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Hope is something most of us believe is a necessity in order to progress. Without it, would you be driven to do anything meaningful in your life? It's hope that convinces you of potential rewards on the other side of your efforts. But what if the way you've been looking at hope isn't help you but hindering? And, if that's the case, is there a more practical, pragmatic way for you to approach hopefulness in a way that will serve you best? That's what today's conversation is all about. I'm joined by New York Times Bestselling Author of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck and Everything is F*cked, Mark Manson. We talk about the uncomfortable truth few people are willing to admit to themselves, the difference between Master Morality and Slave Morality, how everyone is driven by what he calls, "a God Value," how pain is the universal constant, and why, in the midst of everything being horrible, you can still have hope. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Getting through it together The new normal A need for certainty Create a daily structure The thinking brain The process of maturity Social accountability Implementing habits Finding new behavior Shifting your perception The uncomfortable truth Gaining approval The need for meaning Sharing your story Instinctual morality Victimhood culture MARK MANSON My guest today is the one and only, Mark Manson, and it's very likely that you are already very familiar with him, or at least, his last two books, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck and Everything is F*cked. He is a New York Times Bestselling Author and a self-described thinker and life enthusiast. Part of the reason for his tremendous success is his no BS approach to self-development. In fact, that's the reason why I follow him and his words closely. In an environment and popular culture designed to make everyone feel good about themselves, Mark would rather bring to light the uncomfortable truths few are willing to deal with. Guys, I think you're going to like this one as much as I enjoyed the conversation. So, sit back, take some notes, and listen to the way it really is. IRON COUNCIL Gents, our digital brotherhood, the Iron Council continues to grow in these uncertain times. I think that's because it's times like these that really cause us to reflect on the type of men we are and how we're showing up. For a long time, I knew that I was capable of so much more but it was frustrating knowing that there was a huge gap between what I knew I was capable of and what I was actually doing. I started hiring mentors and surrounding myself with good and capable men and that's when things really started to take a turn for the better. The problem for most men is that they don't know where connect with the type of men I'm talking about. That's what the Iron Council is for and, without beating a dead horse about it, if you want to thrive in all aspects of your life, band with other men. It really is that powerful. You can learn more and lock in your seat at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/270

Today, I discuss how to define victory. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the mindset of discipline, law of the harvest, developing a curious mind, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

What does it take to exhibit extreme courage under fire? I wish I could tell you there was an exact formula for performing well under life and death pressure but there isn't. But what I can tell you is that my guest today, Omar 'Crispy' Avila is a man who has done just that. When in Iraq, his vehicle was hit by an IED sending it six feet in the air. I'm not going to ruin the story by telling you about the resulting fallout and how Crispy conducted himself but I will say you're not going to want to miss it. We also talk about using humor as a way to calm a situation, overcoming survivor's guilt, how to train properly for unknown events, and how every man can learn to develop courage under fire. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Serving your community Letting your guard down Making light of a situation Comedy as therapy Joining the infantry Moving forward in life Laying down fire Extended deployment Losing faith in God Keeping your composure The Green Zone Flying into Germany Focus under chaos Survivors guilt The recovery process Finding inner peace OMAR 'CRISPY' AVILA My guest today is Omar 'Crispy' Avila and he is a retired army combat veteran. But more than that he is someone who is extremely influential in the veteran community and has used his unfortunate circumstances to lift and inspire millions of people across the planet. He sustained catastrophic damage to his body when his vehicle was hit with an IED and survived over 75% of his body burned and been rendered nearly blind. I had the opportunity to meet him at SHOT Show several months ago and invited him to join us on the podcast because I have always been inspired by how he lives his life, uses humor with the Black Rifle Coffee Company team to inspire, and the kind of man he is. PRIORITIZE AND EXECUTE If you're anything like me, it's easy for you to fall into the trap of consumption. I mean, you're listening to this podcast right now which can be beneficial but if you never apply any of what you learn, is it even useful? This is the trap of the self-development space – consumption without production. But in the Iron Council for the month of May, we're talking about prioritizing the information you have and the objectives you've identified for yourself and putting them into action. It's about unpacking what you want to accomplish in your health, relationships, business, and life, identifying the "order of operations," and putting in the work required to make it happen. If you fall into "paralysis by analysis," and often consume more than you produce, this is the month for you to band with 530 like-minded men who will help you accomplish more in the next 90 days than you ever have in a year. Head to www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil to learn more and lock in your spot. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Today, I share one powerful strategy to build influence with others. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Leave us a rating: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/order-of-man-protect-provide-preside/id979752171 Join the brotherhood: http://www.theironcouncil.com/ Support Order of Man by picking up some merchandise: http://bit.ly/orderofmanstore Connect with us: https://www.instagram.com/ryanmichler https://www.facebook.com/orderofman/ https://twitter.com/ryanmichler

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I discuss the pros and cons of tribalism, the meaning of life, developing grit in your children, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

"Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom." Most of us have heard some variation of that quote accredited to Viktor Frankl but most of us don't know how to manage that space effectively and condition our minds and bodies to respond properly. That's why today's conversation with New York Times Bestselling Author, Scott Carney, is crucial. During our discussion, we talk about the gap between stimulus and response, how to put ourselves into a highly-effective flow state, fight and flight chemistry, and how to rewire your mind and body for maximum results. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The placebo effect Western medicine Learning to be resilient Fight or flight responses Giving yourself stress Connecting to the environment The ultimate stress Walking your own path Unmitigated horror Reliving your emotional pass Living the status quo Overriding your response Throwing kettlebells Practicing trust and empathy A different point of reference Creating bandwidth SCOTT CARNEY My guest today is New York Times Bestselling, Scott Carney, author of What Doesn't Kill Us, and his new book, The Wedge. He is an investigative journalist and anthropologist. He's done work for Wired, Men's Journal, Playboy, Discover, Outside, and Fast Company and he gained a lot of notoriety as he trained with Wim Hof. Originally, he intended on debunking a lot of Wim's teachings but found the practices to be life-changing and a critical part of his life and work. Scott's been a friend for several years since he talked with us about his book, What Doesn't Kill Us and you're going to hear how much excitement he has for life. Quite frankly, it's infectious. IRON COUNCIL As we close out the month of April in the Iron Council, I wanted to give you the heads up and let you know that for the month of May, we'll be covering the topic of Prioritize and Execute. Obviously, we're living in some very interesting times and it's becoming increasingly difficult for many men to navigate the uncertain waters. So, for the month of May, we'll be doing a deep dive into effective strategies for organizing and prioritizing your life and, more important, taking massive action that will produce the biggest results. We'll uncover variables that are keeping you back and distracting you from what you want to achieve and give you the opportunity to band with 500+ high-achieving men to hold you accountable and potentially give you the kick in the pants you need. Join us at www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/268 Leave us a rating: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/order-of-man-protect-provide-preside/id979752171 Join the brotherhood: http://www.theironcouncil.com/ Support Order of Man by picking up some merchandise: http://bit.ly/orderofmanstore Connect with us: https://www.instagram.com/ryanmichler https://www.facebook.com/orderofman/ https://twitter.com/ryanmichler

Today, I share ten tips, strategies, and protocols for surviving these trying times. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

Today, I discuss rendering yourself obsolete, less thinking and more action, when a boy becomes a man, and so much more. Hit me up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share with me what's working in your life. Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store

I'm sure, by now, you're aware of the powerful team an Echelon Front led by Navy SEAL Commander, Jocko Willink. At this point, I've had the majority of his team on the podcast including my guest today, Mike Sarraille. Today, Mike talks with us about the power of the veteran community in the civilian sector. We go into some topics that aren't usually addressed regarding transitioning military members including biases against veterans, the bitterness and entitlement some veterans develop, translatable skills from military to civilian life, and, ultimately, how we put our nation's toughest warriors to work. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Joining the Marines The demands of work What's truly important Veteran suicide Marching on Washington Proving your worth Finding the best Producing value Finding your passion Entrepreneurship Process of alimentation Putting in your time Positive Intent Become irreplaceable The pursuit of excellence Feeling undervalued Translatable skills Focusing on soft skills After action review Transitioning soldiers out MIKE SARAILLE My guest today is Mike Sarraille. He is a retired Recon Marine and Navy SEAL and, more recently the co-founder of EF Overwatch and leadership instructor/strategic advisor for Echelon Front. He served alongside Jocko Willink and Leif Babin with SEAL Team THREE and played a pivotal role in the Battle of Ramadi in 2006. He also served as the primary leadership instructor for all officers graduating from the SEAL training pipeline and worked in the Joint Special Operations Command where he completed multiple combat tours. Mike is a recipient of the Silver Star, six Bronze Stars, two Defense Meritorious Service Medals, and a Purple Heart. Today he is here to talk with us about his experience and how to put our nation's warriors to work. IRON COUNCIL The Iron Council is growing. I think part of the reason for that is, during times of crisis, men know and have a desire to step into the positions that will best serve their families and communities. It's built into our DNA to lead, especially in times of crisis. And, that's exactly what we're doing to equip the men who band with us inside our exclusive brotherhood, The Iron Council. When you join with us, we're going to give you the foundation for growth, success, and effective leadership as a father, husband, business owner, and community leader. And, on top of that, you're going to have a path to run on and a place where you can develop the camaraderie most men don't get outside of military service or team sports. If you're ready to step up and want the framework and the accountability to do so, join us in the Iron Council by going to www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil. Read full article https://www.orderofman.com/267 Join our exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council. Subscribe to our YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/orderofman Connect with us on Instagram and Twitter Please leave us a rating and review Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store