PSR Podcast

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Linda McDonald, a licensed marriage and family therapist, to discuss her personal journey through betrayal, divorce, and healing on her own after her husband’s affair. Linda shares how her experience inspired her new book, “Redeeming the Post-Affair Divorce,” and introduces the term “betrandoned” to describe the unique, compounded grief of betrayal and abandonment. We explore the stigma, shame, and lack of closure in post-affair divorce, and Linda offers honest, faith-filled advice for finding hope, support, and true forgiveness after deep relational trauma.To learn more about Linda and get her book, visit LindaJMacDonald.com.Topics Covered in this Episode:Personal experiences of betrayal and divorceThe concept of "betrandoned" (betrayal + abandon) and its implicationsCompounded grief associated with infidelity and divorceDifferences in societal perceptions of widows versus divorceesThe stigma and shame surrounding divorce due to infidelityThe lack of rituals and support for those experiencing divorce from infidelityThe process of recovery and the importance of brutal honestyThe role of forgiveness in healing from betrayalThe significance of finding supportive communities and resourcesThe potential for redemption and hope after trauma and lossMore Resources:Redeeming the Post-Affair Divorce* by Linda MacDonaldRedeeming the Post-Affair Divorce Workbook*"Betrandoned" YouTube PlaylistRelated Podcasts:Betrayed and Abandoned on Affair Healing PodcastDealing with Divorce, Betrayal Trauma, and HopeIs There Hope After Divorce Due to Sexual Betrayal?*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I welcome back Kristin Cary to explore the mind-body connection, especially how our bodies respond to trauma and betrayal. Kristin shares insights from her ministry, Living Truth, explaining how God designed our nervous systems to protect us through natural responses like fight, flight, or freeze. We discuss the importance of compassion over shame, practical grounding techniques (like the butterfly hug; even walking or jogging), and the vital role of community in healing. Kristin encourages us to honor our bodies as God’s creation and to approach trauma recovery with patience, curiosity, and faith.To learn more about Kristin and her ministry, visit Living-Truth.org. Topics Covered in this Episode:The mind-body connection and its relevance to trauma.Physiological responses to trauma, including the activation of the vagus nerve and the release of stress hormones.The fight, flight, or freeze responses as natural protective mechanisms.The impact of betrayal trauma on individuals, particularly betrayed spouses.The importance of reframing bodily trauma responses as positive warning systems rather than signs of weakness.The experience of shame among Christians regarding trauma responses and faith.The significance of understanding the body's signals and their role in emotional and spiritual health.Grounding techniques and self-soothing methods to regulate the nervous system.The role of community and relational support in healing from trauma.The necessity of practicing regulation strategies in calm states to prepare for stressful situations.More Resources:Women in the BattleWives Care Online GroupsGoing Deeper for Betrayed Partners* by Eddie & Teri CapparucciRelated Podcasts:The Need for Safety in Betrayal Trauma HealingEmotional Transformation Therapy for Betrayed WivesOnline Care Groups for Wives Facing Betrayal Trauma*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with my friend and decades-long colleague, Dr. Stephen Cervantes, to explore our shared struggles with seeking approval and what it means to be an “approval junkie.” Together, we reflect on why we crave affirmation—from childhood to adulthood—and how this shapes our sense of belonging and self-worth. We discuss the dangers of letting approval define us, the role of leaders in fostering healthy communities, and ultimately, how true acceptance comes from God’s unconditional love. Join us as we unpack these honest, relatable experiences and encourage one another toward deeper healing and authentic connection.For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode:Exploration of the human need for approval and the concept of being an "approval junkie."Discussion on the origins of approval-seeking behavior rooted in early childhood development.Examination of the impact of seeking approval on self-worth and identity.Analysis of the different sources of approval, including peers, leaders, and spiritual figures.Consideration of the unhealthy aspects of excessive approval-seeking and its potential to become an addiction.Reflection on the role of leaders in affirming others and fostering healthy community dynamics.Insights into the emotional struggles associated with conditional approval and feelings of inadequacy.Discussion of "image building" and the conflict between external validation and internal acceptance.Emphasis on the importance of belonging and the safety it provides in community settings.Encouragement for listeners to seek true healing and identity through divine approval rather than human affirmation.More Resources:Going Deeper by Dr. Eddie CapparucciUnwanted by Jay StringerGateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for MenRelated Podcasts:Going Deeper: How Your Inner Child Impacts Your Sex AddictionThe Key to Real and Lasting Freedom from PornOvercoming Shame and Embracing Your True Identity----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In today’s Family Time episode, I sit down with Norma Q-Brown, our Family Care Director, to unpack the third critical conversation every parent needs to have with their child: preparing kids for exposure to sexualized content. We talk about why this comes after building trust and discussing God’s design for sex, and share practical ways to equip children for what they’ll inevitably see online or from peers. Norma offers encouragement, tips for open communication, and resources to help parents feel confident—not fearful—as they guide their kids through a sex-saturated culture with grace and understanding.For all of our Family resources, visit Bebroken.org/family.Topics Covered in this Episode:Importance of discussing feelings and emotions with children as a foundation for trust.Understanding God's design for sex and its relevance in today's culture.Preparing children for exposure to sexualized content in various media.Common sources of sexualized content that children may encounter.Barriers parents face in initiating conversations about exposure.Consequences of avoiding discussions about sexual content with children.Key principles for parents to communicate regarding exposure and boundaries.Strategies for keeping communication open and non-judgmental.Practical exercises, such as role-playing, to prepare children for potential exposure.Resources and next steps for parents to engage in these critical conversations.More Resources:Good Pictures Bad Pictures by Kristen JensonA Family Game Plan for Discussing Porn (online course)Family Integrity Trio Bundle (online courses)Related Podcasts:Helping Your Kids Know God's Good DesignBetter Screen Time for You and Your FamilyBrain Defense Digital Safety for Kids----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

Stephen Cervantes, marriage counselor known as Dr. Marriage who helps men engage emotionally, shares his journey of awakening from addiction. He talks about addiction as numbness and its cost to relationships. He describes slowing down for self-examination, the link to childhood wounds, and the role of community, courage, and faith in ongoing recovery.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Karla Summey, an APSATS coach and couples recovery specialist, to explore the “messy middle” couples face after sexual betrayal. Karla shares her personal and professional insights on navigating the emotional ups and downs, rebuilding trust, and redefining relationships. We discuss the importance of emotional regulation, transparency, and patience, emphasizing that recovery isn’t linear. Karla offers hope and practical advice for couples feeling stuck, highlighting the value of community, self-care, and taking small steps forward. It’s an honest, encouraging conversation for any couple walking this difficult road. To learn more about Karla and her resources, visit KarlaSummey.com. Topics Covered in this Episode:The concept of "the messy middle" in recovery after sexual betrayal.The emotional and relational challenges couples face during the recovery process.The importance of individual and couple growth in navigating betrayal trauma.The role of emotional regulation and communication in rebuilding trust.Common assumptions couples have about returning to their previous relationship dynamics.The significance of transparency and initiative from the betrayer in the recovery journey.The non-linear nature of recovery, including setbacks and progress.Strategies for emotional co-regulation and support between partners.The vision for couples beyond the messy middle, focusing on security and intimacy.The importance of community and shared experiences in the healing process.More Resources:Messy Middle Couple's Recovery GroupOnline Care Groups for WivesGateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for MenRelated Podcasts:Early Recovery Couples Empathy ModelThe Three Phases of Couples RecoveryThe Recovery Process for Couples----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In today’s episode, I sit down with Mary DeMuth, author of Restory Your Life, to talk about her powerful journey from childhood trauma and sexual abuse to healing and restoration through faith in Jesus. Mary shares how storytelling, community, and embracing our identity in Christ help us move from brokenness to wholeness. We discuss the ongoing nature of healing, the importance of safe spaces to share our unfiltered stories, and how God can re-story our lives for hope and purpose. Mary’s honesty and wisdom offer encouragement for anyone seeking restoration and a new chapter in their story. To learn more about Mary and get her books, visit MaryDeMuth.com.Topics Covered in this Episode: Mary Demuth's personal journey of healing from childhood trauma and sexual abuse.The role of faith in Jesus in the healing process.The concept of restoration as a journey from brokenness to wholeness.The importance of storytelling and community in healing.The idea of "re-storying" one's life and redefining identity through faith.The ongoing nature of healing and the layers involved in trauma recovery.The significance of expressing thoughts and sharing experiences to break cycles of pain.The distinction between healing and maturing in the context of personal growth.Practical tools for restoration, including journaling and reflecting on one's story.The need for safe spaces in communities, particularly churches, to discuss and address issues of sexual abuse.More Resources:Restory Your Life* by Mary DeMuthThe Wall Around Your Heart* by Mary DeMuthSex & Anxiety (online course)Related Podcasts:Help and Hope for Women to Heal from Sexual AbuseLord Be Near: Finding Hope in Suffering through PrayerFreedom and Healing from Shame, Addiction, and Abuse*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Drs. Matt and Laura Burton to talk about rebuilding a marriage after sexual betrayal. We explore their personal recovery and healing journeys, the challenges of rebuilding trust, and why true recovery goes beyond just sobriety. The Burtons share insights on the importance of involving both partners, the process of compassionate disclosure, and how addressing deeper wounds is key to restoring relationships. Their warmth and expertise offer hope and practical guidance for any couple navigating the difficult path toward renewed connection and trust after infidelity or addiction.To learn more about Matt and Laura and their resources for couples, visit MyBecomingWell.com.Topics Covered in this Episode:Counseling for couples and individuals dealing with sexual addiction and infidelity.Personal recovery journeys of the speakers and their professional experiences.Challenges in rebuilding trust after sexual betrayal.The importance of involving both partners in the recovery process.Complexities of recovery beyond mere sobriety, including intimacy and attachment issues.The significance of relational healing in the recovery journey.The concept of "gentle disclosure" in the context of rebuilding trust.The emotional realities and fears faced by both partners after betrayal.The necessity of addressing underlying issues and pre-existing wounds in recovery.Resources and support available for couples navigating the aftermath of sexual betrayal.More Resources:3-Day Couple's Group IntensivesRebuilding Trust* by Matt & Laura BurtonMore Books and Workbooks by Matt & Laura BurtonRelated Podcasts:The Three Phases of Couples RecoveryHelping Couples Walk the Path of Restoration After Sexual BetrayalThe Journey to Stay (with Steve and Lisa Goldberg)*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode of "Family Time," I sit down with Norma Q-Brown, our Family Care Director, to discuss how parents can confidently guide their kids through a sex-saturated culture. We focus on the second critical conversation: teaching children about God’s design for sex. Norma shares practical advice for having ongoing, honest, and grace-filled talks, addressing common barriers and emphasizing the importance of building trust.We encourage parents to be vulnerable, seek God’s wisdom, and create a safe space for questions—reminding everyone that these conversations are a journey we take together as families.For all our Family Care resources, visit Bebroken.org/family.Topics Covered in this Episode:Introduction of the "Family Time" segment aimed at helping parents engage with their children.Discussion on the importance of proactive conversations about sex from a biblical perspective.Emphasis on the foundational elements of family care ministry, particularly "God's Design for Sex."The significance of teaching children about authority and God's design in a sex-saturated culture.Explanation of covenant relationships and the boundaries set by God regarding sex.Challenges parents face in discussing sex, including personal trauma and cultural pressures.The importance of ongoing, age-appropriate conversations about sex and sexuality.Strategies for parents to foster open dialogue, including asking questions and being honest.Resources and tools available for parents to aid in these discussions.Encouragement for parents to seek God's wisdom and guidance in navigating these conversations.Resources for Next Steps:Critical Conversation Online Course (free)God Made Your Body* by Jim BurnsHonest Talk: The GameFor more parenting podcasts, go to Bebroken.org/tp-pods and scroll to Family Bundles.*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Anne Edward, who shares her powerful journey from childhood trauma and same-sex attraction to finding hope, healing, and her true identity in Jesus Christ. Anne opens up about her struggles, the process of forgiveness, and how embracing her God-given identity led to transformation. We discuss why true change goes deeper than behavior—it's about understanding who we are in Christ. Anne now leads Restored Hope Network, helping others find freedom from sexual brokenness. Our conversation is honest, compassionate, and full of encouragement for anyone wrestling with identity or seeking wholeness in faith.To learn more about Anne and Restored Hope Network, visit RestoredHopeNetwork.org. Topics Covered in this Episode:Anne's personal story of overcoming sexual brokenness and trauma.The impact of childhood trauma on identity and sexual attraction.The journey to faith in Jesus Christ and the challenges faced post-conversion.The importance of forgiveness and inner healing in personal growth.The role of identity, particularly sexual identity, in struggles with sexual brokenness.The distinction between behavior modification and addressing core identity issues.The dangers of defining identity solely by sexual attractions and behaviors.The significance of understanding identity as rooted in God's design and purpose.Approaches for Christians to engage compassionately with those struggling with identity issues.A message of hope and healing through God's grace and the importance of trusting in Him.More Resources:Hope 2026 ConferenceSuch Were Some of You (Documentary)Changed MovementRelated Podcasts:Am I Gay? (with Garry Ingraham)Helping Parents Respond with Truth and Love to their LGBTQ-Identifying ChildChanged: The Amazing Transformation of a Former Lesbian Pastor----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.