The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Civility Media
Communicate with confidence so you can argue less and talk more.Every episode of The Jefferson Fisher Podcast is packed with actionable strategies you can implement today to improve the way you communicate.Make your next conversation the one that changes everything.New episodes every Tuesday.The Jefferson Fisher Podcast on YoutubeListen on Apple PodcastsListen or watch on SpotifyOrder my book The Next ConversationJoin my School of CommunicationSubscribe to my NewsletterFollow me on InstagramFollow me on TikTokFollow me on LinkedIn
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33 snips
Apr 1, 2026 • 3min
I Launched Something New for You
A creator announces a new premium membership with ad-free shows, exclusive bonus content, and monthly AMAs. They explain how listening to comments shaped the offering. A personal thank-you and a limited founder’s promo are also shared.
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Mar 31, 2026 • 1h 39min
Harvard Professor: 4 Secrets to a Happy Marriage (Backed by Neuroscience)
Arthur Brooks, a behavioral scientist and Harvard teacher of happiness, explores why achievement can feel empty. He discusses how busyness erodes relationships, neuroscience-backed habits for stronger marriage and friendships, the crisis of meaning in tech culture, and how struggle and surrender often reveal purpose. Short, practical conversations on ambition, digital detox, and building a life that truly matters.
191 snips
Mar 24, 2026 • 20min
Be More Direct in 3 Sentences
Short, sharp communication tricks for saying what you mean in three sentences. Why customer service calls are the perfect practice field for brevity. A simple three-step formula: state the issue, the impact, and the fix. Tips for pushing toward clear solutions and avoiding long background stories.
110 snips
Mar 17, 2026 • 22min
Weak Boundaries Sound Like This
A concise guide to why over-explaining weakens your limits. Short examples show how extra reasons invite negotiation. Practical tips teach one-breath no's, brief phrases, and repetition to protect your time and energy. Simple language and ready-to-use lines for firmer boundaries.
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Mar 10, 2026 • 19min
3 Habits of Strong Adult Friendships
Life gets in the way of real connection, so stop waiting for others to reach out and learn to initiate. Build predictable rhythms like regular calls or monthly dinners to keep relationships alive. Move past small talk by gradually sharing more honest, personal things. Be intentional about who you invest in and let go of surface-level ties.
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Mar 3, 2026 • 34min
Top 5 Communication Habits We’re Teaching Our Kids
Practical parenting habits for teaching kids to talk about big feelings and repair mistakes. Real examples of apologizing out loud and modeling recovery. Simple breath cues and rules for safe arguing and sibling conflict. Ways to coach kids to ask for what they need and to take perspective. Tips for creating a home where honesty feels safe.
240 snips
Feb 24, 2026 • 23min
Stop Overexplaining
A practical crash course in staying calm and clear when pressure spikes. Techniques for slowing the moment with a breathing first word. Tips on pausing before you reply and answering only what was asked. Advice on keeping responses short and letting others draw information rather than oversharing.
90 snips
Feb 17, 2026 • 21min
The 3 Signs You’re Being Gaslit (And What to Do About It)
A clear breakdown of three telltale signs that someone is manipulating your sense of reality. Short cues to spot shifting conversation tactics and moments that leave you doubting yourself. Simple phrases to stay grounded and speak up in the moment. A look inward at patterns that make people unintentionally gaslight others and how to begin repairing those habits.
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Feb 10, 2026 • 25min
How to Set Boundaries That Actually Create Peace
They unpack how constant hurry and chronic busyness erode relationships and inner calm. You hear metaphors that clarify pace versus volume and why margin matters. Practical habits are offered like brain dumps and new phrases to protect focus. The conversation nudges listeners to slow down, set boundaries, and reclaim spontaneous connection.
114 snips
Feb 3, 2026 • 30min
Stop Arguing With Narcissists — Do This Instead
They unpack why logic fails with manipulators and how arguments turn into endurance tests. You hear how emotions get weaponized to flip your values against you. Practical tactics are shared: keep replies short, use neutral one-liners, and a single sentence that stops escalation.
