To My Sisters

The reality behind being a woman and being a leader isn’t always as peachy as it always seems - and in this episode, the sisters team up with Kike Oniwinde-Agoro, founder and CEO of the BYP network, to delve into the true and transparent cost of being a ‘boss babe’. From motherhood to losing mothers, tune in to what promises to be a frank and necessary conversation for women who need to show up as leaders.📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.comTIMESTAMPS:00:00 Welcome to the conversation02:45 Kike Oniwinde: Becoming an intentional leader04:56 Overcoming the fear of being seen06:24 Dealing with the negative stereotypes about black female leaders07:45 Leaning on Community: Marriage & Motherhood10:11 The importance of resilience and showing up whilst grieving12:00 The courage to be disliked & misunderstood14:15 Let's talk about the FAILS!16:34 Intersectionality: The reality of leading as a Black Woman19:20 3 Practical Tips for Cultivating Intentional Leadership21:37 Live QnA: Owning being a black woman in business23:11 Live QnA: One way you want to give back to the community?24:41 Live QnA: How can black men support black women professionally?27:22 Live QnA: Advise to your younger self becoming a leader.31:13 The Debrief Conversation with Courtney & Renee: The journey of becoming a GOOD leader Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Can sisterhood really transcend the borders of interracial and religious diversity? Is it still possible to have intimate relationships with women from ALL walks of life, or only with the women who are close enough to you? In today’s episode, the sisters weigh in on the reality of a sisterhood without borders!🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/to-my-sisters-live-third-anniversary/🌍 JOIN US for TMS International experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com 00:00 House Keeping Announcements04:19 Dilemma Update: Embracing my broke seasons05:40 Ding Ding Dilemma: 'My boyfriend has now accountability or mentorship!'22:46 The importance of having diverse friendships 37:39 Representation: Our experience as black women leading a global sisterhood 42:27 The keys to cultivating diverse intimate relationships: listening & empathy47:26 Our experience of finding friends at predominantly white institutions52:36 Fake sisterhood and allyship 58:43 Openness, transparency and passing the mic Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Is social media detrimentally affecting our friendships and relationships? Whilst the internet has been such a great source of connection and platforming, is the constant access to each other online going to harm us in the long term? Is everyone REALLY making six figures, have the perfect relationship, and able to own a house at 25? Are these things you should aspire to? Check out the sisters’ thoughts in today’s episode!🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/to-my-sisters-live-third-anniversary/🌍 JOIN US for TMS International experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com TIMESTAMPS:00:00 House Keeping Announcements05:37 Ding Ding Dilemma: Adjusting to New Seasons & Letting Go of Your 5-Year Plan24:46 The Internet is a Scary Place: Cosplaying Perfection & The Dangers of Delusion38:47 The Uncomfortable Reality of Economic Crisis & The Distracting Illusions of Capitalism46:20 Being a Force for Positive Change in Your World Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Are friendships getting too pricey to sustain these days? How do you navigate showing up for your friends when you’re in a tight financial spot? What’s the tea on supporting your friends going through rough patches? The sisters talk all things money, friends, and more in today’s episode!🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/to-my-sisters-live-third-anniversary/🌍 JOIN US for TMS International experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com TIMESTAMPS:00:00 House Keeping Announcements06:33 Ding Ding Dilemma: 'My friend is unhappy in her marriage '24:21 The Cost of Friendship: Birthday Dinners, Girls Trips 38:55 Being a 'Sugar Sister': Generosity & Being Sensitive48:37 Unrealistic Friendship Expectations Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Is it ever a good idea to get back together with your ex? Can you make peace after troubled times with friends and family? The sisters talk about all things rekindling and reconciliation in today’s episode!🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/to-my-sisters-live-third-anniversary/🌍 JOIN US for TMS International experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com TIMESTAMPS:00:00 House Keeping Announcements & Come See Us This Week!01:24 Ding Ding Dilemma: 'I feel unwanted & undervalued by my friends...'12:19 Why is reconciliation so hard?: Forgiveness & Transformation25:46 Once a cheater, always a cheater?!36:31 The process of healing your relationships: patience vs. acceptance Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Getting your finances together and cultivating a healthy relationship with money is an integral part of the glowing and growing journey! In today’s episode, the sisters talk all things jobs, aligning your goals with your money, and how to ensure you’re getting the best use of your money as a sister. 🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/to-my-sisters-live-third-anniversary/🔥GET A TICKET TO THE BYP LEADERSHIP CONFERENCE: https://byp.network/leadership-conference-2023/🌍 JOIN US for TMS International experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com TIMESTAMPS:00:00 House Keeping Announcements & Come See Us This Week!07:24 Ding Ding Dilemma: 'I'm trying to gain financial independence from my parents!'22:42 Lessons We've Learnt About MAKING MONEY: 9-5's, Freelancing & Entrepreneurship 42:14 Tips on MANAGING YOUR MONEY: Budgeting for Enjoyment & Avoiding Lifestyle Creep 57:04 Investment Strategies People Rarely Speak Of: Generosity & Seeing Yourself as an asset Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The sisterhood have had their fair share of trouble with the opposite sex, but it seems like the problems have been compounding and increasing lately! Join your resident sisters in today’s episode as we talk about how to effectively guard your heart, date with intention, and watch out for red flags in the quest to find a life partnerJoin your favourite online sisters in today’s episode as they discuss how to guard your heart in the dating process.🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/to-my-sisters-live-third-anniversary/🌍 JOIN US for TMS International experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com TIMESTAMPS:00:00 Exciting House Keeping Announcements & Life Updates04:50 Ding Ding Dilemma: I had a one-night stand & an update! 24:35 STORYTIME 😂 The time we found out he already had a girlfriend42:12 Setting expectations & boundaries 55:53 Letting go of a relationship that isn't working 01:07:29 Having hope for the right one & 👀 preying on single women Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

As women we can go through many pivotal life changes like marriage and motherhood which change the dynamics of our friendships. So let's talk about it, how do you balance the tension between new responsibilities, changing priorities, and your existing friendships? How do you know when you cut a friend off? And how does it feel to be cut off?Join your favourite online sisters in today’s episode as they discuss the reality of building lifelong friendships through changing seasons. 🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/to-my-sisters-live-third-anniversary/🌍 JOIN US for TMS International experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In a world that tells us that we constantly need more things in order to be happy, it’s easy to find ourselves becoming discontent with our lives. So how do we practice gratitude and thankfulness for what we have, whilst still aspiring for more in our careers, relationships and other pursuits? Join your favourite online sisters in today’s episode as they discuss balancing ambition, contentment and gratitude.☀️🇬🇭 VOTE FOR THE BRIGHT FUTURE ACADEMY TO WIN CSR PROJECT OF THE YEAR IN GHANA : https://www.mysmsinbox.com/gba/contestant.php?q=CSR%20PROJECT%20OF%20THE%20YEAR&cat_id=12 🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/...🌍 JOIN US for TMS International experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-...📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

To my empowered sisters, this is your sign to start betting on yourself to change the world (or at least your world)! On today's episode, your favourite online sisters sit down with activist, author, entrepreneur, and their friend Vee Kativhu, to get the tea on what it really takes to create change, make sure your voice is heard, and some of the misconceptions people have about dating high flying women. 🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/to-my-sisters-live-third-anniversary/☀️ Help Us Build The Bright Future Academy in Tamale Ghana: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate🌍 JOIN US for TMS International experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com TIMESTAMPS:00:00 Growing up without a dad, parentification & family values17:24 The mindset of a high achiever: persistence, confidence & accountability 44:05 The truth about dating as a hypervisible woman Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.