The Dildorks Gender Splendor
Sep 17, 2024
Mx. Nillin Lore, author and sex blogger centering trans and nonbinary sexuality. They talk about writing a community-rooted how-to for trans joy, representation that serves insiders, and the role of body mods and furriness in gender play. Conversation also covers HRT, medical gatekeeping, and gaming as a space for experimenting with identity.
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Trans Joy Provides Permission To Explore
- Seeing diverse trans joy (not just trauma) functioned as permission and opened possibilities for transition and expression.
- Mx. Nillin Lore and the hosts described gender euphoria and representations (e.g., Crash Pad) that let people imagine new ways to be in their bodies.
Ask Doctors For Tailored Gender Care Options
- Do not accept a single narrative of transition as universal; ask doctors about tailored options and dosages to preserve sexual function if desired.
- Mx. Nillin Lore urged people to seek affirming providers and highlighted alternatives like blockers or tailored HRT regimens.
Finding An Affirming Doctor Changed Everything
- Mx. Nillin Lore described traveling for care and finding a Saskatchewan doctor who offered non-gatekeeping, informed options and trained students.
- That model meant future doctors would learn affirming practices, reducing barriers for others.
