The Catholic Coaching Podcast

“Did I miss my calling?” “Is this really God’s will?”If you’ve ever wrestled with those questions, this episode is for you.In this conversation, Matt sits down with Stacey Sumereau—former Broadway performer, reality TV discerner (“Sisterhood: Becoming Nuns”), host of the Called and Caffeinated podcast, Catholic wife, mom of five, and special needs mother. Stacey shares how God led her from the stage to a deeply hidden life of family, ministry, and Catholic coaching… and how He used disappointment and weakness as the doorway.You’ll hear about:• Her transition from Broadway tours (Beauty and the Beast, Wizard of Oz) to   Catholic ministry• How reality TV discernment opened her to surrender and real relationship   with God• What a “personal vocation” is (and how it fits under marriage / religious life/    priesthood)• How to tell when you’re following perfectionism vs. the Holy Spirit• Being a Catholic mom, special needs parent, and still honoring a real call to   ministry• Why God speaks through your desires (not just in spite of them)• How Catholic coaching helped her break out of victim mentality and reclaim    joy• Practical ways to hold your family, work, and mission in right order without   burnoutStacey also shares about her new book Adventure Awaits: How to Interpret Your Desires and Hear God’s Voice, and why most Catholics underestimate how much God actually wants to speak into their everyday choices.⸻CONNECT WITH STACEY SUMEREAU👉 Website & coaching: https://www.staceysumereau.com/👉 Book: Adventure Awaits: How to Interpret Your Desires and Hear God’s Voice (Ave Maria Press, Amazon, etc.)👉 Podcast: Called and CaffeinatedSend us Fan MailSupport the show____________________► Make sure to SUBSCRIBE to the Metanoia Catholic YouTube Channel!► Find out your temperament: Take the Free Quiz► Get the Conversation Starter Guide (FREE) ► Take the Quiz: WHAT TYPE OF COACH ARE YOU?► GET THE DAILY SEVEN JOURNAL!This interactive journal will help you transform your life from the inside out by teaching you how to grow in gratitude, set healthy goals, and gain mastery over your thoughts.► JOIN THE ACADEMY!Your online resource of classes, tools, and community to ramp up your growth and really change your life. Learn from the Metanoia Catholic coaches in webinars, live coaching calls, Lectio Divina, and more with your monthly membership.____________________► SUBSCRIBE TO THE CATHOLIC COACHING PODCASTApple PodcastsSpotifyYouTube...

Real vs. Fake Apologies: 8 Red FlagsHow do you know if an apology is truly sincere? In this episode, Matt and Erin walk through practical ways to evaluate an apology and respond in a way that protects the relationship and your peace.What you’ll learn• The difference between “I’m sorry” and sincere contrition• 8 signs to watch for:      1.Convenient timing (ulterior motives)      2.Vague language (no specific action owned)      3.Defensive tone or anger      4.Over-explaining to self-justify      5.Minimizing your hurt (“it’s not a big deal”)      6.Blame-shifting (“sorry you were offended”)      7.Sorry about consequences, not the harm      8.No follow-through—or pressuring you to “get over it”• How temperament and ignorance vs. contrition affect sincerity• Mercy without enabling: requests, boundaries, and next steps• Simple questions that draw out sincerity:   - “What exactly are you sorry for?”   - “How do you wish you’d acted?”   - “What will you do differently next time?”Key idea: Be a model of mercy while staying in your locus of control. You can forgive, ask for clarity, and set timelines for rebuilding trust—without accepting manipulation.Related episode: How to Make a Sincere Apology (pairs perfectly with this one)If this helped, share it with someone who needs a clear, faith-rooted framework for reconciliation.Send us Fan MailSupport the show____________________► Make sure to SUBSCRIBE to the Metanoia Catholic YouTube Channel!► Find out your temperament: Take the Free Quiz► Get the Conversation Starter Guide (FREE) ► Take the Quiz: WHAT TYPE OF COACH ARE YOU?► GET THE DAILY SEVEN JOURNAL!This interactive journal will help you transform your life from the inside out by teaching you how to grow in gratitude, set healthy goals, and gain mastery over your thoughts.► JOIN THE ACADEMY!Your online resource of classes, tools, and community to ramp up your growth and really change your life. Learn from the Metanoia Catholic coaches in webinars, live coaching calls, Lectio Divina, and more with your monthly membership.____________________► SUBSCRIBE TO THE CATHOLIC COACHING PODCASTApple PodcastsSpotifyYouTube...

How to Make a Sincere Apology | 5 Steps to Real Reconciliation Want to apologize in a way that actually restores trust? In this episode of the Catholic Coaching Podcast, Matt and Erin break down how to make a sincere apology—what to do internally before you speak, what to say (and not say), and how to detach from the other person’s response while still moving toward reconciliation.What you’ll learn• The difference between saying “sorry” and offering a sincere apology• 3 common mindset traps:      - “If I apologize, they’ll feel justified”      - “They started it—so they should go first”      - “What if they don’t accept my apology?”• The 5-step framework for real reconciliation:   1. Forgive first (release the anger)   2. Own your fault (no blaming, no generalities)   3. Detach from their response (stay in your lane)   4. State how you’ll act in the future (your repair plan)   5. Apologize—clearly, briefly, without expectations• How to model repentance as a spouse, parent, friend, or leader—    without enablingIf this helped you, share it with someone who could use a simple, faithful path to peace.Send us Fan MailSupport the show____________________► Make sure to SUBSCRIBE to the Metanoia Catholic YouTube Channel!► Find out your temperament: Take the Free Quiz► Get the Conversation Starter Guide (FREE) ► Take the Quiz: WHAT TYPE OF COACH ARE YOU?► GET THE DAILY SEVEN JOURNAL!This interactive journal will help you transform your life from the inside out by teaching you how to grow in gratitude, set healthy goals, and gain mastery over your thoughts.► JOIN THE ACADEMY!Your online resource of classes, tools, and community to ramp up your growth and really change your life. Learn from the Metanoia Catholic coaches in webinars, live coaching calls, Lectio Divina, and more with your monthly membership.____________________► SUBSCRIBE TO THE CATHOLIC COACHING PODCASTApple PodcastsSpotifyYouTube...

Overcome Loneliness by Focusing Outside of YourselfIn this episode of the Catholic Coaching Podcast (Ep. 267), Matt and Erin revisit the growing epidemic of loneliness—especially among Gen Z—and explore how the simple but powerful skill of active listening can be a true antidote.Unlike surface-level interactions, deep listening creates meaningful connection, reduces social anxiety, and helps people feel seen, known, and loved. You’ll discover:•What loneliness really is (and isn’t).•Why our longing points ultimately to God.•How active listening transforms both the speaker and the listener.•A simple tool called the Spotlight Effect you can apply right away.This conversation blends psychology, theology, and practical coaching tools to help you cultivate deeper connections in your family, friendships, ministry, or workplace.Send us Fan MailSupport the show____________________► Make sure to SUBSCRIBE to the Metanoia Catholic YouTube Channel!► Find out your temperament: Take the Free Quiz► Get the Conversation Starter Guide (FREE) ► Take the Quiz: WHAT TYPE OF COACH ARE YOU?► GET THE DAILY SEVEN JOURNAL!This interactive journal will help you transform your life from the inside out by teaching you how to grow in gratitude, set healthy goals, and gain mastery over your thoughts.► JOIN THE ACADEMY!Your online resource of classes, tools, and community to ramp up your growth and really change your life. Learn from the Metanoia Catholic coaches in webinars, live coaching calls, Lectio Divina, and more with your monthly membership.____________________► SUBSCRIBE TO THE CATHOLIC COACHING PODCASTApple PodcastsSpotifyYouTube...

How do you discern a risky leap from stable ministry to mission entrepreneurship—and keep your marriage unified while you do it?In this episode, Matt Ingold talks with Nick & Teresa Redd about founding The Freedom Group (helping men get free from porn and reclaim purpose), praying and planning through pivots, fundraising and finances, and practicing unity-in-action as a “couple on mission.” We also hit practical mindset tools from Catholic coaching, why “premature deployment” (with prudence) matters, and how hope turns vision into reality.What you’ll learn• A simple framework for unity in marriage during big decisions• Why hope + action beats perfectionism when starting an apostolate• Coaching insights for breaking porn habits (pain as path, discomfort as    teacher)• Discernment: letting God provide after the jump (and how to check for       the parachute)• Motherhood, identity, and ditching the “I’m not allowed” voiceConnect with today’s guests• The Freedom Group (assessment + free “Rewire Your Brain” course):   thefreedomgroup.co• Nick: nick@thefreedomgroup.co• Teresa (coaching for moms): TeresaMarie92@gmail.comIf you’re curious about Catholic coaching or our certification, check out Metanoia Catholic and subscribe for more conversations on mindset, mission, and sanctity.Send us Fan MailSupport the show____________________► Make sure to SUBSCRIBE to the Metanoia Catholic YouTube Channel!► Find out your temperament: Take the Free Quiz► Get the Conversation Starter Guide (FREE) ► Take the Quiz: WHAT TYPE OF COACH ARE YOU?► GET THE DAILY SEVEN JOURNAL!This interactive journal will help you transform your life from the inside out by teaching you how to grow in gratitude, set healthy goals, and gain mastery over your thoughts.► JOIN THE ACADEMY!Your online resource of classes, tools, and community to ramp up your growth and really change your life. Learn from the Metanoia Catholic coaches in webinars, live coaching calls, Lectio Divina, and more with your monthly membership.____________________► SUBSCRIBE TO THE CATHOLIC COACHING PODCASTApple PodcastsSpotifyYouTube...

How do you forgive when everything in you wants to hold on?In this episode, Matt and Erin close out our series on anger and sorrow in the wake of Charlie Kirk’s assassination by tackling forgiveness—what it is, what it isn’t, and how to choose it when it feels impossible. Drawing on Scripture, Aquinas, coaching experience, and neuroscience, we show why unforgiveness keeps you in bondage (and in brain “threat mode”) while forgiveness frees the heart, sharpens the mind, and breaks cycles of violence.In this episode you’ll learn:•  The real definition of forgiveness (act of the will, not a feeling)•  Why forgiving does not mean condoning, forgetting, or instant        reconciliation•  How forgiveness calms stress circuits and restores clarity/self-control•  10 common lies that block forgiveness—and the truth that breaks them•  A simple 3-step path: Name the offense → Process with Jesus → Choose    to forgive (again if needed)Next steps•  Grow these skills in our Mission Coach Training (quarterly cohorts)•. Explore Academy studies: Become (identity in Christ) & Ignite (discipleship    tools)•  Bring Metanoia Catholic to your parish/campus:    speaking@metanoiacatholic.com   More: https://www.metanoiacatholic.comSend us Fan MailSupport the show____________________► Make sure to SUBSCRIBE to the Metanoia Catholic YouTube Channel!► Find out your temperament: Take the Free Quiz► Get the Conversation Starter Guide (FREE) ► Take the Quiz: WHAT TYPE OF COACH ARE YOU?► GET THE DAILY SEVEN JOURNAL!This interactive journal will help you transform your life from the inside out by teaching you how to grow in gratitude, set healthy goals, and gain mastery over your thoughts.► JOIN THE ACADEMY!Your online resource of classes, tools, and community to ramp up your growth and really change your life. Learn from the Metanoia Catholic coaches in webinars, live coaching calls, Lectio Divina, and more with your monthly membership.____________________► SUBSCRIBE TO THE CATHOLIC COACHING PODCASTApple PodcastsSpotifyYouTube...

Sorrow isn’t weakness—it’s wisdom.In this episode, Matt and Erin explore how to process sorrow in a virtuous, Christ-centered way in the wake of a widely publicized tragedy. Building on last week’s conversation about anger, they turn to Aquinas, pastoral experience, and practical tools so you can feel sorrow rightly—without numbing out or falling into despair.What you’ll learn • What sorrow is (Aquinas) and why it’s morally neutral but must be                guided by reason/charity • The difference between deficient, excessive, and virtuous sorrow • A 6-step process to move from paralysis to prayerful action and                compassion • How to unite sorrow to Christ (“Jesus wept”) and offer it for others—                without losing hopeTry this today: Identify one specific cause of sadness, rate its intensity, and ask: Is this moving me toward prayer, mercy, or constructive action? If not, apply the steps to re-order love and re-engage.Grow these skills: • Mission Coach Training (quarterly cohorts) • Academy studies: Become (identity in Christ) & Ignite (deeper                discipleship tools)Send us Fan MailSupport the show____________________► Make sure to SUBSCRIBE to the Metanoia Catholic YouTube Channel!► Find out your temperament: Take the Free Quiz► Get the Conversation Starter Guide (FREE) ► Take the Quiz: WHAT TYPE OF COACH ARE YOU?► GET THE DAILY SEVEN JOURNAL!This interactive journal will help you transform your life from the inside out by teaching you how to grow in gratitude, set healthy goals, and gain mastery over your thoughts.► JOIN THE ACADEMY!Your online resource of classes, tools, and community to ramp up your growth and really change your life. Learn from the Metanoia Catholic coaches in webinars, live coaching calls, Lectio Divina, and more with your monthly membership.____________________► SUBSCRIBE TO THE CATHOLIC COACHING PODCASTApple PodcastsSpotifyYouTube...

In this special episode of the Catholic Coaching Podcast, Matt and Erin take on the emotion dominating hearts after the assassination of Charlie Kirk: anger. Is it wrong to feel angry? How do you know if your anger is righteous, vicious, or deficient? Drawing on Aquinas, pastoral wisdom, and lived experience, this episode helps you discern anger as a morally neutral emotion that can lead either to sin or to zeal.What we cover•Anger in light of Charlie Kirk’s death: is it appropriate?•Aquinas on anger: sorrow + hope + perceived injustice•Deficient anger vs. excessive anger vs. righteous anger•Real-life examples (parenting, media, leadership, forgiveness)•A 6-step process to move from vicious anger to zeal•Why prayer, reflection, and forgiveness are essentialBy the end, you’ll have tools to name your anger, check its proportion, pause before reacting, and channel it toward justice and restoration.Send us Fan MailSupport the show____________________► Make sure to SUBSCRIBE to the Metanoia Catholic YouTube Channel!► Find out your temperament: Take the Free Quiz► Get the Conversation Starter Guide (FREE) ► Take the Quiz: WHAT TYPE OF COACH ARE YOU?► GET THE DAILY SEVEN JOURNAL!This interactive journal will help you transform your life from the inside out by teaching you how to grow in gratitude, set healthy goals, and gain mastery over your thoughts.► JOIN THE ACADEMY!Your online resource of classes, tools, and community to ramp up your growth and really change your life. Learn from the Metanoia Catholic coaches in webinars, live coaching calls, Lectio Divina, and more with your monthly membership.____________________► SUBSCRIBE TO THE CATHOLIC COACHING PODCASTApple PodcastsSpotifyYouTube...

Are the “small” lies we accept actually steering our lives? In this episode, Matt & Erin Ingold map out a practical taxonomy of lies—from subtle errors and misinterpretations to omission and full-on falsification—and show how these distortions quietly shape prayer, relationships, and mindset. You’ll get concrete self-coaching questions to test your thoughts, spot cognitive distortions (minimization/maximization), and bring everything back to facts, truth, and mercy. Distinctively Catholic, the episode pairs mindset tools with conscience formation, prayer, and Confession so you can replace lies with reality and live in freedom.What you’ll learnA clear working definition of “lie” (and why partial untruths still wound)The 3 tiers: least malicious → mid-level → most maliciousHow to spot error, misinterpretation, white lies, minimization, exaggerationDenial, “lies of influence,” and omission—why they’re more seriousFalsification, bold-faced lies, fabrication, and pathological lying—why to avoid entirelySelf-coaching prompts to challenge thoughts with charity and truthThe Catholic path: steward your intellect, seek mercy, repent, and receive healing truthSend us Fan MailSupport the show____________________► Make sure to SUBSCRIBE to the Metanoia Catholic YouTube Channel!► Find out your temperament: Take the Free Quiz► Get the Conversation Starter Guide (FREE) ► Take the Quiz: WHAT TYPE OF COACH ARE YOU?► GET THE DAILY SEVEN JOURNAL!This interactive journal will help you transform your life from the inside out by teaching you how to grow in gratitude, set healthy goals, and gain mastery over your thoughts.► JOIN THE ACADEMY!Your online resource of classes, tools, and community to ramp up your growth and really change your life. Learn from the Metanoia Catholic coaches in webinars, live coaching calls, Lectio Divina, and more with your monthly membership.____________________► SUBSCRIBE TO THE CATHOLIC COACHING PODCASTApple PodcastsSpotifyYouTube...

Can you really tell when someone isn’t telling the truth? 🤔 In this episode of the Catholic Coaching Podcast, Matt and Erin unpack the Signs of a Lie—the subtle verbal cues that reveal when someone might be hiding the truth.We explore:✅ Inconsistencies and evasive answers✅ Overly detailed stories that avoid the point✅ Hesitations, filler words, and cognitive overload✅ Emotional “leakage” like mismatched tone or nervous laughter✅ Psychological distancing (“that woman…”, passive voice, fading facts)✅ Defensive language, scripted responses, and over-protestingThrough famous examples (Clinton, Nixon, Amber Heard) and everyday scenarios (coaching, parenting, relationships, media), you’ll learn how to spot clusters of deception cues while staying compassionate and curious—not judgmental.Send us Fan MailSupport the show____________________► Make sure to SUBSCRIBE to the Metanoia Catholic YouTube Channel!► Find out your temperament: Take the Free Quiz► Get the Conversation Starter Guide (FREE) ► Take the Quiz: WHAT TYPE OF COACH ARE YOU?► GET THE DAILY SEVEN JOURNAL!This interactive journal will help you transform your life from the inside out by teaching you how to grow in gratitude, set healthy goals, and gain mastery over your thoughts.► JOIN THE ACADEMY!Your online resource of classes, tools, and community to ramp up your growth and really change your life. Learn from the Metanoia Catholic coaches in webinars, live coaching calls, Lectio Divina, and more with your monthly membership.____________________► SUBSCRIBE TO THE CATHOLIC COACHING PODCASTApple PodcastsSpotifyYouTube...