

Sober Powered: The Neuroscience of Being Sober
Gillian Tietz, MS, CPRC
Why do some people stay sober and others relapse back and forth? Getting sober isn’t about restriction, it’s about rewiring your brain to function without intensity, chaos, dopamine spikes, and avoidance.
Hosted by Gill Tietz, a former biochemist turned sober coach, this show dives into the neuroscience of long-term sobriety — why some people relapse, why others stay free, and how to build the kind of brain that can handle life without alcohol.
Each episode blends science, psychology, and real experience to help you strengthen the four pillars of neuro-resilience:
1. Neural Recovery – healing your brain’s reward and stress systems after alcohol.
2. Emotional Regulation – calming reactivity and learning to feel without escaping.
3. Cognitive Rewiring – changing the thought patterns that pull you backward.
4. Behavioral Integration – designing routines and habits that make being sober your default.
Whether you’re newly sober or years in, you’ll learn research-backed tools and mindset shifts so sobriety stops feeling like something you’re trying to want and starts feeling like who you are.
This is hard work. If you want my support, then check out my online sober community or my 1:1 work.
Website: www.soberpowered.com
Hosted by Gill Tietz, a former biochemist turned sober coach, this show dives into the neuroscience of long-term sobriety — why some people relapse, why others stay free, and how to build the kind of brain that can handle life without alcohol.
Each episode blends science, psychology, and real experience to help you strengthen the four pillars of neuro-resilience:
1. Neural Recovery – healing your brain’s reward and stress systems after alcohol.
2. Emotional Regulation – calming reactivity and learning to feel without escaping.
3. Cognitive Rewiring – changing the thought patterns that pull you backward.
4. Behavioral Integration – designing routines and habits that make being sober your default.
Whether you’re newly sober or years in, you’ll learn research-backed tools and mindset shifts so sobriety stops feeling like something you’re trying to want and starts feeling like who you are.
This is hard work. If you want my support, then check out my online sober community or my 1:1 work.
Website: www.soberpowered.com
Episodes
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May 31, 2024 • 20min
E222: 6 Neurotransmitters That Get Messed Up By Alcohol
Glutamate, GABA, Dopamine, Norepinephrine, Serotonin, and the whole HPA axis (stress response). These are some of the important systems in your brain that get messed up when you blast your brain with alcohol all the time. Then when we quit drinking, these get even more messed up. In this episode you’ll learn what these 6 do, how alcohol messes them up, how they get more messed up when we quit drinking, and how long it takes for them to recover in sobriety. (TW: link between addiction and suicide when I discuss serotonin)What to listen to nextE38: Central Nervous System DepressionE75: How Sleep Improves from Actively Drinking to Long Term SobrietyE170: Here’s Why The First Year of Sobriety is So HardE201: Your Dysregulated Stress ResponseSober Powered Skills Episode: Feel Calm, Boost Dopamine, Improve Your Mood, and Reduce Stresshttps://www.soberpowered.com/skillsSober Support:
Community & Meetings: Living a Sober Powered Life https://www.soberpowered.com/membership
Anger Management Program https://www.soberpowered.com/anger
Sober Powered Skills (bonus episodes with practical application and coping skills) https://www.soberpowered.com/skills
Weekly emails on Thursdays https://www.soberpowered.com/email
Free resources https://www.soberpowered.com/free
Thank you for supporting this show by supporting my sponsors. Learn more:https://www.soberpowered.com/sponsorsIf you enjoyed this episode please consider buying me a coffee to support my work https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soberpoweredSources are posted on my websiteDisclaimer: all of the information described in this podcast is my interpretation of the research combined with my opinion. This is not medical advice. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 27, 2024 • 20min
E221: 5 Ways to Redefine Fun Without Alcohol
Unpacking the misconception that alcohol equals fun, the podcast discusses strategies for redefining enjoyment post-alcohol. Topics include the benefits of fitness, alternative ways to socialize without alcohol, and managing expectations for a fulfilling experience.

May 24, 2024 • 21min
E220: The Hippocampus and Alcohol: Blackouts, Memory Deficits, and Learned Associations
The hippocampus is an important part of the brain, which is unfortunately very vulnerable to alcohol. It is most well-known for its role in blackouts, but damage to the hippocampus from our drinking can cause problems with everyday memory too, like telling someone the same story over and over again. The hippocampus has a lesser known, but very important role in learned associations. Associations are cues in the environment that help us predict an alcohol reward, so they cause cravings to drink. In this episode, I’ll describe how alcohol damages the hippocampus to cause blackouts, impair our memory, and form associations with alcohol. You’ll learn how this damage persists in sobriety and how long it takes for the hippocampus to heal.Sober Powered Skills Bonus Episode: 3 Ways to Improve Hippocampus Functionhttps://www.soberpowered.com/skillsWhat to listen to nextE211: the anticipation of a drinkE218: in the moment craving vs constant cravingE196: how the brain recovers in sobrietyE210: the brain heals a lot in 90 days (unless you relapse)E191: going back and forth makes your cravings strongerSober Support:
Community & Meetings: Living a Sober Powered Life https://www.soberpowered.com/membership
Anger Management Program https://www.soberpowered.com/anger
Sober Powered Skills (bonus episodes with practical application and coping skills) https://www.soberpowered.com/skills
Weekly emails on Thursdays https://www.soberpowered.com/email
Free resources https://www.soberpowered.com/free
Thank you for supporting this show by supporting my sponsors. Learn more:https://www.soberpowered.com/sponsorsIf you enjoyed this episode please consider buying me a coffee to support my work https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soberpoweredSources are posted on my websiteDisclaimer: all of the information described in this podcast is my interpretation of the research combined with my opinion. This is not medical advice. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 21, 2024 • 21min
E219: 7 Healthy Lifestyle Changes to Support Your Sobriety
Our lifestyle can make our sobriety easier or harder. When we quit drinking, things have to change. We can’t keep coming home to the same old routine but just not drink. In this episode I’ll explain 7 lifestyle changes that you can make overtime to support your sobriety and why these changes are helpful. What to listen to next:E188: wellness over weight lossE213: self-care is NOT temporarily turning off your brainSober Support:
Community & Meetings: Living a Sober Powered Life https://www.soberpowered.com/membership
Anger Management Program https://www.soberpowered.com/anger
Sober Powered Skills (bonus episodes with practical application and coping skills) https://www.soberpowered.com/skills
Weekly emails on Thursdays https://www.soberpowered.com/email
Free resources https://www.soberpowered.com/free
Thank you for supporting this show by supporting my sponsors. Learn more:https://www.soberpowered.com/sponsorsIf you enjoyed this episode please consider buying me a coffee to support my work https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soberpoweredSources are posted on my websiteDisclaimer: all of the information described in this podcast is my interpretation of the research combined with my opinion. This is not medical advice. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 17, 2024 • 20min
E218: In the Moment Craving vs Constant Craving
There are 2 types of alcohol cravings that you may experience as you quit drinking: sudden, in the moment cravings or constant all day cravings. In this episode, you’ll learn about both types and 3 reasons we crave alcohol. I’ve experienced both types of cravings so I will share my experience and help you understand why you keep craving alcohol and where to get started in minimizing your cravings.What to listen to next:E191: going back and forth makes your cravings strongerE205: kindling in alcohol withdrawalE128: why cravings are so powerful (attentional bias)E216: 4 types of impulsivityE211: the anticipation of the drinkE206: HALT: hungry, angry, lonely, tiredE203: why you still want alcohol even when you hate itSober Support:
Community & Meetings: Living a Sober Powered Life https://www.soberpowered.com/membership
Anger Management Program https://www.soberpowered.com/anger
Sober Powered Skills (bonus episodes with practical application and coping skills) https://www.soberpowered.com/skills
Weekly emails on Thursdays https://www.soberpowered.com/email
Free resources https://www.soberpowered.com/free
Thank you for supporting this show by supporting my sponsors. Learn more:https://www.soberpowered.com/sponsorsIf you enjoyed this episode please consider buying me a coffee to support my work https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soberpoweredSources are posted on my websiteDisclaimer: all of the information described in this podcast is my interpretation of the research combined with my opinion. This is not medical advice. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 14, 2024 • 16min
E217: Warm Weather: 3 Reasons We Think Alcohol is Required
The weather is getting warmer and we start thinking about how everyone’s going to be on the porch or at restaurants drinking, how nice that looks, and how left out we feel for not participating. It’s normal to see other people drinking and wish you could do it too. In this episode we’ll talk about 3 reasons why we think alcohol is required when the weather is warm. It’s a mix of science, conditioning, awareness and being honest with ourselves. What to listen to next:E179 we have to grieve alcohol (its ok to miss it)E211 the anticipationSober Support:
Community & Meetings: Living a Sober Powered Life https://www.soberpowered.com/membership
Anger Management Program https://www.soberpowered.com/anger
Sober Powered Skills (bonus episodes with practical application and coping skills) https://www.soberpowered.com/skills
Weekly emails on Thursdays https://www.soberpowered.com/email
7 tips for your next 7 days sober https://soberpowered.myflodesk.com/7tips
Thank you for supporting this show by supporting my sponsors. Learn more:https://www.soberpowered.com/sponsorsIf you enjoyed this episode please consider buying me a coffee to support my work https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soberpoweredSources are posted on my websiteDisclaimer: all of the information described in this podcast is my interpretation of the research combined with my opinion. This is not medical advice. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 10, 2024 • 17min
E216: 4 Types of Impulsivity: Which One Are You?
We don’t drink because we’re losers with no self-control. A lot of times we drink because we can’t handle emotions, we get the F its, and we keep convincing ourselves it will be different this time. These are all different types of impulsivity. In this episode, you’ll learn 4 different impulsive traits and how these influence our drinking. I’ll explain which one I am, how this caused big urges to drink in sobriety, and at the end of the episode I’ll give you some criteria to understand which type of impulsivity you are so you have an idea of what to work on moving forward.What to listen to next:E55: how to power thru when you want to give upE202: wtf is the workE211: the anticipation of the drinkE170: why the first year of sobriety is so hard (reward system healing)Bonus: The ONE Skill to Start With to Become Less ImpulsiveListen here: https://www.soberpowered.com/skillsSober Support:
Community & Meetings: Living a Sober Powered Life https://www.soberpowered.com/membership
Anger Management Program https://www.soberpowered.com/anger
Weekly emails on Thursdays https://www.soberpowered.com/email
Free resources https://www.soberpowered.com/free
Thank you for supporting this show by supporting my sponsors. Learn more:https://www.soberpowered.com/sponsorsIf you enjoyed this episode please consider buying me a coffee to support my work https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soberpoweredSources are posted on my websiteDisclaimer: all of the information described in this podcast is my interpretation of the research combined with my opinion. This is not medical advice. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 7, 2024 • 16min
E215: 5 Different Ways of Thinking About Sobriety
Do we “get” to be sober or do we have to be sober? What if you don’t want to glamorize sobriety or think about alcohol as a class one carcinogen? Do you have to call yourself an alcoholic to quit drinking for good? In this episode I’m explaining how we think we are different from everyone else and 5 different ways I’ve seen the sober community talk about sobriety. At the end of the episode I’ll share how to know if your thinking is helping you quit drinking or keeping you trapped in the cycle with excuses and unrealistic expectations.What to listen to next:E138: 5 ways problem drinkers think differentlyE204: can anyone get addicted to alcohol?Sober Support:
Community & Meetings: Living a Sober Powered Life https://www.soberpowered.com/membership
Anger Management Program https://www.soberpowered.com/anger
Sober Powered Skills (bonus episodes with practical application and coping skills) https://www.soberpowered.com/skills
Weekly emails on Thursdays https://www.soberpowered.com/email
Free resources https://www.soberpowered.com/free
Thank you for supporting this show by supporting my sponsors. Learn more:https://www.soberpowered.com/sponsorsIf you enjoyed this episode please consider buying me a coffee to support my work https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soberpoweredSources are posted on my websiteDisclaimer: all of the information described in this podcast is my interpretation of the research combined with my opinion. This is not medical advice. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 3, 2024 • 14min
E214: Self-Medicating with Alcohol
We drink to cope because it seems to help us manage anxiety, depression, trauma, stress, etc., but self-medicating with alcohol only makes your problems worse. Drinking to cope increases our risk of developing a problem and in this episode I’ll explain why. You’ll learn how much more likely coping drinkers are to develop a problem, how this makes it harder to quit drinking, and how drinking to cope differs for men and women.What to listen to next:E111 Drinking aloneE206 HALTE212 resilienceBonus Episode: 2 Ways to Reduce Chaos and Overwhelm in Your Lifehttps://www.soberpowered.com/skillsSober Support:
Community & Meetings: Living a Sober Powered Life https://www.soberpowered.com/membership
Anger Management Program https://www.soberpowered.com/anger
Sober Powered Skills (bonus episodes with practical application and coping skills) https://www.soberpowered.com/skills
Weekly emails on Thursdays https://www.soberpowered.com/email
Free resources https://www.soberpowered.com/free
Thank you for supporting this show by supporting my sponsors. Learn more:https://www.soberpowered.com/sponsorsIf you enjoyed this episode please consider buying me a coffee to support my work https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soberpoweredSources are posted on my websiteDisclaimer: all of the information described in this podcast is my interpretation of the research combined with my opinion. This is not medical advice. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 30, 2024 • 17min
E213: Self-Care is NOT Temporarily Turning Off Your Brain (Getting "Me Time")
We think that turning off our brain with alcohol at the end of the day is “me time” and it’s the only way to get a break. This isn’t self-care, it’s called being depleted and trying to survive a life that drains you. Poor self-care is one of the most reliable predictors of relapse in people trying to get sober. It’s important and in this episode I’m explaining what self-care is, how we can navigate transition times, and 5 simple ways you can begin to prioritize self-care in your life. I’ve been slacking hard on my self-care for a while, so I’ll also explain how this has been impacting me and my plan to stop depleting myself moving forward.What to listen to next:E188: wellness over weight lossSober Support:
Community & Meetings: Living a Sober Powered Life https://www.soberpowered.com/membership
Anger Management Program https://www.soberpowered.com/anger
Sober Powered Skills (bonus episodes with practical application and coping skills) https://www.soberpowered.com/skills
Weekly emails on Thursdays https://www.soberpowered.com/email
Free resources https://www.soberpowered.com/free
Thank you for supporting this show by supporting my sponsors. Learn more:https://www.soberpowered.com/sponsorsIf you enjoyed this episode please consider buying me a coffee to support my work https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soberpoweredSources are posted on my websiteDisclaimer: all of the information described in this podcast is my interpretation of the research combined with my opinion. This is not medical advice. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices


