

The Dildorks
Billy Lore, Kate Sloan
Sex nerds and best friends Billy (billylore.com) and Kate (katesloan.com) talk about all things sex, dating, and masturbating.
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Oct 15, 2024 • 52min
Are You Mad At Me?
Dive into the intriguing nuances of fear and rejection. The conversation touches on the challenges of seeking reassurance in relationships and the impact of cultural perceptions. Explore how experiences shape personal identities, especially in communities like incels, and discover the role of hormones in self-awareness. With a sprinkle of humor, the speakers share their content creation struggles and the ethics behind sponsored content, ensuring an entertaining mix of introspection and light-hearted anecdotes.

Oct 8, 2024 • 1h 1min
The Brush-Off Blues
As Halloween approaches, the hosts dive into the fear of rejection, sharing personal stories shaped by the pandemic. They explore the journey of resilience and vulnerability, especially in the context of polyamory and rejection sensitivity. The conversation highlights how societal narratives affect self-worth and relationships. They celebrate a podcast award nomination and call for community engagement, while also critiquing media portrayals of sex podcasting. A blend of humor and heartfelt reflections makes for a captivating discussion!

Oct 1, 2024 • 56min
We Heart Sadists!
Delve into the often-misunderstood world of sadism, where stigma meets consent and emotional complexity. The conversation challenges societal fears, illuminating the joy found in vulnerability and trust within BDSM dynamics. Explore the nuances of communication tools that enhance intimate connections and the contrast between fantasy and desire. The hosts reflect on how engaging with deeper emotions can enrich personal experiences, making a compelling case for the beauty and acceptance of sadist relationships in the kink community.

Sep 24, 2024 • 1h 2min
Eat Me, Drink Me
Dee Darkholme, a colorful content creator and partner of Billy Lohr, joins the discussion about a shared fascination with cannibalism kink. They explore how this unconventional desire can symbolize intimacy and love, drawing parallels to classic literature. The conversation dives into emotional complexities within polyamory, and the allure of horror tropes in media. With humor and honesty, they navigate teenage sexuality, societal norms, and intriguing size dynamics, reflecting on how these themes shape their identities and desires.

Sep 17, 2024 • 60min
Gender Splendor
Mx. Nillin Lore, author and sex blogger centering trans and nonbinary sexuality. They talk about writing a community-rooted how-to for trans joy, representation that serves insiders, and the role of body mods and furriness in gender play. Conversation also covers HRT, medical gatekeeping, and gaming as a space for experimenting with identity.

Sep 10, 2024 • 1h 3min
Ready For Anything
This week, the hosts dive into the art of preparation for first dates, threesomes, and even kink conventions. They emphasize the importance of mental readiness and open communication, especially in intimate situations. With personal anecdotes, they tackle managing anxiety and setting boundaries. Listeners will appreciate tips for navigating new relationships, particularly when dealing with New Relationship Energy. The conversation is sprinkled with humor as they reflect on past crushes and the joys of community engagement.

Sep 3, 2024 • 1h 2min
Service with a Smile
This discussion dives into the complexities of service kink, examining its ties to intimacy and trauma. The hosts explore how personal experiences shape desires, emphasizing the therapeutic benefits of giving and receiving service within relationships. They share anecdotes about finding joy in acts of service, the interplay between praise and self-worth, and the emotional rewards that come from recognition. The conversation even humorously touches on the fantasy of live music as a unique form of connection in everyday life.

Aug 27, 2024 • 1h 7min
The 400th One
The hosts celebrate a major milestone, reflecting on their growth and evolution over 400 episodes. They delve into the complexities of dating, discussing kinks, polyamory, and the importance of honest communication. Revisiting their past tweets sparks hilarious nostalgia while highlighting their journey of self-discovery. The emotional rollercoaster of crushes is explored, emphasizing mental health and the significance of diverse identities in the LGBTQ+ community. With gratitude for their supporters, they share personal anecdotes that showcase the humor and camaraderie developed through their podcasting adventure.

Aug 20, 2024 • 50min
The Vore, The Merrier
Dive deep into the fantastical world of vore, exploring quirky animated porn clips like 'Devil's Cookie'. Discover the interplay of body transformation tropes and gender representation in adult storytelling. The discussion unveils the emotional intricacies of power dynamics in erotic fantasies, alongside societal stigma surrounding animated porn. Enjoy light-hearted banter while reflecting on nearly eight years of podcasting and the creative connections formed with fans. It's a wild mix of humor, horror, and insightful commentary on sexuality!

Aug 14, 2024 • 52min
A Flirtation with Animation
A playful dive into what animation can do that live action cannot. They tour cartoonish exaggeration, surreal fantasy scenes, and camera views that reveal inner sensations. Topics include wet-dream vibes, voodoo-doll and tentacle fantasies, campy series like Oopsie, and how voice work and neurodivergent-friendly clarity shape animated erotica.


