

Feminine as F*ck
Monica Yates
Sometimes the truth is hard to hear. Sometimes it’s a little triggering and very uncomfortable. Yet, we all know that this space is where the true magic happens. Luckily for you, Monica Yates is like the best friend you never had. She gives it to you straight, without all the fluff, so that you can pursue more of what you desire in love, relationships and career. From emotional and energetic trauma/blocks to health, period problems, business and manifestation, Monica helps you get out of your own way to become the version of you that has only been a dream, until now.
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Sep 12, 2022 • 35min
254: How to be the masculine, whilst she's making the money
Today we are talking about how to be the masculine when your female partner is earning the money. It is very common now that women are making more money than men but of course, we still want to be looked after, led by and cherished by men.
I dive into:
· How the online space has transformed the way the way that women can earn money
· How to know if you have work to do around money and masculinity
· Examples of how I stay in my feminine as the breadwinner
· Your woman doesn’t want to feel wrong for making more money than you
· CHICKEN NUGGET: Your ability to be masculine is not about the size of your bank account, it’s an energy
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Sep 7, 2022 • 20min
253: The Feminine Female Breadwinner
I will be teaching you about:
The energy behind money, feminine energy and masculine energy
The exact things that I do to stay in my feminine, even when I’m the one paying
How to feel cherished and adored on vacation even when you’re the one paying for *most* things
If you are a man you’ll learn how to claim her with your actions and words so that you feel like The Man and she feels claimed by you (and therefore safe)
The simple yet profound things that my man and I do to keep our polarity hot and heavy
Communication tips that we use on a daily basis
Knowing when to actually draw a boundary with money and go into your ‘boss’ mode and when to not
Navigating a situation so that he feels like he is leading and ‘doing’ it, even if you are the one providing the financing
Supporting your man in being in his masculine towards you
If you are a man, you’ll gain the knowledge of how to be in your masculine and not let her emasculate you
How to stay in your feminine and let him lead day to day
How we split out finances up (so far) in a way that feels good for both of us and tips on how you can do the same
How to let him feel like he is the provider and protector even if you are the one bringing in most of the money
Having boundaries around your finances at the start of dating and into your relationship in a way that feels good to you
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Sep 7, 2022 • 7min
252: WWMD: My sister told me that becoming a successful life coach is one in a million
In this episode Monica answers what she would do if if her sister told her that becoming a successful life coach was a one in a million chance?
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Sep 5, 2022 • 40min
251: Why selling is sexy and investing is a turn on
Today I am talking about why selling is sexy, and investing is a turn on. No matter what area you are in, we are always selling ourselves. Whether you are in business or not, this is an important episode to listen to, I riff on:
🌹 We are always selling ourselves
🌹 Why you need to fix the root to get out of your trauma cycle
🌹 The qualities you need to be able to sell easily
🌹 How your blocks and trauma dull your shine and magnetism
🌹 Do you let yourself be seen?
🌹 Why you feel icky around selling
🌹 CHICKEN NUGGET: The investments that you make and the way that you act in small moments, add up to big things
🌹 My two cents on investing
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Aug 31, 2022 • 18min
250: WWMD: "Who should text first?"
In this podcast, the host discusses gender roles and the controversy surrounding women texting men first. She explores the importance of defined roles in relationships and the need for men to chase. The podcast also touches on observations of radical feminists and the significance of embracing happiness and femininity in relationships.

Aug 29, 2022 • 15min
249: BONUS: How to get your man to do the work
In this episode I talk about how to get your man to ‘do the work’.
I chat about:
❤️🔥 How you doing the work and becoming the ‘light’ inspires him
❤️🔥 Men wait to hit rock bottom, how about starting with you?
❤️🔥 Giving an ultimatum vs giving a nudge
❤️🔥 Why you should not push anyone to do this kind of work
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Aug 29, 2022 • 37min
248: Why being "Mr Nice Guy" isn't making you feel like THE man
Today we are going to talk about ‘nice guy syndrome’ for men, this will be helpful for you to notice these behaviours and stop doing it. For the ladies, it’s going to be helpful to validate some of your experiences and feelings towards guys that are really, really nice.
In this episode I riff on:
🌹 The difference between a guy who is nice and a nice guy who is a door mat
🌹 Boundaries are sexy
🌹 If you cannot lead and make decisions for yourself you will not be able to lead a woman
🌹 This influx in ‘nice guys’ has come after an influx in emasculation, berating, shaming and putting down of men
🌹 How being ‘Mr Nice Guy’ can lead to resentment from you and your partner
🌹 Is she really toxic or are you letting yourself be manipulated because you can’t draw a boundary?
🌹 Men want respect and women want attention and connection
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Aug 24, 2022 • 12min
247: WWMD: "My man doesn't go down on me and I have mentioned to him that I like it."
The WWMD segment today is extra juicy 💦
Monica shares what she would do if her man wasn't going down on her after having mentioning to him that she likes it.
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Aug 22, 2022 • 40min
246: Redefining what it means to be "a man" | Leading yourself, knowing yourself and being the man you want to be
Today I want to talk about redefining what it means to be a man. In society a masculine man is painted in one way and I think we are finally coming away from that ‘traditional alpha man’. The way that you’re raised will shape how you view what a man ‘should’ be. Masculine is an energy, if you don’t feel masculine, that’s where the problem is.
In this episode I dive into:
🌹 What has shaped your view what a man ‘should’ be?
🌹 Wanting to emulate your father or be the opposite
🌹 Stop seeking validation from others, only you can make you feel like a man
🌹 Committing to yourself allows you to commit to others
🌹 Men process differently to women and society has shamed that primal need
🌹 The problem with the ‘happy wife, happy life’ mentality
🌹 Why avoidance is not the answer
🌹 Putting your foot down is sexy
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Aug 18, 2022 • 27min
245: Anxious/avoidant attachment styles towards money, refunds and manifestations
Today I want to talk about attachment styles towards money, refunds, debt, and manifestation.
I dive into:
🌹 What anxious and avoidant attachment styles are
🌹 Why healing your relationship with money is so important for your life as a whole
🌹 The power of regulating your nervous system
🌹 How your trauma response may be negatively impacting your business
🌹 Why your manifestations aren’t coming true
🌹 Stop waiting to take the next step... what would future you do?
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