Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage

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Nov 17, 2025 • 59min

Habits For A Happy Marriage, pt. 1

Dr. Randy Schroeder, a seasoned marriage therapist and author of 'Simple Habits for Marital Happiness', shares invaluable insights for couples. He emphasizes the significance of clear expectations and practical habits like meaningful hugs and eye contact. Randy suggests couples list their top expectations and frame them as requests, enhancing communication and reducing defensiveness. He also discusses essential habits for connection, respectful conflict resolution strategies, and the importance of continuous learning in marriage, making this a must-listen for all couples!
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Nov 10, 2025 • 53min

What Is Best for Each Other & Best For Your Marriage

Greg and Erin Smalley discuss the importance of maintaining relational skills in marriage with Roger and Kathy Lipp, who discuss their blended family and their adventures in team-building. We delve into the importance of carving out couple time, how chronic illness can reshape a marriage, and the importance of gratitude and flexibility.   Happy Habits for Every Couple   How to Fight Busyness in Marriage   Sign Up For Our Weekly E-Newsletter And Be a Marriage Champion   20 Dates For Less Than $20   Support the show!   Sign up for our FREE Marriage Newsletter   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.
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Nov 3, 2025 • 42min

How To Understand Your Hot Buttons

Do you think repairing your marriage is hopeless? On this episode of Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage, Greg and Erin feature a presentation by Bob and Jenni Paul, who explain that underneath all marital conflicts is a common cycle of reactive behavior triggered by deeper, often unrecognized wounds or buttons. Our goal is to bring awareness to these patterns so that couples are able to respond with understanding, and improve their relationships by addressing their core desires and fears. Sound complicated? It really isn't! You'll learn a lot from this episode. We also answer a listener Q & A about gambling.   9 Lies That Will Destroy Your Marriage   Support the show!   Sign Up For Our Weekly E-Newsletter And Be a Marriage Champion   Check Out Our Reactive Cycle Assessment   ENGAGE WITH US   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.
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Oct 27, 2025 • 45min

The Middle Years of Marriage

Larry McCall, a seasoned pastor and author, shares wisdom from his 50-year marriage. He tackles the challenges of the middle years, from health issues to grandparenting. Larry emphasizes the importance of understanding love through God's grace, encouraging couples to reassess their marital purpose. He highlights the need for intentionality in romance and affection, while revisiting the importance of curiosity in relationships. With insights on mentoring younger couples and maintaining boundaries with adult children, this conversation is a guide to thriving in later marriage.
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Oct 20, 2025 • 42min

His & Her Perspectives on Romance, Sex & Fun In Marriage

On this episode, Greg and Erin discuss the importance of communication, romance, and navigating challenges within marriage with Jess and Ryan Ronne; who also share their journey of dealing with grief after losing their first spouses. The Ronnes offer insights into how they balance their relationship while caring for eight children (including one with special needs), and the strategies they use to maintain intimacy and satisfaction.   Lovin' With Grit & Grace: Straight Talk about Romance, Sex, Fun, And The Tough Stuff Too   Truth Rising   Read more about a Healing Separation   Support this Show!   Sign Up For Our Marriage Newsletter   ENGAGE WITH US   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.
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Oct 13, 2025 • 60min

Working Marriage with J & Killy John

Greg and Erin welcome renown British evangelist and author, J.John and his wife Killy as they reflect on their 42-year marriage, discussing early challenges, the importance of communication, and the essential values they've embraced: respect, responsibility, romance, and resilience. They emphasize the significance of intentionally nurturing their relationship despite the demands of work and life, and share their daily routines that help them maintain a balanced and harmonious life together. The Johns are full of encouragement for couples, whether you're just starting out or have been married for decades.   Take the FREE Marriage Assessment   Sacred Pathways, by Gary Thomas   Read more about a Healing Separation   Support this Show!   ENGAGE WITH US   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.
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Oct 6, 2025 • 49min

Caring For Marriage Under Overwhelming Stress

Greg and Erin know that every marriage goes through a crisis. That's why we invited Todd and Kristin Evans to share their personal journey from enjoying life as a young, carefree couple to facing the challenges of raising a child with severe disabilities, including emotional strain, grief, and marital disconnect. No matter what your challenges might be, you'll hear ways to get through the storms. We talk about the importance of communication, support networks, and intentional self-care. Todd and Kristin found ways to thrive together, and they also recommitted to each other and set new marital vows tailored to their unique situation. Their story serves as inspiration and guidance for other couples navigating any kind of hardship. We also share the Playground Rules for Marriage, and we answer a listener's email question about how much is too much to share with your spouse when it comes to trauma. This is a practical look at everyday relationship "ins and outs" on this episode of Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage! How To Build A Thriving Marriage As You Care for Children with Disabilities Hope Restored Remodeling Stress and Your Marriage Call our Counseling Line at 1-800-A-FAMILY Support this Show! ENGAGE WITH US If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.
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Sep 29, 2025 • 53min

Nurture Your Spouse, Married For Life

Dan Seaborn, founder of Winning at Home, shares insights from his own marriage with Jane, highlighting how their opposing personalities can spark both humor and conflict. He discusses the spiritual dimensions of marriage, warning against threats like adultery and pornography. Dan emphasizes daily spiritual practices and small gestures that nurture love. He also reflects on the impact of a strong marriage as a model for children. The conversation includes practical tips for recognizing and combating spiritual attacks in relationships.
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Sep 22, 2025 • 52min

Coming Back After Crisis In Marriage

Are you thinking about divorce? On this episode of Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage, Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley discuss overcoming crises in marriage. They dive into the difficulties of rebuilding trust after infidelity, dealing with shame, and managing resentment. Our guests, Monty and Jeannine Mora, share their personal journey from their early years as a young pastoral couple, through a major crisis involving misaligned priorities, personal struggles, and suicidal thoughts. They highlight the importance of communication, seeking counseling, and prioritizing individual healing for the success of anyone's marital restoration. We'll answer a listener's question about how to start healing from hurts, and we've also included some humorous marriage definitions. This is a great program to share with your spouse, or forward to anyone you know who may be in a rough patch in their marriage.   Hope Restored   Call our Counseling Line at 1-800-A-FAMILY   Support this Show!   ENGAGE WITH US   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.
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Sep 15, 2025 • 56min

The Importance of Having Friends

Whether you’re seeking new friends or wanting to deepen existing relationships, this episode of Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage will help women and men build their respective friendships. Erin and her friends discuss how deep, supportive female friendships are vital for navigating life’s challenges, providing encouragement, and fostering spiritual and emotional growth. Then, Greg and his friend Bill discuss the unique challenges men face in forming deep friendships, such as busyness, reluctance to be vulnerable, and prioritizing family. We also answer a listener’s question about a sexless marriage.   The Friendships of Women   A Free Digital Download: The Skit Guys - Building Healthy Friendships Among Men   Find out more about Hope Restored   Support this Show!   ENGAGE WITH US   If you enjoyed listening to the Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage podcast with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, please give us your feedback.

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