Real Recovery Talk

Join our Big Book Study! https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/bigbookstudy Join our FREE FB Support group!: https://www.facebook.com/groups/realrecoverytalk Download our free guides!: https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/guides Chat with us! https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/services In this episode, we're joined by Jared, who shares a raw and honest look at what it really took for him to get clean and sober. Jared opens up about the darkest parts of his addiction—the chaos, the desperation, and the extreme lengths he would go to just to get his next fix. But he didn't stay stuck there. Jared walks us through the turning point in his life, what finally pushed him to seek help, and how his recovery has transformed not just his sobriety, but his outlook on life. This is a powerful conversation about what happens when you hit bottom—and what's possible when you decide you're done digging. If you're looking for hope, truth, and a reminder that recovery is possible no matter how far gone you feel, this episode is for you.

Join our Big Book Study! https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/bigbookstudy Join our FREE FB Support group!: https://www.facebook.com/groups/realrecoverytalk Download our free guides!: https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/guides Chat with us! https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/services In this episode, we talk directly to parents and loved ones who are sending their adult child off to treatment. It's one of the hardest things to do—trusting someone else with your child's recovery. But as tough as it is, learning when to lean in and when to step back can make all the difference. We dive into how much involvement is actually helpful, and where well-meaning actions can cross into being overly controlling. We also cover the common pitfalls parents face during this process—like micromanaging treatment or trying to emotionally buffer every consequence. We explain why it's so important to let the professionals do what they're trained to do, while still staying supportive in a healthy, balanced way. If you've ever struggled with how to support your loved one without getting in the way of their recovery, this episode is for you.

Join our FREE FB Support group!: https://www.facebook.com/groups/realrecoverytalk Download our free guides!: https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/guides Chat with us! https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/services SOBERLINK: https://www.soberlink.com/partners-family-and-friends/rrt In this episode, I sit down with Ben and Eric to talk about one of the most powerful—and often misunderstood—parts of getting clean and sober: the amends process. We break down why making amends is such a crucial part of recovery, how it helps us repair the damage we've done, and what it actually looks like when done the right way. But we also talk about the flip side—why making amends too early can do more harm than good. A lot of people want to rush into it with two weeks sober, thinking it'll fix everything, but the truth is, timing matters. There's a reason the amends process comes after working the previous steps. Whether you're new to recovery or have been walking this path for a while, this episode is full of real insight on what to do—and what not to do—when it comes to repairing relationships and moving forward in your sobriety.

Join our Big Book Study! https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/bigbookstudy Join our FREE FB Support group!: https://www.facebook.com/groups/realrecoverytalk Download our free guides!: https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/guides Chat with us! https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/services In this episode, we reconnect with Brian, who first joined us back on episode 361 while he was enrolled in our treatment program. Today, Brian is 14 months sober and has since transitioned back home to Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. He shares in detail what that transition was like—the challenges he faced, the emotional and environmental hurdles he had to overcome, and what he did to stay grounded in his recovery. Brian opens up about the habits, mindset shifts, and support systems that have helped him maintain sobriety over the past year. This episode is full of real talk about life after treatment and what it takes to keep going when the structure of treatment is no longer there. If you're wondering what long-term recovery looks like after the program ends, this is one you don't want to miss.

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Join our FREE FB Support group!: https://www.facebook.com/groups/realrecoverytalk Download our free guides!: https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/guides Chat with us! https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/services One of the biggest things that keeps recovering addicts and alcoholics stuck in the cycle of relapse and self-destruction is victim mentality. It's that mindset of "Life is out to get me," "No one understands what I've been through," or "I can't succeed because of my past." In this episode, we're digging deep into: What victim mentality looks like in recovery – the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways it creeps in. Why this mindset is dangerous – how it leads to resentment, isolation, and relapse. How to shift from self-pity to accountability – practical steps to take control of your sobriety. Why service work and gratitude are the ultimate antidotes to victim thinking. We also discuss how family members, sponsors, and recovery communities can help someone recognize when they're stuck in a victim mindset—without enabling their excuses. At the end of the day, your recovery is YOUR responsibility. No one is coming to save you, but the good news is—you don't need saving. You just need to take action. If you're ready to move from blaming to thriving, this episode is for you!

Join our Big Book Study! https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/bigbookstudy Join our FREE FB Support group!: https://www.facebook.com/groups/realrecoverytalk Download our free guides!: https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/guides Chat with us! https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/services Relapse doesn't happen overnight—it starts long before someone picks up a drink or a drug. In this episode, we're breaking down the three biggest warning signs of relapse so you can recognize them early and take action before things spiral out of control. We will cover: Emotional relapse – When someone starts isolating, bottling up emotions, and neglecting self-care. Mental relapse – The dangerous inner battle of cravings, romanticizing the past, and rationalizing use. Behavioral relapse – The shift in actions, avoiding accountability, and making reckless choices. Whether you're in recovery or supporting a loved one, knowing these warning signs could be the difference between staying sober and falling back into addiction. Tune in to learn how to catch relapse before it happens and what steps you can take right now to prevent it.

Join our Big Book Study! https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/bigbookstudy Join our FREE FB Support group!: https://www.facebook.com/groups/realrecoverytalk Download our free guides!: https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/guides Chat with us! https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/services On this episode, we sit down with Ian Fee, who shares his powerful story of getting sober and what ultimately led him to make the change seven years ago. But Ian's path to sobriety wasn't the traditional route—he opens up about the unconventional way he got sober and how it shaped his journey in recovery. We dive into what's worked for him, the challenges he's faced, and the lessons he's learned along the way. Whether you're new to sobriety or have been on this journey for a while, Ian's story is proof that there's no one-size-fits-all approach to getting clean—but there is always hope. Tune in for an inspiring conversation!

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Join our FREE FB Support group!: https://www.facebook.com/groups/realrecoverytalk Download our free guides!: https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/guides Chat with us! https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/services Struggling to quit drinking but can't go to treatment? In this episode, we discuss the exact strategies we'd use to stop drinking while living at home. From building a solid support system to reshaping daily habits, we break down practical, real-world steps to help you take control of your sobriety. Whether you're cutting back or quitting for good, these tips can help you on your journey. Let us know your thoughts in the comments!