Dopey: On the Dark Comedy of Drug Addiction

This week on the teaser we are joined by a special guest! He doesn't like when i put his name in the description. We talk all about his plan of making a Banana Ball song! Just listen to the thing...   Here is what AI said.... summaryThis episode of Dopey Tuesday Teaser discusses DopeyCon, the DopeyCon theme song challenge, and Ray's involvement in the Banana Ball game. The hosts also talk about their songs and their plans for DopeyCon. The conversation touches on various topics such as addiction, music, and pop culture. keywordsDopey, DopeyCon, theme song challenge, Banana Ball, addiction, music, pop culture takeaways DopeyCon is an upcoming event that the hosts are excited about The DopeyCon theme song challenge is happening on Patreon Ray is involved in the Banana Ball game and has written a song about it The hosts discuss their songs and plans for DopeyCon titles Songs and Plans for DopeyCon Ray's Involvement in Banana Ball Sound Bites "DopeyCon is coming. It's our fifth DopeyCon. It's October 5th. It's in New York City." "We will put up all the songs on Dopey Patreon, and the one with the most likes wins." "Dopey con is October 5th. Yeah, do you have a song? No, you don't have a song. What's your plan?" Chapters 00:00Introduction and DopeyCon 05:05DopeyCon Theme Song Challenge 08:13Ray's Involvement in Banana Ball 09:11Songs and Plans for DopeyCon   Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This week on Dopey! We are joined by Cookie Magnate, creator of Janie's Life Changing Baked Goods - Janie Deegan! Janie might be the feel good Dopey of the year - a drunk and homeless New Yorker who saved her soul by making cookies! Janie's story starts off innocently enough before she tumbles down the stairs of total rock bottom insanity! Plus there are multiple voicemails, emails and much more on this sad, salty but ultimately super sweet new episode of the good old Dopey Show! AI Notes: summaryJanie Deegan, the founder of Janie's life-changing baked goods, joins the podcast to discuss her journey and the impact of her baked goods. She shares how she got sober at 25 and became a superintendent in the East Village. Janie also talks about her early experiences with alcohol and the thrill of drinking as a teenager. The conversation touches on the challenges of production and the potential collaboration between Janie's Cookies and Katz's Deli. Overall, the episode explores Janie's life-changing baked goods and her personal journey. Janie reflects on her early experiences with alcohol and drugs, from feeling like an outsider in her teenage years to finding her identity in partying. She discusses her codependent and abusive relationship in college, where she turned to alcohol as a way to cope. After graduating, she moved back to Ann Arbor and her alcoholism escalated, leading to financial and personal problems. Janie's behavior became increasingly out of control, causing concern among her friends and family. After experiencing the emotional bottom of her alcoholism, Janie enters a period of darkness and depression. She meets a sober guy who becomes a bright spot in her life, but she is unable to maintain a relationship with him due to her drinking. Janie's drinking escalates, leading to consequences and interventions from her friends and family. She goes through multiple rehab programs and detoxes, but struggles to fully commit to sobriety. Eventually, she ends up in a shelter and then in a therapeutic community on the Upper West Side. Janie Deegan shares her incredible journey from addiction and homelessness to becoming a successful entrepreneur. She talks about her experiences in rehab, her struggles with sobriety, and how baking became her outlet and passion. Janie's story is a testament to the power of resilience, determination, and finding purpose in life. keywordsJanie Deegan, Janie's life-changing baked goods, sobriety, alcohol, East Village, production challenges, collaboration, Katz's Deli, alcohol, drugs, identity, codependency, abuse, college, partying, coping, addiction, Ann Arbor, alcoholism, emotional bottom, depression, sober relationship, consequences, interventions, rehab, detox, shelter, therapeutic community, addiction, homelessness, sobriety, entrepreneurship, baking, resilience, determination, purpose takeaways Janie Deegan got sober at 25 and became a superintendent in the East Village. She had early experiences with alcohol, including drinking from her parents' liquor cabinet and attending a Halloween party in the West Village. Janie's life-changing baked goods have had a significant impact on her life and the community. The potential collaboration between Janie's Cookies and Katz's Deli is discussed. The episode highlights the challenges of production and the importance of finding the right business plan and vendors. Janie's early experiences with alcohol and drugs were influenced by her desire to fit in and escape her anxiety and low self-esteem. Her codependent and abusive relationship in college further fueled her reliance on alcohol as a coping mechanism. Moving back to Ann Arbor after college intensified Janie's alcoholism, leading to financial and personal problems. Janie's behavior became increasingly out of control, causing concern among her friends and family. Alcoholism can lead to a period of darkness and depression Having a support system and a sober relationship can provide hope and motivation for recovery Consequences and interventions from friends and family can be catalysts for change Rehab programs and detoxes may not be effective without a genuine commitment to sobriety Homelessness and living in a shelter can be a reality for individuals struggling with addiction Resilience and determination are key in overcoming addiction and rebuilding one's life. Finding a passion or creative outlet can be instrumental in the recovery process. Being authentic and embracing one's story can inspire and help others. Support and mentorship from others can make a significant difference in one's journey to recovery. Building a successful business requires hard work, perseverance, and a willingness to take risks. titles The Thrill of Drinking as a Teenager From Superintendent to Baker: Janie Deegan's Journey The Downward Spiral in Ann Arbor Concerns from Friends and Family The Challenges of Committing to Sobriety Navigating Homelessness and Shelters in Addiction Finding Purpose and Passion in Baking: Janie's Story From Addiction to Entrepreneurship: Janie Deegan's Journey Sound Bites "I'm making it really big with my pie crust cookies. I don't need your stupid fucking cookie." "Come to me with a business plan and some vendors who are ready to place purchase orders." "I just remember thinking it was so wild. There's cops everywhere and we're getting away with this." "I don't remember having an identity before I started drinking." "I was alone at some frat school in upstate New York and I was like, I don't know what else to do." "I'm finally free. I'm at University of Michigan. I'm having a blast." "I'm still a person. I'm still like a young lady who just graduated from like a really good school." "Alcohol is a depression. It really is." "He was like emanating this light." "I'm like, this is great. I'm like back on the Upper West Side, like I'm not paying rent, know, I'm on Medicaid, whatever." "What are you doing here? What's a nice girl like you doing here? And I'm like, I'm different." "I guess I gotta leave right now, right? And so I was like, okay, let me go to the bathroom and I just leave and I all my clothing there." Chapters 00:00Introduction and Janie's Journey 27:31Janie's life-changing baked goods 38:05Finding Identity in Party Culture 46:32The Downward Spiral in Ann Arbor 01:09:00Concerns from Friends and Family 01:15:46The Emotional Bottom 01:23:02Moving to New York and Escalating Addiction 01:32:30From Rehab to Shelter 01:44:51The Illusion of Sobriety 01:53:42From Addiction to Entrepreneurship 02:04:55Building a Business and Finding Purpose 02:19:18The Invention of the Pie Crust Cookie 02:26:09Embracing Authenticity and Finding Success   Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This week on the Teaser! Evan gets busted for rolling a blunt whilst having suboxone! PLUS meal plans! PLUS LSD shenanigans and much more! Join Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dopeypodcast DopeyCon Tickets: https://buytickets.at/thedopeyfoundation/1311031   What AI THINKS: summary: In this episode of Dopey the podcast, Dave talks about his recent food choices and the upcoming Dopeycon event. He also plays a voicemail from a listener sharing a story about a drug-induced reality shift. Dave and Evan then have a conversation about Lake Ronkonkoma and share some personal stories. The episode ends with a song and a shoutout to a listener. keywordsDopey podcast, food choices, Dopeycon, voicemail, drug-induced reality shift, Lake Ronkonkoma, personal stories, song, shoutout takeaways Dave shares his recent food choices and talks about barbecuing chicken thighs and air frying cauliflower Dopeycon is an upcoming sober cultural event with various guests and influencers A listener shares a story about a drug-induced reality shift Dave and Evan discuss Lake Ronkonkoma and share personal stories The episode ends with a song and a shoutout to a listener titles Food Choices and Cooking Habits A Song and Shoutout to a Listener Sound Bites "I just made a banana peanut butter and chocolate powder protein smoothie and it was really good" "Dopeycon looks to be the sober cultural event of the year, if not the decade" "I'd been drinking all day with my boyfriend at the time and we went to go get a bag from one of our dealers" Chapters 00:00Food Choices and Cooking Habits 02:14Dopeycon: The Sober Cultural Event 05:07A Listener's Drug-Induced Reality Shift 11:17Stories and Memories of Lake Ronkonkoma 20:59A Song and Shoutout to a Listener Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This week on Dopey! We are reunited with Dopey Legend, Folk Singer, Comedy Genius and Super Naturally Good Story Teller Steve Poltz! Steve plays tunes and takes us on a journey to the optimist and pessimist inside! PLUS the tackle box full of drugs and how Steve maintains his sunny disposition! Next Thuan from Mountainside is back to share with us how spirituality works and how it can be accessed! PLUS voicemails, emails and much more on this brand new, good timey episode of that Good Old Dopey Show! AI SAYS: summaryDavid Manheim shares his morning routine of eating oats and drinking coffee, and discusses his positive outlook on life and his love for people. He talks about building his career from gig to gig and the importance of staying grateful. David also mentions the impact of the Dopey Nation and the sense of community it has created. Steve Poults shares his practice of declaring every show as the greatest show he's ever played, and how it brings joy to both him and the audience. He emphasizes the importance of being true to oneself and enjoying the journey rather than focusing on external success. The conversation also touches on the pressure to always be positive and the occasional moments of doubt or sadness. David and Steve discuss their love for connecting with people and spreading positivity through their music and interactions. In this part of the conversation, Steve Poltz shares a deeply personal story about the tragic death of his friend due to drug addiction. He also discusses his own struggles with addiction and how it led him to quit drinking. The conversation touches on themes of loss, forgiveness, and the fragility of life. Steve also talks about his love for music and his experiences as a musician. Overall, the conversation is a mix of light-hearted moments and profound reflections on addiction and recovery. In this episode, David and Tuan discuss spirituality and its role in recovery. They explore the concept of higher power and how it can be accessed through various practices. Tuan shares his daily spiritual routine, including meditation, attending meetings, and using a mindfulness bell app. They also touch on the idea of quantum jumping and the importance of living a life centered around spiritual principles. The episode ends with a call for musicians to submit songs for the upcoming DopeyCon theme song contest.   keywordsmorning routine, positivity, career, gratitude, Dopey Nation, greatest show, pressure, doubt, sadness, connection, spreading positivity, addiction, drug addiction, loss, forgiveness, fragility of life, music, musician, recovery, spirituality, higher power, recovery, meditation, meetings, mindfulness, quantum jumping, spiritual principles, DopeyCon takeaways Having a positive outlook on life and spreading positivity can bring joy to oneself and others. Building a career from gig to gig and staying grateful for the opportunities can lead to organic growth and fulfillment. The Dopey Nation and the sense of community it has created can provide support and inspiration for those in recovery. It's important to be true to oneself and enjoy the journey rather than focusing solely on external success. While it's natural to experience moments of doubt or sadness, maintaining a positive mindset and connecting with others can help overcome these challenges. Addiction can have devastating consequences, leading to the loss of loved ones and personal struggles. Quitting one substance may be necessary to break the cycle of addiction and prevent further harm. Music can be a powerful outlet for expressing emotions and connecting with others. Forgiveness is an important part of the healing process, both for oneself and for others. Life is fragile, and it's important to appreciate the present moment and make choices that prioritize well-being. Spirituality can be accessed through various practices and beliefs, such as meditation, attending meetings, and living by spiritual principles. A higher power can be a person, nature, or the universe, and it can provide guidance and support in recovery. Being aware of and utilizing spirituality in moments of vulnerability can help bring ease and peace. Living a life centered around love, compassion, gratitude, and humility can contribute to a more spiritual existence. Musicians are encouraged to submit songs for the DopeyCon theme song contest. titles The Dopey Nation: A Community of Support and Inspiration Embracing the Journey: Finding Fulfillment in the Present Moment The Power of Forgiveness Embracing the Fragility of Life Calling for Musicians: DopeyCon Theme Song Contest Exploring Spirituality and Higher Power in Recovery Sound Bites "Every day when I wake up, I go, this is the greatest day." "I love people that are the addicts. I love them. I love them so much." "Brand new song." "I probably would still be drinking today had I not discovered my love of cocaine." "Once you go into crack, it's a dark world." "Life is a thing where you just think about, you know, there's a million things I wish I could go back and not have done." "Being human and feeling all the emotions is a spiritual experience." "Spirituality is accessing a higher power, whether seen, felt, heard, or just known." "Releasing character defects is a moment-to-moment choice, and meditation can help expand the window between stimulus and response." Chapters 00:00Introduction and Morning Routine 09:46Spreading Positivity and Building a Career 19:46The Dopey Nation: A Community of Support 29:50Embracing the Journey and Overcoming Doubt 40:06Connection and Positivity in Recovery 47:49Music and Drug Stories 48:28The Tragic Consequences of Addiction 52:06Finding Healing and Sobriety Through Music 58:26The Power of Forgiveness 01:09:49Embracing the Fragility of Life 02:55Exploring Spirituality and Higher Power 15:01Daily Spiritual Practices for a Grounded and Peaceful Life 29:50Quantum Jumping and Setting Intentions 44:53Living by Spiritual Principles and Embracing a Higher Power 01:00:05Calling for Musicians: DopeyCon Theme Song Contest 01:15:03Conclusion and Final Thoughts Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This Tuesday is classic old school dumb shit. Me yelling at the Subway sandwich maker, fumbling and bumbling. We hear a Dopey story all about Oasis and their impending reunion. Plus we hear a tease from the PATREON show with Cormac and Selby all about weed, PCP and more on this Tuesday Patreon Teaser! PLUS DOPEYCON 2024 tickets are on sale at https://buytickets.at/thedopeyfoundation/1311031 Discounted Tickets on Patreon at: https://www.patreon.com/dopeypodcast   AI STUFF:  summaryIn this episode, Dave talks about DopeyCon 2024, his love for Oasis, and shares some personal stories. He also discusses his early experiences with drugs and selling drugs in college. The conversation touches on topics such as drug business sense, the sacredness of psychedelics, and the effects of excessive drug use. keywordsDopeyCon 2024, Oasis, drugs, addiction, personal stories, drug business, psychedelics, excessive drug use takeaways Tickets for DopeyCon 2024 are available to non-patrons Dave shares his love for Oasis and their reunion He talks about his early experiences with drugs and selling drugs in college The conversation explores drug business sense and the sacredness of psychedelics Dave reflects on the effects of excessive drug use titles Dave's Love for Oasis DopeyCon 2024 and the Lineup Sound Bites "Tickets for DopeyCon 2024 are available to non-patrons" "The big news is that Oasis got back together" "It totally changed my life forever"   Chapters 00:00DopeyCon 2024 and the Lineup 05:03Dave's Love for Oasis 13:44Early Experiences with Drugs and Selling 16:16Drug Business Sense and the Sacredness of Psychedelics 18:41The Effects of Excessive Drug Use Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This week on Dopey - we had a very special opportunity to spend some time with Tim Kelly - a super inspirational alcoholic/drug addict in recovery. Tim and I did this talk 3 weeks ago - he was basically on his death bed. Last Friday morning Tim finally succumbed to his cancer and died. This episode allows Tim to tell his story of what its like to face death sober. It was humbling and powerful and I was extremely grateful to be able to do it. PLUS John 'Sugar Bear' Bukaty got to travel to 'Tim Fest' where a bunch of Tim's friends - and legendary musicians like Anders Osborne, Ivan Neville, Jason Ricci and Alex Orbison went to see them play. John also got to talk to some of them as well as his friends! All that plus some Dopey emails and more on this heart wrenching new episode of that good ol Dopey Show!   AI SAYS: While he was episode of Dopey is dedicated to Tim Kelly, a man with 21 years of recovery who was diagnosed with terminal cancer. Tim's friends organized Tim Fest, a concert event to celebrate his life. The episode features interviews with Tim and his friends, including musicians like Anders Osborne and Jason Ricci. Tim shares his journey of addiction, recovery, and his love for the Grateful Dead. The episode also includes stories from Dopey listeners and sponsors promoting addiction recovery centers. Tim shares his experiences of attending Grateful Dead shows and his struggles with alcoholism. He talks about his journey of finding spirituality through the 12-step program and the importance of willingness and vulnerability. Tim also discusses his current battle with cancer and his perspective on life and death. This conversation covers Tim Kelly's battle with cancer, his journey in recovery, and the impact he had on others. The themes include spirituality, family dynamics, addiction, sobriety, and acceptance. The conversation highlights the importance of support systems, the challenges of addiction and recovery, and the power of love and connection. The takeaways include the significance of living a meaningful life, the importance of being present, and the impact of Tim's legacy. The titles could be 'Finding Meaning in the Face of Adversity', 'The Power of Love and Connection', and 'Embracing Life's Challenges with Courage and Resilience'. keywordsTim Kelly, addiction, recovery, cancer, Tim Fest, Grateful Dead, music, Dopey listeners, sponsors, Grateful Dead, alcoholism, spirituality, 12-step program, cancer, life, death, Tim Kelly, cancer, recovery, spirituality, addiction, sobriety, family dynamics, support systems, love, connection takeaways Tim Kelly, a man with 21 years of recovery, was diagnosed with terminal cancer Tim Fest was organized to celebrate Tim's life and featured interviews with Tim and his friends Tim shares his journey of addiction, recovery, and his love for the Grateful Dead The episode includes stories from Dopey listeners and sponsors promoting addiction recovery centers The Grateful Dead played a significant role in Tim's life, and he attended numerous shows throughout the years. Tim struggled with alcoholism and found solace and support in the 12-step program. He emphasizes the importance of willingness and vulnerability in finding spirituality. Tim is currently battling cancer and has a positive outlook on life and death. Living a meaningful life in the face of adversity The importance of being present and embracing life's challenges The power of love and connection in recovery The impact of Tim Kelly's legacy titles From Addiction to Recovery: Tim's Journey Stories of Hope and Healing from Dopey Listeners The Grateful Dead and the Impact on Tim's Life Embracing Life and Death in the Face of Cancer The Power of Love and Connection Finding Meaning in the Face of Adversity Sound Bites "Welcome to the show. Well, thank you for having me." "I always say that AA, the Grateful Dead, and yoga have influenced my life." "When I was at the top of Alpine Valley, I had arrived." "John Belushi, I see the light." "Violent Thumbs are opening up." "People started coming around to me to get things done." "And that's why I was so bummed. You know, obviously it was God's fucking tropical storm or whatever that, but I was so bummed because I, I never, don't say never. rarely go." "Phenomenal man. Agreed. I want to talk more about, I want to talk about your son. Okay. Like when your son was at his worst, does he go straight to you? In two ways, in violent ways, and then when he's in remorse for help." "But a wrestling altercation, you it's not punches, it's more wrestling. And he hates me. He hates me because he hates my recovery. He knows since then and he's made his amends to me. He says it was, I knew that's where I was going to be and you were cheating me." Chapters 00:00Introduction and Sponsor Promotion 02:22Reflecting on Loss and Life 03:20Life's Challenges and Gravitas 04:14Impactful Stories from Dopey Listeners 06:06Humorous and Disgusting Stories 10:19Encouraging Listener Stories 11:13Sponsor Promotion and Introduction to Tim Kelly 12:41Tim Kelly's Journey and Tim Fest 14:07The Last Recording of Tim Kelly 15:06Interview with John Bucati at Tim Fest 20:16Interview with Tim Kelly 41:00The Influence of the Grateful Dead and Yoga 45:52Falling in Love with the Grateful Dead 46:51Conclusion and Sponsor Promotion 48:19Struggles with Alcoholism 56:02Finding Spirituality through the 12-Step Program 01:19:43Love and Relationships in Recovery 01:28:32Embracing Life and Death 01:33:17Embracing Unexpected Opportunities 01:34:44Family Dynamics and Addiction 01:36:41Navigating Recovery and Rebuilding Relationships 01:39:07Acceptance and Finding Support 01:42:03Spirituality and Facing Mortality 01:45:26Managing Pain and Medication in Recovery 01:48:49Living a Meaningful Life in the Face of Adversity 01:52:44Reflecting on Life's Challenges and Legacy Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. 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Tuesday Teaser with John Bukaty! We recap the park city song summit and talk drugs, addiction and dumb shit. A bunch of recovery - the horrible review and more!   summary: The conversation is a teaser for the Patreon show and includes discussions about the Park City Song Summit, DopeyCon tickets, TikTok series, and live painting. The hosts also talk about creativity and art in recovery, as well as the positive impact of Dopey on people's lives. The conversation ends with a song. keywordsPatreon show, Park City Song Summit, DopeyCon tickets, TikTok series, live painting, creativity, art, recovery takeaways The Park City Song Summit was a great experience with amazing music and artists. DopeyCon tickets are going on sale, and Patreon members can get a discount. The hosts discuss the importance of creativity and art in recovery. Dopey is a safe place for artists to share their stories and experiences. The conversation ends with a song. titles A Musical Finale Get Your DopeyCon Tickets Sound Bites "The Park City Song Summit was by far the best year" "DopeyCon tickets are gonna go on sale to non-Patreon members" "Dopey is a big cosmic ball of creativity through recovery" Chapters 00:00Introduction 01:43Highlights from the Park City Song Summit 03:11Get Your DopeyCon Tickets 05:05The Power of Creativity in Recovery 07:20Dopey: A Safe Place for Artists 18:24A Musical Finale   Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This week on Dopey! It is Dopey Day Again! We are celebrating ChrisMiss and remembering Chris and all of our fallen friends. We are joined by Chris's mom and sister today to remember Chris! We hear about some of their favorite memories and listen to what it's like living on after you lose someone!  PLUS TONS OF VOICEMAILS, EMAILS, REMEMBERING THE FALLEN DOPES! FROM AI: This part of the conversation focuses on the ongoing impact of losing loved ones to addiction and the importance of remembering and honoring their memory. The hosts discuss their personal experiences of remembering those who have passed away and the comfort it brings. They also touch on the significance of anniversaries and milestones in relation to grief. The conversation transitions to Dopey Day, a holiday created to pay homage to those lost to addiction and celebrate those who are still fighting to stay alive. The hosts share messages and greetings from the Dopey Nation community, highlighting the support and connection within the community. They also discuss the grief and healing process, including visiting Chris's grave and engaging in activities that remind them of him. The chapter ends with a reflection on the complexity of addiction and the challenges of recognizing relapse in loved ones. In this part of the conversation, David and Arden discuss the pain and guilt that comes with losing a loved one to addiction. They reflect on their own experiences of not recognizing the signs and blame themselves for not being able to prevent the tragedy. They emphasize the importance of forgiveness and self-compassion in the healing process. They also discuss the difficulty of moving on and the bittersweet feeling of seeing others continue with their lives while their loved one is gone. They share their thoughts on how to support someone who has lost a child and offer advice on finding hope and healing after such a devastating loss. In this part of the conversation, Annie discusses her ambivalence towards the significance of the new year and reflects on her recovery journey. She shares her struggles with addiction, including relapses and the challenges of staying sober. Annie contemplates recommitting to the 12-step program despite her reservations about certain aspects of it. The conversation ends with messages from Dopey Nation members and a classic Dopey episode featuring Chris and Dave. In this final part of the conversation, David Manheim shares some personal stories and anecdotes about his experiences with drugs and recovery. He talks about his disease and the constant struggle to stay sober. He also discusses his experiments with psychedelics and the possibility of achieving similar experiences through meditation and spiritual practices. The conversation ends with various members of the Dopey Nation sharing their messages of love, remembrance, and gratitude. keywordsaddiction, grief, remembrance, Dopey Day, support, community, healing, relapse, addiction, loss, guilt, forgiveness, self-compassion, moving on, support, hope, healing, ambivalence, new year, recovery, addiction, relapse, 12-step program, messages, Dopey episode, personal stories, anecdotes, drugs, recovery, disease, sobriety, psychedelics, meditation, spiritual practices, love, remembrance, gratitude takeaways Remembering and honoring loved ones who have passed away from addiction can bring comfort and a sense of connection. Anniversaries and milestones can be significant triggers for grief and reflection. Dopey Day is a holiday created to pay homage to those lost to addiction and celebrate those who are still fighting to stay alive. The Dopey Nation community provides support and connection for individuals navigating addiction and recovery. Visiting gravesites and engaging in activities that remind us of loved ones can be a way to feel connected and take care of their memory. Recognizing relapse in loved ones can be challenging, especially when they are intelligent and convincing. Losing a loved one to addiction can bring feelings of guilt and self-blame, but it's important to forgive yourself and recognize that the outcome was out of your control. It is not helpful or respectful to ask someone how they didn't know about their loved one's addiction. Each person's experience is unique, and blaming oneself or others does not change the outcome. Over time, the acute grief and self-questioning may fade, but it can resurface on certain days or during difficult moments. It's important to give yourself time and space to process these emotions. Seeing others move on with their lives can be bittersweet for those who have lost a loved one to addiction. It's a reminder of what could have been and can bring a mix of emotions, including hope and pain. Finding support from others who have experienced similar losses can help alleviate feelings of loneliness and provide a sense of understanding and connection. Engaging in acts of service and helping others can be a way to honor the memory of a loved one and find healing in the aftermath of loss. The new year may not hold significant meaning for everyone, and personal growth and change can happen at any time. Recovery from addiction is a challenging journey with ups and downs, and it's important to seek support and make a commitment to change. The 12-step program, while not perfect, can provide a supportive community and structure for recovery. The Dopey Nation community continues to honor and remember Chris and Annie, and their stories inspire others to stay strong in their own recovery journeys. The constant struggle to stay sober and prioritize recovery The potential for psychedelic experiences through meditation and spiritual practices The importance of love, remembrance, and gratitude within the Dopey Nation titles Dopey Day: A Holiday of Remembrance and Celebration Grief and Healing: Navigating the Loss of a Loved One Moving On and Finding Hope Navigating Guilt and Self-Blame Messages from Dopey Nation Contemplating the 12-Step Program Messages of Love, Remembrance, and Gratitude The Struggle of Sobriety and the Disease of Addiction Sound Bites "To know that they're remembered in some capacity, I'm just assuming, you know what I mean?" "Every August 16th, we celebrate Dopey Day, aka Christmas in August." "Happy Christmas in August Dopey Day episode." "The best gift they gave him is when we really suspected something was wrong, they said, doesn't matter what happened, we'll pay for the next rehab, we will get you, we will work with you so you get better." "Even if we had known, even if we had the best interventionist and the best companion and the best treatment center, it doesn't matter, it still could have ended where it was." "I don't think it's ever helpful to ask somebody, how don't you know? I actually find that really disrespectful and obnoxious and just not a helpful comment." "How do you feel now we're coming up on the new year? Is the new year significant to you?" "I've kind of decided I'm going to recommit to 12 step thing, which I'm not 100 % happy about." "I would just like to wish the Dopey Nation a very, very happy new year and I hope to see you all at DopeyCon 2023." "My disease is in the parking lot doing pushups, waiting for me to go out." "I cannot imagine you found any sort of psychedelic experience without taking a hallucinogen." "I got a bunch of this that DMT stuff it was what about dope stories the podcast with crazy Mike and the other guy from fish or whatever that thing I think that's ending didn't we see that was anything so yeah, we're gonna replace dope stories whatever that might be" Chapters 00:00Remembering and Honoring: Finding Comfort in Remembrance 05:47Dopey Day: A Holiday of Remembrance and Celebration 14:20Grief and Healing: Navigating the Loss of a Loved One 27:01Visiting Graves and Engaging in Activities: Keeping Memories Alive 37:30Recognizing Relapse: The Challenges of Supporting Loved Ones 47:19Navigating Guilt and Self-Blame 56:19Finding Healing Through Acts of Service 01:36:28Reflecting on the Significance of the New Year 01:43:28Struggles and Commitment in Recovery 01:54:14Messages from Dopey Nation 02:17:15Classic Dopey Episode: The GHB Bottle 02:24:07Exploring Psychedelics and Alternative Spiritual Practices 02:37:38Coincidences and Strange Encounters 02:44:09Messages of Love, Remembrance, and Gratitude Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. 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This Week on a super new bonus Dopey Tuesday! We are joined by filmmaker and recovering addict John W. Comerford! We hear all about his super psychedelic path of addiction and recovery! John tells about his unsupervised nyc youth- we learn the secrets of old New York's music scene and Grateful Dead culture and much more on this super duper bonus episode of that good old Dopey Show! More on John: www.linktr.ee/johnwcomerford PLUS SHOOTING METHADONE VOICEMAIL!!!!! and MORE! Emilia's Notes:  - brothers intervention - realizing his mom was taking percs his whole childhood - lsd at red rocks - mdma sale arrest - bill w and huxley - bill w and belladonna - brother's death AI NOTES: In this part of the conversation, David Manheim discusses the purpose of the Dopey podcast and emphasizes the importance of real recovery work. He also shares personal experiences, including being alone in his house for the first time, dealing with a hernia, and celebrating his nine years of sobriety. The conversation then transitions to a voicemail from a listener who shares his experience of shooting methadone and being prescribed benzos at a methadone clinic. The episode concludes with an interview with John Comerford, a film producer and music presenter, where they discuss their love for jazz and their experiences with alcohol and drugs. David Manheim reflects on his early experiences with music and drugs, including attending jazz shows and experimenting with acid at a young age. He discusses his identity formation and the role of feeling and experience in his life. He shares stories of his tumultuous family life and the impact of addiction on his brother. David also talks about his introduction to the Grateful Dead and the transformative power of their music. He delves into his own struggles with alcoholism and drug addiction, including selling ecstasy and his eventual decision to get sober. In this final part of the conversation, David and John discuss their experiences with addiction and recovery. They share personal stories of their struggles with drugs and alcohol, including John's time in jail and David's journey to sobriety. They also talk about the importance of community and support in the recovery process. David shares some of the projects he is currently working on, including a documentary about General Yamashita's gold and a character study of Sarah Jane Moore, the woman who attempted to assassinate President Ford. keywords: Dopey podcast, recovery work, personal experiences, hernia, sobriety, methadone, benzos, film producer, jazz, alcohol, drugs, music, drugs, jazz, acid, identity, addiction, family, Grateful Dead, alcoholism, sobriety, addiction, recovery, jail, sobriety, community, support, documentary, General Yamashita's gold, Sarah Jane Moore takeaways The Dopey podcast is meant to be supplemental to someone with a recovery program and is not a substitute for real recovery work. Personal experiences, such as being alone in the house, dealing with a hernia, and celebrating sobriety milestones, can be shared openly to reduce shame and judgment. The listener's voicemail highlights the dangers of shooting methadone and the inappropriate prescribing of benzos at a methadone clinic. The interview with John Comerford explores their love for jazz and their experiences with alcohol and drugs. Music, such as jazz, can have a profound impact on emotions and enhance the experience of substances like cannabis and alcohol. Early experiences with music and drugs can shape one's identity and worldview. Addiction can have a profound impact on individuals and their families. The transformative power of music can provide solace and inspiration. Recovery from addiction requires a shift in focus from the problem to the solution. Addiction can lead to serious consequences, including jail time and death. Recovery requires a commitment to change and a willingness to seek help and support. Community and connection are essential in the recovery process. Sobriety opens up new opportunities for personal growth and fulfillment. Projects like More Than Music Foundation aim to foster wellness and educational opportunities for musicians and audiences. "titles" The Importance of Real Recovery Work Listener Voicemail: Shooting Methadone and Prescribed Benzos Finding Sobriety and a New Path The Impact of Addiction on Family The Power of Community in Recovery Finding Purpose and Fulfillment in Sobriety Sound Bites "Good morning, Dopey. Good morning, Dopey. Ay -ay -ay." "This Friday is Dopey Day, AKA Christmas in August." "I'm on the methadone program here in my state, in my home state, and I've been on it since 2013." "What these guys are putting out there has magnitude, and it has power." "I didn't really develop an intellectual life until I was like in my mid-late 30s." "That's why she's an hour late all the time. That's why she doesn't know why I'm at Irving Plaza at 13." "I mean, you jails, institutions and death is where we're headed. If we don't change it" "I reapplied to Boulder. I got in because I told them the story of what happened." "It's completely life-changing because I mean, Tommy had been my friend for a long time and was involved with the fellowship and always talked about how he wouldn't give up his sobriety for anything." Chapters 00:00Introduction and Overview 01:15The Importance of Real Recovery Work 03:41Personal Experiences: Alone in the House and Dealing with a Hernia 09:09Listener Voicemail: Shooting Methadone and Prescribed Benzos 18:58Interview with John Comerford: Love for Jazz and Experiences with Alcohol and Drugs 36:04Early Experiences with Music and Drugs 39:01Family Dynamics and Addiction 44:12The Transformative Power of Music 46:04Navigating Addiction 57:45Selling Drugs and Consequences 01:08:13Finding Sobriety 01:11:01From Jail to Filmmaking 01:18:08The Power of Community in Recovery 01:21:00Uncovering Hidden Stories 01:27:19Finding Purpose and Fulfillment in Sobriety 01:34:15More Than Music: Fostering Wellness and Education Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. 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This week on Dopey! We got horrible news that our dear friend, contributor and all around beloved OG favorite Dope - Annie Ellie died this week. We remember her and play her first voicemail which was, tragically and ironically all about a time she overdosed and almost died. We also play her review of DopeyCon 2022 and another thing she had sent in. Then Reno from the 'It's All Bad' podcast came to meet me at Jeremy's house when I was in Los Angeles - ironically for the Rich Roll show which aired last week! Reno tells his gnarly story of addiction and recovery! We hear all about his crazy beginnings in addict life and the hell he went through before it all got pretty good for him. Plus Dopey emails and much more on a brand new super tragic episode of that good old bitter sweet Dopey Show!  FROM AI:  yIn this episode of Dopey, Dave mourns the loss of Annie Ellie, a beloved member of the Dopey Nation who died of an overdose. He shares voicemails and memories of Annie, emphasizing the importance of reaching out for help and support. Dave also interviews Reno from the podcast It's All Bad, discussing their experiences with addiction and the challenges they faced. They talk about their early drug use, encounters with the law, and the journey to recovery. Reno shares his insights on navigating the prison system and finding a path to a better life. David Manheim shares his experiences with addiction and relapse, highlighting the importance of community and connectivity in recovery. He discusses his time in rehab and the intense group therapy sessions that helped him confront his character defects. David also talks about his Neapolitan background and how his natural skills of connecting with people served him both in his addiction and in his recovery. He reflects on the shame and guilt that came with his relapse and the impact it had on his personal and professional life. David emphasizes the importance of sharing stories of addiction and recovery to combat loneliness and provide hope to others. In this final part of the conversation, Reno reviews his drug use experiences, including his encounters with PCP, GHB, DMT, Ibogaine, and ketamine. He also shares a wild story about trying to access his tax refund while in the midst of addiction. Annie, a fan of the show, provides a review of DopeyCon 2022 and expresses her love for Brandon Novak. The episode concludes with Annie's tribute song to Brandon Novak. keywordsaddiction, overdose, mourning, support, recovery, podcast, interview, drug use, law, prison, life, addiction, recovery, community, connectivity, rehab, character defects, Neapolitan, shame, guilt, relapse, personal life, professional life, sharing stories, drug use, PCP, GHB, DMT, Ibogaine, ketamine, tax refund, addiction, DopeyCon, Brandon Novak takeaways The loss of a loved one to addiction is a tragic reminder of the importance of reaching out for help and support. Sharing memories and voicemails can be a way to honor and remember those who have passed away. Early drug use and encounters with the law can be wake-up calls that lead to a desire for change and recovery. Navigating the prison system can be challenging, but finding a community and seeking help can lead to a better life. Recovery is a journey that requires commitment, support, and a willingness to change. Loneliness and disconnection are breeding grounds for addiction, while community and connectivity are essential for recovery. Group therapy sessions in rehab can help individuals confront their character defects and work towards personal growth. Natural skills, such as connecting with people, can serve both in addiction and in recovery. Relapse can be a part of the recovery journey, and it's important to learn from it and seek help. Sharing stories of addiction and recovery can combat loneliness and provide hope to others. Reno reflects on his experiences with various drugs, highlighting the dangers and consequences of addiction. Annie's review of DopeyCon 2022 showcases the sense of community and connection among Dopey fans. The tribute song to Brandon Novak demonstrates the impact and admiration he has among the Dopey Nation. titles Mourning the Loss of Annie Ellie Finding Community and Support in Recovery Confronting Character Defects in Rehab The Role of Community and Connectivity in Recovery A Tribute to Brandon Novak Annie's Review of DopeyCon 2022 Sound Bites "If you're using and you're really, you don't want to die and you don't want to get really hurt, call that number." "I love Annie and I will totally miss her." "Discover Recovery: An Amazing Treatment Facility in the Pacific Northwest" "Addiction is a disease. Loneliness really thrives. Addiction really thrives in loneliness. Connectivity is one of the bigger things that unlocks addiction." "They did this thing called the game where they would circle up chairs in the middle of a room and there were no rules whatsoever, except for no violence." "I'm Neapolitan. And that's one of the characteristics. Is Neapolitan besides chocolate, vanilla, and strawberry?" "Love all the acts, crack, smack, and Brandon Novak." "Oh Mr. Novak, this is Mrs. Novak." "Mr. Novak is good, Mr. Novak is kind, Mr. Novak don't care." Chapters 00:00Mourning the Loss of Annie Ellie 10:48Recovery and Support 19:46Interview with Reno from It's All Bad 32:11Early Drug Use and Encounters with the Law 44:47Finding a Path to Recovery 46:59The Role of Community and Connectivity in Recovery 48:19Confronting Character Defects in Rehab 55:42The Impact of Relapse on Personal and Professional Life 01:14:46The Power of Sharing Stories of Addiction and Recovery 01:32:17Wild Drug Use Experiences 01:57:33Annie's Review of DopeyCon 2022 02:06:14A Tribute to Brandon Novak Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.