

We Met At Acme
Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar
We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast and a lifestyle tool for the next generation of adults. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.
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Sep 26, 2021 • 54min
How To Crush It On Dating Apps ft. Bre and Shelby
In this episode, I am virtually joined by Shelby and Bre co-hosts of Emotional Check-In Podcast. We discuss how to crush it on dating apps, what it means to have an emotional check in, how Shelby met her hinge bf, having a high sex drive and how to communicate that, taking anti-depressents and how to bring that up, if mental health a valid excuse to end a relationship, and more. This episodes starts with a solo where I discuss planning a bachelorette sober, more wedding planning updates, if physical chemistry can build over time, why it’s so important to follow your gut, and our engagement party. www.Girlfriend.com/ACME for $25 of your purchase of $100 or more. www.Dipseastories.com/ACME for your extended 30-day free trial. https://shop.analuisa.com/acmesun for 20% off with their summer sale. www.talkspace.com with code ACME for $100 off your first month. Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 19, 2021 • 55min
Interpreting Texts: Men vs. Women ft. Nicky and Jenna
In this episode, I am virtually joined by Nicky Hammond and Jenna Wolf, co-hosts of We Are Not Saints Podcast. We discuss behaviors that scare people away when dating, getting too deep too soon, if there are people out there who have nothing "dark" about them, why dating men is so different than dating women, if women and men receive texts differently, what are the signs that you're heading in the "official" direction, and why "hard to get" can be a turnoff sometimes. This episodes starts with a solo where I discuss how wedding planning is going, how to not feel passive when dating as the girl, if it’s possible to be “trying too hard” to date, and a time where my partner felt insecure. www.Sakara.com/ACME for 20% off your first order. www.Issuu.com/podcast with code ACME for your free account, or 50% off your premium account today. www.Framebridge.com with code ACME for 15% off your first order. www.Mejuri.com/ACME for 10% off your first order. Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 12, 2021 • 46min
The First Question I Didn’t Need To Turn Into A Poll
I’m ENGAGED!!! WHAT?!! I’m still in shock. In this episode, I answer all your questions about my engagement. How I knew he was the one, how it all went down, the worst piece of advice I got along the way, the ring process, what happens next, and so much more! www.talkspace.com with code ACME for $100 off your first month www.Vivino.com/ACME for 20% off your first order of up to $200 www.Article.com/ACME for $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 5, 2021 • 58min
How To Bring Up Trauma When Newly Dating ft. Matt Bocchi
In this episode, I am virtually by Matt Bocchi, the author of Sway. We dis- cuss starting a new relationship, how to make it work if it's an LDR in the beginning, addiction, struggling with the tragic loss of a parent, what it means to date younger vs older, being sexually abused as a child, how much you should open up about your trauma, how to bring up trauma when newly dating, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss how many of my rules my SO followed/broke, if my rules should be for casual daters too, the spark vs. checking boxes, the best ways to sniff out compatibility on dating apps, cheating and if all men do it or not, and how Nantucket was! www.Dipseastories.com/ACME for an extended 30-day free trial shop.analuisa.com/acmesun for 20% off with their summer sale www.Dailyharvest.com with code acme for $25 off your first box www.Girlfriend.com/acme for $25 off your order of $100 or more Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 29, 2021 • 1h 5min
Don’t Compliment A Guy Before You’re Official ft. The Boys From The Latke Room Boys
In this episode, I am virtually by Jonny Lazarus, Justin Kapelmaster, and Max Mastbaum from The Latke Room Podcast. We discuss how to know when a guy likes you, if guys and girls can be friends, why it’s bad to tell a guy he’s handsome, the meaning behind following an ex on social media, what makes a girl stand out on the first date, what guys care about physically, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss why men take longer to say I love you, handling the ebbs and flows of sex in long term relationships, when to push your SO to shop for a ring, if there is a downside to dating for “too long,” how to feel confident after the pandemic, why I never say I love you more to my SO, and the ratio of single girls to guys in NYC. www.Sakara.com/ACME for 20% off your first order www.Issuu.com/podcast with code ACME for your free account or 50% off your premium account www.Article.com/ACME for $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more www.Mejuri.com/ACME for 10% off your first order Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 22, 2021 • 1h 8min
Why Men Love Bitches And Why Men Marry Bitches
In this episode, I am virtually joined by Sherry Argov, the author of the world renowned book Why Men Love Bitches and Why Men Marry Bitches. We discuss what exactly it means to be a bitch, what’s wrong with being a yes woman, how her rules would apply to technology today, how to “pull back” on social media, her most controversial advice, if women love a-holes, why it’s bad to be an open book, the danger of sexting and nudes, how to act on a first date, if it’s ever okay to play “games” in your relationship, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss The Bachelorette (and if I am team Katie or team Greg), my thoughts on The White Lotus, why I was blacklisted from a sorority in college, and why men cry during break ups. Domestic violence support: thehotline.org or call 800.799.SAFE (7233) Order Sherry’s books here: Why Men Love Bitches Why Men Marry Bitches www.Upstart.com/ACME to find out how Upstart can lower your monthly payments today. www.Framebridge.com with code ACME for 15% off your first order. www.Wealthfront.com/ACME to get your first $5,000 managed FREE, for life. www.Girlfriend.com/acme for $25 off your purchase of $100 or more. Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 15, 2021 • 50min
WTF Is Acme And How Do I Get In? ft. Frankie The Bouncer
In this episode, I am virtually joined by the man behind the hardest door in town, Frankie Carattini. We discuss how he went from coat check to bouncer, the history of Acme, how to get in, the craziest things he’s witnessed, his obsession with the Olsen Twins, how to keep the momentum going when out in NYC, how to cut the line, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss How to be respectful in disagreements w partner, taking someone back after drunk cheating, the viral tiktok about men who don’t touch you on the first date, how to not take someone’s mood personally and let it affect your day, and how Saturn return affects your life. Find your COVID19 vaccine location at www.vaccines.gov www.Functionofbeauty.com/ACME for 20% off your order www.Dipseastories.com/ACME for your extended free 30-day trial www.Dailyharvest.com with code ACME for $25 off your first box Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 8, 2021 • 53min
How To Be Confident Breaking Up Was The Right Decision ft. Caroline Stanbury
In this episode, I am virtually joined by the beautiful and ageless Caroline Stanbury. Caroline was a cast member on the Bravo show Ladies of London, and is now the host of fellow Dear Media podcast Divorced Not Dead. We discuss her marriage ending, why it's so hard to leave a partner, signs that make it clear that you're making the right decision in breaking up, how she met her younger man, why “if he wanted to he would” is so true, if Caro- line would be a real housewife, why she'll get a prenup with her fiancé, the importance of sex in a relationship, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss a few poll questions from this week, running into an ex or someone who ghosted you, how to avoid romanticizing every person you vibe with, breaking up with a therapist, how to not feel like something is wrong with you if you haven’t met someone, and having a crush on someone else when in a relationship. www.Sakara.com/ACME for 20% off your first order www.Issuu.com/podcast with code ACME for your free account or 50% off your premium account www.Talkspace.com with code ACME for $100 off you first month And visit Ana Luisa for 20% off your order Listen to Divorced Not Dead wherever you listen to podcasts Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 1, 2021 • 1h 1min
Debunking Myths About Guys In Their 30s ft. My Producer—Brian Peoples
In our 200th episode(!!!!!), I am virtually joined by my incredible producer Brian Peoples. We discuss what it’s like working with mostly women, living in LA, the cringy-ness of my old episodes, what he’s looking for in a partner, his favorite piece of WMAA advice, our rocky start, where to meet a single 30 something year old, where a man’s head is at when he’s 30 and single, biggest dating mistakes women make, if guys can be bad texters, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss pick up lines for women, getting emotional on your period, the pros and cons of dating someone who doesn’t have social media, and how to not go home with someone you like at a bar. www.Mejuri.com/ACME for 10% off your first order www.Truff.com with code ACME for 15% off site-wide plus free shipping www.Vivino.com/ACME for 20% off your first order of up to $200 www.Girlfriend.com/acme for $25 off your purchase of $100 or more Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jul 25, 2021 • 54min
The Importance Of Being Single ft. Steffie Baik
In this episode, I am virtually joined by Steffie Baik. We discuss co-dependence in relationships and on your family, growing up without a parent, Korean culture, suppressing your feelings, different kinds of therapy, attachment styles, dating creatives, what it’s like to date people of all cultures, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss last week’s episode, a reflection on my first few episodes, having “ugly weeks,” how much to share on a first date, why it’s a red flag to ask what are we, what hot girl summer really means, and guys girls vs. girls girls. www.Dipseastories.com/ACME for your extended 30 day free trial www.Functionofbeauty.com/acme for 20% off your first order www.Upstart.com/acme to find out how Upstart can lower your monthly payments today And visit www.Vaccines.gov to find a COVID-19 vaccine location near you! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


