

The Happiness Podcast
Anthony De Mello/The DeMello Spirituality Center
This series of 3 to 5 minute podcasts of Anthony DeMello awaken you to the simple truth that you possess everything you need right now to be living a happy, meaningful and rich life.
Episodes
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Feb 8, 2020 • 7min
40 - Listen and Unlearn
A spiritual teacher contrasts being jolted awake by suffering with waking up through attentive listening. Listening is presented as openness, not agreement, and a tool for unlearning limiting beliefs. The conversation challenges listeners to test ideas, notice resistance, and reconsider religious, political, social, and psychological assumptions.

Feb 4, 2020 • 6min
39 - Is There Any Way to Know You Are In Touch With Reality?
A spicy exploration of whether reality can be known directly. Listeners are invited to spot when perception resists every neat formula. The talk stresses that guides can point out the unreal but cannot deliver the real. It urges stepping alone into the unknown and describes the strange mix of terror and freedom that follows.

Jan 30, 2020 • 14min
38 - How to Transform Your Being
A clear call to transform your inner being rather than just actions. Exploration of repentance as a new way of seeing, not guilt. An invitation to replace willpower with willingness to think differently. A challenge to recognize suffering as conditioned reaction, and to test openness to true change.

Jan 23, 2020 • 12min
37 - What You Call Happiness ... Isn''t
A reflection on Anthony DeMello's idea that what we call happiness is often mere excitement tied to people or events. The talk contrasts un-caused, un-selfconscious joy with self-aware striving. It explores how effort can change behavior but not being, and how vigilant awareness, abandonment of craving, and nature’s timing allow authentic inner change.

Jan 15, 2020 • 4min
36 - An Exercise in Dying
A guided reflection invites you to imagine the circumstances of your death to spark awareness. It prompts choices about being awake or accompanied and the words you might want in your final moments. The practice encourages savoring ordinary experiences and reliving gratitude for life. Silence and quiet prayer are used to deepen the reflection and presence.

Jan 8, 2020 • 5min
35 - Perfect Love
A meditation on true love versus craving, exploring how dependency and expectations destroy connection. Reflections on inner searching and how longing and cultural programming shape suffering. A look at desire, ambition, and how needing someone creates fear rather than freedom.

Dec 21, 2019 • 7min
34 - God
A reflective journey about how fixed ideas blind us to the divine presence around us. Stories and analogies reveal the limits of language and the danger of mistaking labels for reality. The practice of 'heart' listening, seeing, and quiet observation is explored as a way to perceive what is already before us. Beauty and silence are presented as gateways to deeper recognition.

Dec 2, 2019 • 5min
33 - Suffering is a Sign
A philosophical take on how suffering signals being out of touch with reality. Pain is framed as a marker pointing to personal illusions and areas needing growth. Practical ideas on observing negative feelings without self-blame are explored. The conversation traces how understanding and dissociating from emotions can reduce depression over time.

Dec 2, 2019 • 3min
32 - Turning Desire Into Preferences
A reflection on desire as life energy and the risk of suppressing it. A discussion about understanding desires rather than renouncing them. How seeing desires' true worth can shift them into gentle preferences. Thoughts on keeping preferences without letting any one determine your happiness. A meditation on wakefulness and reducing illusion-driven unhappiness.

Nov 29, 2019 • 5min
31 - The Harder You Try to Change, the Worse It Get
A talk on spiritual greed and our attachment to peace. It explores being content amid tension and why forcing relaxation backfires. Listeners are urged to simply observe sensations and allow awareness to let reality change them. The piece challenges goal-oriented striving and highlights how true transformation arises naturally when ego steps aside.


