

Her Best Self with Lindsey Nichol | Eating Disorder Recovery Podcast — Less Food Noise. More Life.
Lindsey Nichol - Certified Health Coach, ED Recovery Coach, ED Intuitive Therapy Certified
Her Best Self with Lindsey Nichol is the eating disorder recovery podcast for women who are completely exhausted from food noise and food restriction. If you are ready to finally break free from food obsession, body anxiety, and the mental prison of ED - this show is for you.
Hosted by Lindsey Nichol, former figure skater, recovering perfectionist, and eating disorder recovery coach who has lived this herself. Lindsey built Her Best Self Co. for the woman who has tried therapy, treatment programs, and going it alone — and is still trapped. She gets it because she's been there. If you've been struggling for 10, 20, or 30+ years — here is your personal invitation to do recovery for real this time!
This podcast is for you if: You can't stop thinking about food. You're tired of wasting your life on this disorder. You want someone who has actually been where you are and found real freedom on the other side.
Every week you'll find real, honest conversations about: Anorexia recovery, bulimia recovery, orthorexia, restrictive eating, compulsive exercise, food noise, food anxiety, body dysmorphia, perfectionism, people-pleasing, quasi-recovery, eating disorder relapse, food freedom and faith-based recovery — all designed for women in their 30s, 40s, 50s and beyond who are done.
You'll learn how to: Stop the food noise. Break free from restriction. Overcome perfectionism and people-pleasing. Build real body trust and food freedom. And finally live the life this disorder has been stealing from you.
New episodes every Tuesday and Friday.
Ready to go deeper?
Apply to work with Lindsey 1:1 — www.herbestself.co
Join The Recovery Collective — the eating disorder recovery support group that gets the struggle and wants to see you win — at www.herbestself.co/recoverycollective
Facebook community — www.herbestselfsociety.com
Trigger warning: Episodes may cover sensitive topics including eating disorders and mental health. Content reflects personal insight and education and is not a replacement for clinical or medical support. Nothing shared establishes a therapeutic relationship or replaces the care of a clinical treatment professional. © 2026 Lindsey Nichol LLC
Hosted by Lindsey Nichol, former figure skater, recovering perfectionist, and eating disorder recovery coach who has lived this herself. Lindsey built Her Best Self Co. for the woman who has tried therapy, treatment programs, and going it alone — and is still trapped. She gets it because she's been there. If you've been struggling for 10, 20, or 30+ years — here is your personal invitation to do recovery for real this time!
This podcast is for you if: You can't stop thinking about food. You're tired of wasting your life on this disorder. You want someone who has actually been where you are and found real freedom on the other side.
Every week you'll find real, honest conversations about: Anorexia recovery, bulimia recovery, orthorexia, restrictive eating, compulsive exercise, food noise, food anxiety, body dysmorphia, perfectionism, people-pleasing, quasi-recovery, eating disorder relapse, food freedom and faith-based recovery — all designed for women in their 30s, 40s, 50s and beyond who are done.
You'll learn how to: Stop the food noise. Break free from restriction. Overcome perfectionism and people-pleasing. Build real body trust and food freedom. And finally live the life this disorder has been stealing from you.
New episodes every Tuesday and Friday.
Ready to go deeper?
Apply to work with Lindsey 1:1 — www.herbestself.co
Join The Recovery Collective — the eating disorder recovery support group that gets the struggle and wants to see you win — at www.herbestself.co/recoverycollective
Facebook community — www.herbestselfsociety.com
Trigger warning: Episodes may cover sensitive topics including eating disorders and mental health. Content reflects personal insight and education and is not a replacement for clinical or medical support. Nothing shared establishes a therapeutic relationship or replaces the care of a clinical treatment professional. © 2026 Lindsey Nichol LLC
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May 30, 2025 • 22min
EP 219: The Body Story That's Keeping You Trapped with Poor Body Image (+ How to Change It & Write Your Next Chapter!)
In this episode, Lindsey speaks directly to the exhausted high-achieving woman, who's spent decades restricting food and over-exercising while trying to lead in every area of life. Drawing from her personal recovery from anorexia and years of coaching experience, Lindsey helps you understand how your "body story" - those deep-rooted messages about what your body should look like and what it means about your worth - was written by diet culture, not by you. Learn how to identify the costly messages you've been carrying and discover a framework for rewriting your relationship with your body from shame to self-compassion.
What You'll Learn in This Episode
How to identify the specific cultural messages that shaped your relationship with your body
The hidden costs of carrying shame-based body stories (energy, presence, relationships, dreams)
Why your body became a "project to control" rather than a "home to inhabit"
The difference between health and size (and why conflating them keeps you trapped)
A practical framework for rewriting your body story starting this week
Specific daily practices to shift from body criticism to body appreciation
Key Moments & Timestamps
Opening (0:30-2:00) Lindsey speaks directly to exhausted high-achievers ready to break the restrict-exercise cycle
The Body Story Begins (2:00-5:00) "When did you first learn that your body was a problem to be solved? You didn't start out hating your body. You learned to."
Cultural Messages That Shaped You (5:00-8:00)
"Good girls don't take up too much space"
"Your body is your responsibility to control"
"Thin equals healthy, healthy equals worthy"
"Successful women have it all together, including their bodies"
The True Cost of Body Shame (8:00-10:30) What carrying these stories has cost you in energy, presence, authentic self, health, relationships, and dreams
Rewriting Your New Story (10:30-13:30) "Your body is not a problem to be solved. It's a miracle to be appreciated."
Powerful Quotes from This Episode
On Learning Body Shame: "You didn't start out hating your body. You learned to. You learned from a culture that profits from your insecurity."
On the Prison of Control: "That same control that felt like freedom was actually building your prison, brick by brick, year by year."
On Exhaustion: "You're successful in every other area of your life. You lead teams, you manage budgets, you solve complex problems... But when it comes to your body, you still feel like that confused young girl who learned that her worth was tied to her weight."
On True Health: "True health includes your mental well-being, your energy levels, your ability to do the things you love, your hormonal balance, your sleep quality, your stress management. None of these things require you to be a certain weight or size."
On Taking Up Space: "As a leader, as a woman, as a human being - you are allowed to have needs, to have desires, to exist fully in your body without apologizing for it."
This Week's Body Story Rewrite Actions
Morning Body Appreciation: Thank your body for something it did for you yesterday instead of immediately focusing on what you don't like
Intuitive Nourishment: Ask "What would feel good and nourishing right now?" instead of "What should I eat according to my rules?"
Joyful Movement: Choose movement based on how you want to feel, not calories you want to burn
Compassionate Self-Talk: When you catch body criticism, ask "Would I talk to my best friend this way?"
Your New Body Story Framework
Old Story: "My body is a problem to be solved through restriction and exercise" New Story: "My body is a miracle to be appreciated and cared for with compassion"
Old Story: "My worth depends on my size and what I eat" New Story: "My worth exists because I exist - my body is the vehicle for my life, not the determiner of my value"
Old Story: "I must control my body to be successful" New Story: "I honor my body's wisdom and treat it as I would treat a dear friend's body"
Ready for Personalized Support?
One-on-One Coaching with Lindsey If you're a high-achieving woman ready to break free from the restrict-exercise cycle and rewrite your body story with expert guidance, apply for Lindsey's coaching program at www.herbestself.co
This intensive program is specifically designed for women who:
Are exhausted from decades of fighting their bodies
Lead successfully in other areas but struggle with food and body image
Want to reclaim the energy they're spending on food rules and exercise obsession
Are ready to model body peace for their families and teams
Connect & Continue Your Journey
Join Our Community
Her Best Self Society Facebook Group: Connect with hundreds of women rewriting their body stories www.herbestselfsociety.com
Email List: Sign up at www.herbestself.co for exclusive resources, workshops, and offers for women breaking free from diet culture
Follow Lindsay
Instagram: @thelindseynichol
Website: www.herbestself.co
Email: info@lindseynichol.com
If This Episode Resonated With You
Please rate, review, and subscribe to the Her Best Self podcast. Your support helps more women discover that they have the power to rewrite their body stories from shame to self-compassion.
Share this episode with a woman who needs to hear that her body story doesn't have to end with restriction and exhaustion - the best chapters are yet to come.
Remember: You are not too much, you are not too little, you are exactly enough, exactly as you are. Your body story is still being written, and you get to hold the pen.
xo,
lindsey
Coach with Me ->Client Application
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Email me directly -> lindsey@herbestself.co
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Need a helping hand guiding you girl!? You don’t have to do this alone!
Step 1: Go all IN! Decide to commit to yourself & your future! Do it scared girlfriend. Just do it!
Step 2: Apply for limited 1:1 & let’s work together -> Client Application
Step 3: Leverage the FB community for support & stay tuned for all the resources up & coming to help serve you!
YOU TOTALLY GOT THIS!
* While I am a certified health coach, anorexia survivor & eating disorder recovery coach, I do not intend the use of this message to serve as medical advice. Please refer to the disclaimer here in the show & be sure to contact a licensed clinical provider if you are struggling with an eating disorder.

May 27, 2025 • 21min
EP 218: Recovery Is Like a Roller Coaster ~ Why the Scary Parts Actually Mean You’re on the Right Track 🎢
In this powerful episode, Lindsey shares a weekend experience with her son that completely reframes what recovery success looks like. Using the analogy of a terrifying roller coaster ride, she challenges the myth that recovery should feel comfortable and reveals why the hardest moments might actually be where the most important healing happens. If you've been beating yourself up because parts of recovery still feel impossible, or if you're waiting for healing to feel "good" before you fully commit, this episode will shift your entire perspective on courage, progress, and what it truly means to succeed in recovery.
What You'll Learn in This Episode
Why recovery doesn't have to feel good to be working effectively
How to redefine recovery success beyond comfort and ease
The difference between courage and confidence (and why courage is enough)
Why the struggle IS the work, not a sign that you're failing
Practical ways to honor your bravery even when recovery feels terrifying
How to stay committed to healing when every instinct tells you to quit
Key Takeaways & Quotes
On Recovery Not Feeling Good (4:30) "You don't have to enjoy recovery for it to be changing your life... What if the victory isn't in loving the process, but in staying on the ride anyway?"
On Redefining Success (8:45) "Every time you eat when your eating disorder says restrict - that's courage, even if it feels awful. Every time you choose rest over compulsive exercise - that's strength, even if your anxiety is through the roof."
On Courage vs. Comfort (10:15) "Recovery success isn't never having eating disorder thoughts again. It's learning to recognize those thoughts and choosing not to act on them, even when they're loud and persistent."
On The Hardest Moments (11:30) "When you're struggling the most, when recovery feels impossible, when every instinct is telling you to go back to your eating disorder - that's when you're doing the deepest healing work."
This Week's Recovery Challenge
Find one moment this week where you chose recovery despite it feeling hard. Instead of minimizing that moment or focusing on how uncomfortable it felt, say out loud: "I am proud of myself for doing that hard thing."
Remember: You don't have to love recovery to be succeeding at it. You just have to keep showing up.
Real Talk Recovery Reminders
The struggle isn't a sign that recovery isn't working - the struggle IS the work
You can be proud of your courage even when recovery doesn't feel good
Discomfort doesn't equal danger - it often equals growth
Your difficult recovery experience doesn't mean you're doing it wrong
Building emotional strength happens in the uncomfortable moments
Ready for support on your recovery roller coaster? If you're tired of navigating recovery alone and want someone to remind you of your strength when you can't see it yourself, Lindsey's one-on-one coaching program is designed for women ready to redefine what recovery success looks like.
Apply for coaching: www.herbestself.co
Instagram: @thelindseynichol
Email: info@lindseynichol.com or lindsey@herbestself.co
Community: www.herbestselfsociety.com
If This Episode Helped You
Please rate, review, and subscribe to the Her Best Self podcast. Your support helps more women discover that they don't have to wait for recovery to feel comfortable before they can be proud of their incredible courage.
Share this episode with someone who needs to hear that their bravery in recovery - even when it's terrifying - is building the foundation for their freedom.
Remember: Your bravery in this moment is building the foundation for your freedom tomorrow. You've got this, beautiful soul.
xo,
lindsey
Coach with Me ->Client Application
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Email me directly -> lindsey@herbestself.co
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Join the free FB community -> www.herbestselfsociety.com
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Need a helping hand guiding you girl!? You don’t have to do this alone!
Step 1: Go all IN! Decide to commit to yourself & your future! Do it scared girlfriend. Just do it!
Step 2: Apply for limited 1:1 & let’s work together -> Client Application
Step 3: Leverage the FB community for support & stay tuned for all the resources up & coming to help serve you!
YOU TOTALLY GOT THIS!
* While I am a certified health coach, anorexia survivor & eating disorder recovery coach, I do not intend the use of this message to serve as medical advice. Please refer to the disclaimer here in the show & be sure to contact a licensed clinical provider if you are struggling with an eating disorder.

May 23, 2025 • 17min
EP 217.5: What’s Your Recovery Spirit Animal? Listen to This Fav, Then Take My FREE Recovery Quiz to Help Jumpstart Your Healing Journey 🦁
Recovery isn't one-size-fits-all, and neither are you! Just like animals in the wild, each of us has a unique way of navigating challenges and finding strength. In today's episode, I share how discovering my spirit animal (hello, turtle energy!) transformed my approach to recovery and gave me the hope I desperately needed.
Take the FREE Recovery Spirit Animal Quiz at www.herbestself.co/resources to discover whether you're a fierce lion pushing through obstacles, a steady turtle taking life one step at a time, or another powerful animal guide. Your results will reveal personalized insights about your recovery style and help you stop second-guessing your journey.
Ready to find the hope, peace, and freedom you've been searching for? Your spirit animal is waiting to guide you home to yourself.
xo,
lindsey
Coach with Me ->Client Application
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Email me directly -> lindsey@herbestself.co
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Join the free FB community -> www.herbestselfsociety.com
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Need a helping hand guiding you girl!? You don’t have to do this alone!
Step 1: Go all IN! Decide to commit to yourself & your future! Do it scared girlfriend. Just do it!
Step 2: Apply for limited 1:1 & let’s work together -> Client Application
Step 3: Leverage the FB community for support & stay tuned for all the resources up & coming to help serve you!
YOU TOTALLY GOT THIS!
* While I am a certified health coach, anorexia survivor & eating disorder recovery coach, I do not intend the use of this message to serve as medical advice. Please refer to the disclaimer here in the show & be sure to contact a licensed clinical provider if you are struggling with an eating disorder.

May 20, 2025 • 17min
EP 217: From Ankle-Deep to ALL IN ~ The #1 Question to Ask Yourself to Find the Courage to Fully Commit to Your Recovery
In this powerful episode of the Her Best Self podcast, Lindsey explores what it truly means to go ALL IN on your recovery journey. Inspired by a church sermon on faith, she unpacks the different levels of commitment in recovery—from ankle-deep hesitation to full blown surrender—and challenges you to identify where you're holding back. If you're tired of partial results and ready to experience true freedom from disordered eating, this episode offers both inspiration and practical next steps for going ALL IN on yourself and your healing.
What You'll Learn
The four levels of commitment in recovery: ankle-deep, knee-deep, waist-deep, and ALL IN
How staying in your comfort zone blocks your healing progress
The exhausting reality of wearing the "eating disorder mask" and the freedom that comes from removing it
Practical examples of what going ALL IN looks like in everyday recovery
Biblical wisdom that supports full surrender in the recovery process
One tangible action step to move toward going ALL IN this week
Highlights From This Episode
On Partial Commitment (3:12) "Partial commitment yields partial results. To experience the full freedom that recovery offers, you have to go ALL IN. That means complete surrender. Complete trust. Complete willingness to feel ALL of your feelings without using food or exercise to numb them."
On Getting Out of Your Own Way (5:45) "How often are YOU getting in the way of your own recovery? How often are you blocking your own healing because you're trying to control everything? Because you're not willing to trust the process? Because you're holding onto the false comfort of your eating disorder?"
On Removing the Mask (8:30) "The eating disorder has pulled a mask over you - a false identity that you might have worn for years or even decades... Going ALL IN means pulling away that mask and saying, 'This is who I really am. This is what I'm really struggling with. This is what I really need.'"
On Redirecting Energy (10:15) "When you go ALL IN on recovery, you get to redirect all that energy toward actually living your life. Toward your relationships, your passions, your purpose. Toward the woman God created you to be."
Scripture Referenced
Romans 12:2 – "Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind."
Proverbs 3:5-6 – "Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight."
Psalm 139:14 – "I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well."
Your Recovery Action Step
Identify ONE area where you've been holding back in recovery, and take ONE step toward going ALL IN in that area this week. Write it down, share it with someone who will hold you accountable, and commit to taking that step even when it feels uncomfortable.
Connect With Lindsey
Ready to go ALL IN on your recovery with professional support? Visit www.herbestself.co to apply for one-on-one coaching.
Follow on Instagram: @thelindseynichol
Email: info@lindseynichol.com
Join our community: www.herbestselfsociety.com
Subscribe to Her Best Self Podcast
If this episode resonated with you, please rate, review, and subscribe on your favorite podcast platform. Your support helps more women find the courage to go ALL IN on their recovery journey.
xo,
lindsey
Coach with Me ->Client Application
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Email me directly -> lindsey@herbestself.co
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Join the free FB community -> www.herbestselfsociety.com
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Need a helping hand guiding you girl!? You don’t have to do this alone!
Step 1: Go all IN! Decide to commit to yourself & your future! Do it scared girlfriend. Just do it!
Step 2: Apply for limited 1:1 & let’s work together -> Client Application
Step 3: Leverage the FB community for support & stay tuned for all the resources up & coming to help serve you!
YOU TOTALLY GOT THIS!
* While I am a certified health coach, anorexia survivor & eating disorder recovery coach, I do not intend the use of this message to serve as medical advice. Please refer to the disclaimer here in the show & be sure to contact a licensed clinical provider if you are struggling with an eating disorder.

May 16, 2025 • 20min
EP 216: When Healing Feels Messy & Impossible ~ Your Permission to Find Peace in the “Not Okay” Moments
In this powerful episode of Her Best SELF podcast, Lindsey shares why the messy, difficult moments in eating disorder recovery aren't signs of failure—they're actually where the deepest healing happens. If you've been beating yourself up for struggling, if recovery feels impossibly hard, or if you're wondering why you're not "further along," this episode offers the permission and compassion you need to keep going.
What You'll Discover:
Why the myth of "perfect recovery" sets us up for unnecessary shame
The three dimensions where it's normal to struggle: body, mind, and soul
How to distinguish between normal recovery challenges and actual setbacks
Practical tools for embracing difficult moments without giving up
Why self-compassion accelerates healing more than perfectionism ever could
Featured Quotes: "Recovery isn't about becoming perfect. It's about reclaiming your voice in a world that tried to silence you with impossible standards." - Geneen Roth
Key Moments:
[00:03:45] Lindsey shares a personal breakthrough moment from her anorexia recovery
[00:06:30] The science behind why recovery feels chaotic (and why that's normal!)
[00:09:15] Understanding the body, mind, and soul dimensions of healing
[00:12:00] Five practical strategies for embracing "not okay" moments
[00:14:00] How to know you're still making progress even when it doesn't feel like it
Practical Tools Mentioned:
Creating a personal "comfort menu" for difficult moments
The "pause and breathe" technique for interrupting shame spirals
Documentation practices to recognize non-scale victories
Community-building strategies for authentic recovery support
Listener Action Step: The next time you feel like you're failing at recovery because it feels so hard, place a hand on your heart and say: "This is really hard right now, and that's okay. I'm doing my best." Notice how giving yourself permission to struggle actually creates space for healing.
Ready for personalized recovery support? Lindsey's Freedom Formula Experience offers 1:1 coaching designed to help you break free from food rules through healing body, mind, and soul. Limited spots available each month – learn more and apply at www.herbestself.co
xo,
lindsey
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Coach with Me ->Client Application
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Email me directly -> lindsey@herbestself.co
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Join the free FB community -> www.herbestselfsociety.com
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Need a helping hand guiding you girl!? You don’t have to do this alone!
Step 1: Go all IN! Decide to commit to yourself & your future! Do it scared girlfriend. Just do it!
Step 2: Apply for limited 1:1 & let’s work together -> Client Application
Step 3: Leverage the FB community for support & stay tuned for all the resources up & coming to help serve you!
YOU TOTALLY GOT THIS!
* While I am a certified health coach, anorexia survivor & eating disorder recovery coach, I do not intend the use of this message to serve as medical advice. Please refer to the disclaimer here in the show & be sure to contact a licensed clinical provider if you are struggling with an eating disorder.

May 13, 2025 • 17min
EP 215.5: The 5 Biggest Pitfalls Sabotaging Your Eating Disorder Recovery (& How to Overcome Them) **Must Listen Fav!**
Sister,
I literally cannot wait to share with you the 5 "D's"....
What am I talking about?
The 5 "D's" are what I believe are the BIGGEST challenges you will ever face as you navigate freedom from food & that 'crazy thinking' controlling your every day.
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In today's replay, I discuss these 5 pitfalls, so that you can recognize where you may be stuck in them...not to shame game you, but to push you to overcome!
Let's rewind for a minute as I take you back to my own struggle with disordered eating...
I was lost. Exhausted. Constantly thinking about what I could eat next & when I could eat it. I was miserable. & I spent years in the same wonky cycle trying to convince myself that everything was fine & I was fine....I was far from fine.
Fast Forward to my "ah-ha"....I hated life & I craved a better way. But in the process of creating more for myself I came across these 5 biggest challenges.
The only way out girl, was through. & the same goes for you. But the good news is, if you are in the "doldrums" right now, maybe not sure where to turn to next because your mind is constantly filled with thoughts around food & your body, then today's podcast episode will speak straight to your soul.
But before you go listen, here is a quote to help you hold on to hope today:
"Remember not to dig up in doubt what you planted in faith." You deserve more sis!
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Ready to escape the 5 biggest challenges? Don't worry girl, I got you!
Listen in to discover what these 5 pitfalls are & let me show you the way out to find the true & real you...the BEST you yet!
xo,
lindsey
Find All the Things -> wwww.herbestself.co
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Coach with Me ->Client Application
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Email me directly -> info@lindseynichol.com
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Join the free FB community -> www.herbestselfsociety.com
______
Need a helping hand guiding you girl!? You don’t have to do this alone!
Step 1: Go all IN! Decide to commit to yourself & your future! Do it scared girlfriend. Just do it!
Step 2: Apply for limited 1:1 & let’s work together -> Client Application
Step 3: Leverage the FB community for support & stay tuned for all the resources up & coming to help serve you!
YOU TOTALLY GOT THIS!
* While I am a certified health coach, anorexia survivor & eating disorder recovery coach, I do not intend the use of this message to serve as medical advice. Please refer to the disclaimer here in the show & be sure to contact a licensed clinical provider if you are struggling with an eating disorder.

May 9, 2025 • 14min
EP 215: Why BMI is Total BS! The Scientific Truth About Body Mass Index & Numbers + How to Measure True Health📍
In this powerful episode of Her Best SELF podcast, we dismantle the widely misused BMI scale and reveal why this outdated measurement has no place in your recovery journey. Learn the problematic origins of BMI, the scientific evidence against its validity, and discover more meaningful ways to understand health and healing while navigating eating disorder recovery.
What You'll Learn:
The surprising origin story of BMI (it wasn't created by health professionals!)
Scientific studies proving BMI is an inaccurate measure of individual health
Why BMI disproportionately harms certain populations and body types
Better alternatives for understanding your body's health during recovery
Practical tips for responding when healthcare providers focus on BMI
How releasing attachment to numbers supports lasting recovery
Research Mentioned:
International Journal of Obesity study on metabolic health markers
Journal of the American Medical Association research on BMI and mortality rates
University of Pennsylvania research on ethnic differences in body composition
Quotes from the Episode: "Your body is not a math problem to be solved. Your worth is not determined by where you fall on a chart created for 19th-century population statistics."
"True health is about how your body functions, not how you measure against an arbitrary mathematical formula."
Recovery Action Step: The next time someone tries to reduce your health to a BMI number, remember the science backing why this measurement is fundamentally flawed. Practice responding with confidence about your commitment to more meaningful health markers in your recovery.
I hope you enjoy today's show!
xo,
lindsey
Find All the Things -> wwww.herbestself.co
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Coach with Me ->Client Application
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Email me directly -> info@lindseynichol.com
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Join the free FB community -> www.herbestselfsociety.com
______
Need a helping hand guiding you girl!? You don’t have to do this alone!
Step 1: Go all IN! Decide to commit to yourself & your future! Do it scared girlfriend. Just do it!
Step 2: Apply for limited 1:1 & let’s work together -> Client Application
Step 3: Leverage the FB community for support & stay tuned for all the resources up & coming to help serve you!
YOU TOTALLY GOT THIS!
* While I am a certified health coach, anorexia survivor & eating disorder recovery coach, I do not intend the use of this message to serve as medical advice. Please refer to the disclaimer here in the show & be sure to contact a licensed clinical provider if you are struggling with an eating disorder.

May 6, 2025 • 15min
EP 214.5: Some Rules are Meant to be Broken ~ Food Rules, Diet Rules, Bargaining NO MORE! Here is the Path to True Recovery & Freedom
Eleanor Roosevelt said, "Well behaved women rarely make history".
Sis, it's time you make history!
It's time to lay down those nagging thoughts about food that are controlling your life once & for all.
In today’s of the podcast, I share with you many of the food rules I struggled with in my own personal path to freedom. I share how you can identify the rules no longer serving you that are keeping you stuck. & I discuss how you can introduce food exposures to challenge your current rules living you trapped.
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Each time you make a new scary choice to go agaisnt one of your food rules, your brain becomes less terrified & more accepting. This is HUGE in recovery!
Rules are meant to keep us safe, but disordered rules actually generate harm.
You are meant for MORE.
You are meant to live a life without chains of food rules.
Let me show you the way!
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Ready to break those rules? share today's episode with someone you love!
& remember that you are made for a life FREE from the chains of disordered eating.
xo,
lindsey
Find All the Things -> wwww.herbestself.co
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Coach with Me ->Client Application
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Email me directly -> info@lindseynichol.com
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Join the free FB community -> www.herbestselfsociety.com
______
Need a helping hand guiding you girl!? You don’t have to do this alone!
Step 1: Go all IN! Decide to commit to yourself & your future! Do it scared girlfriend. Just do it!
Step 2: Apply for limited 1:1 & let’s work together -> Client Application
Step 3: Leverage the FB community for support & stay tuned for all the resources up & coming to help serve you!
YOU TOTALLY GOT THIS!
* While I am a certified health coach, anorexia survivor & eating disorder recovery coach, I do not intend the use of this message to serve as medical advice. Please refer to the disclaimer here in the show & be sure to contact a licensed clinical provider if you are struggling with an eating disorder.

May 2, 2025 • 16min
EP 214: When Hearing ‘You Look Healthy’ Hurts + 5 Proven Strategies to Help You Navigate Compliments in Recovery
In this heartfelt episode, we tackle the complicated emotions that arise when someone says "you look healthy" during eating disorder recovery. Drawing from personal experience, Lindsey provides compassionate guidance and practical strategies to process these well-intentioned comments without letting them derail your recovery journey.
In This Episode:
[00:00] Introduction: Why "you look healthy" can feel triggering in recovery
[02:15] The powerful quote that reframes what "healthy" truly means
[04:30] Understanding our emotional reaction to appearance comments
[06:45] Strategy #1: The Pause and Reframe
[08:30] Strategy #2: The Curiosity Approach
[10:15] Strategy #3: The Gratitude Pivot
[12:00] Strategy #4: The Feeling Validation
[13:45] Strategy #5: The Recovery Identity Reminder
[15:30] The reality of progress: It's not linear, but it is possible
[17:00] This week's challenge: Creating your personal definition of health
[18:30] Closing thoughts and resources
Key Takeaways:
"Healthy" isn't a code word for weight gain—it encompasses mental clarity, emotional presence, and overall vitality
Learning to separate appearance comments from your self-worth is a crucial recovery skill
Practical techniques like curiosity, reframing, and validation can help manage triggering moments
Recovery progress isn't about never feeling triggered—it's about developing new response patterns
Your authentic self-returning is what people are often really noticing and celebrating
xo,
lindsey
Find All the Things -> wwww.herbestself.co
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Coach with Me ->Client Application
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Email me directly -> info@lindseynichol.com
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Join the free FB community -> www.herbestselfsociety.com
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Need a helping hand guiding you girl!? You don’t have to do this alone!
Step 1: Go all IN! Decide to commit to yourself & your future! Do it scared girlfriend. Just do it!
Step 2: Apply for limited 1:1 & let’s work together -> Client Application
Step 3: Leverage the FB community for support & stay tuned for all the resources up & coming to help serve you!
YOU TOTALLY GOT THIS!
* While I am a certified health coach, anorexia survivor & eating disorder recovery coach, I do not intend the use of this message to serve as medical advice. Please refer to the disclaimer here in the show & be sure to contact a licensed clinical provider if you are struggling with an eating disorder.

Apr 29, 2025 • 24min
EP 213: From Body Checking to Soul Checking ~ How Shadow Work Freed Me From Anorexia + Your 11-Question Guide
In this deeply personal episode, Lindsey explores how shadow work can help those struggling with eating disorders, particularly anorexia and restrictive eating patterns. This episode provides a guided assignment for listeners to explore the deeper emotional roots of their disordered eating, designed to be completed in a quiet, private space. Through 11 powerful questions, Lindsey invites you to shine light on the shadows that may be manifesting through your relationship with food and your body.
In This Episode
Lindsey's personal story about living with anorexia and the hidden emotional pain it masked
Introduction to shadow work as a complementary practice to professional eating disorder treatment
11 reflective questions to help identify the deeper wounds and needs behind disordered eating
Guidance on approaching this work with self-compassion and patience
The Shadow Work Questions
What is the biggest lie I tell myself constantly?
What is the story I tell myself about this lie?
When am I the hardest on myself and why?
When have I felt rejected, betrayed, or broken?
What would I say to the person that hurt me?
What makes me feel the most jealous? What do I wish I had that I don't?
What traits do/did my parents have that I hope I don't have?
What are my toxic traits? How do I push those on others?
When I think about my future, what am I most afraid of?
When was the last time that I forgave myself?
What does happiness mean to me?
Resources Mentioned
Journaling supplies (recommended for completing the shadow work assignment)
Finding a quiet, private space like a park bench for reflection
Important Note
This episode is meant to complement, not replace, professional treatment for eating disorders. If you're struggling with an eating disorder, please reach out to a healthcare professional for support.
Resources Mentioned:
www.herbestself.co - Work with Lindsey one-on-one
www.herbestselfsociety.com - Join our supportive community
xo,
lindsey
Find All the Things -> wwww.herbestself.co
______
Coach with Me ->Client Application
______
Email me directly -> info@lindseynichol.com
______
Join the free FB community -> www.herbestselfsociety.com
______
Need a helping hand guiding you girl!? You don’t have to do this alone!
Step 1: Go all IN! Decide to commit to yourself & your future! Do it scared girlfriend. Just do it!
Step 2: Apply for limited 1:1 & let’s work together -> Client Application
Step 3: Leverage the FB community for support & stay tuned for all the resources up & coming to help serve you!
YOU TOTALLY GOT THIS!
* While I am a certified health coach, anorexia survivor & eating disorder recovery coach, I do not intend the use of this message to serve as medical advice. Please refer to the disclaimer here in the show & be sure to contact a licensed clinical provider if you are struggling with an eating disorder.


