

We Met At Acme
Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar
We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast and a lifestyle tool for the next generation of adults. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.
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Jul 18, 2021 • 1h 8min
What Saying I Love You Means To A Guy ft. Lev Fer
In this episode, I am virtually joined by comedian and podcast host Lev Fer. We discuss what guys think when girls shoot their shot, not caring about meeting the parents, why it took 9 months for Lev to DTR, if men getting serious is linked to their career, my texting rules, how to go up to guys when you’re out, how soon into a relationship guys know if they want to marry you, dating younger guys, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss sex/life on Netflix, making out with tongue vs. without, and how the rules apply when you’re in a relationship. www.sakara.com/ACME for 20% off your first order www.Issuu.com/podcast with code ACME for your Free account or 50% off your premium account www.ritual.com/ACME for 10% off during your first 3 months And find a COVID-19 vaccine location near you at www.vaccines.gov Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jul 11, 2021 • 49min
Sometimes You Need To Sleep In Separate Beds ft. Rebecca Minkoff
In this episode, I am virtually joined by fashion designer and author Rebecca Minkoff. We discuss manifesting her now husband, prioritizing kids when they're young, not talking to friends about your relationship, how she got started with her clothing line, how she feels about fashion influencer culture, how to overcome desperation when dating, how she feels about imposter syndrome, the perfect first date outfit, why the word "balance" is bullshit, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss if therapy can make you overthink or insecure, how to get into liking porn, if you can work on your mental health while in a relationship, my new merch!, keeping your sex life hot if you live together, dysfunctional sibling relationships, how I spent July 4th, and questions to ask to get into a relationship. www.talkspace.com with code ACME for $100 off your first month www.oseamalibu.com with code ACME for 10% off your first order www.dailyharvest.com with code ACME for $25 off your first box www.girlfriend.com/acme for $25 off your purchase of $100 or more Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jul 4, 2021 • 55min
Don’t Worry, A Porn Star Is Not Going To Steal Your Man ft. Candice Horbacz aka Eva Lovia
In this episode, I am virtually joined by hugely successful porn star and now fellow podcaster Eva Lovia aka Candice Horbacz. We discuss open relationships, how onlyfans relates to the porn industry, why it's okay to have a healthy relationship with porn, how her and her boyfriend met, one night stands that don't work, being afraid of your kids being made fun of, how to not be scared of your family's judgement, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss why I don’t have one night stands, if there’s a fake “one” before the real “one,” explaining that you want to take it slow, how to become less defensive, and more. Find out where to get your COVID-19 vaccine at www.vaccines.gov www.Functionofbeauty.com/acme for 20% off your first order www.Dipseastories.com/ACME for your extended 30 day free trial www.mejuri.com/ACME for 10% off your first order Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jun 27, 2021 • 59min
We All Need To Be Less Co-Dependent ft. Mark Groves
In this episode, I am virtually joined by human connection specialist Mark Groves. We discuss how to know if you’re in love, how to know if your relationship is over, things you can work through and not work through, breaking up and getting back together successfully, what codependency looks like, how society affects our relationships, if it’s better to fight all the time or never fight, why couples therapy is so helpful, being defensive, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss problems that come up in your relationship now will come up again in your next, rules and courtesies around relationships on social media, how to be vulnerable in a new relationship, random small confidence tips, and tips for traveling with new SO. www.Sakara.com/ACME for 20% off your first order www.issuu.com/podcast with code ACME for your free account, or 50% off your premium account www.ritual.com/ACME for 10% off during your first 3 months www.oseamalibu.com with code ACME for 10% off your order Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jun 20, 2021 • 57min
Stop Giving Up After Two Dates ft. Jena Kingsley
In this episode, I am virtually joined by Jena Kingsley, of Social Studies podcast. We discuss botox and when you need to get it, why friend break ups are harder than romantic ones, not sleeping together in the beginning of a relationship, normalizing not liking every friend of your SO’s, how to bring up your needs in a relationship, the importance of giving someone a good chance, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss the difference between being picky and settling, moving into your SO’s apartment, adjusting to friends spending all their time with a SO, and our apartment update! www.Curology.com/acme for your free 30-day trial www.upstart.com/ACME to find out how Upstart can lower your monthly payments today www.get-base.com/houseofwise to save 20% on your first month of membership with code ACME www.mejuri.com/ACME for 10% off your first order Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jun 13, 2021 • 51min
Why There Are No Rules In Gay Dating ft. Matteo Lane
In this episode, I am virtually joined by comedian (and opera singer!) Matteo Lane. We discuss the gay take on my rules (since you haven't heard about them enough), the difference between growing up and having to "come out" vs. growing up without that, the experience of being gay in the 90s and being gay today, why it's so important to be true to yourself, who should be paying on dates, why i'm jealous of grindr, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss getting your partner to go to therapy, body anxiety during summer, what annoys me about engagements, being single in your late 20s, taking meds for depression, my daily schedule/sleep, why butterflies are a red flag, and friends throwing adult tantrums. www.FunctionofBeauty.com/acme to save 20% on your first order www.Talkspace.com with code ACME for $100 off your first month www.Dipseastories.com/ACME for your free 30 day trial Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jun 6, 2021 • 47min
Maybe You’re The Problem ft. Whitney Cummings
In this episode, I am virtually joined by the hilarious Whitney Cummings. We discuss lessons she's learned, having an addictive personality, how she started dating her vet, why it's important to have a partner who doesn't feed into your BS, what you don't like about your partner is your fault, why you'll never get 100% happiness in a relationship, finding the right birth control for you, something off brand about her, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss how I knew I was depressed, dealing with friend jealousy, least favorite fashion trends, bringing up that you don’t drink when dating, if I was truly in love with exes, and more! www.issuu.com/podcast with code ACME for your free account, or 50% off your premium account www.Sakara.com/ACME for 20% off your first order www.Upstart.com/ACME to find out how Upstart can lower your monthly payments today www.get-base.com/houseofwise for 20% off your House of Wise purchase Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

May 30, 2021 • 56min
You’ll Have An Orgasm After This ft. Emily Morse
In this episode, I am virtually joined by the amazing Emily Morse from Sex With Emily podcast. We discuss how to achieve an orgasm if you never have, how important sex is in a relationship, tips on communication when it comes to intimacy, why Emily doesn’t believe in sex on a first date, normalizing not wanting to have kids, if sex is better in your 20s or 30s, how vibrators may be hurting your chance to orgasm during sex, how to get out of your own head, sexual kinks, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss being too picky, dating when you’re not over an ex, how we found an apartment, how the move went, and how to find friends in NYC. www.DailyHarvest.com with code acme for $25 off your first box www.Ritual.com/ACME for 10% off during your first 3 months www.OseaMalibu.com with code ACME for 10% off your first order www.Mejuri.com/ACME for 10% off your first order Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

May 23, 2021 • 1h 6min
Carrie Bradshaw Is Doing Everything Wrong ft. The Bradshaw Boys
In this episode, I am virtually joined by Cory, Kevin, and Jon from The Bradshaw Boys Podcast. We discuss the cringey things Carrie Bradshaw does, why they start- ed their podcast, what makes each character in SATC relatable, why Big should not be the villain, the character’s zodiac signs, how Carrie would be different if SATC was written today, why every guy should watch SATC, what they could not get away with today, if it’s okay to pull a Miranda and not support your friend’s partner, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss juggling dating multiple people at once, how I found success with WMAA, if it’s possible to have too much sex with a partner, when to move in with someone, red flags from in- laws, my apt move, what food I want served at my wedding, and why you should give guys on apps that you’re not attracted to a chance. www.FunctionofBeauty.com/acme to save 20% on your first order www.Curology.com/acme to unlock your free 30-day trial www.Dipseastories.com/ACME for your free 30-day trial Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

May 16, 2021 • 51min
Date Like He’s Obsessed With You ft. Candice Jalili
In this episode, I am virtually joined by dating expert and writer Candice Jalili. We discuss the meet-cute way she met her partner, why you should date like he's obsessed with you, should you actually send the text, getting caught trying to be sly when writing about or podcasting about a guy, trying to be that easy-going girl, how she broached the girlfriend convo with her now fiancé, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss how to argue better with your SO, dealing with a partner’s tough mom, what to talk about with a therapist, and how to meet people at weddings. www.ISSUU.com/podcast and use promo code acme for your free account or get 50% off your premium account www.Sakara.com/ACME for 20% off your first order www.talkspace.com with code ACME for $100 off your first month www.mejuri.com/ACME for 10% off your first order Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


