

The New Man
Tripp Lanier
Advice for Men to Align Career, Sex, Relationships, and Money
Episodes
Mentioned books

May 13, 2026 • 55min
David Deida and The Man of Zero
David Deida discusses how The Man of Zero differs from The Superior Man, why there’s more to life than purpose, and how meaningless is the doorway to something truly fulfilling.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/05/david-deida-man-of-zero
COACHING
- To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com
- To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com
BOOK
- We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life.
- Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

May 5, 2026 • 59min
Burnout Almost Broke Him. How Jon Rose Got His Life Force Back.
Can burnout steal your life force? Jon Rose (Waves for Water) survived 47 disasters and 5 conflicts — here's how he came back stronger.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/05/jon-rose-burnout
COACHING
- To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com
- To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com
BOOK
- We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life.
- Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Apr 23, 2026 • 44min
How to Stay Calm and Focused in Uncertain Times — Brian Johnson
Are you worn out by the circus of uncertainty and anxiety?
Do you find yourself wanting to check out, numb out, or just give up?
And is it possible that all of this craziness is an opportunity to go deeper into what makes life truly meaningful?
Philosopher and CEO Brian Johnson returns to discuss how we can break free from the forces distorting our thinking and draining our reality. We talk about how to reclaim a sense of control and why now is the perfect time to get out of the shallow end of the pool, tap into your calling, and create a life aligned with meaning.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/04/calm-focused-uncertain-times
COACHING
→ To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com
→ To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com
BOOK
→ We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life.
→ Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Mar 30, 2026 • 56min
Is Psychedelic Therapy Worth the Hype? Will Van Derveer MD
Will Van Derveer MD, psychiatrist and leader in psychedelic-assisted therapy, explores trauma, anxiety, and novel treatments. He explains how everyday patterns create hidden trauma. They compare clinical psychedelic therapy with ceremonial use. Safety, who should avoid these medicines, and the importance of integration and nervous system regulation are discussed.

Mar 18, 2026 • 53min
What’s Really Holding You Back: How to Get Stuff Done — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Why do so many capable people struggle to get things done? Learn to identify the roadblocks that hold us back and the necessary ingredients for getting things done.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/03/get-stuff-done
COACHING
→ To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com
→ To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com
BOOK
→ We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life.
→ Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Mar 3, 2026 • 47min
The Trap of Trying to Reach Your Full Potential — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Do you feel like your life is supposed to be bigger than it is?
What would it mean if you weren’t exceptional?
And why do so many successful folks still feel like they aren’t enough?
Today Alyson and I explore why some people feel pressured to reach their full potential. We discuss the expectation to be exceptional, how fixating on the future kills our satisfaction, and why having what we truly want may be much simpler than we think.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/03/reach-your-full-potential
COACHING
→ To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com
→ To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com
BOOK
→ We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life.
→ Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Feb 17, 2026 • 57min
I Shouldn’t Have to Ask: When Relationships Feel One-Sided — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Alyson Lanier, relationship coach who helps couples improve communication and contribution. They explore why relationships feel lopsided, how upbringing and complacency shape contribution, and practical fixes like clear agreements, task systems, and shifting from expectations to accountability. Short, direct advice on starting non-defensive conversations and rebuilding partnership dynamics.

Feb 2, 2026 • 33min
Staying Stuck vs Moving Forward: Doing the Hard Thing — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Is it clear that something has to change, but you’re afraid to make a move?
How do you know when it’s time to throw in the towel?
And how does “hope” fuel anxiety and keep us stuck?
Whether it’s our business, a relationship, or whatever, we tend to stay stuck in a painful place because we don’t want to do the hard thing. Today, Alyson and I discuss why we avoid reality, how we can reclaim our power, and what we can ultimately do to allow peace of mind.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/02/staying-stuck-moving-forward
COACHING
→ To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com
→ To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com
BOOK
→ We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life.
→ Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Jan 19, 2026 • 39min
Why Being Perfect Makes Us Weak — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Whether it’s your looks, your job, or whatever — do you feel a lot of pressure to get it right?
Do you ever beat the hell out of yourself for making a mistake?
And if we all know that no one’s perfect, then why do so many of us think we should be?
Today Alyson and I dig into perfectionism: how we get wired for it, why we let it abuse us, and why striving to get it right makes it harder for us to have what we truly want in life.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/01/perfectionism-makes-us-weak
COACHING
→ To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com
→ To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com
BOOK
→ We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life.
→ Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Jan 6, 2026 • 50min
What Do You Really Want? Getting Out of Autopilot and the Prescribed Life — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Discover whether you're driving your life or merely reacting to it. Learn about the cultural programming that leads to feeling trapped in a 'prescribed life.' Explore the concept of frustration as a signal for unmet desires. Question the obligations that keep you stuck and consider what truly brings satisfaction. Embrace small daily choices to cultivate autonomy and align with your genuine wants. Engage in self-reflection through journaling to uncover suppressed desires. Ultimately, it's about mapping fulfilling experiences instead of blindly following societal scripts.


