The Everyday Style School

We've all been there--that moment you're tired of feeling blah or frumpy, and you're ready to have better style. If you're like most women, you do one of a few things: a) go shopping, b) clean out your closet, or c) hire someone to help you. And those are all good things. But style doesn't actually start there. At least lasting style doesn't. Better style starts in your mind. One thing I've said over and over is that what's in your head is more important than what's in your closet. How you think about style, what it means, and how much it matters goes a long way in making style easier and your intentions stick. Until your mind is ready for better style, your daily practices will probably feel like a bore...and a chore. Once your mindset shifts to believe that you and your efforts are worth it, style becomes easier, and dare I say it? Maybe even a little fun. In this episode, I'm sharing a few things super stylish women believe, not just do. So, before you hit the stores or empty your entire closet, make sure you spend a little time getting your mind in the right place.  If you want better style, but haven't been able to actually get started---or you struggle to consistently love the way you look, this one's for you! In this episode: Four things super stylish women believe Why relying on confidence won't help you get started How to quiet the voice in your head that says, "What will they think?" The myths that hold us back from having better style--and how to move past them Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/better-style-starts-here

Today, we're looking at some of the countless style typing systems on the internet, each one promising an easy way for us to get dressed and love the results. But do they actually help, or do they leave us feeling more confused than we were before? I've got some issues with these highly specific, incredibly detailed typing systems, but if they've worked for you, I'm thrilled! In this episode, I talk about my personal experiences with one of the more high-profile systems, The Kibbe Body Type System. This is an array of thirteen style types based largely on a person's balance of yin and yang. After spending hours exploring this system, I was hopelessly lost and confused! We also touch on some of the other systems that often use random questions that don't seem to connect, leaving you more puzzled than anything else. Like, what do my curly hair and cuticle shape have to do with the colors I should buy? In order to actually make style easier, I've developed my own method for identifying your body shape. I call it the L.O.O.K method. It's revolutionary. In This Episode: The challenges and limitations of some of the more common style types What these systems lack--and what it means for you Why I talk about the 4 Body Shapes My revolutionary "L.O.O.K. Method", a simple and effective approach to understanding your body shape Why learning how to dress yourself and understanding your own body is more valuable than relying on a specific typing system. Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/whats-your-type 

If honest conversations about finances make you want to bury your head in the sand, STOP! Before you skip this episode, my guest today will help you to face your money anxiety and help you to become more financially savvy.  Shannah Game is an award-winning Money Wellness Expert, host of the Everyone’s Talkin’ Money podcast (with 25 million downloads), a certified financial planner with an MBA, an entrepreneur, educator, and certified Trauma of Money Specialist. In this episode, we discuss the concept of money trauma and how our childhood experiences shape our beliefs and habits around money. Shannah also highlights the unique financial challenges that women face, such as the gender pay gap and the fact that women tend to live longer and spend their retirement savings taking care of their partners. Shannah provides some practical tips for improving our financial health and encourages us to have open conversations about money, both with ourselves and with our children, to create a healthier mindset around finances.  Overall, Shannah's message was clear: money is more mental than it is math. By changing our thoughts and beliefs about money, we can improve our relationship with it and create a better financial future for ourselves. Shannah was also kind enough to answer some individual questions for our Style Circle members, and those are in the Extra Credit Podcast. If you aren't a Style Circle member, the Extra Credit podcast is just one of the exclusive benefits available in the membership. Check out the full list of what's included and join our amazing community now!  In This Episode: How money trauma affects our relationship with money and is more common than you might think Why it's important to examine our thoughts and beliefs about money and make a conscious effort to change them Practical ways to improve your financial health The unique money challenges that women face How you can secure a better financial future for you and your family! Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/shannah-game

Are you one of the 40% of U.S. adults who made a New Year’s Resolution this year? If you are, how’s that going for ya? Studies show that most people abandon their good New Year’s intentions by January 18. Hopefully, you’re still going strong. But if you’re not, this episode may be able to help get you back on track. I’m breaking down the five most common resolutions and sharing how your wardrobe can help you achieve them. So often, we tell ourselves, “I’ll have a better wardrobe ‘when'”. When I lose weight. When I go back to work. When I have a better social life. Sound familiar? I want to encourage you to flip your thinking and instead say, “I’ll have a better wardrobe ‘so'”. So I can lose weight. So I can get the job I want. So I can get out there more. Sounds better, doesn’t it? Whether your goals are New Year’s based or not, this episode will help you use your wardrobe as a super powerful tool to help you crush them. In this episode: Why your wardrobe is a better catalyst for change than a reward How frumpy gym clothes can sabotage your fitness goals The recent trend that boosts your mental well-being How up-leveling your style can help improve your finances The truth about waiting until you reach your goal weight to dress better Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/wardrobe-help-reach-your-goals

At the beginning of 2023, I created a bucket list full of style-related tasks that I wanted to accomplish during the year. Some were easy, some were not so easy, and some of them I even managed to tick off without meaning to! However, all of them were designed to move my style forward. So, in this episode, I'm holding myself accountable, looking back to see how I did...and sharing the lessons I learned along the way. The second part of my 2023 bucket list recap is coming soon as an Extra Credit episode. This exclusive podcast is one of the incredible benefits available for Style Circle members - so if you aren't already a member, join us today. The amazing community within the Style Circle is another way to hold yourself accountable. So if you want to take your style to another level in 2024, find out more here.  Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/style-bucket-list-recap 

The temperatures might be dropping, but your style will be heating up after listening to this episode. It’s Winter Trend Time! In this episode,  I’m sharing 10 trends for the season that you can use to look current, and boost your spirits while the days are cold and short. Listen and learn what's trending for the season, and tips for making the trends work for you. I hope this episode gives you some insight into what’s big this season and gives you some practical tips for making it easy to keep your wardrobe looking fresh and current. Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/winter-trends-2023

If you're anything like me, you're probably starting to get into the holiday spirit and feeling excited about seeing friends and family, and hosting parties. But let's be real, entertaining can be stressful. The pressure to make everything perfect and live up to social media standards can really take the fun out of it. Luckily, my guest today has some great ideas (and the perfect skill set) to help us all make one part of the holidays a little more enjoyable. One of the key takeaways is to remember our "why" - why are we hosting this party? By focusing on the reason we're doing this, we can let go of the pressure to make everything perfect. Friends, let's all make the holidays, especially entertaining, a little easier this year.  Another thing that can add to the holiday pressure is figuring out what to wear. To help you have a fabulous festive season, I've put together a FREE Workshop happening Tuesday, Nov 21 at 1:00 Eastern. In this one-hour Zoom chat, I'll be sharing: What to wear to any event, even when the dress code isn't clear Holiday outfit ideas that don't include a tired red sweater The #1 tip for looking better in your holiday photos Plus, I'll be answering your holiday-style questions. Click here to register. I hope to see you there! In this episode: Melissa's top tips for simple holiday entertaining The top party stressors for hosts--and how to solve them. How to make cleaning up after a party easier Melissa's one simple trick that can wow any crowd About Melissa Gugni: Melissa Gugni is a San Francisco Bay Area professional organizer who helps clients feel a sense of calm and order at home. She's also the co-owner of Union Larder, an award-winning wine bar, and Little Vine, a wine and cheese shop. With that, today she is combining her knowledge of catering with her organizational skills to show us how to reduce stress and enjoy the process of hosting a party. Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/melissa-gugni  

Today, I'm sharing five reasons you're in a style rut! It's part 2 of our style rut series, and it might be just what you need to shake things up, and get out of the style doldrums! If you're bored by your wardrobe, and buying more clothes doesn't seem to help, this episode is for you. If you feel like actually loving your wardrobe is a concept just for other people, this episode is for you. If you're always struggling to get dressed, and you don't know why, this episode is for you In last week's episode, I talked about a very specific type of Style Rut, which happens when you're trying to develop a Signature Style, but end up more bored and uninspired than you were before. This week, we're covering general style ruts - the kind that sneak up on you for seemingly no reason. I've got 5 reasons (or habits) that might have got you there in the first place. In this episode: The "I have nothing to wear" solution that is actually causing you to have nothing to wear Why dressing your "best" can lead to feeling bored and constrained How to change your shopping perspective so you can bust out of a rut that's a little too comfortable The Signature Style Challenge is a great way to bust out of your Style Rut, and it starts November 14 in the Style Circle Community! Not only will you get the Challenge for free, you'll also have access to ALL of our masterclasses, including Signature Style, Dress Your Body Shape like a Pro, The Ultimate Closet Makeover, and of course, our famous Capsule Wardrobe Guides. If you're not a member yet, join us today.  Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/five-reasons-style-rut

If you've ever tried to have better, more authentic, personal..dare we say Signature style and ended up feeling like you just wear the same thing all the time, this episode is for you! Over the next two episodes, I'll be talking about Style Ruts--what they are, why they happen, and how to get out of them. Every woman falls into a Style Rut now and then, including me. If you're not sure what a Style Rut is, basically, it's a major case of the wardrobe blahs. Nothing lights you up, everything feels the same, and getting dressed is a chore--especially for things outside your daily routines. There are lots of reasons we fall into style ruts, but today, we're talking about a very specific type of style rut--that is, when you're consciously working on developing your style, but things are getting worse, instead of better. The good news is, there's a reason your Signature Style is turning into a Style Rut--and today, we're uncovering what that is! In this episode: Three things Signature Style and Style Ruts have in common. Three ways Signature Style and Style Ruts are completely different. Where most people take a wrong turn in their quest for Signature Style (that leads to a style rut) Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/signature-style-or-style-rut

Does where you live influence your style? And if it does, which has the better style - the East Coast or the West Coast?  Obviously, we're not going to pretend to be able to settle this topic once and for all in a single podcast episode! However, we do explore whether regional style can truly exist in a world where retail chains offer the same items across the country, and around the world. To dig deeper into this topic, we've invited two experts, both Certified Stylists in the Everyday Style Network. Representing the West Coast is Morgen Peters, a wife and mother of four who's passionate about helping women create casual wardrobes that suit their current life phase. On the East Coast, we have Katie Valentine, who believes great style is about showing up rather than showing off. She equips her clients with the tools to embrace their signature style and build wardrobes that complement their lifestyle. We talked about things that would look out of place on each coast, as well as their closet staples, and of course, how to make the same merchandise we all have access to look individual and appropriate for any regional style. In other super exciting news, The Style Network Training program is coming back! The next round starts October 30, and we've updated the program so that you can take part wherever you are in the world! Plus, we've added four incredible bonuses to help you through the biggest roadblocks new business owners face. If you've ever thought a wardrobe styling business could be right for you, you owe it to yourself to take the next step to your dream career! Visit our new Style Network website for more details! In this episode: Katie and Morgen's different routes to becoming successful professional stylists Does where you live affect how you dress? Hear Katie and Morgen's definitions of East and West Coast style. The trends that Katie and Morgen are seeing in their respective areas Their Responses to a Style Advice Speed Round Katie and Morgen's experiences of being part of the Style Network and why they love helping women find their own style Don't forget, that our Fall Capsule Wardrobe is available now! It's the blueprint for an effortlessly stylish wardrobe. The Guide is available in the Style Circle membership, where you also get access to all 5 of our Style Masterclasses, our Facebook Community, and lots of other style resources. Plus, you get our exclusive members-only podcast, The Everyday Style School: Extra Credit. Join the membership and get ev