

The Hook Up
triplej
The Hook Up is about love, sex and relationships. We answer your questions, learn things together, cry over heartbreak and normalise shit. Every Tuesday Dee and Pip debate your dating dilemmas and hear your cooked stories. Every Thursday it's the sex ed you never had — we call on an expert to go deep and find answers with Dee.
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Aug 20, 2025 • 35min
Mgen Is The STI You Don’t Know About (And It's Really Hard To Treat)
Professor Catriona Bradshaw, sexual health physician and researcher at Monash University, explains the little-known STI Mycoplasma genitalium. She outlines why it is hard to detect and treat, how antibiotic resistance develops, and the limits of current testing and treatments. Brief talk on symptoms, transmission routes, prevention with condoms, and the public role in combating resistance.

Aug 19, 2025 • 35min
What Is A Lurker And Do You Have One?
Ever gone out with someone who ended the relationship but still watches your every move online? You might have a ‘lurker’ - someone who’s told you they’re not interested in dating or even flat out ghosted you but is still the first person to watch all your stories and like your content. You tell us why you either hate or secretly love them, and we hear from self confessed lurkers as to why they stick around.DM us your thoughts, questions, topics, or to just vent at @triplejthehookup on IG or email us: thehookup@abc.net.auThe Hook Up is an ABC podcast, produced by triple j. It is recorded on the lands of the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin nation. We pay our respects to elders past and present. We acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the First Australians and Traditional Custodians of the land where we live, work, and learn.

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Aug 13, 2025 • 23min
The Science of Squirting & How To Do It
In this insightful discussion, sex educator Georgia Grace dives into the science of squirting. She clarifies that squirting involves the release of urethral fluid, discussing its biological origins and addressing the debate over whether it contains urine. Georgia shares fascinating insights on the anatomy involved, how common squirting really is, and dispels myths propagated by pornography. She also offers practical techniques for both solo and partner exploration, emphasizing the importance of trust and a relaxed mindset in sexual experiences.

Aug 11, 2025 • 28min
Does Dick Size Actually Matter?
There’s a lot of pressure on people with penises to be packing heat - but is having a big dick all that it’s cracked up to be? We hear your hot takes about size, girth, big egos and how “boyfriend dick” is where it’s at.DM us your thoughts, questions, topics, or to just vent at @triplejthehookup on IG or email us: thehookup@abc.net.auThe Hook Up is an ABC podcast, produced by triple j. It is recorded on the lands of the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin nation. We pay our respects to elders past and present. We acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the First Australians and Traditional Custodians of the land where we live, work, and learn.

Aug 6, 2025 • 36min
Period Farts, Cum Headaches & The Science Of Kinks w/ Dr Eva
Ever wondered why anti-depressants can impact your libido? Why your penis curves to the left (or right)? What causes thrush? Or how contraception affects your fertility? It’s science week, so in this ep we answer all your sex, love, and body related science questions with Dr Eva Jackson. DM us your thoughts, questions, topics, or to just vent at @triplejthehookup on IG or email us: thehookup@abc.net.auThe Hook Up is an ABC podcast, produced by triple j. It is recorded on the lands of the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin nation. We pay our respects to elders past and present. We acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the First Australians and Traditional Custodians of the land where we live, work, and learn.

Aug 4, 2025 • 42min
Pornstar Angela White’s Advice For Amazing Sex
Angela White, Australian adult performer and director with university training who talks about sex, intimacy and technique. She discusses sex in zero gravity, anal prep and hygiene, squirting and G-spot work. Conversations cover getting out of your head during oral sex, reigniting desire in long relationships, toys and lube, and practical tips for first-timers and being confident in the bedroom.

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Jul 30, 2025 • 43min
Deep Fakes, Cyber Brothels, And AI Misogyny w/ Laura Bates
Laura Bates, writer, journalist and founder of the Everyday Sexism Project, explores how tech reproduces misogyny. She discusses chatbots and sex robots normalising violent fantasies. She uncovers deepfakes targeting women and the rise of cyber brothels. She critiques profit-driven design and outlines regulation and activism as paths forward.

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Jul 28, 2025 • 41min
Should We Be Worried About The Rise Of AI Relationships?
A look at how AI companions are being used for friendship, therapy, romance and sexting. Discussion of the tech behind chatbots and why they can feel emotionally persuasive. Stories and research about people forming romantic bonds with AI and whether that counts as cheating. Coverage of alarming real-world harms, data and corporate concerns around AI relationships.

Jul 23, 2025 • 48min
Are Professor Student Relationships Ever Ok? w/ Madison Griffiths
When it comes to professor student relationships, a lot of people argue ‘if everyone’s an adult’ and ‘if everyone’s consenting’ there’s nothing wrong with the dynamic. But Author Madison Griffiths disagrees. In this chat with Dee Salmin, Madison unpacks her new book Sweet Nothing which explores four women’s experiences dating and sleeping with their professors - and how gender and power imbalances make the relationships so much more nuanced than consent. SHOW NOTES:LifeLine: 13 11 141800 Respect: 1800 737 732DM us your thoughts, questions, topics, or to just vent at @triplejthehookup on IG or email us: thehookup@abc.net.auThe Hook Up is an ABC podcast, produced by triple j. It is recorded on the lands of the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin nation. We pay our respects to elders past and present. We acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the First Australians and Traditional Custodians of the land where we live, work, and learn.

Jul 21, 2025 • 38min
What It’s Like To Be In A ‘Taboo’ Relationship
Dating your best friend’s ex, boss/employee relationships, celebrities and fans, dating with a huge age gap - there are so many relationships that are considered forbidden and taboo. We hear from you on what it’s like to date someone you feel like you have to hide.CW: discussion of domestic violence.If this episode brings anything up for you, help is available: 1800 RESPECTDM us your thoughts, questions, topics, or to just vent at @triplejthehookup on IG or email us: thehookup@abc.net.auThe Hook Up is an ABC podcast, produced by triple j. It is recorded on the lands of the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin nation. We pay our respects to elders past and present. We acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the First Australians and Traditional Custodians of the land where we live, work, and learn.


