Superpowered Mind with Clare Dimond

Clare Dimond
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Mar 15, 2023 • 9min

I got a new client after listening to the subliminal: listener comment

 I've been experimenting.  I'm a new coach and a few days after listening to the abundance subliminal secured my first paying client, hehe!I am immersed in your youtube podcast ... and have read the Home and It's not You books ... so far!I hope you are feeling better ... and thank you for your work!
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Mar 15, 2023 • 9min

The mirror exercise and my teenager: listener question

Dear Clare, Regarding The Mirror - is this what you mean? I am resentful of my badly behaving teenage daughter because SHE is limiting MY freedom. She won't do what I say. She's out of control. I can't control her. And I need her to behave differently as I cannot continue with this intolerable situation. As a result of her constant drama, my life is out of control and not as I want it.The Mirror: Where I am I doing what I am accusing her of?My daughter is appearing as she is because I am limiting HER freedom. I won't do what she says. I'm controlling her. And she needs me to behave differently as she cannot continue with this intolerable situation. As a result of my constant drama, her life is out of her control and not as she wants itI had not thought about it that way before, and I see that is totally true.Now what? Stop limiting her freedom so she can stop limiting mine? Not possible due to the catastrophe and actual danger that would create - such a resistance to even considering this. Plus my identify of 'parent' is also pulled into this. BUT there is still an obvious 'me' and 'her' in what I've just written.Thanks for the mirror, Clare - what do I DO with what I see? How do I 'unseparate' the 'separation' as is that even the aim of the game. Or what?
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Mar 14, 2023 • 13min

What is going on when I do something but my heart isn't in it? Listener question

What does "heart not in it" or "going through the motions" mean if there is no self?"to do the base functions of an activity without much thought or interest or enthusiasm" also to do it without commitment or insincerely. If emotions are continuing to shift, is this just the system doing what makes sense without the emotions ending up as interested or pleasurable? I do dishes every day, I wouldn't describe it as going through the motions, and also wouldn't say it's interesting or that I do them enthusiastically.
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Mar 13, 2023 • 17min

Changing another's behaviour: listener question

I just found out that my daughter is self harming again or still. Also she thinks she can’t anything and so she just doesn’t care. About school in this case. She still cares a lot about animals. I have like a black out in an exam. I want to see my equivalent but I don’t know what to look for. Ok, the don’t care was quite a pattern but not so much anymore. But the self harming? Yes I used to smoke, and take drugs and binge eat, but I‘m not for decades/years. This can’t be it?
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Mar 12, 2023 • 17min

Reality and perceiver: listener question

1. Can we revisit the "real world" bit as in where information about reality stops and imagination begins and vice versa. 2. I noticed in a recent call you said "isn't it interesting how reality can shift so dramatically from one moment to the next?"The speaker had been commenting about what I have noticed as well, that for example in the morning there will be "bad" feelings about a specific situation, and then in the afternoon it somehow looks different although nothing about the situation has changed. I have called this the perceptual lens changing. But you call it reality. Is that because there is no doer choosing to have one specific lens or another? Or is it because all reality is subjective? Or both? And this is also why non-dual teachers say everything is an illusion at the far end of this discussion?
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Mar 11, 2023 • 17min

How do you approach discrimination through a compassionate non-dual lens? Listener question

I get confused around the notion of "privilege" that's more and more common these days.How do racism, sexism, classism, etc. all fit into our understanding?As a valid, white, heterosexual cis-woman I sometimes feel the social pressure to acknowledge my "privilege" or witness people confessing theirs, but it doesn't quite make sense on a deeper level. How can I be responsible or sorry for my race/gender/sexual orientation, etc?I was at an anti-racism workshop lately and the vocabulary appeared to reinforce duality: victim/villain, people of colour/white people, etc.How do you approach discrimination through a compassionate non-dual lens?Is there really such a thing as "privilege" ?
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Mar 10, 2023 • 11min

What is love?

I've often heard you talk about the love that we find when all our believed thoughts and illusions are finally dropped.  Obviously, I've never gotten anywhere near a million miles away from even first base in this respect, but I'm feeling a tad anxious and lacking that even in my most "oh, I think I just had a bit of a glimpse of what everyone's pointing at" moments, I never seem to have any kind of connection with anything like a love feeling.  I can feel nice and peaceful and calm enough, yes, but it's a pleasantly nothingy kind of feeling at best.  So I was wondering if one day you could talk a bit more about this love and joy and expansive freedom that is real Reality, and -  oh, I don't know - I suppose I'm asking you to make me feel a bit better at not being able to feel it. Sorry.  Told you I'm a real pain.  But I truly am curious/puzzled as to what exactly you mean when you use the word "love" for what lies beyond.Still, I do know what I mean when I say all love to you,
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Mar 10, 2023 • 9min

Change and conscious experience: listener question

Do things need to become conscious to change? What is the value of an experience being had at a conscious level 
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Mar 9, 2023 • 11min

Changing others: listener question

I am doing the Be the Change course. I understand the message that change happens from within us . but there are still terrible acts out there. People’s behaviour can be violent and dangerous. is there not a risk that we will let this go untacked while we are working on ourselves? 
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Mar 8, 2023 • 10min

Friendships affected by my realisation: listener question

Since starting to learn about non duality and having some big shifts in realisation I am finding myself getting frustrated with my friends and the inconsequential things they discuss. I feel like saying to them that none of these things are real anyway but of course I don’t but I do end up withdrawing from the conversation and getting quieter. What should I do about this. Is it only possible now to have friends that are in this conversation? 

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