

Self Obsessed
Tam Kaur
Tam Kaur’s Self-Obsessed is the ultimate guide to everything society didn’t want you to learn. In a world where women are criticised for wanting and being ‘too much’ it's time to change the narrative. Join our host Tam in learning how to be self-obsessed. After all, it’s only about prioritising your self-love, self-care, self-confidence, self-worth and self-growth.
‘Self-Obsessed’ simplifies the process of closing the gap between your current self and your desired self. Every episode is a straight-to-the-point carefully curated guide to help women everywhere fall in love with themselves. Each episode will provide actionable advice while navigating topics such as building confidence, embracing authenticity, setting boundaries, cultivating healthy relationships, and pursuing your passions.
So, consider this your safest space on the internet as Tam gives you the life secrets no-one else ever shared. It’s time to be your own idol.
‘Self-Obsessed’ simplifies the process of closing the gap between your current self and your desired self. Every episode is a straight-to-the-point carefully curated guide to help women everywhere fall in love with themselves. Each episode will provide actionable advice while navigating topics such as building confidence, embracing authenticity, setting boundaries, cultivating healthy relationships, and pursuing your passions.
So, consider this your safest space on the internet as Tam gives you the life secrets no-one else ever shared. It’s time to be your own idol.
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6 snips
Apr 14, 2023 • 25min
how to make friends easily | tips for the socially awkward, healthy friendships, how to be likeable
Tips for making friends as an adult, qualities of healthy friendships, healing from friendship trauma, strategies for making friends easily, and being more likable.

Apr 14, 2023 • 15min
how to journal: tips for beginners, manifesting, self-growth, ideas + EXPOSING my own journal.
Learn about the benefits and recommendations for journaling, including using different types of journals. Explore the personal practice of journaling and how it can improve personal growth, stress management, and manifestation. The speaker shares their productive day, recent breakup, and feelings of gratitude. Reflect on mental health struggles and positive changes while being encouraged to start journaling.

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Apr 14, 2023 • 23min
how to deal with TOXIC PEOPLE | 9 signs of a toxic friend and how to cut them out of your life!
Learn how to identify toxic friends and cut them out of your life. Understand the negative impact of toxic friendships. Discover strategies for cutting off toxic friends and setting boundaries. Explore the dynamics of high maintenance and low maintenance friends. Rebuild trust and take a leap of faith in new relationships after toxic friendships.

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Apr 14, 2023 • 11min
how to deal with fear of failure
✨USE FAILURE IN YOUR FAVOUR✨ In this video, I share 5 lessons I’ve learned in coping with a fear of failure and how to shift your mindset when you feel like a failure. 🏽https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1iB1eRbtdd8&t=18s
📱 join our community to chat with likeminded women: https://discord.gg/qbXANwERvQWatch the full video of this episode on my YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBnHZUkOqg73h7gWiIu0ITAMy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en ALL MY LINKS: https://stan.store/tamkaur

11 snips
Apr 14, 2023 • 25min
how to stop overthinking EVERYTHING | detach yourself and overcome anxiety
Learn how to stop overthinking and overcome anxiety in this podcast. They discuss the negative impacts of overthinking, strategies to overcome it, fear of failure, and practical steps to detach from negative thoughts and focus on positive affirmations.

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Mar 11, 2023 • 22min
How to Set Boundaries & Stop People Pleasing | Stop Feeling Guilty & Be Respected *with examples*
Learn how to set boundaries without being rude, prioritize self-care, communicate different types of boundaries, stay disciplined, and set boundaries in relationships.

Mar 7, 2023 • 25min
how to VALIDATE YOURSELF | stop seeking external validation, grow your self worth and level up!
This is how you stop seeking male validation, chasing approval from others, people pleasing, feeling insecure and instead BECOME YOUR OWN VALIDATION. It's time you transform into your most confident self and stop caring about what others think. This video is split into 6 chapters: causes of seeking external validation, seeking male validation, quit people pleasing and set boundaries, stop giving an F, become secure in yourself and grow your self worth, and finally how to validate yourself.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4ENp8Q_WxFM&t=890s
📱 join our community to chat with likeminded women: https://discord.gg/qbXANwERvQWatch the full video of this episode on my YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBnHZUkOqg73h7gWiIu0ITAMy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en ALL MY LINKS: https://stan.store/tamkaur

Mar 7, 2023 • 16min
HOW TO RADIATE FEMININE ENERGY TO LIVE A SOFT LIFE: habits, dating, tips and healing *LIFE CHANGING*
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9vn0jDRNObY
📱 join our community to chat with likeminded women: https://discord.gg/qbXANwERvQWatch the full video of this episode on my YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBnHZUkOqg73h7gWiIu0ITAMy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en ALL MY LINKS: https://stan.store/tamkaur

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Mar 7, 2023 • 21min
how to *actually* be happy single | detach, love yourself, de-centre men & enjoy being alone
Learn how to prioritize self-love and acceptance, find inspiration in happy couples, embrace singlehood and prioritize self-growth. Discover the importance of self-love and self-acceptance, and how to find personal fulfillment in being single.

Mar 7, 2023 • 2min
quick tips: how to become detached
Exploring how detachment affects dating, love, and relationships, emphasizing the importance of living in the present moment, appreciating time spent with someone, and practicing self-love and independence.


