The Niche Is You

Matthew Gottesman
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Aug 1, 2023 • 24min

Don’t Try to Get Everything Exactly Right the First Time

In this episode, I talk about not trying to get everything right the first time, perfection stalls performance, make it as easy as possible to start from scratch with little risk, managing the inner critic in your head, approaching everything as one step at a time versus taking on the end vision, treating everything like a first draft so you can make things happen immediately and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352My writing mattgottesman.substack.com FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life (Clarity Crash Course): Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-lifeOther Related Episodes:The Real Imposter Syndrome is Not Being Who You Were Meant to BeApple: https://apple.co/3OycwpP Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3rGATbY Book referenced in this episode - Effortless: Make it Easier to Do What Matters Most
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Jul 28, 2023 • 22min

The Real Imposter Syndrome is Not Being Who You Were Meant to Be

In this episode, I talk about imposter syndrome, how it might come more from not doing and being the things you’re called to, how perfectionism keeps us from seeing all that we’ve accomplished, how a lack of credentials hold us back, how new challenges allow us to be more of who we really are, avoiding the comparison trap, not caving to high expectations of others and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352My writing mattgottesman.substack.com FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life (Clarity Crash Course): Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-lifeOther Related Episodes:Don’t Be Afraid to Start OverApple: https://apple.co/3OakfJw Spotify: https://spoti.fi/44K1cwB 
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Jul 27, 2023 • 26min

Don’t Be Afraid to Start Over

In this episode, I talk about not being afraid to start over, that you’re never starting from the beginning but from experience, my own personal accounts of starting over 7+ times over the past decade, why we need consistency, key takeaways from my journey, being flexible with the things you don’t expect, dealing with changes and disruptions, showing up when the motivation isn’t there and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352My writing mattgottesman.substack.com FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life (Clarity Crash Course): Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-lifeOther Related Episodes:Stop Resisting the Season You Are In & Start Embracing It InsteadApple: https://apple.co/44rwisNSpotify: https://spoti.fi/3Y3fbLx 
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Jul 25, 2023 • 33min

How to Be a Better Communicator - Pt. 2

In this episode, I talk about understanding our communication styles, having and using more than one style depending on the context and environment, the power of active listening, using non-verbal communication, having empathy and emotional intelligence in all types of conversations and interactions, being more clear and direct, giving and receiving feedback, solving conflicts, forgiveness and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352My writing mattgottesman.substack.com FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life (Clarity Crash Course): Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-lifeOther Related Episodes:How to Be a Better Communicator - Pt 1Apple: https://apple.co/3fv7rj4Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3M6sYLl  
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Jul 21, 2023 • 22min

Stop Resisting the Season You Are In & Start Embracing It Instead

In this episode, I talk about not resisting our tough seasons, what happens when we stay in resistance versus embracing them, what we miss when we stay in resistance versus what we expand on when we embrace, allowing new energy and new opportunities into our world that are trying to reach us, expanding our self-love and gifts and talents, as well as our communication with self, God and others and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352My writing mattgottesman.substack.com FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life (Clarity Crash Course): Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-lifeOther Related Episodes:Are You Seeking Information or Are You Seeking AnswersApple: https://apple.co/3DkeMec Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3PY4x6P 
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Jul 20, 2023 • 23min

Don't Seek Approval of the World, Seek to Be a Light In It

In this episode, I talk about why we seek approval from others and how to stop, how fitting in is NOT part of the plan while you’re here, developing your curiosity, commitment and devotion to be more in your purpose, validating your own choices and decisions, loving your own path, 5 questions to ask yourself (journal prompt) and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352My writing mattgottesman.substack.com FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life (Clarity Crash Course): Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-lifeOther Related Episodes:Authenticity is Recovering the Part of Yourself You Abandoned to be PracticalApple: https://apple.co/3NpUt3mSpotify: https://urlgeni.us/spotify/authenticity 
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Jul 18, 2023 • 21min

Are You Seeking Information or Are You Seeking Answers

In this episode, I talk about the differences between seeking too much information and learning answers from doing, how less productive you are from always needing more info, being in the game gives you every answer you’re looking for, how to experiment for answers instead of ask for what to do, why we overthink and procrastinate and how to get out of it and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352My writing mattgottesman.substack.com FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life (Clarity Crash Course): Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-lifeOther Related Episodes:Sometimes When You Think You’re Behind, You’re Right On TimeApple: https://apple.co/46eu4OV Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42XMi4n 
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Jul 14, 2023 • 23min

3 Big Decisions - What You Do, Where You Live & Who You’re With

In this episode, I talk about 3 main decisions that will guide your entire life which will determine how to navigate personal fulfillment, skill development, impact, environments, opportunities, connection with nature, emotional support, personal growth, love & companionship and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352My writing mattgottesman.substack.com FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life (Clarity Crash Course): Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-lifeOther Related Episodes:Sometimes When You Think You’re Behind, You’re Right On TimeApple: https://apple.co/46eu4OV Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42XMi4n 
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Jul 13, 2023 • 22min

How to Better Understand Your Intuition

In this episode, I talk about why we get sudden feelings of “knowing,” having an “it just came to me moment,” learning to distinguish between your conditioned mind and your intuitive guidance (soul), cultivating balance between intuition and rational thinking, questions you can ask yourself to better understand what your intuition is telling you and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352My writing mattgottesman.substack.com FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life (Clarity Crash Course): Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-lifeOther Related Episodes:Sometimes When You Think You’re Behind, You’re Right On TimeApple: https://apple.co/46eu4OV Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42XMi4n 
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Jul 11, 2023 • 20min

It’s Not Annoying or Cringe, Promote Yourself, Your Art or Your Work

In this episode, I talk about dealing with the fear of promoting yourself, your work, your art or your brand / mission, how you might be more of a natural than you think at promoting yourself, how your creativity can help you in making it a good business, remembering that your audience is always growing and you need to always be promoting and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352My writing mattgottesman.substack.com FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life (Clarity Crash Course): Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-lifeOther Related Episodes:Authenticity is Recovering the Part of Yourself You Abandoned to Be Practical Apple: https://apple.co/3NpUt3m Spotify: https://urlgeni.us/spotify/authenticity 

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