The Niche Is You

Matthew Gottesman
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Aug 22, 2023 • 22min

Don’t Build For Society’s Direction of Success, Build For Your Soul’s Direction of Purpose

In this episode, I talk about understanding what your soul wants versus what society says you should want, getting a clear direction on what feels aligned for you, redefining your own success principles, having a spiritual mentor, questioning why you want what you want, observing areas that deplete you and invigorate you, observing the wins you didn’t see and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352My writing mattgottesman.substack.com FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life (Clarity Crash Course): Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-lifeOther Related Episodes:When You’re Done Trying to Be Something You’re Not, Everything Will Take OffApple: https://apple.co/3qln2rySpotify: https://spoti.fi/3qAjT71
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Aug 21, 2023 • 24min

It’s Not About Being the Best, It’s About Being the Only

In this episode, I talk about not competing with the world but working to be 1-of-1 (the only), redefining your life’s work as a unique expression, creating something that reflects who you are, pursuing intrinsic fulfillment not external validation, your uniqueness and creating value for others has a ripple effect, embracing your individuality without reservation, removing comparison and creating distinctness, creating without conformity and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352My writing mattgottesman.substack.com FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life (Clarity Crash Course): Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-lifeOther Related Episodes:When You’re Done Trying to Be Something You’re Not, Everything Will Take OffApple: https://apple.co/3qln2rySpotify: https://spoti.fi/3qAjT71
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Aug 17, 2023 • 23min

"I Pray For You" Is Someone Wishing Abundance Over You

In this episode, I talk about the power and abundance of prayer, what praying does for us at a spiritual, emotional, mental and physical level, what happens when we put intention and energy behind prayer, healing ourselves, resolving internal and external conflict, receiving more guidance, clarity and direction and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352My writing mattgottesman.substack.com FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life (Clarity Crash Course): Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-lifeOther Related Episodes:Are Our Prayers Always Being AnsweredApple: https://apple.co/3R4V4ZPSpotify: https://spoti.fi/3HpI8uq
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Aug 15, 2023 • 24min

You Can Be Kind & Have Boundaries

In this episode, I talk about the balance between being kind and having boundaries, understanding where to implement more boundaries, being nice but not naive, being honest and direct while also having grace and respect, the top 5 reasons why people lack boundaries, how to become more self-aware and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352My writing mattgottesman.substack.com FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life (Clarity Crash Course): Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-lifeOther Related Episodes:Growth is the Art of Becoming Someone You LoveApple: https://apple.co/3MxBuniSpotify: https://spoti.fi/3Mt80Xy
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Aug 14, 2023 • 22min

When You’re Done Trying to Be Something You’re Not, Everything Else Will Take Off

In this episode, I talk about surrendering to your talents and gifts instead of the image you were trying to live up to, why being ourselves helps our entire lives take off, the maturity of being authentic, aligning with who you really are instead of trying to fit in for everyone else’s sake, removing the fear of disappointing others, not being afraid to do things that don’t look as appealing to others and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352My writing mattgottesman.substack.com FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life (Clarity Crash Course): Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-lifeOther Related Episodes:Don’t Be Afraid to Start OverApple: https://apple.co/3OakfJwSpotify: https://spoti.fi/44K1cwB
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Aug 10, 2023 • 20min

Practice Like You’ve Never Won. Play Like You’ve Never Lost

In this episode, I talk about Michael Jordan’s famous quote, “practice like you’ve never won, play like you’ve never lost,” having a balance approach to work and life, maintaining humility and strong work ethic while also embodying confidence and optimism, the attributes of practicing like you’ve never won, the characteristics of playing like you’ve never lost, examples of people throughout history who’ve had demonstrated these principles, identifying what they all had in common and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352My writing mattgottesman.substack.com FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life (Clarity Crash Course): Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-lifeOther Related Episodes:Learning to Do the Hard Things, Especially When You Don't Feel Like ItApple: https://apple.co/3QiKZKySpotify: https://spoti.fi/3QonQGo
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Aug 9, 2023 • 21min

The 1% Do What the Other 99% Don’t, So the 1% Outcomes Are Inevitable

In this episode, I talk about what the 1% do that the other 99% don’t, going the extra mile, understanding what to do with your time, learning and listening, employing more humility, acting on knowledge, limiting distractions, using self observation as a means to optimize your approach and not attack your effort, finding routines that work, finding people who’ve done it before, asking for help, experimenting, showing more than talking and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352My writing mattgottesman.substack.com FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life (Clarity Crash Course): Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-lifeOther Related Episodes:The Real Imposter Syndrome is Not Being Who You Were Meant to BeApple: https://apple.co/3OycwpPSpotify: https://spoti.fi/3rGATbY
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Aug 8, 2023 • 23min

If You’re Looking for a Path, What’s the Greatest Thing You Can Do With Your Life

In this episode, I talk about how to identify our own lane or path, looking to our youth for discovery of our purpose, removing the boundaries of “that’s not a real job” mentality to pursue our calling, identifying our “flow states,” creating time for personal reflection, asking ourselves the right questions and identifying what those questions are and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352My writing mattgottesman.substack.com FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life (Clarity Crash Course): Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-lifeOther Related Episodes:The Real Imposter Syndrome is Not Being Who You Were Meant to BeApple: https://apple.co/3OycwpPSpotify: https://spoti.fi/3rGATbY
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Aug 4, 2023 • 19min

Actualizing Our Gifts Is An Act of Devotion to God

In this episode, I talk about finding value in what we create and not through external validation, some interesting thoughts from Rick Rubin on the value as an artist, what true success is, respecting your gifts and talents and then using them, respecting the world with our authenticity, creating from a place that the audience can feel and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352My writing mattgottesman.substack.com FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life (Clarity Crash Course): Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-lifeOther Related Episodes:How to Better Understand Your IntuitionApple: https://apple.co/3XRKcStSpotify: https://spoti.fi/44p82rb
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Aug 3, 2023 • 17min

Learning to Do the Hard Things, Especially When You Don't Feel Like It

In this episode, I talk about doing the hard things, doing what feels aligned, keeping your promises to yourself, showing up everyday even when you don’t feel like it, trusting your intuition, following your soul, having more faith in your decisions, creating more consistency, practicing discipline and more!Follow me on Instagram @mattgottesmanJump on my weekly texts for the soul here 480-530-7352My writing mattgottesman.substack.com FREE Reverse Engineer Your Life (Clarity Crash Course): Time, Energy, Money, Creativity, Work, Rest & Play - https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-lifeOther Related Episodes:Everything is Hard in the Mind, Not in ExecutionApple: https://apple.co/3oKDAYw Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3LtOLha 

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