Coping with Ghosting

Is your ghost living rent free in your mind? Are you having trouble feeling like yourself after being ghosted? If so, this episode is for you. In it, Estee K. and Gretta discuss friendship ghosting, dating ghosts, and what taking your power back looks like.Take Your Power Back WorkshopConnect With Estee: Coaching With EsteeEmail: esteek.co@gmail.comFacebook  I InstagramChocolate Chip Cookie Recipe Pogo Stick (not sponsored)Connect with Gretta:Free Guide: What to Say To Your GhostFree and Private Facebook Support Group |  Instagram | copingwithghosting.comMusic: "Ghosted" by Gustavo ZaiahDisclaimer:  This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with Ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals. Support the showNote to All Listeners: Ghosting is defined as: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication (Oxford Languages). When you leave an abusive situation without saying "goodbye," it's not ghosting, it's "self-protection." When you quietly exit a relationship after a boundary has been violated, it's not ghosting, it's "self-respect."

Have you been ghosted during the job application process? Have you been iced out by somebody you work with or who works for you? Are your sales prospects ignoring you? In this episode, Gretta interviews her business coach, Angie M. Callen, CPRW, CPCC, to get her take on coping with ghosting in the professional world.Connect With Angie: No More Mondays PodcastCareer BendersLinkedInConnect with Gretta:Take Your Power Back WorkshopFree Guide: What to Say To Your GhostFree and Private Facebook Support Group |  Instagram | copingwithghosting.comMusic: "Ghosted" by Gustavo ZaiahDisclaimer:  This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with Ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals. Support the showNote to All Listeners: Ghosting is defined as: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication (Oxford Languages). When you leave an abusive situation without saying "goodbye," it's not ghosting, it's "self-protection." When you quietly exit a relationship after a boundary has been violated, it's not ghosting, it's "self-respect."

What is narcissism, why do narcissists ghost, and why do they return to haunt people? What is love bombing, and what is narcissistic discard? How can you safely leave a relationship with a narcissist?In this episode of Coping With Ghosting, you'll learn the answers to all these questions and more. Gretta is joined by Sterlin Mosley, Ph.D., author of The Narcissist in You and Everyone Else, and CEO of Empathy Architects. In addition to delving into narcissism, their conversation touches on compassion, empathy, and Dr. Mosley's experience with ghosting.Connect With  Sterlin Mosley, Ph.D.:Websites:Empathy Architects and sterlinmosley.comThe Book:  The Narcissist in You and Everyone Else: Recognizing the 27 Types of NarcissismConnect with Gretta:Take Your Power Back WorkshopFree Guide: What to Say To Your GhostFree and Private Facebook Support Group |  Instagram | copingwithghosting.comMusic: "Ghosted" by Gustavo ZaiahDisclaimer:  This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with Ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals. Support the showNote to All Listeners: Ghosting is defined as: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication (Oxford Languages). When you leave an abusive situation without saying "goodbye," it's not ghosting, it's "self-protection." When you quietly exit a relationship after a boundary has been violated, it's not ghosting, it's "self-respect."

How do you heal after being ghosted after a toxic relationship? How do you know if you're in a harmful or toxic relationship right now? Listen as Shannon Petrovich, LCSW, LISAC, BCD, shares: - How to detect the red flags of a harmful relationship- Ways to navigate gaslighting, love bombing, and trauma bonding- Why ghosting is a grand manipulation- What to do if your ghost comes back- How to heal after being ghosted in a harmful relationshipGretta and Shannon's conversation also touches on narcissism, whether or not to block your ghost, and how to rebuild your sense of self. Connect With Shannon Petrovich, LCSW, LISAC, BCD :Website: No Foggy DaysShannon's Book:  Out of the FOG, into the CLEAR; Journaling to Help You Heal from Toxic RelationshipsTherapist Talks YouTubeConnect with Gretta:New! Take Your Power Back WorkshopFree Guide: What to Say To Your GhostFree and Private Facebook Support Group |  Instagram | copingwithghosting.comMusic: "Ghosted" by Gustavo ZaiahDisclaimer:  This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with Ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals. Support the showNote to All Listeners: Ghosting is defined as: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication (Oxford Languages). When you leave an abusive situation without saying "goodbye," it's not ghosting, it's "self-protection." When you quietly exit a relationship after a boundary has been violated, it's not ghosting, it's "self-respect."

What is attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), and how can it impact relationships? Listen as Kate Kamoshita, ADHD Educator and Learning Consultant, shares: - Tips for being in relationships with people who have ADHD- How and why a person with ADHD person may appear to be ghosting- The impact being ghosted has on people with ADHD- Executive function, emotional regulation, RSD, and ANTS - How to heal after being ghosted- Kate's experience with being ghosted Gretta and Kate's conversation also touches on grief ghosting, rage ghosting, life-transition ghosting (i.e., postpartum), and beyond.  Whether you have ADHD or not, you'll glean tons of healing advice from this show.  Connect With Kate:Instagram Kate's Website: Learning CompassConnect with Gretta:New! Take Your Power Back WorkshopFree Guide: What to Say To Your GhostFree and Private Facebook Support Group |  Instagram | copingwithghosting.comMusic: "Ghosted" by Gustavo ZaiahDisclaimer:  This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with Ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals. Support the showNote to All Listeners: Ghosting is defined as: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication (Oxford Languages). When you leave an abusive situation without saying "goodbye," it's not ghosting, it's "self-protection." When you quietly exit a relationship after a boundary has been violated, it's not ghosting, it's "self-respect."

What is attachment, and how does it relate to ghosting in friendships and dating? How can I learn my attachment style? How can I heal relational trauma? In this episode, Relationship Expert and Attachment Specialist, Rose Viggiano, answers these questions and more! Rose shares how she knew she was healing her relational trauma, including how she began choosing people based on how they showed up, stopped taking every rejection as a sign that she was unlovable, and started speaking the truth lovingly and firmly. Whether you've been ghosted in romance or by a friend, this show provides valuable information to help you reflect and make healthy changes in your relationships. Connect With Rose:Free Download: The Ultimate Guide to Understanding Attachment StylesInstagram FacebookRose's Website Connect with Gretta:New! Take Your Power Back WorkshopFree Guide: What to Say To Your GhostFree Facebook Support Group |  Instagram | copingwithghosting.comMusic: "Ghosted" by Gustavo ZaiahDisclaimer:  This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with Ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals. Support the showNote to All Listeners: Ghosting is defined as: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication (Oxford Languages). When you leave an abusive situation without saying "goodbye," it's not ghosting, it's "self-protection." When you quietly exit a relationship after a boundary has been violated, it's not ghosting, it's "self-respect."

Did you know that earlier this May, the U.S. Surgeon General released an advisory declaring loneliness a new public health epidemic in the United States? Being lonely and isolated is dangerous to your health on many levels, so in this episode, Gretta shares how to build a support network. She provides tips on who to connect with after being ghosted, how to make new friends, and ways to be a good friend. Resources Mentioned:Advisory: The Healing Effects of Social ConnectionBetterHelp.comTalkSpace.com988 Suicide & Crisis LifelineFree Facebook Support Group |  Instagram | copingwithghosting.comMeetup.com EventBrite.comReddit and the NeedAFriend SubRedditHow Long it Takes to Make FriendsConnect with Gretta:Private Coaching with GrettaFree Guide: What to Say To Your GhostFree Facebook Support Group |  Instagram | copingwithghosting.comMusic: "Ghosted" by Gustavo ZaiahDisclaimer:  This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with Ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals. Support the showNote to All Listeners: Ghosting is defined as: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication (Oxford Languages). When you leave an abusive situation without saying "goodbye," it's not ghosting, it's "self-protection." When you quietly exit a relationship after a boundary has been violated, it's not ghosting, it's "self-respect."

When somebody vanishes without explanation or warning, it's shocking and painful. But instead of caring for ourselves, we tend to focus tons of energy on the ghost. "Why did they do this? What did they think about me? Where are they?" These are normal and understandable questions, but when we ruminate on what we can't control (the ghost), we can lose sight of caring for ourselves. 🛑👻Don't ghost yourself. You deserve to be seen, heard, and acknowledged, and now is the time to see, hear, and recognize your needs. In this podcast, Gretta shares seven ways to boost your mood, relieve stress, and generally feel better after being ghosted. You are #1. Connect with Gretta:Private Coaching with GrettaFree Guide: What to Say To Your GhostFree Facebook Support Group |  Instagram | copingwithghosting.com Resources Mentioned:Self Compassion ExercisePOPSUGAR FitnessYoga With AdrienneInsight Timer (for sleep, anxiety and stress)Music: "Ghosted" by Gustavo ZaiahDisclaimer:  This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with Ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals. Support the showNote to All Listeners: Ghosting is defined as: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication (Oxford Languages). When you leave an abusive situation without saying "goodbye," it's not ghosting, it's "self-protection." When you quietly exit a relationship after a boundary has been violated, it's not ghosting, it's "self-respect."

In this episode, Rosemary from The Ghost Podcast and Gretta discuss lessons they've learned about ghosting and share their respective ghosting podcasting journeys. Discover why Gretta and Rosemary began podcasts about ghosting, what they've gleaned from their experiences on the air, and what's next. Gretta and Rosemary share a few reasons why people ghost and how to understand the cultural context of ghosting better. Finally, they reinforce that if you were ghosted, it wasn't your fault; you're not alone and didn't deserve it.Connect with The Ghost Podcast:The Ghost PodcastInstagramTikTokConnect with Gretta:Private Coaching with GrettaFree Guide: What to Say To Your GhostFree Facebook Support Group |  Instagram | copingwithghosting.com Music: "Ghosted" by Gustavo RamosDisclaimer:  This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with Ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals. Support the showNote to All Listeners: Ghosting is defined as: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication (Oxford Languages). When you leave an abusive situation without saying "goodbye," it's not ghosting, it's "self-protection." When you quietly exit a relationship after a boundary has been violated, it's not ghosting, it's "self-respect."

In this Coping With Ghosting episode, Gretta is joined by Evyenia Theodora - a professional matchmaker, dating coach, and founder of Chemeya Events and Speed Date LA. Learn helpful dating tips, discover ways to meet people in real life, and listen as Gretta and Evyenia discuss ghosting in online and offline relationships.Connect with Speed Date LA:InstagramTikTokConnect with Gretta:Private Coaching with GrettaFree Guide: What to Say To Your GhostFree Facebook Support Group |  Instagram | copingwithghosting.com Music: "Ghosted" by Gustavo RamosDisclaimer:  This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with Ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals. Support the showNote to All Listeners: Ghosting is defined as: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication (Oxford Languages). When you leave an abusive situation without saying "goodbye," it's not ghosting, it's "self-protection." When you quietly exit a relationship after a boundary has been violated, it's not ghosting, it's "self-respect."