Coping with Ghosting

Are you struggling with shame or guilt after being ghosted? This episode explores different ways to understand and process these complex emotions.Host Gretta is joined by Francesca Walker,  an associate psychotherapist at Shadowlight Center in New York.Connect with Francesca Walker, M.Ed., MHC-LP:francesca@shadowlightcenter.com Shadowlight Center  Connect with Gretta:Private Coaching with GrettaFree Guide: What to Say To Your GhostFree Facebook Support Group |  Instagram | copingwithghosting.com Music: "Ghosted" by Gustavo RamosDisclaimer:  This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with Ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals. Support the showNote to All Listeners: Ghosting is defined as: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication (Oxford Languages). When you leave an abusive situation without saying "goodbye," it's not ghosting, it's "self-protection." When you quietly exit a relationship after a boundary has been violated, it's not ghosting, it's "self-respect."

It's normal to struggle with anxiety after being ghosted, but you don't have to suffer. In this episode, Dr. Terri Bacow, a widely known expert in cognitive behavioral therapy, shares actionable ways to banish worry.  Gretta and Dr. Bacow discuss rumination, blocking your ghost,  why not to take ghosting personally, and so much more. Connect With Dr. Terri Bacow:InstagramDr. Terri Bacow's Website Goodbye, Anxiety: A Guided Journal for Overcoming WorryConnect with Gretta:Private Coaching with GrettaFree Guide: What to Say To Your GhostFree Facebook Support Group |  Instagram | copingwithghosting.com Music: "Ghosted" by Gustavo RamosDisclaimer:  This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with Ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals. Support the showNote to All Listeners: Ghosting is defined as: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication (Oxford Languages). When you leave an abusive situation without saying "goodbye," it's not ghosting, it's "self-protection." When you quietly exit a relationship after a boundary has been violated, it's not ghosting, it's "self-respect."

How can you trust after being ghosted? How do you know when it's safe to trust somebody? What types of therapy are best for resolving trust issues? What do you say to somebody who takes forever to respond to a text message? This episode answers all these questions and more.Dr. Dawn Gullette Crosson is a licensed Psychologist trained in Cognitive Behavior Therapy, a certified trauma therapist, and has been in psychology since 1996. Join Dr. Dawn and Host Gretta for a fascinating discussion about trauma, trust, and ghosting. Connect With Dr. Dawn:Instagram Sanity Sessions for Sisters: Keeping it together when you want to fall apartFacebookConnect with Gretta:Virtual Coping With Ghosting Support Group Private Coaching with GrettaFree Guide: What to Say To Your GhostFree Facebook Support Group |  Instagram | copingwithghosting.com Music: "Ghosted" by Gustavo RamosDisclaimer:  This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with Ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals. Support the showNote to All Listeners: Ghosting is defined as: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication (Oxford Languages). When you leave an abusive situation without saying "goodbye," it's not ghosting, it's "self-protection." When you quietly exit a relationship after a boundary has been violated, it's not ghosting, it's "self-respect."

If you're overwhelmed by negative thoughts, this episode is for you. In it, Dr. April E. House and Gretta discuss seven cognitive distortions that can arise after being ghosted and how to overcome them. They explore several thoughts, such as, "I can't trust anyone," "They ghosted me because I wasn't good enough," and "I should have seen this coming," - and discuss ways to reframe them in healthier ways. This show is for anyone who struggles with overthinking, rumination and limiting beliefs. Connect With Dr. April:Instagram Email: aprilehouselmft@gmail.comConnect with Gretta:Virtual Coping With Ghosting Support Group Private Coaching with GrettaFree Guide: What to Say To Your GhostFree Facebook Support Group |  Instagram | copingwithghosting.com Music: "Ghosted" by Gustavo RamosDisclaimer:  This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with Ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals. Support the showNote to All Listeners: Ghosting is defined as: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication (Oxford Languages). When you leave an abusive situation without saying "goodbye," it's not ghosting, it's "self-protection." When you quietly exit a relationship after a boundary has been violated, it's not ghosting, it's "self-respect."

Do you know a child or teenager who's been ghosted? Today's guest is Maggie Reid Schneider, MD, Ph.D., neuroscientist, and a Child and Adolescent Psychiatry Fellow at Boston Children's Hospital. In this show, Maggie explains kind, compassionate, and supportive ways to help children and teens navigate the post-ghost landscape. It's a must-listen for all parents, grandparents, caretakers, and beyond. ** Note: This episode can help anyone who's been ghosted, so if you're an adult who doesn't know any kids or teens, please still listen because this show has excellent advice for everyone.**Connect With Maggie Reid Schneider, MD, Ph.D.:  Email pursuitofsanity@gmail.comConnect with Gretta:Virtual Coping With Ghosting Support Group Private Coaching with GrettaFree Guide: What to Say To Your GhostFree Facebook Support Group |  Instagram | copingwithghosting.com Music: "Ghosted" by Gustavo RamosDisclaimer:  This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with Ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals. Support the showNote to All Listeners: Ghosting is defined as: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication (Oxford Languages). When you leave an abusive situation without saying "goodbye," it's not ghosting, it's "self-protection." When you quietly exit a relationship after a boundary has been violated, it's not ghosting, it's "self-respect."

How you treat to yourself after being ghosted is important. In this episode you'll learn all about positive self-talk,  how to treat yourself like your own best friend, and how to move forward after being ghosted.Feeling lost after being ghosted? Looking to take your power back?Join Gretta and Estee K. for our Rewriting Your Ghost Story Workshopwhere you'll learn…- how to cope with being ghosted - re-build self worth- re-shift your focus- change limiting beliefs - rewrite your ghost story - feel empoweredThursday, September 22, 2022, 75-minute CourseSign up now! If you can't make the course, email copingwithghosting@gmail.com to learn about how to get the course sent to your email.Connect With Estee:Estee's CoachingEstee's InstagramConnect with Gretta:Virtual Coping With Ghosting Support Group Private Coaching with GrettaFree Guide: What to Say To Your GhostFree Facebook Support Group |  Instagram | copingwithghosting.com Check out this Mayo Clinic Article mentioned in the show - you deserve to be happy!Music: "Ghosted" by Gustavo RamosDisclaimer:  This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with Ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals. Support the showNote to All Listeners: Ghosting is defined as: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication (Oxford Languages). When you leave an abusive situation without saying "goodbye," it's not ghosting, it's "self-protection." When you quietly exit a relationship after a boundary has been violated, it's not ghosting, it's "self-respect."

Are you struggling with sleep after being ghosted? You're not alone. Join Gretta as she shares pill-free, practical, and holistic ways to achieve deep rest. The tips provided are inspired by Rancho La Puerta Wellness Resort & Spa's Sleep Guide.Connect with Gretta:https://www.copingwithghosting.com/ - Discover Gretta's coaching services, online support group, online workshop, and more!InstagramFacebook  (join the free group)Resources Mentioned:Rancho La Puerta's FREE Sleep GuideRancho La Puerta - connect them to learn more about sleep retreats.How Much Sleep Do We Really Need? article from the Sleep Foundation'FLUX software to help you sleep betterMusic: "Ghosted" by Gustavo RamosDisclaimer: This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with Ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals. This show is not sponsored by Rancho La Puerta. Support the showNote to All Listeners: Ghosting is defined as: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication (Oxford Languages). When you leave an abusive situation without saying "goodbye," it's not ghosting, it's "self-protection." When you quietly exit a relationship after a boundary has been violated, it's not ghosting, it's "self-respect."

Narcissists. Sociopaths. Psychopaths. In this episode, Denise M. Dudley, Ph.D., explains specific personality disorders as they relate to ghosting behavior. Gretta and Denise also touch on other possible reasons why people ghost, and how  personal issues can lead to ghosting. This episode answers the question, "How could someone ghost?" Aaaand, as a reminder, when you're ghosted, it's not your job to analyze your ghost. It's your job to take care of yourself. Knowledge is power, and this episode can help you identify unhealthy relationship dynamics.Connect with Denise:Denise's WebsiteFacebookLinkedInConnect with Gretta:Virtual Coping With Ghosting Support Group Private Coaching with GrettaFree Guide: What to Say To Your GhostFree Coping With Ghosting GuideFree Facebook Support Group |  Instagram | copingwithghosting.com Music: "Ghosted" by Gustavo RamosDisclaimer:  This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with Ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals. Support the showNote to All Listeners: Ghosting is defined as: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication (Oxford Languages). When you leave an abusive situation without saying "goodbye," it's not ghosting, it's "self-protection." When you quietly exit a relationship after a boundary has been violated, it's not ghosting, it's "self-respect."

If you are struggling with self-judgment,  emotional pain, or letting go after being ghosted, this show is for you. In this episode, Dr. Josh Mirmelli and Gretta discuss the following:- self-validation- taking your power back- how to recognize and prioritize your needs- healing after traumaand so much more... This show provides tons of mindset tips and actionable ways to feel better after being ghosted.Connect with Dr. Josh Mirmelli:https://therapywithdrjosh.com/Dr. Josh's Instagram Post about Self-ValidationFacebookConnect with Gretta:Free Guide - 6 Texts For Your GhostInstagramFacebook  (join the free group)https://www.copingwithghosting.com/ - Discover coaching services and more.Music: "Ghosted" by Gustavo RamosDisclaimer: This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with Ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals. Support the showNote to All Listeners: Ghosting is defined as: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication (Oxford Languages). When you leave an abusive situation without saying "goodbye," it's not ghosting, it's "self-protection." When you quietly exit a relationship after a boundary has been violated, it's not ghosting, it's "self-respect."

Coping With Ghosting and The Ghost Podcast team up for another joint episode to answer all your ghosting questions. If you have a question, email it to copingwithghosting@gmail.com and we'll answer it on an upcoming show.In this episode: Friendship ghosting • What can we do against love bombing • Why do ghosts orbit? • What should you do if you have your ghosts belongings• What to do if you’ve been ghosted in a casual relationship • Ghosting termsAdditional Resources Mentioned:Ghosting Dictionary: https://www.copingwithghosting.com/ghosting-dictionaryBumble Resources Page: https://bumble.com/the-buzz/amp/the-dictionary-of-modern-datingThe Ghost Podcast Resource Page: https://theghostpodcast.com/resourcesConnect with Gretta:Virtual Coping With Ghosting Support Group Private Coaching with GrettaFree Guide: What to Say To Your GhostFree Coping With Ghosting GuideFree Facebook Support Group |  Instagram | copingwithghosting.com Music: "Ghosted" by Gustavo RamosDisclaimer:  This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals. Support the showNote to All Listeners: Ghosting is defined as: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication (Oxford Languages). When you leave an abusive situation without saying "goodbye," it's not ghosting, it's "self-protection." When you quietly exit a relationship after a boundary has been violated, it's not ghosting, it's "self-respect."