

The Luella Jonk Show
Dr. Luella Jonk, PhD
From the therapy room of a registered psychotherapist, dating coach and solopreneur who has tirelessly attempted a 'healthy' work-life balance for 25 years, it rarely existed for me and likely does not for most business owners, entrepreneurs and executives. The truth is relationships can really suffer. I will be interviewing expert guests who are doing things right so we can all learn to mix business with pleasure. Topics will range from building better relationships, connection, dating, and how to spread more kindness and compassion towards others while doing so. Listeners, you have the right to have passion surrounding your work while maintaining passionate relationships. You can have your cake and eat it too. New episodes premiere every Tuesday.
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May 7, 2024 • 1h 4min
Clearing Up Some Of The Myths Surrounding Nutrition With Michelle Shapiro
If you have never worked with a functional integrative dietician before to combat your ills, perhaps consider doing so. In today’s episode, Michelle and I discussed just some of the misguided information playing on various media channels, so you don’t need to continue to guess. We spoke about how stress plays a massive role in combating disease and made the argument it is not only one lifestyle factor playing a role in chronic illness; it is diet, exercise, social circles, sleep, environmental toxins, and possibly most importantly, stress. Michelle Shapiro is an Integrative/ Functional Registered Dietitian in NYC who has helped over 1000+ clients reverse their anxiety, heal long-standing gut and immune issues, and lovingly approach their weight. Michelle has a virtual private practice of 5 nutritionists where she and her team work one-on-one. She hosts the Quiet the Diet Podcast, where she helps her audience bridge the gap between body positivity and functional nutrition. Relevant Links | Social Media: New 1:1 Coaching Program for Entrepreneurs and Executives: https://mixingbusinesswithpleasure.com https://luellajonk.com/ https://www.instagram.com/luellajonk/ https://www.facebook.com/luellajonkemotionalhealth https://linktr.ee/luellajonk https://michelleshapirord.com/

Apr 30, 2024 • 52min
Solo Episode - A Brief Summary of the Gottman’s Latest Book ‘Fight Right’: The Importance of Creating a Personal Vision for Yourself And Your Relationship
In today’s solo episode, I explained how maintaining a personal vision is imperative to ridding oneself of guilt, staying true to one's values, and likely circumventing a possible identity crisis down the road. I also spend a fair bit of time discussing John and Julie Gottman’s latest book Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict Into Connection,and the excellent job they did reminding couples that attuning and attending to their partner’s needs or ask, rather than planning their next comeback response in their heads, is the key to lasting relationships. Finally, I shared my viewof why most couples are holding on for dear life right now, which is incongruent with Gottman’s current perspective. New 1:1 Coaching Program for Entrepreneurs and Executives https://mixingbusinesswithpleasure.com Relevant Links | Social Media: https://luellajonk.com/ https://www.instagram.com/luellajonk/ https://www.facebook.com/luellajonkemotionalhealth https://linktr.ee/luellajonk

Apr 23, 2024 • 1h 15min
The Psychology Behind Making a Sale: Why Thinking Too Much May Be Your Worst Enemy with Benjamin Brown
If you do not think you are interested in selling or have no need to ‘sell,’ think again. We all sell something daily. Selling is more than just closing deals; it's about understanding the psychological factors that drive consumer/partner/child behavior and mastering the art of fulfilling the interested party’s deeper needs. Once you understand that it is a skill like any other, it becomes easy. Today I had the pleasure of interviewing Benjamin Brown. Mr. Brown is a sales expert, author, and father of two young children. When it comes to sales, he’s done it all! From stock brokerage style cold calling to car salesman, to gym memberships, to medical devices-he can sell anything. Benjamin has 20 years’ worth of experience and created a 10-step process to help get more clients and MORE SALES. Relevant Links | Social Media: https://luellajonk.com/ https://www.instagram.com/luellajonk/ https://www.facebook.com/luellajonkemotionalhealth https://linktr.ee/luellajonk https://www.360salesconsulting.com/

Apr 16, 2024 • 54min
Mastering Wealth: The Crucial Role of Mindset and Behavior Transformation with Chad Hufford
Tune in as Chad Hufford and I chat about the importance of laying a strong financial foundation if you want to achieve wealth in all aspects of your life. Financial wealth comes from sound financial practices starting from an early age. Listen to Chad’s story about what his childhood experiences taught him and why he is passionate about teaching others. Chad is a bestselling author who, for 17 years, owned and ran a financial planning firm based in Anchorage, Alaska, that manages roughly half a billion dollars. He has realized that managing our clients' mindsets, behaviors, and habits is really the most crucial part of my job. Also, as a Dave Ramsey Smart Vestor Pro and striving to have the heart of a teacher, Chad greatly emphasizes educating and empowering people with the tools and knowledge necessary to succeed in pursuing their goals. Enjoy the show! Relevant Links | Social Media: https://luellajonk.com/ https://www.instagram.com/luellajonk/ https://www.facebook.com/luellajonkemotionalhealth https://linktr.ee/luellajonk https://www.linkedin.com/in/chad-hufford-066208100 This podcast provides general health information and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical advice. Always consult with a healthcare provider for personalized guidance. The views expressed here are not a replacement for expert medical opinions.

Apr 9, 2024 • 59min
What True Narcissistic Abuse Looks Like With Dana Diaz
Join me today for an insightful and informative conversation with Ms. Diaz as she tells us the story of how she became a victim of multiple narcissistic relationships. At the end of our conversation, Dana becomes particularly vulnerable, confirming that her healing journey is actualized and authentic. Dana is a wife, mother, and author of the Best-Selling book "GASPING FOR AIR: THE STRANGLEHOLD OF NARCISSISTIC ABUSE". As a lifelong victim of narcissistic abuse, Dana has made it her mission to speak up for those who are afraid or ashamed to do so themselves and speak out against abuse altogether while also creating awareness. She strives to be an example of the ability to overcome and thrive regardless of one's circumstances. Relevant Links | Social Media: https://luellajonk.com/ https://www.instagram.com/luellajonk/ https://www.facebook.com/luellajonkemotionalhealth https://linktr.ee/luellajonk https://danasdiaz.com/ This podcast provides general health information and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical advice. Always consult with a healthcare provider for personalized guidance. The views expressed here are not a replacement for expert medical opinions.

Apr 2, 2024 • 49min
Solo Episode - Insights and Suggestions on Overcoming Resentment, Negative Sentiment Override, Victimization & More
Explore the challenging dynamics of relationships and learn how to overcome resentment and victimization. Discover the transformative power of radical responsibility and the art of apologizing. Unpack the detrimental cycle of Negative Sentiment Override and how to combat it by focusing on your partner's strengths. Gain insights into tailoring relationship advice to individual needs, embracing self-awareness, and practicing empathy. This discussion offers practical strategies for fostering healthier, more fulfilling connections in your life.

Mar 26, 2024 • 58min
Breaking Gender Barriers: Kim Curtin, The Wall Street Coach, Discusses Money Self-Sabotage
I discovered Kim’s Podcast, The Wall Street Coach, after doing some of my work around money and money mindset. I invited Kim as a guest to explain to my listeners that it doesn’t matter what industry we work in, the lifestyle we follow, or what relationship we are in…everyone suffers from self-sabotage. Until we realize how disabusing this narrative can become, we will never reach that point of behavior change that we so strongly seek. Kim Curtin, the Wall Street Coach, helps traders & others end the cycle of self-sabotage. Kim wrote a book called Transforming Wall Street: A Conscious Path for a New Future. In the book, she lists five practices to heal and transform your life and work. Kim’s book - Transforming Wall Street: A Conscious Path for a New Future Other books mentioned: No Worries: How to Live a Stress Free Financial Life Lost and Found: Unexpected Revelations About Food and Money The Hero’s Journey Money Harmony Relevant Links | Social Media: https://luellajonk.com/ https://www.instagram.com/luellajonk/ https://www.facebook.com/luellajonkemotionalhealth https://linktr.ee/luellajonk https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimanncurtin This podcast provides general health information and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical advice. Always consult with a healthcare provider for personalized guidance. The views expressed here are not a replacement for expert medical opinions.

Mar 19, 2024 • 1h 10min
A NEW Way of Healing Bi-Polar Disorder One Step at a Time with Michelle Reittinger
What a great conversation we had today! Michelle is my kind of gal. She is all about taking responsibility, becoming empowered, and an advocate of both nutrition and talk therapy to heal our trauma – a true inspiration to all who listen to this episode. Michelle Reittinger is a mother, wife, daughter and also a woman who has healed what many would call an unhealable mental illness, that is unless psychotropic drugs are used. Michelle advocates a radical shift in the treatment of bipolar using a research-based, integrated treatment plan to facilitate healing. I do this through public speaking, a podcast called The Upside of Bipolar, a blog, and a program called The Upsiders' Tribe, where I teach the steps to heal bipolar. She also has a book coming out in early summer 2024, so stay tuned for that! Book: The Better Brain - https://a.co/d/gHnmrKN True Hope Website: https://www.truehope.com Relevant Links | Social Media: https://luellajonk.com/ https://www.instagram.com/luellajonk/ https://www.facebook.com/luellajonkemotionalhealth https://linktr.ee/luellajonk https://www.truehope.com https://a.co/d/gHnmrKN This podcast provides general health information and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical advice. Always consult with a healthcare provider for personalized guidance. The views expressed here are not a replacement for expert medical opinions.

Mar 12, 2024 • 52min
Personalized Nutrition: Microbiome Insights with Dr. Sarah Berry
Is it true that the formula to lose weight is less calories and more exercise? Do women have a more difficult time to lose weight than men? Does stress play a large role in weight loss? In general, do you feel our health is more compromised in North America than in Europe? Is prioritizing protein over any other macronutrient as crucial as we often hear? Does exercise directly improve our microbiome? In today’s episode, I asked Dr. Berry these questions to provide my listeners with guidance and insight into making proper food choices and how this relates to our metabolic health and mood. The episode confirms what you may already know, and that is, what happens after food passes our lips is not as simple a process as we might like to believe. Many factors contribute to our physical and mental health. Sarah Berry is a Reader in Nutritional Sciences at King’s College London and Chief Scientist at ZOE Ltd. Her research is at the forefront of developments in personalized nutrition. It is forging a new way forward in the design and implementation of large-scale remote nutrition research studies integrating novel technologies, citizen science and AI. Relevant Links | Social Media: https://luellajonk.com/ https://www.instagram.com/luellajonk/ https://www.facebook.com/luellajonkemotionalhealth https://linktr.ee/luellajonk https://zoe.com/learn/sarah-berry This podcast provides general health information and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical advice. Always consult with a healthcare provider for personalized guidance. The views expressed here are not a replacement for expert medical opinions.

Mar 5, 2024 • 58min
Solo Episode - Why Lack of Self-Love is the Core Reason You Seek Therapy
The ugly concoction of guilt, shame and self-loathing is most often the underlying reason why you are struggling and in need of therapy. Ridding shame is not easy, but when you begin to love yourself more by honouring your core needs, it becomes easier. In this episode, I present three clients I have seen in therapy: Client one lost her job because she did not care enough for herself. Client two is slipping into burnout and depression because of taking on too much. Client three is a man committing multiple marital affairs because of low self-worth. Relevant Links | Social Media: https://luellajonk.com/ https://www.instagram.com/luellajonk/ https://www.facebook.com/luellajonkemotionalhealth https://linktr.ee/luellajonk This podcast provides general health information and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical advice. Always consult with a healthcare provider for personalized guidance. The views expressed here are not a replacement for expert medical opinions.


