

The Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis
XO Podcast Network, Dave Willis, Ashley Willis
The Naked Marriage invites couples to uncover God’s design for lifelong love. Through honest, faith-centered conversations, hosts Dave and Ashley Willis talk openly about challenges couples often face but rarely talk about. With wisdom, vulnerability, and humor, they offer fresh perspectives and practical ways to build a deeply connected marriage.
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Feb 26, 2024 • 24min
What For Richer or For Poorer Really Means
Welcome back! We are here with another episode of the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave and Ashley Willis! Today, we're continuing with our back-to-the-basics series, tackling a topic close to home: finances in marriage. Join us for a candid chat about our money mishaps and triumphs, along with some practical tips for managing your moolah as a team. From clever money-saving hacks to the joys of open communication, we've got you covered. Stick around 'til the end for some laughs and a peek into what happiness means to us. Let's dive in and make those dollars count together!------------------------------Our Sponsors: RocketMoney.com/ NAKEDOrder your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-familyFor all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage------------------------------Takeaways
Financial struggles are common in marriage, but with open communication and teamwork, couples can overcome them.
Being resourceful and finding creative ways to make and save money can help alleviate financial stress.
Managing money well requires both partners to be involved and make decisions together.
Personal opinions and preferences should be respected in marriage, even if they differ from your own.
Happiness in marriage is about being with your spouse and cherishing the moments together.
------------------------------Chapters00:00 Introduction01:24 Financial Struggles03:09 Managing Money06:24 Making and Saving Money10:59 Tips for Saving Money16:35 Different Seasons of Finances18:01 Discussion: What are you extremely opinionated about?21:48 Discussion: What does happiness mean to you?22:04 Conclusion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 21, 2024 • 7min
Am I Playing Into The Generational Curse? // Hump Day Q&A
Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: What is your advice for changing my tone toward my spouse when it's not something I'm accustomed to, What do I do?—————Grab a copy of the Counterfit Climax: https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/the-counterfeit-climax-1Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-familyFor all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 19, 2024 • 23min
Are You Truly In It For Better Or For Worse?
Welcome back to another episode of the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave and Ashley Willis! Today, we're diving deep into the heart of marriage with our Back to the Basics series. Join us as we unpack the vow of 'for better or for worse' and get real about the struggles every couple faces. We'll share insights on staying connected, the power of communication, and the beauty of finding silver linings in tough times. Plus, we'll chat about defining cheating, finding gratitude in past challenges, and growing from our mistakes. Stick around to hear about our upcoming speaking gigs too! Let's keep this journey real and raw together!---------------------Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-familyFor all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage---------------------Takeaways
Marriage is not always easy, and every couple will face struggles.
Staying connected and communicating are key to navigating the challenges of marriage.
Embracing the hard times can lead to growth and intimacy in the relationship.
Finding the good in every season and being grateful for past struggles can bring perspective and strength to the marriage.
--------------------Chapters00:00 Introduction and Series Overview02:57 The Reality of Struggles in Marriage09:04 Staying Connected and Communicating10:02 Embracing the Hard Times12:11 Finding the Good in Every Season17:02 Defining Cheating in Marriage18:17 Being Grateful for Past Struggles21:00 Learning from Past Mistakes21:29 Upcoming Speaking Engagements Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 14, 2024 • 9min
Am I Forcing Religion On My Spouse? // Hump Day Q&A
Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: My husband works on weekends, and I take our boys to church. When I bring up wanting him to come to church with us, he says I'm forcing my religion on him. What should I do? —————Grab a copy of the Counterfit Climax: https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/the-counterfeit-climax-1Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-familyFor all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Feb 12, 2024 • 22min
How to Love and Cherish Your Spouse
Exploring the importance of renewing wedding vows and showcasing love through actions in marriage. Emphasizing the value of consistent gestures and understanding each other's love languages. Practical tips on cherishing and investing in the relationship for long-lasting love.

Feb 7, 2024 • 5min
Is My Husband Flirting At Work? // Hump Day Q&A
Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: My husband calls a female coworker a nickname, and it's making me uncomfortable. What should I do?—————Grab a copy of the Counterfit Climax: https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/the-counterfeit-climax-1Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-familyFor all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 5, 2024 • 25min
I Just Can't Forgive My Spouse
Welcome to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave and Ashley Willis! Hey, friends, in this episode, we're diving into a topic that's close to our hearts – forgiveness in marriage. We're tackling common misconceptions, emphasizing the delicate dance between grace and justice, and sharing our own stories on rebuilding trust and conquering negative thoughts. Join us as we explore the liberating power of forgiveness, breaking free from bitterness, and the crucial role trust plays in the healing journey. We're opening up about the nitty-gritty of our own experiences to inspire you, and, most importantly, reminding you to trust in God's amazing ability to restore and transform marriages through the incredible gift of forgiveness. Tune in for some real talk and real hope!------------------Need Help? : https://xomarriage.com/helpOrder your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-familyFor all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage--------------------Takeaways
Forgiveness is Commonly Misunderstood
Forgiveness Requires Humility
Forgiveness is a Daily Choice
Trust in God's Ability to Heal
Separating Forgiveness and Trust
--------------------00:00 The Misunderstanding of Forgiveness03:44 Forgiveness and Trust05:12 Rebuilding Trust07:36 Apologizing and Taking Responsibility09:28 Controlling Negative Thoughts13:01 Renewing the Mind16:50 The Power of Forgiveness19:10 Trusting God in Forgiveness22:02 Forgiving Oneself Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 31, 2024 • 8min
I Don't Want To Have Sex RIght Now // Hump Day Q&A
Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: When I turn my spouse down for sex, they throw a tantrum. What should I do?—————Grab a copy of the Counterfit Climax: https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/the-counterfeit-climax-1Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-familyFor all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 29, 2024 • 24min
Stop Fighting In Your Communication
Welcome to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave and Ashley Willis! In this episode, we're diving into the crucial topic of communication in marriage. Join us as we tackle the challenges of disagreements, break the cycle of negativity, and stress the importance of repairing communication. Discover practical insights on seeking professional help when needed and reigniting the spark in your relationship.----------------------Takeaways
Communication is a crucial aspect of a healthy marriage and requires constant effort and growth.
The negative cycle of fighting can be broken by choosing kindness, compassion, and forgiveness.
Seeking professional help, such as marriage mediators or Christian counselors, can be beneficial in repairing communication.
Reconnecting and having fun together is essential for maintaining a deep connection and friendship in marriage.
Taking the first step towards positive communication and being the one to go first can lead to positive changes in the relationship.
----------------------Chapters00:00 Introduction: Communication in Marriage04:30 The Negative Cycle of Fighting09:00 The Importance of Repairing Communication13:08 Seeking Professional Help16:52 Reconnecting and Having Fun20:12 Taking the First Step21:36 Reaching Out for Help22:01 Conclusion and Call to Action Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 24, 2024 • 7min
My Spouse Is Having A Secret Relationship With Another Woman// Hump Day Q&A
Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: I've told my spouse that having one-on-one lunches with the opposite sex makes me uncomfortable, and now he's having secret connections with other women. How do I ask him to stop? —————Grab a copy of the Vision Retreat: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/vision-retreat-course-bundleOrder your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-familyFor all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices


