The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Civility Media
Communicate with confidence so you can argue less and talk more.Every episode of The Jefferson Fisher Podcast is packed with actionable strategies you can implement today to improve the way you communicate.Make your next conversation the one that changes everything.New episodes every Tuesday.The Jefferson Fisher Podcast on YoutubeListen on Apple PodcastsListen or watch on SpotifyOrder my book The Next ConversationJoin my School of CommunicationSubscribe to my NewsletterFollow me on InstagramFollow me on TikTokFollow me on LinkedIn
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May 12, 2026 • 1h 21min
How to Make Any Person Feel Seen with Will Guidara
Will Guidara, restaurateur and author who led Eleven Madison Park to global acclaim, shares how presence and small moments shape real connection. He talks about intentional listening, building team rituals, thoughtful criticism, and making spaces safe to share. Expect stories about restaurants, The Bear, and turning hospitality into a communication practice.
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May 5, 2026 • 47min
Jefferson Fisher Takes YOUR Calls | Ask Me Anything
Listeners hear raw voicemail Q&A about partners who struggle to show emotion and practical ways to invite expression. The show tackles refused forgiveness and how to forgive yourself while waiting. Conversations cover asking for fair pay without burning bridges and confronting a child’s stealing with compassion and firm limits. Leadership shifts and how to speak directly while keeping trust also come up.
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Apr 28, 2026 • 1h 5min
Why You Overthink Every Conversation After It Ends ft. Shadé Zahrai
Shadé Zahrai, an organizational behavior researcher and author of Big Trust, studies self-doubt and workplace confidence. She maps four inner voices that shape post-conversation rumination. The conversation covers why doubt spikes after talks, how naming voices creates distance, and four trainable self-trust attributes to change how you show up.
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Apr 21, 2026 • 23min
3 Ways You’re Weakening Your Message Without Knowing It
Learn three subtle communication mistakes that wreck conversations: leaning on absolutes, overexplaining, and ignoring the power of the first seven seconds. Hear practical fixes for wording, brevity with a three-sentence rule, and how tone and posture set the conversation’s course. Quick reset phrases help recover a rough start.
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Apr 14, 2026 • 54min
Stop Letting Emotions Make Decisions with Emma Grede
Emma Grede, entrepreneur and founding partner of Skims and CEO of Good American, shares a no-nonsense approach to leadership and self-direction. She talks about commanding presence, clear communication, spotting red flags in relationships, and why women should keep emotions out of decision-making. The conversation highlights grit, incremental progress, and treating work-life focus as seasonal.
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Apr 7, 2026 • 22min
3 Steps to Say the Hard Thing
A breakdown of why avoiding difficult conversations reshapes relationships and keeps everyone stuck in a false reality. Topics include the common things we dodge like boundaries and blunt truths. Discussion of a mindset that trusts others can handle hard news and the idea of giving people agency to respond. Practical steps cover labeling the talk, stating the truth up front, pausing, and scheduling the conversation.
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Apr 1, 2026 • 3min
I Launched Something New for You
A creator announces a new premium membership with ad-free shows, exclusive bonus content, and monthly AMAs. They explain how listening to comments shaped the offering. A personal thank-you and a limited founder’s promo are also shared.
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Mar 31, 2026 • 1h 39min
Harvard Professor: 4 Secrets to a Happy Marriage (Backed by Neuroscience)
Arthur Brooks, a behavioral scientist and Harvard teacher of happiness, explores why achievement can feel empty. He discusses how busyness erodes relationships, neuroscience-backed habits for stronger marriage and friendships, the crisis of meaning in tech culture, and how struggle and surrender often reveal purpose. Short, practical conversations on ambition, digital detox, and building a life that truly matters.
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Mar 24, 2026 • 20min
Be More Direct in 3 Sentences
Short, sharp communication tricks for saying what you mean in three sentences. Why customer service calls are the perfect practice field for brevity. A simple three-step formula: state the issue, the impact, and the fix. Tips for pushing toward clear solutions and avoiding long background stories.
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Mar 17, 2026 • 22min
Weak Boundaries Sound Like This
A concise guide to why over-explaining weakens your limits. Short examples show how extra reasons invite negotiation. Practical tips teach one-breath no's, brief phrases, and repetition to protect your time and energy. Simple language and ready-to-use lines for firmer boundaries.
