The Dildorks

This episode explores taboo kinks like intoxication, consensual non-consent, and sleepy sex. The importance of communication, boundaries, and aftercare in taboo play is emphasized. They also discuss recognizing triggers, using safewords in BDSM scenes, and exploring the effects of shrooms and intoxicants on kink. The chapter on forced-by fantasies delves into power dynamics and subversion. The hosts express gratitude, mention the episode sponsor, and discuss future episode plans.

Almost everyone’s curious about hypnosis, so we’re back this week doing Hypno 101! Learn about how trance works, what it feels like, and what kinky stuff you can do with it. Mind Play | Scripts | Pre-Talk | Negotiation | Speaking in Trance | Children | Surprises | Vetting Tops | Inductions | Relaxation | Fixation | Resisting | Confusion | Covert Hypnosis | Rapid Inductions | Coercion | Derren Brown | Are We There Yet? | Utilization | Fractionation | Triggers | Aftercare | Hypno Bondage | Love Dial | Indirect Suggestions | Phrasing | Arousal | Dials | Tools Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

We attended a hypnokink event together recently so this week we decided to chat about erotic hypnosis! Hear about our fantasies surrounding this kink, some scenes Kate has done, and some hypnosis misconceptions we love to debunk. TES Hypnokink Group | Distractions | Validity | Tricks | Orgasm Countdown | Lazy Tops | Mindlessness | Perception vs. Reality | Metaphor | Relaxing | Risks | Two Hyp Chicks | The Brainwashing Book | Fantasies | Intelligence Play | Undoing | Service | Training | Nipples Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

This week Bex sits down with Rachael Rose, a chronically ill and disabled sex educator, to talk about their shared diagnosis: ADHD! Find out how this condition intersects with sex, dating, creativity, and more.Diagnosis | ADHD Brain | Getting Things Done | Homework | Brain Engagement | Watching Movies | Gender Bias | Restlessness | Gamification | Time Blindness | Reaching Out | Notifications | Relationships | How to ADHD | Motivation | Food | Deep Dives | Noisy Brain Workshop | Distraction | Sex Tips | Joy | NRE | Long-Distance | Looking Forward Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

This podcast explores sex and kink in long-distance relationships, including tips for Skype sex, protocols in LDRs, and the decision of having sex on an airplane. They also discuss reading erotica together, concerns with Bluetooth sex toys, the importance of aftercare in virtual sexual activities, and the challenges of traveling with sex toys and gender nonconforming gear.

The hosts discuss the realities of long-distance relationships, including the impact of finances and physical ability. They explore the role of the internet in social lives and share personal stories of LDRs. They delve into the financial challenges of LDRs and reflect on the value of relationships. They also discuss monogamy vs polyamory in LDRs and navigate the complexities of maintaining a sense of connection. They joke about their Patreon being a fin dom scene and encourage listeners to live their sexy dorky life.

This podcast episode discusses Bex's recent top surgery experience and their journey of preparing for the surgery. They also touch on the use of jokes as a coping mechanism, the frustration of being misgendered at the hospital, encounters with a peculiar nurse, and the importance of pain management and recovery.

We sat down with therapist and educator Aida Manduley to discuss the psychological model known as attachment theory – how it works, why it matters, and (of course) how it relates to non-monogamy and kink! What Is Attachment Theory? | Insecure | Secure | Anxious-Preoccupied | Dismissive-Avoidant | Fearful-Avoidant | Caveats | Childhood | Abuse | What to Work On | Distress Tolerance | Different Manifestations | Becoming Secure | Feelings | Silence | How to Say No | Emergencies | Non-Monogamy | Kink | Bragging | Reinforcement | Context Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

Discussion on preparations and reasons for top surgery, misconceptions about trans people's genitals, risks and managing expectations, enduring pain vs. dealing with illness, preparations for recovery, starting the journey towards surgery, programming note and support for Bex's top surgery.

The podcast discusses awkward post-breakup situations like reclaiming belongings, saying goodbye to ex's family, and dealing with passive-aggressive tweets. They also explore wearing clothes from past relationships, navigating shared spaces with exes, rebounding, coping with loneliness, managing expectations in friendships after a breakup, and addressing negative social media posts.