

The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
Mark Usher and Matilde Crocini
Does your marriage feel like a war of unmet wants?
We know how this feels.
Follow our conversation in The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast. We’ll help you both get what you want in marriage so you never have to feel at war again.
Hosted by relationship coaches, and husband and wife, Mark Usher and Matilde Crocini.
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Apr 13, 2023 • 1h 46min
83: The Porn Addiction Recovery Journey Explained with Chris White
Enjoy Part 2 of a two-part porn addiction recovery series with Chris White.Chris White helps people who are addicted to, or struggle with their use of, porn and sex.In this episode, Chris explains the essential steps along the road to going beyond porn addiction and it's detrimental effects on self and marriage.After years spent working on his own recovery, in 2021 he began coaching groups and individuals who are looking for a life free from porn or out of control sexual behaviours, and full of confidence, joy, and satisfaction.He currently works with Matt Dobscheutz of Porn Free Radio, and has launched his own group coaching practice at www.selfregained.com Check out his website and work at www.selfregained.comWill you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message Now

Apr 12, 2023 • 1h 10min
82: How to Stop Your Wife Bringing Up The Past During Arguments
This Q&A special episode is a direct response to an amazing question posed by one courageous Heroic Husband listening in each week. His voice message went like this: “Every time my wife and I argue about things, she has to bring up the last ten to twelve things I disappointed her on. How do I respond to that, and how do I keep her on point for the disagreement we are having?” Well, this is one version of how an Heroic Husband could respond to bring about maximum positive influence in such a repeated scenario….let’s begin...Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message Now

Apr 6, 2023 • 1h 24min
81: My Recovery Journey Overcoming Porn Addiction with Chris White
Enjoy Part 1 of a two-part porn addiction recovery series with Chris White. Chris White helps people who are addicted to, or struggle with their use of, porn and sex.After years spent working on his own recovery, in 2021 he began coaching groups and individuals who are looking for a life free from porn or out of control sexual behaviours, and full of confidence, joy, and satisfaction.He has studied and practiced a wide range of approaches to moving out of addiction and into health and recovery, and combines that knowledge and experience with genuine compassion, patient listening and witnessing, and intuitive questioning, to help others find their way back to health, wholeness, and integrity.He believes, as Johann Hari says, that "the opposite of addiction is connection" and that connection, to ourselves and others, both underpins, and evolves through, the journey of recovery.He currently works with Matt Dobscheutz of Porn Free Radio, and has launched his own group coaching practice at www.selfregained.com Check out his website and work at www.selfregained.comWill you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic Husbands

Apr 5, 2023 • 47min
80: How Men Must Reclaim Their Masculine Authentic Core
For millennia, men have come into their fullest masculine power with the support of other men. Only when you have your core needs as the masculine King of your house met by other men, can you have the full strength needed to how space for the fullest power of your Queen to come through. Her unboxable, untameable, unpredictable, unapologetic highest self needs your core to be rooted to the centre of the earth to hold space for her full fire. This episode points to your most potent avenue to take to becoming such a man. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic Husbands

Mar 31, 2023 • 44min
79: Embracing Marital Intensity as your Path to Self-Mastery
A raw and vulnerable opening up to recent intense marriage shifts I've been experiencing inside myself and then in conversation with my Queen. Tons of fears and backlash being embraced as I have doubled down my practice of relentlessly expressing my authentic truth in marriage.The underlying topic that emerges is the radical response-ability we always have as husbands for accepting we are the leading creators of our marriage experience.Let's begin.....Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic Husbands

Mar 30, 2023 • 1h 26min
78: Why Every Man Must Have A Men's Group with Taylor Cantril
In today's episode, we welcome in Taylor Cantril.Taylor is a men’s group facilitator, dedicated athlete, fiancé, and has a day job managing pre-veterinary international travel programs for mostly American university students across eight countries. He grew up in the American Midwest and has been living in Chiang Mai, Thailand, for the last ten years. We go to the depths of importance for men of having a men's group that challenges you to be the best man you can become. Let's begin....Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic Husbands

Mar 23, 2023 • 52min
77: BJJ 4th Degree Black Belt Masculine Wisdom with Nic Gregoriades
This is a wonderfully raw and real conversation with Nic Gregoriades. Nic is a men’s coach, 4th Degree Brazilian Jiu Jitsu Black Belt, author and podcast host at The Nic Gregoriades Show.Born and raised in Cape Town, South Africa, during the turbulent collapse of apartheid, Nic recognized at a young age that there was more to life than promised by the backward, small ideas of his country's culture.In 2003 he moved to London to earn his black belt in Brazilian jiu jitsu, becoming the first person to be awarded the black belt by the legendary Roger Gracie.In late 2012 he took a trip to the amazon to drink the sacred plant medicine, Ayahuasca, which profoundly affected his world view and caused him to dras- tically change his life path.In the last few years, divorce and a sudden change in a long running business partnership, inspired Nic to move to the US to the next chapter of his life of spiritual adventure and deep introspective learning. His mission is to help men face their fears, embrace their power and lead lives of extraordinary fulfillment. Let’s begin….Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message Now

Mar 22, 2023 • 29min
76: Light Her On Fire With Daily Messaging Mastery
Most marital online communications reek of same-sh!t-different-day mediocrity leaving wives feeling drained of any sense of true passion and aliveness. As husbands, we unwittingly miss the enormous potential of messaging technology and then scorn the sexless and dead marriages we have created around us! This episode aims to help you unleash the fullest potential connection and sexual passion from simple 60-second messaging to your Queen. Let’s begin…. Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message Now

Mar 16, 2023 • 1h 24min
75: Epic Health and Finding Flow with Shea Fairbanks
In today's episode we welcome in Shea Fairbanks.Shea is a passionate advocate for men's health and wellness. He is a functional health coach specializing in a 4 pillared approach to health. He coaches clients to create strong habits, bodies, mindsets, and to consistently access the flow state. With a background in CrossFit, nutrition coaching and performance breathwork, Shea uses his knowledge to help create results that can be duplicated and used in many different areas of a client's wellness journey. Enjoy a powerful conversation on creating epic health and finding flow in your life.Let's begin....Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message Now

Mar 15, 2023 • 31min
74: This Late Night Hero Husband Habit Changes Everything
The standard nightly norm for most husbands is reaching bed time fit to collapse into the peace of unconsciousness. We’ve given our all during the day, so surely we’re allowed switch off the effort making needs of marriage and life! Conscious Kings and Heroic Husbands think differently. They come to realise that this sacred moment is the most powerful moment of the whole day because it sets the tone for the next day. Get this moment right, and you pre-pave a great day tomorrow. Great marriages emerge from stringing together great days. This habit domino, when knocked over correctly just before sleeping, changes everything for the better. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful for you in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message Now


