episode concludes with a tribute to a friend who died from an overdose. In this final part of the conversation, David Manheim reflects on the tragic death of his co-host Chris and the future of the Dopey podcast. He shares the events leading up to Chris's relapse and overdose, including their last episode together and the signs of Chris's drug use. David grapples with feelings of guilt and responsibility, but ultimately decides to continue the show as a way to honor Chris's memory and raise awareness about addiction. The episode ends with a lighthearted banjo cover of Dave's song and a message of hope for the future. KeywordsBob Marley, Dopey Day, DopeyCon, addiction, recovery, email, anniversaries, Church and Other Drugs Podcast, addiction, relapse, treatment, kratom, Dopey con, Safe Spot, Save Spot hotline, drug use, safety, fatal overdose, support, community, non-judgmental, tribute, addiction, relapse, overdose, grief, podcast, Dopey, memory, awareness Takeaways Bob Marley's music is loved by many, and David Manheim and his guest discuss their favorite songs. Dopey Day is celebrated on August 16th, and listeners are encouraged to record messages to be included in the Dopey Day show. DopeyCon is an upcoming event that will feature various guests and activities. David Manheim shares an email from a listener who found strength and inspiration from the Dopey podcast. Jed from Church and Other Drugs Podcast shares his personal journey of addiction, relapse, and recovery. Addiction can lead to devastating consequences, including relapses and strained relationships. Substances like kratom can be addictive and have negative effects on one's quality of life. Seeking help and treatment is crucial for recovery and maintaining sobriety. The Dopey con event provides an opportunity for individuals in recovery to connect and support each other. Partnerships with organizations like Safe Spot can offer valuable resources and support for addicts. The Save Spot hotline provides support and guidance to individuals who use drugs and want to ensure their safety. The hotline aims to prevent fatal overdoses by offering non-judgmental and supportive assistance before and during drug use. The hotline creates a sense of community among its operators and callers, who share a common experience. The hosts emphasize the importance of reaching out for help and the potential to save lives through the hotline. The episode concludes with a tribute to a friend who died from an overdose, highlighting the devastating impact of addiction. The tragic death of Chris highlights the devastating impact of addiction and the constant risk of relapse Guilt and responsibility are common emotions experienced by loved ones after a relapse or overdose Continuing the podcast is a way for David to honor Chris's memory and raise awareness about addiction The banjo cover at the end of the episode serves as a reminder of the importance of finding joy and hope in the midst of grief Titles Dopey Day and DopeyCon Celebrating Bob Marley's Music Celebrating Sobriety at Dopey con Jed's Harrowing Journey Through Addiction Building a Supportive Community: The Save Spot Hotline Preventing Fatal Overdoses: The Role of the Save Spot Hotline Reflecting on Tragedy: Chris's Relapse and Death Guilt and Responsibility: Navigating the Aftermath Titles The Dangers of Smoke Shop Drugs: Tianeptine and Kratom From Counselor to Patient: Navigating Treatment and Rehab Exploring the Symbolism of Dreams Overcoming Kratom Addiction: Jed's Story   Sound Bites "Vivitrol is just naltrexone, so it is only an opioid antagonist." "The sublicate shot you do the first three days after the shot, you are blasted, dude." "I got just blindsided with cravings like you wouldn't believe." "You're such a fucking piece of work. I swear to God." "I woke up in was the intense feeling of impending doom and unbelievable fear and panic attack, dude." "Yeah, I'm still on Vivitrol." Sound Bites "What's my favorite Bob Marley? We're doing Joby, we're not doing Bob Marley." "Welcome to Dopey, the podcast on drugs, addiction, and other dumb shit." "Call a Dope on Dopey Day." "I got sick. Oh, God. I was on an eight-hour bus ride from Puerto Vallarta to Guadalajara and I was just in the bus bathroom puking my guts out, dude." "I'm just struggling to get honest. So I just, I tell my parents and I tell my boss that, hey, don't worry, but I am extremely suicidal. So I'm going to go to a mental institution for 30 days." "The reason that I'm doing all of this is just like immediately plucked away and it's just, it's... I can't even really accurately convey like the fucking emotions." "If Chris, when he was using, could have called this number, maybe we wouldn't be doing all this." "You can still get high, but if it goes wrong, you don't have to die." "How do we scale this hotline to the point where we make what we would call a population level impact?" "The worst thing that could have ever happened happened, and Chris relapsed and died." "Dopey, as the nation knew it, is gone, along with Chris." "The show is mostly a recovery show now. I guess that is true. But it always was in its own way." Chapters 00:00Introduction and Bob Marley 05:54Email from a Listener 21:20Remembering Chris and His Legacy 28:00Jed's Journey of Turning His Life Around 39:08Jed's Experience with TNeptine 50:43The Dangers of Kratom and the Importance of Seeking Help 56:02The Consequences of Relapse 01:08:24Partnering with Safe Spot to Support Addicts 01:26:16The Importance of the Save Spot Hotline 01:31:19The Unpredictability of the Dope Supply 01:41:40The Impact of the This American Life Episode 01:49:09Todd as the Foil to the Sober Good Life 02:00:11The Tragic Loss of Todd 02:07:01Tragedy Strikes: Chris's Relapse and Death 02:14:29Guilt and Responsibility: Navigating the Aftermath 02:19:49Honoring Chris's Memory: Continuing the Dopey Podcast 02:35:19Finding Joy in Grief: A Banjo Cover and Message of Hope Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Whats up everyone!  This is our Tuesday Patreon Teaser! Please subscribe to Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/dopeypodcast   JD sent a fire dopey voicemail! Plus a clip of me, Jeremy and Greg hanging out talking about Greg's sex appeal and smuggling Mushrooms to Ithaca many years ago.  DopeyCon 2024 - DC5/DCV is coming! Who is ready????   Here are AI notes: SummaryIn this episode of Dopey, Dave introduces the Dopey Tuesday episode available on Patreon and promotes DopeyCon tickets. He then plays a voicemail from a former hater who shares a story about smoking maggots. Dave discusses the Patreon Zoom meeting and the attraction people have towards Greg and Jeremy. They talk about their charisma and sexual power, and share stories about their past adventures. The episode ends with a song. KeywordsDopey, podcast, drugs, addiction, dumb shit, Patreon, DopeyCon, lineup, voicemail, hater, smoking maggots, Patreon Zoom, charisma, sexual power, adventures, song Takeaways Dopey Tuesday episodes are available on Patreon DopeyCon tickets are on sale on Patreon Even former haters can become contributors to the show Greg and Jeremy have a certain charisma and sexual power They share stories about their past adventures The episode ends with a song Titles Charisma and Sexual Power The Dopey Tuesday Teaser Song Sound Bites "Join Patreon, buy a ticket to DopeyCon" "I smoked maggots somehow" "Greg is incredibly attracted to people" Chapters 00:00Introduction and Patreon Promotion 03:12Voicemail: Smoking Maggots 13:23Discussion: Charisma and Sexual Power 17:05Story: Bringing a Bag of Drugs 21:04The Dopey Tuesday Teaser Song   Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This week on dopey! We are joined by Allegra Okarmus! She gets into the super nitty gritty of her experiences of drugs, addiction and dumb shit! Daughter of a Christian Scientist Mother and Soprano's Actor Father(he played Tony's dad - Johnny Boy on thje show) Allegra ran the gamut of all things Dopey! From getting kicked out of Mountainside for romance - to her connection to Chris, her overcome serious sexual trauma, debilitating drug addiction to managing the continuing care program for Mountainside her journey had it all! PLUS voicemails, emails, celebration and more this week on a brand new fucked up episode of that good old Dopey show!   Emilia's Notes: kicked out of mountainside chris's facebook messages vape built into the dash of a truck mdma mom's religion sexual assault, sexual trauma xanax blackouts accidental k-hole outdoing her friends with drugs sex for heroin boyfriend's seizures, selling heroin on craigslist arrested for shoplifting pulled a knife on her boyfriend robbing tourists sponsoring relapse without drugs reminiscing about mountainside faltering recovery dad's death sober parenting   AI's Notes:   Summary: In this episode of Dopey, Dave talks about upcoming events and shares stories from listeners. He also interviews Allegra O'Karmis, a manager of Continuing Care at Mountainside Recovery. They discuss Allegra's journey to recovery and her role in helping clients transition from residential treatment to aftercare. The conversation touches on the importance of continuing care and the challenges of staying sober after treatment. Allegra shares her experiences of drug addiction and trauma, including instances of rape. She discusses her upbringing in a strict and religious household, her early experimentation with drugs, and her move to St. Thomas and later Tampa. Allegra reflects on her identity as a party girl and the role drugs played in her life. She also explores the complex emotions and confusion surrounding her experiences of rape. The chapter ends with Allegra being sent back to New York by her mother. In this part of the conversation, David Manheim discusses his descent into addiction and the challenges he faced during that time. He talks about his struggle with withdrawal, his use of various drugs, and the consequences of his addiction on his relationships and life. Eventually, he reaches a turning point and seeks help at a treatment center. In this final part of the conversation, David and Allegra discuss their experiences in recovery and the challenges they face as sober parents. They emphasize the importance of finding joy and replacing old behaviors with healthier ones. They also touch on the fear of relapse and the need for community and support. The episode ends with a cover of Dave's song 'Good So Bad' on the banjo by a listener named Jake. KeywordsDopey, addiction, recovery, treatment, continuing care, Mountainside Recovery, drug addiction, trauma, rape, upbringing, experimentation, party girl, identity, addiction, withdrawal, drugs, heroin, cocaine, treatment, recovery, recovery, sober parenting, joy, replacing behaviors, fear of relapse, community, support Takeaways Continuing care is an essential part of the recovery process, helping individuals transition from residential treatment to aftercare Treatment can provide support and structure, but it's what individuals do after treatment that determines their long-term sobriety The availability of free resources and support can vary, making it challenging for individuals to navigate their recovery journey Reading messages from deceased loved ones can be a way to process grief and feel connected to them Recovery is a personal journey, and what works for one person may not work for another The influence of upbringing and environment on drug addiction The complex emotions and confusion surrounding experiences of rape The role of drugs in shaping identity and relationships The impact of strict religious beliefs on personal choices and behaviors David's addiction led him to use various drugs, including opiates, cocaine, and ketamine. He experienced withdrawal symptoms and used other drugs to combat the sickness. His addiction affected his relationships and led to risky behavior, such as sleeping with others for drugs. David's father tried to intervene and get him help, but he resisted initially. Eventually, David reached a breaking point and sought treatment at a rehab center. Finding joy and replacing old behaviors with healthier ones is crucial in recovery. Being a sober parent comes with its own challenges, but putting oneself first is essential for being able to show up for the children. Having a community and support system is important in maintaining sobriety. The fear of relapse is a common concern, but staying connected to a recovery program can help prevent it. Sharing personal experiences and stories can provide hope and inspiration to others in recovery. Titles Personalizing the Recovery Journey The Importance of Continuing Care in Recovery The Party Girl Persona: Drugs and Identity Navigating Trauma: Allegra's Experience of Rape The Descent into Addiction Intervention and Seeking Help Managing the Fear of Relapse The Challenges of Sober Parenting Sound Bites "Treatment never was the answer for me, but I think it answers a lot of questions when you're there." "I struggle to feel feelings in general. I dissociate like nobody's business and I kind of love it because it's gotten me through life." "Continuing care is an essential part of the recovery process, helping individuals transition from residential treatment to aftercare." "I don't know if it's better to have been the victim of something, because I'm sure you did fucked up shit, too." "It's like all this talk about smoking really makes me want to have a cigarette." "I loved smoking. There's something wonderful about it." "I was more fucked up then. I was sober when I was yelling about, like that was me with my best thinking." "I started doing a lot of coke to try and combat the sickness because, you know, science." "So yeah, so I moved back into the apartment, luckily." "Time is the best commodity I can give you." "I didn't get where I am today in drug addict-wise because I didn't want to have fun." "Replacing the obsessive thinking and bad behavior with something else is key in recovery." Chapters 00:00Introduction and Sponsor Message 09:21Celebrating Sobriety and Personal Achievements 16:04DopeyCon Contests and Announcements 25:06Sharing Dopey Stories and Listener Experiences 39:17Reflecting on Past Relationships and Loss 57:19Navigating Trauma 01:14:29The Party Girl Persona 01:25:58The Influence of Upbringing 01:38:18Risky Behavior and the Impact on Relationships 01:44:12Intervention and Seeking Help 02:44:11Finding Joy and Replacing Behaviors Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. 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DOPEY TUESDAY TEASER with JEREMY!!!!! This week for the Tuesday Teaser we are joined by my old friend Jeremy! We catch up on Patreon, reminiscing and other dumb shit! Then we play the Handsome Evan Teaser!   Oh in other giant news: Jason Biggs has signed up for DopeyCon! Get your tickets at https://www.patreon.com/dopeypodcast   ARTIFICIAL INTELLIGENCE CREATED NOTES! Me and Jeremy talk    Summary: In this conversation, David Manheim and his friend Jeremy discuss various topics, including the Dopey Tuesday Patreon teaser, DopeyCon, their favorite TV shows, and their personal experiences. They also touch on subjects like religion, fitness, and childhood memories. The conversation is light-hearted and filled with humor. KeywordsDopey, Patreon, teaser, DopeyCon, TV shows, religion, fitness, childhood memories Takeaways The Dopey Tuesday Patreon teaser is a way to draw people to Patreon and get exclusive content. DopeyCon is an annual event that features various speakers and is catered by Katz's. Jeremy is into fitness and has been working on his physical shape. They discuss their favorite TV shows, including House of the Dragon and X-Men 97. David and Jeremy reminisce about their childhood and share funny stories. They touch on topics like religion and spirituality. David mentions the controversy surrounding a guest named Jesse Schwanker. They talk about their love for Lord of the Rings and other movies. David shares a song he wrote called 'So Bad, So Good.' Titles Religion and Spirituality The Song 'So Bad, So Good' Sound Bites "Tuesday Dopey Teaser. Tuesday Dopey Teaser for the podcast Dopey on drugs, addiction, and dumb shit." "We have this thing we do every year. It's called Dopey con. I know you're aware of it. Of course. It's on this block. Everyone is. OK. So everyone knows about Dopey con. Everyone." "I bet you don't. Not really, no. Do you know how much Dopey Patreon costs? A dollar. 12 cents a day. Oh my god. 15 cents a day. That's a bargain." Chapters 00:00The Dopey Tuesday Patreon Teaser and DopeyCon 07:30Fitness and Favorite TV Shows 12:18Childhood Memories and Funny Stories 18:53Religion and Spirituality 25:14Controversial Guest and Lord of the Rings 31:57The Song 'So Bad, So Good' Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this episode of the Dopey Podcast, David Manheim discusses his recent experiences and travels, including a political tribunal in the Philippines. He also talks about his struggles with sleep and the importance of having a sponsor in recovery. The conversation touches on serious topics such as addiction, racism, and human rights abuses, but is infused with David's signature humor. In this part of the conversation, the hosts discuss their experiences with addiction, rehab, and politics. They share personal stories and anecdotes, including their interactions with famous individuals. They also touch on topics such as the Biden family, the future of the economy, and the state of American politics. The conversation is filled with humor, sarcasm, and candid reflections on their own journeys. In this part of the conversation, David and Brace discuss their experiences with different drugs, including ketamine, Ibogaine, ayahuasca, LSD, mushrooms, ecstasy, and heroin. They share personal anecdotes and preferences, highlighting the effects and experiences they had with each substance. They also touch on the topic of God and spirituality, with Brace expressing his skepticism and David sharing his belief in a higher power. The conversation concludes with a lighthearted game of choosing between two options. In this final part of the conversation, David and Chris discuss the challenges of answering questions about drug use during treatment intake calls. They also explore how to find the right therapist and the importance of the therapeutic relationship. They touch on topics such as spiritual trauma, the different age groups and substance use patterns, and the potential dangers of new drugs like kratom. The conversation ends with David sharing his recent cravings and Aurora joining in for a brief chat. KeywordsDopey Podcast, addiction, recovery, sleep issues, politics, Philippines, racism, human rights abuses, addiction, rehab, politics, Biden family, economy, American politics, drugs, ketamine, Ibogaine, ayahuasca, LSD, mushrooms, ecstasy, heroin, God, spirituality, treatment intake calls, finding the right therapist, therapeutic relationship, spiritual trauma, age groups and substance use, new drugs, cravings Takeaways David shares his recent experiences and travels, including a political tribunal in the Philippines. He discusses his struggles with sleep and the importance of having a sponsor in recovery. The conversation touches on serious topics such as addiction, racism, and human rights abuses. David's humor adds a lighthearted touch to the conversation. Rehab romances can be complicated and often lead to relapse The hosts express their disillusionment with the current political landscape They discuss the need for radical changes in the economy and society The conversation highlights the challenges and guilt associated with addiction and recovery The hosts share personal stories and anecdotes, providing a candid and humorous perspective on their experiences Different drugs have different effects and experiences, and individuals may have different preferences and reactions to them. Personal anecdotes can provide insight into the experiences and effects of various substances. Beliefs about God and spirituality can vary among individuals, and there is no one-size-fits-all approach. Engaging in lighthearted games and discussions can add a fun element to conversations. Answering questions about drug use during treatment intake calls can be challenging and may require balancing honesty with potential consequences. When looking for a therapist, it's important to consider what you're looking for and ask questions about their approach and theoretical orientation. Spiritual trauma can be a real issue for individuals who have experienced a disconnection from their faith or culture. Substance use patterns can vary across different age groups, with alcohol being more prevalent among older individuals and fentanyl/methamphetamine among younger individuals. New drugs like kratom can present unique challenges, and it's important to consider the potential risks and lack of quality control. Cravings for drugs can still arise even after years of recovery, and it's important to utilize support systems and coping strategies to navigate these urges. Titles The Importance of Having a Sponsor in Recovery From Political Tribunals to Sleep Issues: David's Recent Experiences Rehab Romances and the Challenges of Recovery Disillusionment with the Current Political Landscape The Skepticism and Belief in God A Lighthearted Game of Choosing Between Options Managing Cravings and Urges in Recovery Substance Use Patterns Across Different Age Groups Sound Bites "Welcome to another episode of Dopey, the podcast on drugs, addiction, and dumb shit." "None of us are alone when we're together." "I love coming back." "I just want to be accountable to the dopey audience right now." "I'm going to break it to you, Dave. I don't think he wants to do the show." "I think a lot of people understand right now there's a shift happening, uh, in when it comes to technology, when it comes to the economy, that is, is something like the industrial revolution." "Anytime I ever heard a description of Ibogaine, I would rather have diarrhea for four days in like a detox surrounded by a bunch of crack heads than like a shaman." "One of my favorite things was being on MDMA and heroin at the same time. It's like one of the greatest combinations. It probably rules. It's not talked about enough." "I believe in the power of human beings working together in a concerted effort to help other human beings." "Treatment what you know had I been to treatment ones the last time I went to treatment whatever whatever Nora gets in the car and the next question is How much cocaine were you using?" "Well, are you in any kind of ongoing group? Like, are you a member of Narcotics Anonymous? I was like, lady, it's fucking anonymous. I'm not gonna tell you on the phone." "How would you advise a horrible drug addict on how to answer that? Let's have this be the first ask a therapist question. You're coming up on nine years of abstinence." Chapters 00:00Introduction and Dopey Podcast Theme Song 11:54The Importance of Having a Sponsor in Recovery 42:48Addiction, Rehab, and Personal Reflections 48:33Disillusionment with Politics and the Economy 54:56Hunter Biden's Behavior and Self-Sabotage 01:06:39A Listener's Journey through Alcoholism and Rehab 01:19:16Unconventional Solutions and Rehab Romances 01:25:18Exploring Different Drugs and Personal Experiences 01:32:27A Lighthearted Game of Choosing Between Options 02:07:52Navigating Questions About Drug Use During Treatment Intake Calls 02:13:11Finding the Right Therapist: Considerations and Questions to Ask 02:19:51Exploring Spiritual Trauma and its Impact on Recovery 02:27:01The Rise of New Drugs: Understanding the Challenges of Kratom 02:34:55Managing Cravings and Urges in Recovery Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.